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Comfy Fleece Sweater
Apr 2, 2013

You see, but you do not observe.

BottledBodhisvata posted:

I think these people want to leave in some post-monogamy society but in truth, humans just want somebody to care for them and stand with them and share the beauty of love with them and I don't think these people really get it.

Like, love is the most cruel and most kind of all emotions, and it can make you do terrible and wonderful things and it can inspire you and destroy you. It isn't something to be given out lightly, nor thrown away readily. If I've learned anything about love, it is this.

Thas beautiful man

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phasmid
Jan 16, 2015

Booty Shaker
SILENT MAJORITY

ArbitraryC posted:

Something to do with spontaneous reactions because they don't stop until they hit rock bottom.

It might work in both senses, because spontaneity is the opposite of "having a plan and raising your children is a safe, stable environment, as opposed to an actual stable where the studs are all young men you met on collarthis.com."

Straight up, people who have kids just RUIN so many good parties.

BottledBodhisvata posted:

I think these people want to leave in some post-monogamy society but in truth, humans just want somebody to care for them and stand with them and share the beauty of love with them and I don't think these people really get it.

Like, love is the most cruel and most kind of all emotions, and it can make you do terrible and wonderful things and it can inspire you and destroy you. It isn't something to be given out lightly, nor thrown away readily. If I've learned anything about love, it is this.

Love is relative. Relative to time spent, space apart, and hate. Pure, confluent hate.

Both have their place, I s'pose.

fuck the ROW
Aug 29, 2008

by zen death robot

Nirvikalpa posted:

What kind of sex life do you think Clochette has

spicy pepperoni :D

edit: maybe cheese crust supreme

Stinky_Pete
Aug 16, 2015

Stinkier than your average bear
Lipstick Apathy
TIL autonomy means cutting your hair so you look like you suffer from mange, and leasing companies don't recognize roommates' total income unless they're married, which explains all those sham marriages I had to get in to qualify for a 2br/2ba.

Stinky_Pete fucked around with this message at 20:59 on Jan 5, 2016

Nirvikalpa
Aug 20, 2012

by Fluffdaddy

It is a Work In Progress. I just need to get together with the other guy to have an eiffel tower.

I saw him today and it turns out he is NOT into fat bossy polyamorous girls. Shame. He also laughed when i talked about an ethics professor raping a diaper making GBS threads retard. Maybe that's what he actually wants to do.

Do you guys think polyamory could work if three people are all loving each other?

loquacius
Oct 21, 2008

Depends on the terms of the agreement and the personality/neuroses of the three people involved, but yeah personally I see no reason why a closed system consisting of three people instead of two couldn't work just fine as long as everyone involved is fully on board and nobody gets squeezed out

as opposed to that guy whose wife stopped loving him in favor of repeatedly loving her ex, and got him to keep paying rent for the both of them by telling him they were polyamorous now and he was oppressing her if he said otherwise

fuck the ROW
Aug 29, 2008

by zen death robot

Nirvikalpa posted:

It is a Work In Progress. I just need to get together with the other guy to have an eiffel tower.


can someone please tell me what this is!!!

Sham bam bamina!
Nov 6, 2012

ƨtupid cat

gently caress the ROW posted:

can someone please tell me what this is!!!
there is a dictionary, of "urban" slang terms, taht may be of assistance :)

phasmid
Jan 16, 2015

Booty Shaker
SILENT MAJORITY

loquacius posted:

Depends on the terms of the agreement and the personality/neuroses of the three people involved, but yeah personally I see no reason why a closed system consisting of three people instead of two couldn't work just fine as long as everyone involved is fully on board and nobody gets squeezed out

as opposed to that guy whose wife stopped loving him in favor of repeatedly loving her ex, and got him to keep paying rent for the both of them by telling him they were polyamorous now and he was oppressing her if he said otherwise

Yeah, but they often have kids which means one of them isn't a donor and...naw. That's approaching creepiness. And the more people their little circle has, the creepier that gets. Guess I sound like an uptight christian republican, but I've met these people and while they can be chill and cool, their living situation is such that you don't really want to hang out at their houses. My opinion.

Dapper_Swindler
Feb 14, 2012

Im glad my instant dislike in you has been validated again and again.

