|
quote:I don't know if he will ever get over the fact that he made a "mistake." I don't even call it a mistake when he refers to it. (Because in my field of work, we like to call mistakes "learning experiences....and such.") He has a compulsive need to be liked. It's just something that has always be ingrained in his personality, especially when it comes to family competition. quote:Definitely lying to his employees and co-workers. He thinks there is some shame in divorcing and remarrying so quickly. Definitely lying to parents. They are not crazy about his divorce and they think we had an affair. That situation is uncomfortable. So yes. He is lying a lot to people. And it's because he's afraid of being judged for his decisions. He has really bad anxiety about what people think of him. It's definitely not okay, because I don't want to hide my engagement. I shouldn't have to live in the shadows of his other life choices. So last night was the first time I actually said I was super uncomfortable with him trying to act like I've been his wife forever. hmmm.... ... 
|
#
?
Mar 13, 2017 08:45
|
|
|
|
| # ? May 30, 2024 14:47 |
|
|
Pick posted:hmmm.... 
|
|
#
?
Mar 13, 2017 09:02
|
|
|
ahahahahahaha holy poo poo wow. "Honey, I know my family has always hated you and forced us to break up once, but I'd still rather have them believe you were a homewrecker than admit I married a crazy person! This is totally the action of someone who loves and cares about you and isn't trying to spackle over his messy divorce with the first woman he could dupe into marrying him!!" I also want to know what the ratio of "money this dude has spent on his antique-furniture hobby" to "money this dude has ever spent on something that would make his fiancee happy"
|
|
#
?
Mar 13, 2017 09:05
|
|
|
quote:I don't know if he will ever get over the fact that he made a "mistake." I don't even call it a mistake when he refers to it. (Because in my field of work, we like to call mistakes "learning experiences....and such.") He has a compulsive need to be liked. It's just something that has always be ingrained in his personality, especially when it comes to family competition. Edit: the more I think about the more appalled I get. This dude apparently had no problem bitching about his ex to all his friends and colleagues, then saw NO need to clarify that she isn't that same person. gently caress this dude. dads friend steve fucked around with this message at 12:40 on Mar 13, 2017 |
|
#
?
Mar 13, 2017 12:34
|
|
|
Did monkeyfight video girl ever work things out with her bitchmade boyfriend
|
|
#
?
Mar 13, 2017 13:04
|
|
|
Baby this is serious. You should not enjoy these things. There are two things important in every relationship: communication and missionary sex. Videos of animals fighting is not a healthy source of entertainment for a lady. [ANGRY MONKEY NOISES]
|
|
#
?
Mar 13, 2017 13:06
|
|
|
Elsa posted:
|
|
#
?
Mar 13, 2017 13:20
|
|
|
We peaked too soon with the current title, but The Something Awful Forums > Main > General Bullshit > /r/relationships: [ANGRY MONKEY NOISES] has a great ring to it.
|
|
#
?
Mar 13, 2017 13:35
|
|
|
Was I the only one incredibly creeped out by that? Like I watch documentaries on serial killers, crime etc and while nature videos are interesting I couldn't flippantly talk about being entertained by a video of chimpanzees punching/beating up a raccoon. That just sounds like a hosed up thing to want to witch
|
|
#
?
Mar 13, 2017 13:37
|
|
|
I watch nature documentaries and seeing animals hunt other animals is v. interesting
|
|
#
?
Mar 13, 2017 13:39
|
|
|
p rude posted:A simple "that was my fiancé's ex wife, not me" would clear things up real quick, but that might embarrass your garbage future husband, so better to just silently accept a complete stranger's angry criticism  I really feel like this lady needs to put her loving foot down and remind her jerk fiance (lol, she should back down to "girlfriend" again and remind him that she doesn't have to marry him, too) that she controls what people think of her, not him. Actually, she should  my impression of this rear end in a top hat is that he thinks if he keeps spending to a minimum and centers his marriage around himself, he's not going to "ruin his wife". gently caress this dude! 54 40 or gently caress posted:Was I the only one incredibly creeped out by that? Like I watch documentaries on serial killers, crime etc and while nature videos are interesting I couldn't flippantly talk about being entertained by a video of chimpanzees punching/beating up a raccoon. That just sounds like a hosed up thing to want to watch gonna mirthless this up a little but weird murderous animal behavior is pretty fascinating. I'm legit terrified of chimps and apes but otter violence is interesting in a grim sort of way. People have this impression that only humans (and maybe cats) kill for fun, and, nope, tons of animals do. also I have this youtube channel i'm subscribed to where a guy raises mink and trains them to hunt muskrats, and I have watched it for hours. if anybody wants a link to the channel: https://www.youtube.com/user/josephdcarter however, if she's watching so much of this poo poo that it's the only thing showing up in recommended videos, i think that is a really bad sign Mirthless fucked around with this message at 13:58 on Mar 13, 2017 |
|
#
?
