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Hellblazer187 posted:They shouldnt be in a relationship with each other. Is this too long for a thread title? PancakeTransmission posted:Yeah I don't get it. It's nearly universal here that you have a fence separating your property from neighbours (unless you live in a unit/townhouse, in which case you usually don't have much of a yard anyway). You might not always have a front fence, but I've never seen a property here that doesn't have a fence separating properties along their boundaries on sides and back. But in the US there seems to be a lot of places where there's nothing stopping you wandering onto your neighbours property or getting into disputes over mowing lawns etc. The OP has a 3 acre property. It's not common to fence in small/intermediate sized properties that aren't being used for livestock in the US. (and I know that the terms I used for size are a land mine: I'm talking about rural or exurban properties)
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Pinecone Sample posted:My boyfriend is filthy, please help That person posted another one about the same scenario Am I wrong for feeling this way? What do you think? I’m sick of it!!! quote:I am 23 female, my boyfriend is 22 male. We’ve been on and off for 8 years. I’ve moved out my moms house when I was 21 (my choice) and had 2 different living spaces. He never moved out and is very close with his mother. I stop being a sugar baby for him and I’m getting fed up. He wants me to cook for him .... which I don’t mind but since it’s 4 other people living in the house he’s saying I have to cook for everybody if I do cook. I feel like I shouldn’t! I’m not buying food to cook for a family I’m buying food to cook for us. Cooking for all his little brothers and his mom the food won’t even last one night for leftovers!!! He don’t even deserve my cooking. Same with wanting me to clean but his house is FILTHY. His family is so dirty and they’ve been that way for since I met him when he was 15 (roaches, mice, mouse chatter from eating the styrofoam of days old food, dirty clothes everywhere, old food/dishes in the bedroom etc) I come from a CLEAN HOME AND BACKGROUND! NEVER HAD MICE OR ROACH PROBLEM!!! I don’t feel like I should clean WHEN HE DOESNT EVEN CLEAN UP AFTER HIMSELF! WHY SHOULD I CLEAN AFTER A GROWN MAN WHO DOESNT CLEAN AFTER HIMSELF!!???? If I clean he won’t even keep it up because he’s dirty! I’m not the type to cook or clean for men. I feel like I am the prize and men should cater to me (thus me being a sugar baby for so long) it’s not even like he’s doing anything extravagant for me to be cooking and cleaning. Last week he said I spent $400 this week on us, it’s like I didn’t get any of that. It’s not like we’re going to expensive restaurants like Ruth Chris, STK, R2L .... it’s Chile’s and super overpriced drinks, and little hood bars. If he gave me $400 to go towards the tuition that I am now paying myself since I’m stopped sugaring, I wouldn’t mind bc money is actually being use to something useful. (He knows this & knows I stopped sugaring for the sake of our relationship) I’m a girlfriend not a wife. When talking to my mom idk how the conversation came about but she said “he still live with his mom?!😕🤨” she sounded really disappointed because she know I can do better. He’s a great guy and I love him dearly but idk what to do. Am I wrong for feeling this way? Over the years I’ve been exposed to different people and life situations that caused me to level up and he’s still in the same space, so I guess you can say I’ve changed. He’s sensitive and gets defensive easily. Idk what to do. Of course I should leave but that’s easier said then done!! I don’t want to sound ungrateful I’m thankful for everything he does for me. Am I wrong for feeling this type of way?
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I am 23 female, my boyfriend is 22 male. We’ve been on and off for 8 years.
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Smirking_Serpent posted:AITA for freaking out when my girlfriend was nude in a hot tub with an ex boyfriend? Don't worry guys! Reddit and SA aren't so different after all.... In the comments: 
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Now now, the UK isnt part of Europe anymore
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pentyne posted:Was drugged at work, now manager says I can’t work?? Sounds to me like she’s really Going Through It, and is probably an alcoholic who hasn’t admitted it yet/ has other brain problems she’s not dealing with. DUIs are obviously inexcusable, but I find it totally believable that a predatory boss (bar manager) would drug someone who is obviously near their rock bottom and therefore vulnerable.
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please knock Mom! posted:She only has herself to look out for. If it works keep doing it because that’s how you survive in her position. 