Don Tacorleone posted:

I mean most people take it somewhat more seriously, i.e. Not hiring a dungeon master to marry them reading quotes from a videogames book

Nice hug at the end instead of a kiss like most humans do

yeah thats the thing, it just feels way too nerdy and "PC" the reading from the valve book is weird too. and you can kiss your partner at a wedding you sad gently caress, you arnt taking her privledge. then again my friend has joked about doing a public GoT style wedding (with all the northern marrage rights) Possibly ending with a fake massacre. but that would be after a private solemn wedding ceremony.

loquacius
Oct 21, 2008

Dapper_Swindler posted:

and you can kiss your partner at a wedding you sad gently caress, you arnt taking her privledge.

I'm not sure whether the you-may-hug-the-bride thing was because of Politics or just a sadbrains thing, like "kissing is a sex task and I can't let my parents see me do a sex task or I won't be able to perform in bed later, bad touch bad touch :ohdear:"

not that that's any better really

Captain Yossarian
Feb 24, 2011

All new" Rings of Fire"
Let's all have sex!!

Dapper_Swindler
Feb 14, 2012

Im glad my instant dislike in you has been validated again and again.

loquacius posted:

I'm not sure whether the you-may-hug-the-bride thing was because of Politics or just a sadbrains thing, like "kissing is a sex task and I can't let my parents see me do a sex task or I won't be able to perform in bed later, bad touch bad touch :ohdear:"

not that that's any better really

but thats more of an evangelical/conservative religious thing. and seeing that the ceremony wasnt religious at all, its probaly just he being the saddest excuse for a male in history. I am not even one of those dipshits who believes that hypermasculanism is good thing. its just this guy is loving pathetic. much like alot of these sadbrain twitter/tumblr lefty dudes. they are honestly the new "nice guy"

damn horror queefs
Oct 14, 2005

say hello
say hello to the man in the elevator

Nirvikalpa posted:

What kind of sex life do you think Clochette has

Humpy pon de floor

loquacius
Oct 21, 2008

Dapper_Swindler posted:

but thats more of an evangelical/conservative religious thing.

Not necessarily. People can be repressed for any number of reasons. Sadbrains is as likely a culprit here as politics. The difference is that if it was for traditionalist (Christian) reasons he'd nut up and kiss his bride at their wedding because that's what his parents did.

Kung Food
Dec 11, 2006

PORN WIZARD

Dapper_Swindler posted:

yeah thats the thing, it just feels way too nerdy and "PC" the reading from the valve book is weird too. and you can kiss your partner at a wedding you sad gently caress, you arnt taking her privledge. then again my friend has joked about doing a public GoT style wedding (with all the northern marrage rights) Possibly ending with a fake massacre. but that would be after a private solemn wedding ceremony.

Have it end with him dying from poison.

Dapper_Swindler
Feb 14, 2012

Im glad my instant dislike in you has been validated again and again.

Kung Food posted:

Have it end with him dying from poison.

maybe. he is more of a robb then a joffery.

loquacius
Oct 21, 2008

Dapper_Swindler posted:

maybe. he is more of a robb then a joffery.

Robb died at his uncle's wedding, not his own wedding
:goonsay:

Adventure Pigeon
Nov 8, 2005

I am a master storyteller.

bloodysabbath posted:

The best part is the title - nobody "needs to know about" your ridiculous arrangement that will lead to either tears, murder, suicide, or some combo of all three.

i need to know about it to provide context for that inevitable tears-murder-suicide article down the road.

Dapper_Swindler
Feb 14, 2012

Im glad my instant dislike in you has been validated again and again.

loquacius posted:

Robb died at his uncle's wedding, not his own wedding
:goonsay:

true.

phasmid
Jan 16, 2015

Booty Shaker
SILENT MAJORITY
It makes sense that a nonmonogamy thread would devolve into GoT refs. For my money, I would like to see the Sandsnakes show up at a wedding. You know they're freaky, but that's just their culture.

Suck it, northern prude.s

Groovelord Neato
Dec 6, 2014


explain to me the point of getting married if you're gonna date/gently caress other people.

Deceitful Penguin
Feb 16, 2011

G-Mach posted:

Who is oppressed in Iceland?
Until the mebbe 80s/90s pretty much anyone that wasn't a hetero christian white. Most of the progressive poo poo people drool over about Iceland is less than a generation old.

Still sucks to be: Anything other than white, non-European and possibly trans? (There's like less than 30 of them in the country so I don't really get into that issue deeply)

Groovelord Neato posted:

explain to me the point of getting married if you're gonna date/gently caress other people.
The benefits?

