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I've had similar issues and just stopping porn for a month reset me. I didn't even need to stop jerkin it, so it wasn't too bad. YMMV of course.
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Anecdotally, taking l-citruline noticably helps my D do well after being on SSRIs for years. None of this is really related to death grip or overuse of porn, since those are more psychological problems, but yeah.
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Holy poo poo, that's awesome. Glad to hear everything worked out!
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Geoj posted:The Something Awful Forums > Discussion > Ask/Tell > Sex Questions Megathread III: turns out I was wrong all along and sex is actually pretty great PLEASE let this be the new thread title.
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So I recently came out as bi and now have a boyfriend for the first time. Our sex is really good, but I have a really hard time getting him to cum. He says he always takes a long time, and while the stamina is welcome, it does make me a little self conscious he often has to finish himself off when I get too tired. Does anyone have tips for giving your man the big-O?
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Electric Bugaloo posted:Vibrator I do, but it's a little different since he's cut and I'm not. I will try the vibrator though! Antivehicular posted:Also, some dudes just take a long time -- if he says this is normal for him, it's almost certainly not you causing the problem. I know it's not me, and we both are having good, in-the-moment sex where no one has any goal. I don't have any like "oh GOD I have to MAKE HIM COME" anxiety like you say; ultimately the sex is good and this is a minor problem, but all else being equal it'd be nice to reliably make him cum.
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Electric Bugaloo posted:It’s in the name.
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Qubee posted:Gave a girl an orgasm last night and she told me afterwards that she saw a really vivid sky blue colour and that it's never happened before. It was really cool but we both didn't really know what it meant, and I got the feeling it was more profound for her, whereas I was slightly confused but still hella excited about it. Told her we're gonna hit every colour of the rainbow. I've had this happen, though only via substance use during sex. It is a very enjoyable state. Beachcomber posted:Ok, so I was wondering if there was a consensus if schoolgirl and/or cheerleader outfits constitutes "ageplay". Logically it seems like it should, but those are way more mainstream and have been for a really long time. In and of itself, I do think of it as very mild ageplay, yes. But otoh, there's other reasons to be into it; like someone said before, it's a very "porn" look and has been for decades. So while I do agree with you in principle, I wouldn't automatically assume someone who likes it is *into* ageplay, and that seems like an important distinction. Hope that makes sense.
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Are we talking about loving as in, just an hour straight of humping, or does that include all sexual activity? Because an hour is like, the minimum time for a satisfying sexual experience for me, from start to finish.
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Qubee posted:Interested in butt plugs. For two people who've never used them, how do you even get it in with the least amount of discomfort? I think it'd be really hot for her to use and she's keen on the idea, but I'd rather push it off until I'm 100% sure it's gonna be a really nice experience for her, instead of both of us fumbling around figuring it out and causing her some discomfort. Also, prep beforehand etc. what do you all recommend? Use them for masturbation first. It's going to be a lot less awkward if she gets used to it without the extra variable of a partner. As for the practical preparation, take a small enema beforehand and use a lot of lube. No, really, a LOT of lube.
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Qubee posted:Masturbation first is a good shout. Do you get stuff for an enema or can you do stuff yourself at home? I don't know if using the bathroom beforehand is adequate preparation. I'm not easily grossed out, and expect some bodily fluids (pieces?) are gonna be part of the territory, but she is 100% not okay with there being anything nasty as a result of doing this. Using a bidet / water hose does wonders for cleaning yourself out, but we're not in the ME, we're in the EU and those aren't commonplace. I use a simple enema bulb and warm tap water, and wash myself out a couple times or until I'm satisfied. You don't need to do this necessarily but I prefer a little more cleanliness and peace of mind. Anyway, that's all you need to do for basic anal prep. hoobajoo fucked around with this message at 23:17 on Jun 24, 2019 |
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Johnny Truant posted:Shut the gently caress up and gently caress off, your idiotic posts were never funny to begin with you fuckwit.
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