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Foo Diddley posted:I am 23 female, my boyfriend is 22 male. We’ve been on and off for 8 years. Just to recap: sugar baby gives up lifestyle in order to parent deadbeat single dad who lives in squalor with his mother and gives gf attitude because she interrupts his video games. Also, she's putting herself through school. The fact that they're high school sweethearts or whatever doesn't even register on the list of dumb poo poo in those posts Winter Stormer fucked around with this message at 04:05 on Dec 30, 2019 |
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Dec 30, 2019 03:55
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quote:AITA turning down heat for cuddles just a little palate cleanser. then there's this guy quote:AITA for lying to my wife (then GF) about my politics to get her and her family to like me?
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Dec 30, 2019 04:09
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Smirking_Serpent posted:AITA for freaking out when my girlfriend was nude in a hot tub with an ex boyfriend? In Europe this is very normal. Not a day goes by without some Swedish or French guy asking me to get naked and jump in the tubby with his ex-girlfriend.
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AITA for getting mad at my husband for financially shaming me in public? Backstory - my husband and I make a relatively good combined income (six figures) we both work full time, and he makes about 25% more than I do (if it matters, we made the same amount until recently) we share our money and all of the expenses are paid out of our joint account. When we are out and my husband takes out his debit card to pay, he likes to make jokes that imply that I am a gold digger like “I guess I’ll treat you again” or “I didn’t realize we were made of money.” Last weekend it was when we were out with some friends and he made one of his sarcastic remarks and I said “don’t do that, I don’t like it.” He said it’s obviously just a joke but I said that random people in public do not know that it’s a joke, I don’t appreciate it. Yesterday we went out for dinner with friends and I ordered a pitcher of Stella to share with my husband, and he again said “I didn’t realize we were made of money” in front of our friends and the server. Today I’m mad at him because he ignored my request for him to not do that anymore. He says it’s just a harmless joke, and he doesn’t realize when he is doing it since it’s not a big deal. It feels like a big deal to me, I’m not trying to come across as insecure here, and I realize he isn’t saying it with malicious intent. So, AITA here?
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He's definitely a chud. Edit: the guy lying about his political views.
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Winter Stormer posted:Just to recap: sugar baby gives up lifestyle in order to parent deadbeat single dad who lives in squalor with his mother and gives gf attitude because she interrupts his video games. Also, she's putting herself through school. I just thought it was particularly horrifying that she'd been going back to all this over and over since the beginning of high school
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Dec 30, 2019 04:34
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WIBTA if I outted my sister’s lie to my parents and made them aware that she failed her first semester of college? My parents have been harping on my for my grades for the past few days. My previous semester average was a 3.75 but due to personal and mental health reasons, I ended this semester with a 2.9. Meanwhile my sister just had her first semester. She was adamant that she was gonna fail ALL year. In fact (relevant later), my boyfriend tutored her for her final exam and later told me that “there is absolutely no way she will be able to pass. She doesn’t even know the basic fundamental concepts of the class”. So when my sister showed my mom her 3.4 this semester, needless to say I was very suspicious. Well after 3 days of my parents making GBS threads on my because of my mediocre grades and praising my sister on how well she did, I decided to actually seek it out for myself. I logged into her student portal (she uses the same password for everything so it wasn’t that hard to guess) and like I guessed, her grades was NOT what she’s been bragging about. She actually ended up passing the class my boyfriend tutored her in (with a C-), outright failing another class, and with the rest of her mediocre grades, she ended up with a 1.5. With such low scores, she will undoubtably be on academic probation, which can affect her financial aid (we currently have a family contribution of $0 due to being low income, but that can change if she doesn’t bring her grades up). I asked my sister to show me her transcript and she sent me the same transcript she sent to our mom (in other words, it was photoshopped). I’m wondering if I’d be TA for ratting her out? I’m pissed that I’m being talked down to all weekend while my sister is receiving praise. Not to mention I think photoshopping your grades is just outright wrong. At the same time, idk if it would be petty of me, or justified. And if I would be TA, WIBTA if I gave her an ultimatum to tell the truth or I will?