Comfy Fleece Sweater
Apr 2, 2013

You see, but you do not observe.

Groovelord Neato posted:

explain to me the point of getting married if you're gonna date/gently caress other people.

How else can you possibly be cucked?

InsanityIsCrazy
Jan 25, 2003

by Lowtax

Captain Yossarian posted:

Let's all have sex!!

ew

Groovelord Neato
Dec 6, 2014



you're scamming the taxpayers in this case.

Stultus Maximus
Dec 21, 2009

USPOL May

Groovelord Neato posted:

explain to me the point of getting married if you're gonna date/gently caress other people.

Guaranteed boning if you strike out at the bar/concert/burning man.

Nirvikalpa
Aug 20, 2012

by Fluffdaddy

gently caress the ROW posted:

can someone please tell me what this is!!!

I will have one penis in my mouth and the other in my vajayjay

boom boom boom
Jun 28, 2012

by Shine

Nirvikalpa posted:

I will have one penis in my mouth and the other in my vajayjay

How does he smell?

Stultus Maximus
Dec 21, 2009

USPOL May

Nirvikalpa posted:

I will have one penis in my mouth and the other in my vajayjay

Which where?

mclast
Nov 12, 2008

catchphrase over

BottledBodhisvata posted:

I think these people want to leave in some post-monogamy society but in truth, humans just want somebody to care for them and stand with them and share the beauty of love with them and I don't think these people really get it.

Like, love is the most cruel and most kind of all emotions, and it can make you do terrible and wonderful things and it can inspire you and destroy you. It isn't something to be given out lightly, nor thrown away readily. If I've learned anything about love, it is this.

dunno if i "get" DGSW's new gimmick but i'm willing to see where this goes

Uncle Wemus
Mar 4, 2004

Dapper_Swindler posted:

oh jim stearling. he is a fat cuck too.



Mx?

The exact same trash would be more interesting if the race or gender changed hmm yase

G-Mach
Feb 6, 2011

Deceitful Penguin posted:

Until the mebbe 80s/90s pretty much anyone that wasn't a hetero christian white. Most of the progressive poo poo people drool over about Iceland is less than a generation old.

Still sucks to be: Anything other than white, non-European and possibly trans? (There's like less than 30 of them in the country so I don't really get into that issue deeply)
The benefits?

Who would be dumb enough to willingly move to Iceland?

Maoist Pussy
Feb 12, 2014

by Lowtax
Gaming.

Nirvikalpa
Aug 20, 2012

by Fluffdaddy

boom boom boom posted:

How does he smell?

he smells fine but i think my vag is a little stinky


idk maybe we'll do DP insteaed

radical non monogamy for everyone

loquacius
Oct 21, 2008

Nirvikalpa posted:

he smells fine but i think my vag is a little stinky


idk maybe we'll do DP insteaed

radical non monogamy for everyone

uhhh did you not read the OP

threeways simply aren't RADICAL enough to really challenge the patriarchy, you need more buzzwords

like that couple where one of them makes a lot of friends, doesn't gently caress them, calls it love, and the other one is totally cool with it because gently caress the patriarchy :c00l:

NieR Occomata
Jan 18, 2009

Glory to Mankind.

loquacius posted:

as opposed to that guy whose wife stopped loving him in favor of repeatedly loving her ex, and got him to keep paying rent for the both of them by telling him they were polyamorous now and he was oppressing her if he said otherwise

who was this

loquacius
Oct 21, 2008

Toxxupation posted:

who was this

I think it was a goon but I tried to do a search and it turns out I don't remember enough proper nouns

Maoist Pussy
Feb 12, 2014

by Lowtax
Radical Ways People Do Non-Monogamy That You Need to Know About:

No. 8: It isn't my job to educate you

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LethalGeek
Nov 4, 2009

The other way you know polywhatever is full of nerds like BDSM is how much stupid categorizing they do. You got your primary, and then your secondaries, FWB/gently caress buddies, and then I remember hearing something about a metamour? There's others Im forgetting because that is well beyond my care capacity. Throw in the regular tumblr type gender & sexuality terms and you can really string together some adjectives when talking about someone.

Trying to tell them that other people just hang out and sometimes gently caress cause it's fun almost angers them, but they can't judge so they bite their tongue.

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