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Mr. Lobe posted:I... don't think a woman would wear that at a urinal? No, it’s more of those pockets are probably sewn on and the zipper somehow makes the big pants tighter. Women’s fashion is - good price range - flattering - functional Choose two.
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# ? Jan 2, 2020 22:16 |
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# ? May 30, 2024 08:15 |
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I keep thinking you mean funeral and not urinal.
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# ? Jan 2, 2020 22:19 |
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Pope Corky the IX posted:I keep thinking you mean funeral and not urinal.
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# ? Jan 2, 2020 22:20 |
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that's just repurposing grandpa's old pants and marketing them towards women
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# ? Jan 2, 2020 22:21 |
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Trying to find a skirt with actual pockets told me all I need to know about women's fashion. Idk how you all haven't risen up and murdered some people for that kind of crap.
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# ? Jan 2, 2020 22:21 |
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pockets are slowly becoming more common for skirts and dresses but there's still an entire viable genre of youtube videos talking about how to sew on your own pockets.
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# ? Jan 2, 2020 22:24 |
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Did we hit traffic issues in the great new year derail?quote:
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# ? Jan 2, 2020 22:26 |
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edit: this was supposed to be a validation post stop saying i'm the rear end in a top hat edit 2: come on guys please edit 3: gently caress you all you ruined it
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# ? Jan 2, 2020 22:29 |
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sephiRoth IRA posted:Did we hit traffic issues in the great new year derail? Voted YTA by a large margin by the spineless dorks on reddit lol
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# ? Jan 2, 2020 22:49 |
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hawowanlawow posted:love those high riding thongs that come up over the top of the hip the 90s are back baby
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# ? Jan 2, 2020 22:53 |
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Boyfriend [28M] of two years came out to me [25F]. Not sure if I should accept him for who he is or what to do.quote:My boyfriend came out to me as a hebefile. He says that means he also is attracted to younger girls. He also said that he understands if I want to leave him now but he just wanted to be honest with me because he genuinely loves me and cares for me. Ooooh, love the co-opting of the phrase "coming out" to describe this guy's fascination with children on anime body pillows.
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# ? Jan 2, 2020 22:56 |
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sephiRoth IRA posted:Did we hit traffic issues in the great new year derail? The solution to this is to get in that other lane and just keep pace with the slower line of cars, done
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# ? Jan 2, 2020 22:58 |
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QuarkJets posted:That's my thought too. The gently caress? Get divorced now cause you're fighting over the stupidest poo poo already Depends what the shut in weirdo told the husband.
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# ? Jan 2, 2020 22:58 |
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The Bramble posted:Boyfriend [28M] of two years came out to me [25F]. Not sure if I should accept him for who he is or what to do. If he didn't feel the need to act on it past jerking off to legal porn then he has to have some other impulse strong enough to charge ahead with "so I'm kinda a pedo". Which is like congrats on not being totally awful but uh.... I'm not sure what the goal for this guy here is. Besides being told to gently caress off creeper.
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# ? Jan 2, 2020 23:21 |
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Yeah if he "comes out" as a pedo she probably got some uncomfortable requests in the bedroom coming up, also dont leave fingerprints on his computer or his phone
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# ? Jan 2, 2020 23:24 |
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I wanna read the comments but I also don't.
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# ? Jan 2, 2020 23:33 |
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Yeah my money is on the guy testing the waters/priming her for a slow descent into open pedophilia. If it was just that he wanted her to dress like a school girl or call him daddy or something he'd just have asked her to do that.
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# ? Jan 2, 2020 23:36 |
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The Bramble posted:Boyfriend [28M] of two years came out to me [25F]. Not sure if I should accept him for who he is or what to do. coming out with the hebe-jeebies
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# ? Jan 2, 2020 23:40 |
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AITA for asking this girl if she has HIV/AIDS? Started seeing this girl and one night she through conversation (I forget the context b.c we were pretty wine drunk) that HIV/AIDS is one of the disability options when submitting a job application. I kind of responded with "oh i didnt know that" and didnt think anything of it. Anyway, a few days later, I remembered the conversation and kind of started stressing myself out thinking she was trying to discreetly tell me she has HIV. Next time I saw her I abruptly asked her if she has HIV/AIDs. She said, "no...what the f***?" Then I has to explain the convo we had previously and it got awkward between us really quick. I figured better to be safe than sorry. AITA for asking?
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# ? Jan 2, 2020 23:48 |
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AITA - for not allowing someone to propose during my wedding reception and for planning on not going to their wedding? u/newyearsameshit202018m quote:Longtime lurker, first time account/posting - I’ve debated posting this for a while now, but since I’ve been so vocal the last few days on this subreddit I figured it was time to find out if I was TA instead of just commenting on others.
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# ? Jan 2, 2020 23:52 |
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AITA for warning others about a guy’s STI? u/PwnCatie22m quote:Honestly don’t think I acted assholish here given his actions, but the severe backlash I’ve received has me open to the idea that I am. Hence I’m posting here.
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# ? Jan 2, 2020 23:53 |
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AITA for feeling resentful around my in-laws? u/leetle_deetle61h quote:Throwaway account.
