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About 90% of the messages I've ever got from women are just "Hi" or "hey there", which kinda makes me not want to message them even if I like their profile because c'mon, don't you have anything interesting to say? Then again there's always the girl who copied and pasted her OKcupid profile from her Fetlife profile - I know this because her OKC profile had kept the phrase "Some of my Vanilla interests are..." which tipped me off, and a quick google search later revealed that she was really, really into getting pissed on and enjoyed being a 'little' to her 'daddy dom'. Google those terms if you're in need of an emetic. e: Having an OKC profile with a face pic and a Fetlife profile detailing all sorts of hosed up poo poo with the same profile name is being super good at life.
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# ¿ Feb 9, 2015 22:38 |
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# ¿ May 17, 2024 23:46 |
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My self-summary Alright cunts let’s do this. 1. Don’t message me first 2. Don’t message me first 3. For any reason 4. I will never reply to anyone who ignores what I’m saying and I will block them immediately without reading said message. 5. I WILL NEVER REPLY IF YOU MESSAGE ME FIRST 6. There is literally nothing you can do about this. 7. Messaging me will only serve to mildly annoy. 8. MOVE IT ALONG. 9. PLEASE AND THANK YOU. If I have messaged you though, this might be of interest. It’s my profile! Wow! What? Unheard of! These are some things I’ve done with life lately: An arts degree majoring in history and French, and I lived in France for almost a year. I spent last year studying media and now I work part time for a student production house. I take improv classes and Beyoncé dance classes. I like to read and I’m in some book clubs. I’m still figuring out what I like sexually. I’m not great at being dominant, but I want to be. Workin on it. I guess it should go without saying but I try to be constantly mindful of consent always due to its massive loving importance. I like feminism, comedy, Amy Poehler and all of the food. I’m polyamorous, although admittedly I haven’t really read into it. I’m pretty sure it’s the right term for me. Basically what I want to say is that I don’t like being monogamous, but that doesn’t mean I don’t have feelings for people. KAY. I’m not sure what else is helpful information. I think I’m nice and quite approachable (in life, obviously not on okcupid). I will probably offer you a cup of tea and share my tim tams with you. I super don't care about sports. I am not remotely cool. You should message me if Only if I've messaged you. If I messaged you and you don’t like my profile, please don’t respond explaining why I’m wrong about things. Just don’t reply. I don’t want to argue. I’m really only interested in talking to people who like me. In the context of a DATING site I think that makes plenty of sense.
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# ¿ Feb 15, 2015 02:25 |
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Sheep-Goats posted:Without a picture you don't know that. Homely nerdish chick #573723 with pimples on her chin, thick-rimmed glasses, and enough of a chin/manhands in her main picture to make you wonder.
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# ¿ Feb 15, 2015 03:58 |
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# ¿ Feb 16, 2015 22:52 |
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TheMostFrench posted:You hosed a spider hth I believe they prefer to be called Arachnid-Americans.
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# ¿ Feb 19, 2015 10:04 |
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Choco1980 posted:My cousin is one of those types of girls. Like, her dad's the richest person in the family and she constantly does things with that money and throws it in faces. Like no lie, this was a conversation at thanksgiving: No joke, most tedious date I've had in my entire life was with a travel agent. Not because she went on and on about her own travel (which her position certainly afforded her given the discounts she could wrangle), but because she went on and on and on about the travel that she had arranged for other people. It was the Coffee Date of Pure Vicarious Bragging that was always at least one degree separated from anything interesting about her as a person, and every single effort to deflect the conversation elsewhere was masterfully deflected into another spiel about her work and how good she was at arranging a good time for others.
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# ¿ Feb 21, 2015 01:56 |
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opus111 posted:Yeah but how were her titz Not worth the time, effort, and boredom. Also she mentioned being sarcastic and had a photo of her hugging a tiger in her profile so welcome to the stopped clock being correct twice a day of goon dating advice.
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# ¿ Feb 21, 2015 02:09 |
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Chomp8645 posted:All I'm saying is that's it better than a safe, boring profile in my book. I'll take a little tryharding quirkiness over "loves to laugh, looking for my partner in crime, 'enjoys hiking', I have a kid and he is my world" profile #1000. I guarantee you that this person spends all of her social time around other people desperately trying to be The Wackiest oval office In The Room, and that by the 50th time she interrupts a natural lull in conversation by shouting "SPORKS! SPORKS! I ARE TEH PENGUIN OF DOOOOOM" or loving meowing you'll want to hit her with a brick.
