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That guys sounds like a loving tool. I understand hating being seen with cringey anime dorks because who in their right mind wouldn't, but that he wishes literal violence upon the AnimeTeam is pretty lame. Tbh I would never get involved with someone who really really liked anime so I have no real advice but to burn that whole situation to the ground and walk away.
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toiletbrush posted:"reading r/relationships is fun and sure does make me appreciate my good and secure relationship" he thought to himself as he drove home from work two hours early, before unexpectedly walking in on his girlfriend taking a dick blast to the tits from that guy who was 'just an old friend' from Facebook too spooky
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Andrast posted:I don't know why the surgeon would need to ask when it's obviously Hercule If that isn't his answer, then I *am* ripping out that IV thankyouverymuch
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A page back people were talking about how much better this thread makes them feel. Monday my wife had surgery. She's been basically bedridden while she recovers. Meanwhile myself and our two kids have a super nasty cold. I've been running her food/tea/whatever while taking care of the kids and trying to do all the housework and running to the bathroom to be sick myself. The house is in a slow freefall as clean unfolded laundry piles up, dishes are washed as I need them, the floor is covered in crumbs as I've only vacuumed once this week I've lost my temper with the kids a few times when all they were doing was just slightly naughty kid things and grumbling themselves because they're feeling poorly. I feel like I'm failing and struggling so hard. Then I read this thread. I'm goddamn superfather/husband.
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maybe by comparing ourselves to the utter garbagepeople of the world we're only inflating our own egos pointlessly?????
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It definitely has a point as I'd really rather not feel even more like poo poo on top of everything else that is going on.
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# ? Feb 12, 2017 08:52 |
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I for one think that none of us should ever feel like more than garbage unfit to be a part of anyone else's life and who will never amount to anything, and should stay away from anyone else so that they never have to see something so unsightly. Should anyone ever learn anything about you they will only be disgusted. It's good to keep humble.
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Waterbed Wendy posted:That guys sounds like a loving tool. I understand hating being seen with cringey anime dorks because who in their right mind wouldn't, but that he wishes literal violence upon the AnimeTeam is pretty lame. I get the overall impression from the story that he's lead his girlfriend on about how much of a "nerd" he is in an attempt to make the relationship work. Also, the six year age gap, the weight policing, etc, all make me think he's a creep. I have no doubt she and her friends are irritating but also there are some red flags here and it's hard for me to not consider the situation of a controlling partner driving away their partner's friends. and lmao at "I used to get beaten up in high school... why aren't people beating these guys up? ", that is some pathetic poo poo right there dude should get over her friends, and if he can't he should get out of the relationship. If he doesn't want to date 24 year olds who like anime and won't shut up about it he should get over his alt chick manic pixie dream girl obsession and start dating normal women his own age Mirthless fucked around with this message at 09:04 on Feb 12, 2017 |
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Mirthless posted:I get the overall impression from the story that he's lead his girlfriend on about how much of a "nerd" he is in an attempt to make the relationship work. Also, the six year age gap, the weight policing, etc, all make me think he's a creep. I have no doubt she and her friends are irritating but also there are some red flags here and it's hard for me to not consider the situation of a controlling partner driving away their partner's friends. quote:Me [19 F] with my boyfriend [20 M] of a year, he is becoming extremely obsessed with his "waifu" and I don't know what to do
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quote:I [19F] alternate between feeling disgusted at my boyfriend's [18F] seeming attraction to anime characters and feeling disgusted at myself for not fully accepting him
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gentle pete posted:
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quote:My [26 M] roommate has turned into the roommate from hell ever since I [26 M] got together with my girlfriend [24 F]. The worst thing is that he constantly keeps his door open while streaming graphic hentai videos and pictures. Are things with my friend irreparable? Should I listen to my girlfriend?
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On one hand six months is early to start living together On the other hand maybe you should move in with your girlfriend dude there is nothing in that friendship worth saving. You are a chad to this man, and you have taken from him his stacey.