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# ? Jan 2, 2020 23:56 |
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Breetai posted:I wanna read the comments but I also don't. quote:He's a hebephile who also finds younger girls attractive? So a paedophile then? quote:Hebefile means girls age 11-14 which isnt any better than a paedohile. quote:Did he specify the age? Because anything that's like 7 years younger than you is a really long stretch... I would say this is a huge red flag and is one step from becoming a pedophile
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The Bramble posted:Boyfriend [28M] of two years came out to me [25F]. Not sure if I should accept him for who he is or what to do. Boyfriend should breakup with OP and buy an Archeage subscription.
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# ? Jan 3, 2020 00:02 |
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AITA for telling my wife I’d rather our child be a bully than be bullied? My wife and I have a lovely daughter less than a year old, however it seems like in daycare she’s a bit of a queen bee with the other children. She sometimes appears to steal toys from other children or monopolizes a toy if she likes it a lot. She is generally a very sweet and loving child, but is very willful and stubborn. We know she gets along very well with her daycare teachers and the other students. My wife loves to create stories about what happens at daycare and it often involves drawn out love triangles and revenge plots. Of course, it’s all fiction as the children range in age from 8-12 months in her class room. On one such story I noted how our daughter seems like a bully and I said I’d rather she be a bully than be bullied. I would obviously prefer neither happened and made it clear to my wife but if I had to choose between the two I made my choice. The thing is, I was regretfully a bully in my younger days, and my wife herself was a bullied child. She took what I said as hoping our child was a bully and got a little upset by it, given her childhood history of being bullied. Also, given my childhood history of being a bully, she is worried our daughter might follow in those footsteps. We will of course teach her bullying is wrong and not to do it, but I still think that if it came down to a choice between being a bully and being bullied I’d rather she not be bullied. So reddit, AITA?
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# ? Jan 3, 2020 00:09 |
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future Lord Humungus in the making. child will need to be Strong to survive the Badlands.
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sephiRoth IRA posted:AITA for feeling resentful around my in-laws? Obviously she just needs to get some language lessons from the New Jersey drippini guy's Italian Rosetta Brick series ("the language crashes into your head like a cinderblock through some chipetto's windshield when he parks in your spot, eh marone, gavagool!") Seriously, husband is a dick for neither making it easier for her when they're around nor helping her with the language. Makes me think he wants to have a code to speak in to complain about her without getting caught Why would anyone put up with this? She's already going 90% of the way, just needs him to do 10% of the work but he won't. Verdetto: he's a jagoffino
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sephiRoth IRA posted:AITA - for not allowing someone to propose during my wedding reception and for planning on not going to their wedding? That said, the true payback here would be to go to their wedding, then grab the mic from the DJ and announce your upcoming pregnancy during their reception. That *would* make you an rear end in a top hat, but would also be 100% deserved.
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AITA for saying my babysitting rates are $35 an hour?quote:I'm a software engineer, with a full time job and a side hustle of doing freelance coding work in my own time. I've always been the type to have a side hustle I put a lot of my free time into; I get really bored sitting idle. Honestly, if the husband said to me that I was stupid for not knowing that babysitting was $15 an hour, I would have said "OK, I'll do it for that. $15 per hour per child". She would have made $10 more an hour that way!
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# ? Jan 3, 2020 01:05 |
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Yes, I’ll gladly babysit your kids for a ridiculously low rate after you’ve called me a stupid child in front of them.
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# ? Jan 3, 2020 01:27 |
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I dunno, ~$12/hr/kid seems not that bad?
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# ? Jan 3, 2020 01:30 |
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Still cheaper than a daycare, shouldn’t ask your software dev brother to babysit anything
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# ? Jan 3, 2020 01:35 |
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Professorjuggalo posted:Still cheaper than a daycare, shouldn’t ask your software dev brother to babysit anything *sister, which is why he told her she's a dumb 24 year old girl that doesn't know the value of her labor
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Lucrece posted:AITA for saying my babysitting rates are $35 an hour? I imagine there's some buried lede here with the "look how much money I make, me, the youngest sibling" humblebrag. (not knocking it, stack those bills homie) But the real issue here is that they made no prior childcare arrangements, and are in a rural area where presumably there isn't any easy alternative like that babysitter app, so now they're at a chokepoint where it's "hey younger sister, babysit for 3 days now or you've ruined Christmas". I would say YTA if it was just for a day, because I've been in that situation and had a great time. Round up the kiddos and go play putt putt or lazer tag so the parents can have a night to themselves. That's just having fun with family. But overnight babysitting with a bunch of kids is a whole lot more. Especially to throw on someone at the last minute, and lol to have a breakdown when they tell you "no".
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# ? Jan 3, 2020 01:37 |
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Finally, Stefan meets Urkel
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# ? Jan 3, 2020 01:45 |
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Lucrece posted:AITA for saying my babysitting rates are $35 an hour? Honestly? Props for not falling into the working class trap of having to take whatever your "social betters" say is a fair rate and having the option to charge what is actually a real wage for underclass work if you adjust for things like cost of living and inflation. My roommate just publicly tore the assholes of a veterinary clinic a new one because she asked for $15/hr start rate for 5+ years of qualification and experience in a high cost-of-living area-- one in which she has multiple options and side gigs already-- and the boss first said it was negotiable, strung her along for several days, then tried to hardline her into $13/hr, wasting lots of her time.
