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Does anyone know of any good water-based lube that won't set off a latex allergy, besides Astroglide? My guy friend has a latex allergy and we use Astroglide, but lately he says that it's starting to feel weird or burn when it's on his skin for too long. I don't have any issues with any of that, so I'm stumped. (Also I was hoping that the title of the next thread would be something like, "Have you tried butt stuff yet?")
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Thanks for the recommendations guys!
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Mar 14, 2014 01:32
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Along the crazy porn line of things, I have seen a Cream of Wheat porn. E:  http://blog.wfmu.org/freeform/2008/03/youll-never-loo.html
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Mar 30, 2014 01:27
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Techno Remix posted:Since we're also talking about porn, I'm pretty sure there's live action smurf porn out there. I vaguely remember seeing it on one of those porn Youtubes years ago and it's infinitely more funny than sexy. Smearing yourself with body paint and then doing porn will only make it look like everyone's got some kind of skin disease by the end of it. I have seen the smurf porn. You really get taken out of it when the blowjobs remove the make up though. Totally ruins the realism. 
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Mar 30, 2014 19:22
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At the very least, get a plastic mattress protector to put under your mattress pad, just as a back up. But I'm sure puppy pad sheets would work. As could doubling up on thick towels. Just head to your local thrift store, buy a bunch of cheap towels, wash them in hot, hot water, and bam, squirt protection.
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Skutter fucked around with this message at 03:50 on Jan 17, 2015 |
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May 5, 2014 03:43
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From what I've read, the idea about putting a ring around the balls is supposed to increase the length of sex by delaying orgasm, but also it's supposed to make the orgasm much more intense because the balls are pulled more away from the body than they normally are? I've never tried that with a partner, so I can't say for sure whether or not that's true, but that's the idea I guess.
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Jun 1, 2014 14:24
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RazorBunny posted:I got invited to one of those Pure Romance parties. I'm looking at their online catalog. All their lubes and creams have glycerin in them, so that's out. The only thing that I might consider is some of the pelvic floor exercisers, nothing else really stands out. I think you nailed it on the head. These are parties for women who would never stoop so low as to go to a sex shop for sex toys. It's like any other [brand name] party, you're paying a premium for the atmosphere or something. Just go and enjoy yourself, and then buy something better and cheaper on Amazon.
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Jun 4, 2014 03:56
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Glass toys are great. They're easy to clean, and you can put them in warm or cold water to do temperature play, which can be fun. They're also really nice for women because they're solid, so when the vaginal muscles flex against them, they give great feedback. Get yoself some.
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Jun 5, 2014 02:51
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FactsAreUseless posted:With all the stigma that surrounds sexually-transmitted diseases, I think people would have a lot more reasons to be offended. You shouldn't be offended about having a frank discussion about STDs and getting tested, that's a normal and healthy conversation that all adults should have when they are having a sexual relationship. Unless the person is being a jerk and accusing you of being "diseased" or something, I don't see a legitimate reason to get offended.
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Jun 10, 2014 02:41
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Wow. The original post that started this discussion was "What's the best way to ask a guy if they have had an std test, without sounding like you're implying they are covered in diseases?" Notice that it wasn't, "Hey I think my long-term partner is cheating on me, how can I ask them to get tested without hurting their feelings" or some other such nonsense. You can say you were playing goon lawyer and trying to find specific circumstances where asking someone to get tested would be rude but you'd just come off sounding like a crazy person in the end because there is no reason to get so nitpicky in a thread about Business Time. And if you want to get incredibly pedantic about it, wanting to see a spouse's STI test results (if they get tested for whatever reason, like if they were loving WHORES BEHIND YOUR BACK) would not be an unreasonable request either. Many STIs can "lie dormant" for years or the person can be asymptomatic and not know they're infected.
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Jun 10, 2014 23:07
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There are also these things: http://www.amazon.com/s/ref=nb_sb_noss_2?url=search-alias%3Dhpc&field-keywords=suction%20cup%20dildo
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Jun 11, 2014 03:17
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I wasn't necessarily recommending jelly toys (because ew gross), I was recommending suction cup dildos.
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Jun 11, 2014 04:49
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If nothing else, go to a sex shop together and look at the toys. It's always fun and sexy to do that with a partner, plus you can better gauge her likes and dislikes in-person. If they don't have exactly what you want, you at least have a good starting point and then can go online and get something. Have her look at sex toy reviews online too (I love ohjoyasextoy.com). Speaking if which, there are no sex toy review links listed in the OP (at least none I could find). Why don't we all post our faves and see if Turtlicious will edit the OP to include them?
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Skutter fucked around with this message at 03:11 on Jan 16, 2015 |
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Skutter fucked around with this message at 03:14 on Jan 16, 2015 |
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Jun 22, 2014 05:42
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Condom talk: My partner and I use Skyn, as he is allergic to latex. I love them so much better than the Trojan and Durex condoms I've used before. I think they're about the same as latex condoms in terms of price, and sometimes you can find the "get 6 extra free!" packs for the same price as the 24. Seconding the condoms for anal and toys advice; it just makes clean up that much more simple. If you're worried about "wasting" your special condoms on toys, just get cheapie ones (as long as your partner won't have a reaction to them) for toy use only. Also more lube chat: Get a fancy hand soap dispenser and put your lube in it. It makes getting the lube out so much easier (pump rather than fumbling with a cap), and it is oh so classy.