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Mirthless posted:I get the overall impression from the story that he's lead his girlfriend on about how much of a "nerd" he is in an attempt to make the relationship work. Also, the six year age gap, the weight policing, etc, all make me think he's a creep. I have no doubt she and her friends are irritating but also there are some red flags here and it's hard for me to not consider the situation of a controlling partner driving away their partner's friends. I dislike both of these people (anime and disgusting nerds nerds ugh), but the guy is a loving rear end in a top hat, "bullying made me the man I am today!" bullshit and all. Yeah, it turned you into the kind of person who wants to see other people beaten up. (Also, I believe this one's been posted before, it seems very familiar.) Mirthless posted:On one hand six months is early to start living together /r/relationships: You are a chad to this man, and you have taken from him his stacey
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Freegan is not the goldmine I first assumed, it returns just this one War and Peace of inanity:quote:I [27/F] was asked by my friend [27/F] to loan her money, but I have reservations. Non-Romantic At least this girl knows she's a longwinded bore.
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Darkhold posted:A page back people were talking about how much better this thread makes them feel. My girlfriend wasn't feeling well so a few times I brought her food and hung out while she felt asleep and felt like poo poo. Didn't call her a lazy bitch for not making me food and falling asleep at like 6pm, also didn't rape her in her sleep. I am the greatest.
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tater_salad posted:My girlfriend wasn't feeling well so a few times I brought her food and hung out while she felt asleep and felt like poo poo. I did the same thing in college with a girlfriend. She thought I was the greatest guy ever for buying Campbell's soup for her. She was probably high on Nyquil.
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Barudak posted:Being unable to propose is definitely not a red flag and auspicious of any future issues at all. I'll try not to pretend I know it well, but that's kind of why the "gift economy" worked before money and markets became a thing. People don't like to feel like they're in debt, so if you have plenty of resources and give stuff to someone with few resources it means you have a certain power over them. I'm not saying there's anything wrong with giving or accepting lavish gifts, mind.
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tbh the anime hater is a tremendous jackass but I would hate those guys too. I used to hang out with a guy that was into anime but kept it to himself mostly like any hobby but holy poo poo if he invited any of his other friends to do stuff, it was awful. I remember one of them that tried to get us to download that lightsaber app so we could have a lightsaber fight in the Chili's parking lot. Most of those times ended with my friend apologizing for some socially inept thing the people did but he had that geek fallacy of never ostracizing anyone no matter what.
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flick my Mr. Bean posted:In my experience, people who are being genuinely kind when they give extravagant gifts don't expect the same in return. Yeah. Gift giving us really fun. It's even more fun when you actually have the money to come up with something awesome for the person you are getting the gift for.
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My girlfriend and I go overboard with gift giving so we set a limit before Christmas. It works pretty well. We only exceed it by 25% or so.
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Apparently the "two roommates want the same girl but one gets her and it drives the other one insane" happens. A few years ago in Windsor: two brothers who were living together were both obsessed with the same girl. She was staying over in one of the brothers' rooms after a night out drinking so the other brother set the house on fire while everyone was sleeping http://www.pressreader.com/canada/windsor-star/20081212/281500747110621
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olylifter posted:Apparently the "two roommates want the same girl but one gets her and it drives the other one insane" happens. don't poo poo where you eat the roommate is the biggest incel loser in the world but op should have seen this coming, there are other fish in the sea it's by no means OP's fault, but it can't hurt to keep an eye out for drama ahead so you're not suddenly surprised when this happens
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Mirthless posted:don't poo poo where you eat If a robot got a new emotion program installed and asked me what anger and disappointment feel like I would show it your posts.
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Gumbel2Gumbel posted:If a robot got a new emotion program installed and asked me what anger and disappointment feel like I would show it your posts. "Lieutenant Commander Data, Counselor Troi and I have been having some problems with..."
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Gumbel2Gumbel posted:If a robot got a new emotion program installed and asked me what anger and disappointment feel like I would show it your posts. here a goon goes wildly inferring whatever he wants from my post "hey my roommate is very clearly infatuated with this person, I wonder what pursuing them would do to my friendship?" seems like a reasonable question to internally ask. It's alright to go for the girl, he's just so shocked this happened when he lives with the kind of guy who watches anime porn with the door open.
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Dating a friend isn't making GBS threads where you eat. You tend to date people you know from your life, generally
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Mirthless posted:"hey my roommate is very clearly infatuated with this person, I wonder what pursuing them would do to my friendship?" seems like a reasonable question to internally ask. You're acting like he called dibs. Also, "don't poo poo where you eat" means don't date a coworker, I've never heard it used to avoid dating a friend of a friend.