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# ? Jan 3, 2020 01:55 |
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I'd say the lady knows the worth of her time more than the mansplaining rear end in a top hat in the story.
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# ? Jan 3, 2020 02:07 |
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My (30/F) mother (58/F) was deliberately disrespectful to me and my husband (30/M) on our wedding day three weeks ago and now that we're back in town it's like she thinks nothing happened. You could say my mother has always been a little disrespectful towards me. From as far back as I can remember she has never really treated me like an individual. More like an extension of herself, which back when I was younger and less sure of myself had made me feel like I was never good enough. She's a successful lawyer and loved and feared by everyone. I was never physically harmed by my parents but my mother had definitely instilled this inexplicable fear in me that if I did not do exactly as she said my life would be over and no one would ever love me. Not once did she ever express any type of love, which I know isn't the most uncommon thing in the world, but I mean ... the first person to ever say those words to me was my first boyfriend out of high school. I could hardly say them back even though I felt them. Since then I've gone to therapy and worked on myself and I would like to think that I've grown and learned from my past. My boyfriend of five years asked me to marry him a little over a year ago and I was very excited to spread the news. I was very surprised that my mother (who has calmed down a bit over the years) was happy for me. For years I had thought she disapproved of my SO but she seemed genuinely happy for me when I told her that we were getting married. Then when the wedding finally came around, she started to go back to her old ways again. Nitpicking at the food choices, the flower arrangements, my dress, etc. I expected nothing less. It didn't hurt me at all as I was too happy to really pay her any mind on the day. During the ceremony we had specifically asked that people turn their phones off. It was less than ten minutes from start to end. Everyone else had respected our wishes but of course ... my mother's phone started ringing during the vows. She casually answered it and walked off in front of everyone. People were staring and there were a few whispers and alarmed looks thrown around but we carried on. She didn't apologize, didn't even act a little bit embarrassed or ashamed. She just chatted and ate and danced as if nothing had happened. Maybe I'm overthinking that bit but I mean ... if my phone had gone off in the middle of someone's wedding vows, I would at least apologize to the couple. That whole incident is going to be in our wedding video for life now. She didn't even stay for the rest of the ceremony as she was too busy chatting on her phone in the lobby. To me that's the worst part. Over the course of the reception she didn't approach me once. When it was time for our first dance, she started laughing hysterically at something. You could hear her over the music and everything. She wasn't drunk. She did all of that sober. I was having too good of a time to really give it much thought in the moment but now that we're back from Hawaii and I've had time to think and to see her since ... I truly have no idea what is wrong with her. At times she's okay and respectful of me as an adult but then she goes back to her old ways and I can only really just observe in shock. Who acts like that at a wedding? At their daughter's wedding no less. My husband is usually very chill and keeps his opinions to himself if he has nothing nice to say but even he has expressed concern over her behaviour on our wedding day. The fact that she walked out in the middle of the ceremony ... in front of all of those people. She could not have made it more obvious. I don't know. I thought we had made progress in the years since I had moved out and gone off to university and started my own life. I truly did think that. But now I just feel empty thinking about everything. Empty and tired. Part of me wants to go no contact but another part of me feels bad even just considering that. I want to speak to her about this and to ask why she acted that way but I don't know how. She's not the easiest person to speak to when it comes to things like this. She probably won't even acknowledge that anything strange happened. But I would still like to try for my own sake. I have never tried before. I've grown too used to brushing poo poo like this off when it comes to her and the way she treats me at times. I don't want to do that anymore. How do I go about this? Is it even worth it? tl;dr She has never really respected me or seen me as an individual before but she took things too far on my wedding day when she answered a call in the middle of the ceremony and walked off in front of everyone before it was even over. Has not apologized or even acknowledged her rude behaviour in the weeks since. Part of me wants to go no contact but I do want to try speaking to her about her attitude towards me first. Not sure how to go about it or if it's even worth it. She's not the easiest to speak to about things like this.
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LethalGeek posted:I'd say the lady knows the worth of her time more than the mansplaining rear end in a top hat in the story. MagusofStars posted:That said, the true payback here would be to go to their wedding, then grab the mic from the DJ and announce your upcoming pregnancy during their reception. That *would* make you an rear end in a top hat, but would also be 100% deserved. Smirking_Serpent posted:My (30/F) mother (58/F) was deliberately disrespectful to me and my husband (30/M) on our wedding day three weeks ago and now that we're back in town it's like she thinks nothing happened. FilthyImp fucked around with this message at 02:36 on Jan 3, 2020 |
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I would have been very tempted to say "fine, hire a $15/hr babysitter and I'll pay for them out of my freelance earnings. Merry Christmas." It's more than they deserve, but it lets you appear gracious while also flexing on them over spending power.
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