Mar 13, 2017 13:50
|
|
|
54 40 or gently caress posted:Was I the only one incredibly creeped out by that? Like I watch documentaries on serial killers, crime etc and while nature videos are interesting I couldn't flippantly talk about being entertained by a video of chimpanzees punching/beating up a raccoon. That just sounds like a hosed up thing to want to witch It makes sense to me if she has a history of death metal and he's asian or something. Comes from a culture of arranged marriages maybe. I thought the most unfortunate thing was the accidental youtube history. It seemed like he decided to revisit the topic as a result, and to her it would seem out of the blue.
|
|
#
?
Mar 13, 2017 13:53
|
|
|
I for one find it very suspicious that Pick has avoided commenting on animal violence girl. Do you taxidermy the winner or the loser of your monkey versus raccoon cage matches?
|
|
#
?
Mar 13, 2017 13:55
|
|
|
MinionOfCthulhu posted:I for one find it very suspicious that Pick has avoided commenting on animal violence girl. Do you taxidermy the winner or the loser of your monkey versus raccoon cage matches?
|
|
#
?
Mar 13, 2017 14:49
|
|
|
MinionOfCthulhu posted:I for one find it very suspicious that Pick has avoided commenting on animal violence girl. Do you taxidermy the winner or the loser of your monkey versus raccoon cage matches? No champion remains on top forever.
|
|
#
?
Mar 13, 2017 15:05
|
|
|
p rude posted:Well I for one do NOT want my wife to gently caress someone other than me I was about to call you a prude as a joke, then I saw your username. Nice post+username combo.
|
|
#
?
Mar 13, 2017 15:12
|
|
|
A rare post from the perspective of a gains goblin. For the past year, my (28f) husband (29m) has spent an incredible amount of time with my best friend (29f) as they train for an Ironman triathlon. I was ok with it at first but now I'm insanely jealous at/for both of them. Relationships quote:submitted 5 months ago by husbandtrainsfriend Jealous wife should get beefy with them instead of complaining. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Rhl5K0mTSKY EDIT: ahahaha this loving comment quote:Gibonius 913 points 5 months ago Is there anything  s won't take to stupid lenghts?
Bubblyblubber fucked around with this message at 15:26 on Mar 13, 2017 |
|
#
?
Mar 13, 2017 15:23
|
|
|
54 40 or gently caress posted:Was I the only one incredibly creeped out by that? Like I watch documentaries on serial killers, crime etc and while nature videos are interesting I couldn't flippantly talk about being entertained by a video of chimpanzees punching/beating up a raccoon. That just sounds like a hosed up thing to want to witch Yeah, no, I'm the same. Crime shows and documentaries about sharks or crocodiles are cool. But I always tear up and look away from any videos of animals getting beaten. There was one that was going around Facebook about a deer curbstomping a neighbourhood dog. I had to take some time to decompress from that one. 
|
|
#
?
Mar 13, 2017 15:29
|
|
|
^im really trying to wrap my head around exactly what it is that bothers me? Maybe the idea of watching animals hurt one another kind of echoes a feeling of voyeurism that I associate with dog fighting and that sort of thing? Lion taking down a gazelle or an eagle snagging a rabbit is one thing but maybe it's her particular example and finding it funny that just really pings something off about the whole thing.Bubblyblubber posted:A rare post from the perspective of a gains goblin. The gently caress kind of white nonsense name is Alessicca 54 40 or fuck fucked around with this message at 15:34 on Mar 13, 2017 |
|
#
?