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Jun 28, 2014 01:36
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neongrey posted:My Sliquid comes in thing with a top like a shampoo bottle, push down and the opening pops up. It's not as good as a pump but it's good enough for me. Yes but you can buy a pump dispenser that matches your bedroom decor. Your lube dispenser should always accent the paint color.  Also thanks Anne and AcE for the Condom Depot suggestion. I saw it mentioned in the previous thread, but never gave it any thought. I will definitely check it out though, thanks!
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Jun 28, 2014 16:07
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Brutor Fartknocker posted:Has anyone used dating/hookup sites much? I'm in a new city and don't really know anyone yet, and was wondering about trying them out. Check out the "Are dating sites halfway decent now?" thread in e/n. It does have a bad rating, but the last ~40 pages have somewhat useful discussions about okcupid and Tinder. You could try posting your questions in there, get help with setting up a decent profile, etc. You can also try Meetup.com if you're looking for non-sexy time friends. It's a great way to meet people and find places in your new area, without the added dread of a first date.
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Also it takes time to get an infection, unfortunately that means you will need to wait at least three more weeks before you should get tested. Six weeks is the amount of time recommended by Planned Parenthood for you to wait between the date of possible infection and your test date. Otherwise you might get an all-clear because the infection hasn't developed yet and you tested too early, so you end up walking around with an untreated case of syphilis or gonorrhea for a few months before any symptoms present themselves. And always wrap up your dick. 
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Aug 30, 2014 22:07
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Sometimes my boyfriend doesn't ejaculate when we have sex. Is his dick broken?! 
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LingcodKilla posted:If your woman doesn't constantly piss her pants I'm fairly sure she can control her throbbing tunnel of passion. I can't even begin to understand what this means. Are you saying that women will not only fake an orgasm by making funny noises, but we will also fake muscle contractions as extra proof for the orgasm pudding? What the hell. If you are that far into lying to your partner about your orgasms, you are way beyond any sort of "Oh I'm just doing this to not make them feel bad" territory. If I'm having an orgasm (which I do all the time because I am a sex haver), there's no way I am able to control my muscles during such, because they're going wild with passions. But I can't deglove a banana, so I don't know if you want to take my word for it. v  v
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FISHMANPET posted:Speaking of eating pussy, any ways to improve the taste/smell of the vagina? My wife's is pretty... bad, and I wouldn't mind going there more often. This might seem like a couple of dumb/obvious questions but... Does she wash her vagina often? Does she change her underwear regularly? Does she see a doctor/gynecologist? She might have a health issue if it isn't a cleanliness issue. You could also try using flavored lubes (if she won't have a reaction) to "enhance" the flavor. Also, have you talked about this issue with her at all?
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FISHMANPET posted:To be blunt, it smells like bad fish. Does overall levels of body hydration have anything to do with it? She seems to excrete white mucusy stuff more than actual "liquid" (and no, it's no my semen) but I don't know how viscous vaginal fluids are "supposed" to be. Does she have that all the time (i.e. not just after you have sex and she came)? Generally, vaginal discharge is supposed to be viscous and clear, but sometimes it can be yellow or white, but that doesn't (read: isn't supposed to) happen often. It can also sometimes smell a little "fishy" I guess would be a close description, even when clean and healthy, but not like it went bad. That doesn't sound right to me, if it's thick and white all the time, especially with the "bad fish" smell. She really should get that checked out. Like someone said, it could be a simple pH/bacterial thing, or it could be that there is a serious problem. Are you comfortable enough suggesting she visit a gynecologist (or a local health clinic) over this?
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hoobajoo posted:Protection for oral sex is a little on the cautious side, but at the same time, it's not that weird for casual sex. If this is a romantic partner, it'd be more common and easier to both just get tested, but if it's a hookup or first date type scenario, it's not weird to not want to get the herp. Agreed. If you're casually hooking up with someone and they go into the "We don't need protection" song-and-dance routine, regardless of the sex act or if they're a man or woman, it is time to GTFO. For a long-term partner, just get tested together. It'll be a special bonding moment you can look back on fondly, and, you can even add your negative test results letters to you scrapbook for the grandkids to see.
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Jeoh posted:Let her put on the condom for you. Make it a part of having sex, not just this annoying thing you have to do. This, or have her rub you all sexy-like while you do it, or she can play with your balls, or touch herself while you watch. Putting on condoms is an interruption, but you can make it feel a little less weird by doing what Jeoh says, and make it part of the sex. Also get tested.
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If you use anything like scarves, ties, rope, etc., make sure to have a pair of these handy in case things go south. I like these cuffs; they are easy to put on and take off, they're durable, and they're not too expensive. You could also check to see if you have a fetish group in your area, sometimes they have bondage workshops where they'll teach you how to do rope-tying.
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I also think you're taking an oddly paternalistic stance on this. Instead of giving her reading assignments, why not actively research information with her? Find some sex blogs and read them together, go to sex toy shops and laugh at the terrible bachelor/ette gag gifts while looking for some fun toys, and promote sex in a healthy way (i.e. not doing the whole "Everyone you slept with beforehand ruined you and it is up to me to save you my lady!" poo poo).
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Bollock Monkey posted:Also, for washable marking, how about lipstick or eyeliner? Yeah, if you're going to write gently caress PIG or SEX HOLE on your partner, lipstick is the classiest way to do it. Just get some makeup wipes (they have them cheap in the travel supply sections at Target/Wal-Mart/etc.) and you're good. E: What about SEMEN DEMON?
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KillHour posted:The problem is that she's extremely... submissive in bed. I'm "running the show," as it were. So run the show and tell her to do more foreplay stuff.
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