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Pinecone Sample posted:Goat pooping on my patio and eats my shrubs I am googling but I haven't been able to determine if WA is a fence-in or a fence-out state. Some western states that have open range have fence-out laws that basically mean you as a property owner should put up a fence if you don't want your nieghbor's livestock roaming across your land.
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Smirking_Serpent posted:WIBTA if I outted my sister’s lie to my parents and made them aware that she failed her first semester of college? Yes, YWBTA. The proper thing to do is blackmail her.
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Winter Stormer posted:just a little palate cleanser. then there's this guy quote:I always told her that I didn't like getting political meaning I didn't like discussing politics. Only ever said by people who vastly benefit from the current state of politics and government policies.
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AITA for 'ruining' my mums favourite movie? My mum watches the king and I every christmas and I was sick today so sat and watched it with her and I pointed out that the Asian protagonists are not asian and in fact a russian guy and an american guy (whom I noticed first) with asian makeup and accents and she got very annoyed and said I have ruined the movie for her and that I look into everything too much? It genuinely wasnt said in a lovely, looking down upon way Should I apologise? EDIT: I only said it because I was thinking that the guy didnt look asian and there was a particular scene when I recognised the actual actor whom it was without make-up and that would be problematic if it was done in a movie nowadays, I didnt really think and said it. Double Edit: Considering its her favourite movie she got distracted by something else and when my dad mentioned the king dying at the end she was like WHAT HE DIES? And rewinded it back?
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Sagebrush posted:Yes, YWBTA. I think I saw this reddit post on Pornhub the other day.
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Virigoth posted:I think I saw this reddit post on Pornhub the other day. I think you need my Boyfriend to tutor you some more, sis.
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Smirking_Serpent posted:AITA for getting mad at my husband for financially shaming me in public? Start making jokes about how you're not with him because of his dick and see how his tune changes.
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Pigsfeet on Rye posted:Yeah, but you end up in Buttfuck, NE or some decaying town that industry left. Not necessarily. You can't find any prime North Eastern home for that price but in the south east you can find something within an hour from a C tier city for that price. One time in my life I owned a house. My ex wife has it now. We had bought it for 109. Occasionally out of bitterness I check the value on zillow and its still under 150. Its not in the nicest place but it's close to decently nice places. Nicer than nowhere Nebraska or whatever. Even within the Midwest there are reasonably priced homes that are... I dont want to say a good place because the Midwest isn't good. But there are better and worse places in the region. It's not five million acres of nothing but corn and rust.
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therobit posted:I am googling but I haven't been able to determine if WA is a fence-in or a fence-out state. Some western states that have open range have fence-out laws that basically mean you as a property owner should put up a fence if you don't want your nieghbor's livestock roaming across your land. 16.24.090 Animals at large -- Limitations -- Defense. Except as provided in chapter 16.24 RCW, a person who owns or has possession, charge, or control of horses, mules, donkeys, cattle, goats, sheep or swine shall not negligently allow them to run at large at any time or within any territory. It shall not be necessary for any person to fence against such animals, and it shall be no defense to any action or proceedings brought pursuant to this chapter or chapter 16.04 that the party injured by or restraining such animals did not have his or her lands enclosed by a lawful fence: PROVIDED, That such animals may be driven upon the highways while in charge of sufficient attendants. From https://nationalaglawcenter.org/wp-content/uploads/assets/fencelaw/washington.pdf I can't find 16.24 RCW, but I think that reads as a responsibility to fence-in. Edit: ah, RCW stands for Revised Code of Washington. So I think it's saying "unless there's an exception in here that you can. you can't." The only at-large permission I see browsing casually is grazing on government land with permit. Bruceski fucked around with this message at 05:51 on Dec 30, 2019 |
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Little bit late but this must-see came to mind during polyamory chat: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5RId9gLsy0k
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Smirking_Serpent posted:WIBTA if I outted my sister’s lie to my parents and made them aware that she failed her first semester of college? Your sister lied because your parents are the sort of shitheads to make you miserable for days or weeks because you failed to live up to their expectations. In fact, they’ve probably been doing that to her her whole life, while you’ve been the “good” one. Your beef isn’t with your sister, and you would definitely be the rear end in a top hat. Dienes posted:Start making jokes about how you're not with him because of his dick and see how his tune changes. Yeah, do this. gently caress that guy. It doesn’t matter if he thinks it’s a harmless joke; she has told him it hurts her, and asked him not to do it. She is not being unreasonable or irrational. I think anyone can see how that might make a person feel bad. There were times in our relationship when I said or did something which inadvertently hurt my wife, and she told me, and I never, ever did those things again. Any other course seems asinine to me.
