LeoMarr posted:

Hit them with a cute line that focuses on a single point in their profile that isn't close to the start of their wall of texts. Make it an important part of their life. Like if they are becoming a marine biologist notice that achievement indirectly, and engage with them on the topic a little. Try to figure out why their doing it. Remember this is their career so they are comfortable telling you about it, start talking about your own career choices and get them to start asking you about yourself. You don't want to talk too much about yourself but just enough to be borderline arrogant in their eyes. Then let it go from there, never ask any hard questions until they are firmly setup to go on a date. I'll get more into detail when I have an established date setup. The reason for this is because then you know when poo poo does downhill. Either she cancels the date or she bails out. If you have her in the bag. I try to run through as many girls as possible as fast as possible before I just start hittting up girls who just blipped on the radar for a few days. I like to get newer ones so they aren't professional online daters like some women on OKC. Then by the time poo poo goes down hill there's another 5 - 10 girls that are barely getting picked up by non neckbeards so I go hit them up.

LeoMarr posted:

it's kept me getting a steady stream of women for some time now so

Scathach posted:

Pansexuals are just bisexuals that got angry they aren't special snowflakes anymore.

Risky posted:

*I play video games. Yes. And tend to obsess over whatever my current one is. Mass Effect, Skyrim (working on two pretty pimp houses), Fallout 3 and New Vegas, the Bioshock series (thought Infinite was lackluster imo), Dragon Age (Pretty obsessed with Inquisition, by the way), Borderlands 2, the Arkham series (Though they frustrate me all to hell), etc. On a PS3.


Goon dreamgirl right? Talked to her for a while and the conversation would never get past the Fallout series. Would describe in GREAT length what the flaws of New Vegas were. Tried to steer it away a few times. Was not happening.

psyopmonkey2 posted:

Her body cant store fat.

Otisburg posted:

we're intimidated by this heavenly creature's transcendently powerful eyebrow game

LethalGeek posted:

More joys of Portland:

Lutha Mahtin posted:

meetup.com? people make groups on there for different hobbies and stuff. or you could join a local civic organization or something

YeahTubaMike posted:

getting messages that just say "Hey" or "How r u" is really annoying and bothersome, like, at least put in a minimal amount of effort to ask me about something on my profile or tell me a little bit about yourself

revdrkevind posted:

You're assuming that what people put on their profile has anything to do with what they're actually looking for. Rookie mistake.

If you're looking for a one-night stand, but with classy girls, you wouldn't check one night stands because the type of girl you're looking for won't respond to men who are so vulgar as to say they want one night stands. That's how you get one night stands. They won't have one night stands checked on their profile either, that's how they let you know they're a classy girl who is totally into that. I don't think I'm even kidding anymore.


Similar thing. I know lots of people who say that they will not reply to someone at a bar/datingsite/etc unless they say, "hello" first. I know plenty of other people that will throw a drink in that person's face and call them a creep.

TLDR people don't know what the gently caress they want with dating. Online is no exception.


It didn't used to be this way. Back in my day (shakes fist) you generally opened up with small talk even if you were just going to cyberfuck and jerk off. The problem seems to be that now, especially with online dating, you're competing with Reddit for the person's time.

To be fair yes there's a lot of lovely people who play the numbers game and mass spam everyone with one word. Or, the much-sought-after guy who messages you and says only the sentence, "I have never been with a man before." I'll take "hello" any day. It's just that when people open with "hi", if you message them and say "hi" back, they will probably follow up with "hello". And it doesn't ever really take off from there.

notZaar posted:

Uh if that was true you'd be getting messages from chicks not dudes you dumb homo.

Business Gorillas posted:

Had this chat with someone.

- what's your favorite thing about satan? I'm also a fan of satan.
- abortions.

Business Gorillas posted:

"have a friendzoned chubby dude who i know is in love with me and will judge you incessantly and try to undermine our relationship at every turn"

RabbitWizard posted:

I dunno, it still sounds like mental illness that gets some guys hot for other guys, not a legit attraction to their bodies.

paco650 posted:

Approximately 0% of the Asian girls I know IRL enjoy anime or have even watched a non-Cartoon Network anime in the last decade or longer. The ones I find on OKC and other place that do enjoy it are insufferable nerd queen bees because weebs worship the ground they walk on and I bet it's hard to turn down that kind of unwavering adulation and deference.

The whole "women don't date Asian men" thing seems weird though. Why is that?

Shumagorath posted:

calvus posted:

Not sure why but a lot of black people seem really into anime

Profondo Rosso posted:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0DW31upNEEg

cyberia posted:

Cuckoo posted:

You certainly didn't say anything wrong. She may have gotten other messages at the same time and someone else piqued her interest more.

Then again if she's "anti social" she may have been turned off at the mention of drinking, which honestly if you do like to drink and she's that against it you dodged a bullet.