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Here's the details: I'm 27 years old, male, USMC veteran. I went on a Tinder date last October, and met my current girlfriend. When we met, she just finished her MFA and was going to move to Europe. Instead, we grew close, and she moved in, within a few weeks of knowing each other (Mistake #1). Because she lived with me, my whole life changed: I no longer kept a strict, healthy diet, and my exercise regime changed dramatically. Since then (going on a about 9 months) I haven't felt the same autonomy in my life. Instead I feel weighed down. Next problem: her age. She is 15 years older than me, and I feel.we are on different paths. All I am interested in is finishing college, she wants to travel. Because of her age, she cannot exercise and be as healthy as I want her to be. She has only gained weight since being here. As well my motivation has dropped for the things I love: exercise and fitness. She cannot even jog, and her lack of physical ability drives me insane. For myself, I am still in college. All I care about is finishing and starting my career. She is more interested in travelling. She often talks about the future and kids...But honestly, I don't see her as a viable mate for the future. I want to have my own blood children, not adopt. Also, I don't want to have sex with her anymore. I do not find her attractive. I am vain and find looks important. She does not. I am only 27, and unhappy with this relationship. I have talked to her multiple times and almost broke up (4 times). But I just feel so bad because she genuinely loves me. I know I should let her go, but at times I do enjoy her. But when I think of my future, it doesn't include her. There are still many things I want to do and accomplish, and I can't because she cannot physically... I will keep yal updated. I may have to end it tomorrow. It will suck, it will hurt and I will be free...
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Jul 2, 2015 06:42
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Move this to E/N Rip the bandaid off Move on.
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Jul 2, 2015 06:50
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