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teen witch posted:Like I get it but Christ, OP is a soggy flannel blanket. Be glad it’s grandma and not a swastika or the below: WITE TRGAS?
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Shasta Orange Soda posted:WITE TRGAS? Where Is The Extra TeaRGAS she's a big girl; she needs more of it
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AITA for not letting my husband drive my car after leaving it running and unlocked while we were eating breakfast at Denny’s? This morning my husband, sister, and niece all went to Dennys for breakfast and my husband drove us there. While we were getting out of the car he went to the trunk to get something and then I asked him to grab me some shoes to change into from the trunk as well. We had just come back from a hike and we were all pretty tired and sore. Then we all went to breakfast and as we were walking out he asks me where the keys are. I told him, “I don’t have them, you drove”. He goes back into the restaurant to check if he left them on the table we ate at and I checked my purse just to be sure I didn’t have them. When he came back out sans keys, we go to the car parked in the parking lot. The keys are not only in the ignition, the car is running and unlocked. We had been at breakfast for at least an hour. He laughed and said he was sorry, saying it was “an honest mistake.” This car is a pretty much a brand new 2018 Toyota Camry that I just got a few months ago in my name. I drove us home and then told him that I didn’t feel comfortable with him driving it because he didn’t seem to take it seriously that he jeopardized the most expensive thing I own and my only mode of transportation. Now he’s upset with me. AITA for not wanting him to drive it for awhile?
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Smirking_Serpent posted:AITA for not letting my husband drive my car after leaving it running and unlocked while we were eating breakfast at Denny’s? Are these people sure they are married?
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Smirking_Serpent posted:AITA for not letting my husband drive my car after leaving it running and unlocked while we were eating breakfast at Denny’s? And yeah, if someone drove off with it, insurance wouldn't cover it.
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quote:AITA for finding out that my dad's new marriage started as an affair and for meeting my stepsister and telling her? Here, have a story about the gigantic piece of poo poo cheating on his dying wife, and the absolute doormat/jackass of a son who has the guts to defend him after being lied to in the face wrt dad's new gf and having all the keepsakes of his dead mother + family home sold under his nose. Holy gently caress, I don't think severing is enough here. 
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The bible study detail is perfect.
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Knobb Manwich posted:The bible study detail is perfect. Researching which commandment they're gonna break next.
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PancakeTransmission posted:The gently caress, I'm guessing it was a hybrid otherwise I have no idea how that happens. Even then, I'm pretty sure it would like beep when you open the door while it's running? It should, but that doesn’t necessarily mean it will. My car will beep if I shut it off and then open the door with the keys in, it’ll beep if I open the door with the keys out and headlights on, but it won’t beep if I take the keys out and leave with it still in drive Which I’ve done, more than once
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Knobb Manwich posted:The bible study detail is perfect. He's gonna need a poo poo ton of Jesus points to make up for what he did. Do you get double if you read two bibles at once?
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mortons stork posted:Here, have a story about the gigantic piece of poo poo cheating on his dying wife, and the absolute doormat/jackass of a son who has the guts to defend him after being lied to in the face wrt dad's new gf and having all the keepsakes of his dead mother + family home sold under his nose. Holy gently caress, I don't think severing is enough here. Newt Gingrich never learns.
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PancakeTransmission posted:
Yes they would. 🙄
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I (18 F) and I found out (8) yr old brother was searching something on my phonequote:Hey, some of you might find this stupid but hear me out. I don’t really like confrontation, however, today I found my brother searching up something in my phone and I wanted my phone back. He refused to give it to me but I took it forcefully anyways. I looked at what he was searching up and yes, I can see why he didn’t want to give it back.
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What does it take for QuarkJets to go the way of Pick? Asking for a friend. (USER WAS PUT ON PROBATION FOR THIS POST)
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Pinecone Sample posted:I (18 F) and I found out (8) yr old brother was searching something on my phone go commit unsafe sex
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