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# ¿ Feb 23, 2015 22:45 |
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Honestly "elusive nerd girl" was red flag enough because you know that she's had her ego puffed up by an array of nerdy sadfats orbiting her.
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# ¿ Feb 23, 2015 23:05 |
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quote:About me
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# ¿ Feb 26, 2015 22:21 |
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Libelous Slander posted:General Bullshit › okcupid.txt: it's just horse girls all the way down Pro tip: if you see a girl and she mentions liking horses or owning horses or there's a picture of her on a horse, run. Run as far and fast as you can. Pon de Bundy posted:
Half of her 'writings' are straight-up daddy-daughter incest stories, which gives the third sentence of her profile context.
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# ¿ Feb 26, 2015 22:38 |
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LethalGeek posted:Fetish or untreated trauma you decide! You want to read one of her stories, you say? quote:
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# ¿ Feb 27, 2015 13:39 |
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"I can't stand drama and don't have any time for people who get involved in it" *Mask falls off revealing a swirling vortex of self-destructive tendencies and interpersonal social retardation*
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# ¿ Mar 2, 2015 10:24 |
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quote:About What?
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# ¿ Mar 29, 2015 05:12 |
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Note to self: always look for a body shot. Because apparently the 'athletic body type' of a 'gym junkie' shares real estate on a venn diagram with 'ewok'.
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# ¿ Apr 6, 2015 02:24 |
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"I have a past, but then again so does everybody." Translation: RUN
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# ¿ Apr 6, 2015 04:46 |
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About Me love cooking, love to sow patchwork quilts. Love music. I am very open to ghost and crystal I try to meditate. Good job good health. Not a crack head. Travel the world First Date If he turns up
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# ¿ Apr 7, 2015 15:41 |
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LeoMarr posted:Once again trapped by a good looking face shot, gently caress she just added a new pic and she is fat as gently caress
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# ¿ Apr 7, 2015 15:48 |
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So I got a message from out of the blue...quote:From your photos. ..you seem very strong!! Im sure you give excellent hugs Well this looks promising. Hmm, no details on her profile, but she looks cute, might be worth a look, hey let's have a look at her answered questions... Welp.
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# ¿ Apr 11, 2015 00:09 |
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Hood Ornament posted:She wants you to hug the white power right into her, daily. Is it too late to change my cock's name by deed poll to "the white power"?
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# ¿ Apr 11, 2015 00:44 |
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macky2dope posted:hi guys i've been dating a girl for almost six months and i met her on the internet AMA When are you flying over to meet her for the first time?
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# ¿ Apr 23, 2015 22:53 |
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Unsolicited initial message that a friend received:quote:My Modest But A Tad Blunt Proposal IV (one (in)decent proposal deserves another!)
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# ¿ May 2, 2015 09:32 |
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More 1st-time messages, this time with replies:Him posted:Did you know they actually pay for sperm donors now? To think I've probably lost $270 to your pictures over the last few weeks. When we go out you're paying for dinner. Her posted:Wow. You're super creepy. You should try not being super creepy. Him posted:In what way was that creepy? Your family would consider it divine intervention if a man as well rounded as I ever fell into your hands. Or how about what happens when someone gets caught using a copy-paste opener: Him posted:You hunger for and run towards those experiences in life that are intense where you have to push yourself hard. Finding those moments sweeps you away with great passion and feel fully alive. Her posted:You send copy-paste emails to people on okcupid because you haven't an original thought in your head. Him posted:Sorry, I had to read the link and I am on my slow computer and not one of the tablets. I see no relationship. Fact one, I create NEW all the time. Fact two, I meet many women offline and online. Fact three, you are 1% of the population that I encounter. Whatever I would write that made contact with you would have caused the same reaction, because you are NOT physically attracted to me. The result is the creation of a cognitive DISCOUNTING CUE. What would you do in my place if 1% of a population moved away from you? How much of your day would that concern you? Her posted:u mad Him posted:YES, my business partner did not call at 9:00 am and he did not complete an important task on the agreed upon time table. Her posted:Ah, so this is the bit where you deflect regarding how you just wrote a 300+ word, multi-paragraph diatribe about how totally not perturbed about being seen through you feel, by intimating that something else is the cause. Him posted:Maybe, I have a poor attention span. 1st one is just awkward, 2nd looks to be unmedicated.