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Psycho Society posted:Dating a friend isn't making GBS threads where you eat. You tend to date people you know from your life, generally making GBS threads where you eat describes dating people from familiar places - typically workplaces, but also within social circles - and the fallout that inevitably occurs. I even said OP didn't do anything wrong, lol, I'm just describing the phenomenon WampaLord posted:You're acting like he called dibs. It's not "a friend of a friend" it's "a friend of my roommate that i know my he is infatuated with" I'm not acting like he called dibs, I'm just trying to say "Uh, yeah, you should have seen this coming" edit: vvvv nah that is 100% of what I was saying, I wasn't making a judgement I'm just pointing out "hey, this sure was a thing that was predictable" Mirthless fucked around with this message at 17:15 on Feb 12, 2017 |
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I'm going to have to agree with 5% of Mirthless' post in that I feel like OP should have been aware that, if he already knows his roommate is weird and awkward, his roommate might lose his poo poo over it. I was in a similar situation a few years ago where I didn't date a girl that was into me because my slightly off friend had a thing for her in the past and I knew what would happen. When another friend did date her, the one that had was into her lost his goddamn poo poo and destroyed both friendships. Not that OP shouldn't have dated her or has any responsibility to keep his crazy roommate happy though.
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He should have been aware, and indeed he was aware, and that's why he went to the trouble of asking the roommate about it. Remember?
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# ? Feb 12, 2017 17:15 |
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Sounds like this is maybe the problem of the creepy weirdos and their stalker crushes.
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Mirthless posted:It's not "a friend of a friend" it's "a friend of my roommate that i know my roommate is infatuated with" quote:Anyways, I wanted to make sure things were okay with John. He said that he was totally cool with us dating and said that he was already interested in someone else. So we started dating. So now he has to be psychic as well?
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food court bailiff posted:He should have been aware, and indeed he was aware, and that's why he went to the trouble of asking the roommate about it. Remember? Oh hey yeah I missed that Sorry everybody, I'm retarded Psycho Society posted:Sounds like this is maybe the problem of the creepy weirdos and their stalker crushes. well, yeah, it always was, but it can't hurt to predict how the creepy weirdos are going to behave ahead of time (or just not associate with those people in the first place, which seems like the much more sound advice from this thread) girl who was afraid of anime people a few pages back had the right idea Mirthless fucked around with this message at 17:19 on Feb 12, 2017 |
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food court bailiff posted:He should have been aware, and indeed he was aware, and that's why he went to the trouble of asking the roommate about it. Remember? He did ask but isn't that a fairly normal thing to do regardless of what kind of person your friend is? I'm not sure I'd take his word at face value if I already describe him as "weird, awkward, moody, and intense."
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flick my Mr. Bean posted:He did ask but isn't that a fairly normal thing to do regardless of what kind of person your friend is? I'm not sure I'd take his word at face value if I already describe him as "weird, awkward, moody, and intense." So what would you do? Not date the person because you can't predict the reaction of your roommate? That's a lot of power to give your roommate over you, on the strength of his maladjustment.
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lol if you think even even a small portion of guys would ask their friend's permission to date a girl they both know. Cultivating creepy little possessive crushes on your friends is not something adults should do. That said it's a different situation if the girl has actually been involved with a friend.
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Subjunctive posted:So what would you do? Not date the person because you can't predict the reaction of your roommate? That's a lot of power to give your roommate over you, on the strength of his maladjustment. No, but it couldn't hurt to be ready for that bridge to burn If you want to date somebody at work, that's great, lots of people meet their partners in the workplace, just be prepared for that job to be ruined in any of a number of likely and unlikely scenarios Mirthless fucked around with this message at 17:28 on Feb 12, 2017 |
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Mirthless posted:No, but it couldn't hurt to be ready for that bridge to burn What does "be ready" mean? Rent a standby place? Keep everything packed?
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Subjunctive posted:What does "be ready" mean? Rent a standby place? Keep everything packed? "Don't be completely gobsmacked by it when things blow up" The guy still thinks he can repair his friendship with his roommate at this point. He's been blindsided by it completely.
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