Mar 13, 2017 15:30
|
|
|
Bubblyblubber posted:I don't want to bore anyone so I will try to keep this short. 54 40 or gently caress posted:^im really trying to wrap my head around exactly what it is that bothers me? Maybe the idea of watching animals hurt one another kind of echoes a feeling of voyeurism that I associate with dog fighting and that sort of thing? Lion taking down a gazelle or an eagle snagging a rabbit is one thing but maybe it's her particular example and finding it funny that just really pings something off about the whole thing. watching animals kill each other was like 75% of entertainment people had before TV, but otoh the other 25% was coming up with inventive ways to torture people so her fixation definitely tips the 'serial killer' end of the scale.
|
|
#
?
Mar 13, 2017 15:39
|
|
|
54 40 or gently caress posted:^im really trying to wrap my head around exactly what it is that bothers me? Maybe the idea of watching animals hurt one another kind of echoes a feeling of voyeurism that I associate with dog fighting and that sort of thing? Lion taking down a gazelle or an eagle snagging a rabbit is one thing but maybe it's her particular example and finding it funny that just really pings something off about the whole thing. A unique one and maybe the husband is a redditor or knows the account. Maybe this is her way of telling him. I've met wives who say they meet up with a running partner and I may have been invited to do the same. It's the perfect cover. You come home sweaty and just want to shower and nap.
|
|
#
?
Mar 13, 2017 15:43
|
|
|
54 40 or gently caress posted:^im really trying to wrap my head around exactly what it is that bothers me? Maybe the idea of watching animals hurt one another kind of echoes a feeling of voyeurism that I associate with dog fighting and that sort of thing? Lion taking down a gazelle or an eagle snagging a rabbit is one thing but maybe it's her particular example and finding it funny that just really pings something off about the whole thing. For me, it's the idea that an animal is being needlessly harmed. The animal being hurt isn't prey, and it's death won't serve to feed the other creature. Shows about large predators often show the predator taking down it's prey quickly and efficiently. I do have a harder time watching ones where an animal is suffering for a long time before being killed. The sound of an animal in distress just triggers something in me that makes me cry my eyes out. Taking pleasure in watching another creature in distress is just sickening to me.
|
|
#
?
Mar 13, 2017 15:59
|
|
|
54 40 or gently caress posted:^im really trying to wrap my head around exactly what it is that bothers me? Maybe the idea of watching animals hurt one another kind of echoes a feeling of voyeurism that I associate with dog fighting and that sort of thing? Lion taking down a gazelle or an eagle snagging a rabbit is one thing but maybe it's her particular example and finding it funny that just really pings something off about the whole thing. It sounds like you don't mind watching a sudden kill, but you do mind something that looks like a sustained assault, which I can understand. Animals kill to eat all the time, and that's natural, but an animal beating and hurting another animal in a fight seems more like human behavior, and it's kind of ugly and disturbing to watch. It's also a lot easier to empathize with a living creature that's being hurt by another, than it is with a creature which has just been killed by another.
|
|
#
?
Mar 13, 2017 16:01
|
|
|
A Wizard of Goatse posted:watching animals kill each other was like 75% of entertainment people had before TV, but otoh the other 25% was coming up with inventive ways to torture people so I was married to a biologist who made extra cash working off tour boats and she - and all her colleagues - would be described as exceptionally weird by most people when it came to death and the remains of animals. They, of course, would just call it professional curiosity. More than once, she'd drag home the remains of something  interesting which had just died so she could I couldn't count the number of times I would come home to find the something unspeakable in an esky by the door and have her shout, "Don't touch that, I want its eyeballs!" But she and her colleagues would never go out of their way to watch animals die. Death happens, but it's just one part of life. Going out of your way to seek out that, and only that? That's pretty hosed up.
|
|
#
?
Mar 13, 2017 16:03
|
|
|
whatever gently caress yall im gonna make millions in my animal fighting ring
|
|
#
?
Mar 13, 2017 16:04
|
|
|
Gorilla Salad posted:I was married to a biologist who made extra cash working off tour boats and she - and all her colleagues - would be described as exceptionally weird by most people when it came to death and the remains of animals. They, of course, would just call it professional curiosity. Yeah, as someone who couldn't even swat a mosquito as a kid, I had a small collection of animal bones that I had found in fields. Cow bones, part of a pig skull, a rabbit skull, a few rib bones... had the remains of a huge dragonfly at one point that I really wish I had gotten preserved in resin. I currently have a couple pendants of beetles in resin and a fossilized shark tooth necklace that I wear frequently. Taking an interest in animal remains and wanting to watch animals suffer are two very different things.
|
|
#
?