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# ¿ May 2, 2015 12:29 |
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HerStuddMuffin posted:The copy-paste one reads like something procedurally generated by a poorly coded flirting algorithm, if that even exists. Did a human write it? They fail the Turing test. You have to remember that this isn't an attempt at communication, this is an incantation. Some level-20 pussy conjurer has told a PUA community that these words impart a +31% bonus to Opening Statement when attempting to aggro an HB8, and he's swallowed it hook, line, and sinker.
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# ¿ May 2, 2015 23:43 |
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# ¿ May 6, 2015 23:59 |
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some massive, bearded, lumberjacky powerlifter posted:My self-summary
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# ¿ May 24, 2015 05:09 |
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quote:My self-summary Oil up, fellas. (That's a HARD 36 years.)
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# ¿ Jun 4, 2015 13:49 |
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So what's the phrase on a profile that makes you most want to hammer the "hide" button like no tomorrow? I'm tossing up between "As a functioning alcoholic..." and "...looking for a daddy dom to feed me cummies."
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# ¿ Jun 7, 2015 00:45 |
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toggle posted:gulp down these cummies baby girl ~That feel when you ask daddy to feed you cummies and he gives you poopies instead~ :3 I think that the only reason dd/lg haven't done the rounds as much as furries MRAs and bronies on SA is that it's awfully hard to stare into that kind of howling void to gather enough material to mock before you get the urge to eat a bullet.
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# ¿ Jun 7, 2015 02:34 |
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TheSpiritFox posted:
quote:So this is a minor rant. Only because im somewhat hurt by this event. quote:
quote:No cummies for you tonight kitten now straight to bed with you quote:“Only good girls get cummies. Have you been a good girl, pumpkin?” His finger teased, making sure her attention was right between her legs. Not going back again. Seen too much. The irony of reading this poo poo making me want to crawl into a foetal position is positively Nietzschean.
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# ¿ Jun 8, 2015 00:06 |
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You forgot "uses the word 'simple' to describe herself as if that's a positive trait".
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# ¿ Jun 8, 2015 11:56 |
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Shirley Crabtree posted:perhaps, thats the beauty of the dying relative get-out you cant be called out on it, im cynical because its been used on me about three times in the past and each time its been when ive arranged a date way too soon before getting to know the person and when theres been barely any contact inbetween, i suspect its like a panic thing i.e. oh poo poo i dont know this person, my dad is dead! either that or i am basically the grim reaper What's your definition of 'too soon' regarding arranging a date? If anything, endlessly messaging back and forth is more of a hindrance. There's only so well that you can get to know someone by chatting through a computer screen, and doing so for extended periods gets tiresome. Breetai fucked around with this message at 23:43 on Jun 9, 2015 |
# ¿ Jun 9, 2015 23:40 |
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Ripoff posted:I don't know what the gently caress I'm doing on okcupid because the more I use it the more I'm convinced it's like some ironic twitter performance art stuff. I clicked on the "Activity" link this morning and saw a woman that was telling anyone who wants to get married that "[she's] your girl" and in the literal next sentence states that she's pregnant. It's an algorithm. If(children>0, "Are my world"=TRUE, "")
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# ¿ Jun 11, 2015 14:24 |
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More of a friend of mine's incoming messages. How do I off-script? (Youtube link is this.)
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# ¿ Jun 13, 2015 03:21 |
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# ¿ Jun 14, 2015 14:08 |
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quote:My self-summary
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# ¿ Jun 18, 2015 12:58 |
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There's something off about her. You can see the crazy radiating out of her.
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# ¿ Jun 18, 2015 14:43 |
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Lawman 0 posted:Are nurses fun to date y/n? They pretty much universally run to fat after they hit 30 because their lovely schedule drives them to eat lovely food and stress eat with no time/energy for regular exercise, and at some point or other they will get a lifelong hip, shoulder, or back injury either lifting a hyperobese patient or trying to catch a falling granny who dies anyway. e: who wants to see a hard 39? She's 39 years young and a fan of Motley Crue. Go get her, boys, Breetai fucked around with this message at 00:22 on Jun 28, 2015 |
# ¿ Jun 28, 2015 00:20 |
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notZaar posted:What's a "computer janitor"? A lot of goons ostensibly are super proud of their STEM degrees and majors in computer programming, but in fact spend their days helping middle managers use excel or octogenarians install virus scanners.
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# ¿ Jun 28, 2015 04:27 |
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# ¿ May 17, 2024 23:46 |
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So how'd the exchange go after that? I've never met that particular brand of clingy before, and was wondering how you extricated yourself. Did she realise how nuts she sounded, or react badly to the shutdown?
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# ¿ Jun 28, 2015 23:49 |