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CISMALES DID 9-11 posted:do girls message guys on these or is it all the other way around Coming at it from the other side, as a not-totally-disgusting older guy I get a shitload of messages from fat old ladies. Once the prospects start to drop off they'll start messaging. Like I've said before though, it's that 5% that make it worthwhile. Plus younger women with older guy fixations. Gold, Jerry, gold.
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I did try a little experiment recently for a couple of months - I went radically honest in my profile. Talked about enjoying video games, MST3K, SF, etc etc and just generally acknowledged a lot more of reality than is a good idea. Results were about what you'd expect. Messages from ugly grannies didn't drop off much, but the primo results went into a radical dive. To be fair, labeling yourself as a manchild is never going to be a selling point for a guy, but it's not offset by demonstrating that you're a competent adult as well. Women can get away with that kind of thing. As a guy you have to generate a value proposition. Creating an image as a functional normal is more important than truth. They can learn about the real you as things go along. That being said, as a disclaimer I did start talking to one woman who would be a great match, and who is even attractive. It's just a drat shame that she lives thousands of miles away. YMMV. edit - Switched the profile back to Really Normal Guy, Honestly about two hours ago. Already got favourited twice  .
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yung jew posted:thanks for confirming what no one doubted You tell me the stove is hot I guarantee I'm going to have burned fingers in a few minutes. Waltzing Along posted:Oh wow...96% match. My goodness, we have a ton in common. Our profiles are almost written for each other. They don't want good matches. They want that romance novel guy.
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Fonzarelli posted:
As your attorney I advise you that this is a perfectly sensible thing for you to do as a man, and there are no potential downsides at all.
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I honestly think it's just plain rude to be messaging way younger women if they don't have you included in their preference range. If they do, welp, party on I guess. Edit - although including above 40 usually means "your flabby rear end had better be in the money". Also I am a pure magnet for Philippino and Ukrainian visa-seeking 30 year olds. It's at least fun to look at their pictures. Bert Fegg fucked around with this message at 03:30 on Feb 11, 2015 |
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