Mar 13, 2017 16:13
|
|
|
This weekend, we pit a wildebeest against a bison is a clash born on the Plains and Savannah
|
|
#
?
Mar 13, 2017 16:20
|
|
|
Bubblyblubber posted:EDIT: ahahaha this loving comment I really love posts like this where goons inadvertently show off how sheltered they are by being surprised at a really common colloquialism.
|
|
#
?
Mar 13, 2017 16:20
|
|
|
Im pretty sure that kind of racing kills marriages about as fast as classic cars do
|
|
#
?
Mar 13, 2017 16:22
|
|
|
Elsa posted:It makes sense to me if she has a history of death metal and he's asian or something. Comes from a culture of arranged marriages maybe. I thought the most unfortunate thing was the accidental youtube history. It seemed like he decided to revisit the topic as a result, and to her it would seem out of the blue. Elsa posted:A unique one and maybe the husband is a redditor or knows the account. Maybe this is her way of telling him.  Elsa!
|
|
#
?
Mar 13, 2017 16:25
|
|
|
Gerblyn posted:It sounds like you don't mind watching a sudden kill, but you do mind something that looks like a sustained assault, which I can understand. Animals kill to eat all the time, and that's natural, but an animal beating and hurting another animal in a fight seems more like human behavior, and it's kind of ugly and disturbing to watch. It's also a lot easier to empathize with a living creature that's being hurt by another, than it is with a creature which has just been killed by another. That sounds about right. So when she says quote:So, I sent him a video of a bunch of chimps beating up a raccoon in a zoo. I thought it was funny/interesting because the chimps were punching it and that's such a human thing to do. And finding it funny, ha-ha funny or otherwise is just downright fuckin weird to me. Like perverse enjoyment from watching it. Likely because it lacks any empathy for the animal in distress.
|
|
#
?
Mar 13, 2017 16:27
|
|
|
Imagine getting rightfully called out by Mirthless for being a weirdo
|
|
#
?
Mar 13, 2017 16:29
|
|
Tater Love 
|
Mirthless posted:
I won't say whether I did or didn't but I will say I regret my decisions. The arranged marriage cultural thing though, that situation doesn't strike you as somekind of parental discussion? The nitty gritty of what's wrong or right when it's just curiosity. Seems like a very man-of-the-house imposition and that type of culture is common in asia. As an example. It's not always racism.
|
|
#
?
Mar 13, 2017 16:35
|
|
|
Elsa I say this in the nicest way possible but did you take your meds today
|
|
#
?
Mar 13, 2017 16:39
|
|
|
Elsa posted:I won't say whether I did or didn't but I will say I regret my decisions. what strikes me as odd is that you just brought up an arranged marriage, an extremely uncommon thing among Reddit users (given the majority of posters are from the US) just tell us about your failed arranged marriage please
|
|
#
?
Mar 13, 2017 16:39
|
|
|
zakharov posted:Imagine getting rightfully called out by Mirthless for being a weirdo Ban em both, let the leper's colony sort them out
|
|
#
?
Mar 13, 2017 16:41
|
|
|
Let's watch every animal fight! Spider versus bat! Tiger versus rat! Rabbit versus dove! No one's getting out!
|
|
#
?
Mar 13, 2017 16:44
|
|
be good and try hard! 
|
Tune in on Sunday when a saltwater crocodile is pitted against a grizzly bear!
|
|
#
?
Mar 13, 2017 16:47
|
|
|
I want to be the very best Like no one ever was To make them fight at my request To laugh at them my cause
|
|
#
?
Mar 13, 2017 16:50
|
|
|
|
| # ? May 30, 2024 14:47 |
|
|
MinionOfCthulhu posted:I for one find it very suspicious that Pick has avoided commenting on animal violence girl. Do you taxidermy the winner or the loser of your monkey versus raccoon cage matches? I don't enjoy violence but animals are violent  .
|
|
#
?
Mar 13, 2017 16:59
|
|