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Moridin920
Nov 15, 2007

by FactsAreUseless

Don Tacorleone posted:

The real issue in modern times is rich vs poor and the class divide but keep crying about genders

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Moridin920
Nov 15, 2007

by FactsAreUseless

Shizmo posted:

sup sci fi

what continent are you living on these days?

back in CA for good

hit me up for a beer or something? I'll be honest idk who you are just based on the username but obv we know each other haha

Moridin920
Nov 15, 2007

by FactsAreUseless
there's some nutty women that call themselves feminists too it's not like they make that up whole cloth

imo it's dumb to judge an entire movement based on the actions of some fringe elements though but whatevs

Moridin920
Nov 15, 2007

by FactsAreUseless

Shizmo posted:

chugged a bottle of gross warm whiskey and drove an hour to sonic with you. member meow?

haha gently caress yeah it's been a long rear end time man

don't really wanna post my number but if you're still in contact with Evan he can give it to you (or just hit me up on facebook)

Moridin920
Nov 15, 2007

by FactsAreUseless

Gammatron 64 posted:

When Jezebel, everydayfeminism, tumblr and buzzfeed are the face of your movement you need a serious re-branding.

I keep hearing people talking about 'fringe elements' but when the fringe elements are all I ever see, third wave feminism really comes off as a movement of extremists. These moderate feminists people keep mentioning certainly aren't the ones writing all the blogs and thinkpieces.

Some of this def has to be confirmation bias and hanging out on the internet too much bc when you say 'modern feminist' I'm thinking Oprah or Ellen Degeneres or Bell Hooks or even Emma Watson not a bunch of random clickbait bullshit that made me mad.

Sorry but if you're only looking for fringe then of course that's all you're going to notice. Here are some modern feminist authors.

Like bro Jezebel is a loving shock mag and everyone knows it who seriously thinks it is any kind of face of a movement other than people who just want to talk poo poo on feminism?

Moridin920 fucked around with this message at 21:00 on Aug 12, 2016

Moridin920
Nov 15, 2007

by FactsAreUseless

Gammatron 64 posted:

I wish that instead of being angry and hateful, people were nice to each other and got along.

I mean fair enough but I'm just a regular schmoe and I'm pretty much exposed to none of that at all unless I'm in an SA thread about 'look at these dumbos.' It's gotta be somewhat confirmation bias that's all I'm saying.

Gammatron 64 posted:

In fact, these days the left is becoming almost as poisoned as the right and I really feel like the progressives of the younger generation have really lost their way

I agree with that though in a general sense

Moridin920
Nov 15, 2007

by FactsAreUseless

ArbitraryC posted:

While i agree with you i have to admit i don't see people sharing bell hooks stuff on facebook, it's all sound and fury garbage from the aforementioned "shock mags".

facebook is garbage

Moridin920
Nov 15, 2007

by FactsAreUseless

Rutibex posted:

actually, head feminist Andrea Dworkin

"head feminist" according to who because idk who the gently caress that is and I googled the name and it's just some woman with a bachelor's in English who died over a decade ago. Most known for defending porn I guess?

see what I mean lol it's just people creating a strawman and then getting mad about it

like my dude "we can just clone women forever and men will die off" is obviously the position of a person nuttier than Dale Gribble why would you even give that the time of day

Moridin920 fucked around with this message at 18:16 on Aug 13, 2016

Moridin920
Nov 15, 2007

by FactsAreUseless

Salem Saberhagen posted:

As a feminist though, I don't think that's a very outlandish idea. I consider it a pretty good overall goal for humanity. It's not like we are going to extinguish all living men but rather phase them out over time. I think they are still very useful now. Definitely required equipment. but I don't feel the far future has any real need for them.

Ok here's the fatal flaw with your plan even aside from genetic drift and DNA degrading (let's say we figure a solution to that out):

you're assuming women are somehow in 100% control of cloning and that only women will get cloned and that as a result men will die out when there's absolutely no indication that it won't just be both sexes cloning themselves

also prove that people are going to suddenly not want to gently caress just bc cloning exists.



also this 'phase them out' over time poo poo is exactly the adversarial mentality that feeds nutter men who can then point to you and go 'see she wants to wipe men out' and justify their nuttiness

also also the far future has no needs at all it isn't a sentient thing that cares. Humans could wipe themselves out in a nuclear holocaust tomorrow and 'the future' will be fine without any of us.

Moridin920
Nov 15, 2007

by FactsAreUseless
lol you think Atom's glory can be denied? we will all be Divided

heretic

Moridin920
Nov 15, 2007

by FactsAreUseless
turns out women are just dumb humans like men are

idk why anyone on any side of the argument can't get that through their head. yeah there's minor biological differences but we're still all essentially the same dumb grey matter on the inside

in fact it's pretty sexist to idealize women and act like they aren't capable of the same poo poo men are

Moridin920
Nov 15, 2007

by FactsAreUseless

Salem Saberhagen posted:

Thanks for the biotruth laden mansplanation.
(Side note mansplanation is actually in my phones dictionary).

I need feminism because it's the future of huwomanity.

how is it biotruth laden when the entire point of it is that biotruths stuff is dumb?

just let the Glow into your heart imo Atom's love will scour you clean

Moridin920
Nov 15, 2007

by FactsAreUseless
in a world of global capitalism the only true measure of power is a group's ability to direct the flow of capital and everything else is ultimately a secondary distraction



honk honk

Moridin920
Nov 15, 2007

by FactsAreUseless

Gammatron 64 posted:

That, plus feminists have kind of a bad reputation that they sorta bring upon themselves. I guess a lot of people don't really understand how saying they love to drink male tears, all sex is rape and getting violently angry and offended at everything might be off-putting to outsiders

well, again, if all you pay attention to is dumb internet poo poo then sure

Moridin920
Nov 15, 2007

by FactsAreUseless

8-Bit Scholar posted:

Yes, but what's to prevent that from continuing to happen? Again, what IS to stop a guy from dressing up in women's clothing and creeping under that excuse? That's not a hysterical concern, is it?

lol gently caress yeah it is

who cares about bathroom you weirdos it's already illegal to be a weirdo sexual predator creep in a bathroom why does there need to be special protection for icked out manly men? as if anyone is trying to scope your tiny dil anyway


quote:

For that matter, is it REALLY healthy to stick a prepubescent boy full of hormones, have them surgically altered so they can enter puberty "as a girl"? Is that...does that sound even remotely disturbing to you?

that's prolly a bad idea though






honk honk

Moridin920
Nov 15, 2007

by FactsAreUseless

8-Bit Scholar posted:

Because if you establish a legal "defense" to being a weirdo sexual predator creep, then weirdo sexual predator creeps will attempt to and--knowing how litigious we are--succeed in doing just that. This is America, after all.

yeah pretty sure being trans doesn't suddenly give you license to sexually harass people

Gammatron 64 posted:

You say that Jezebel, Everydayfeminism and Buzzfeed are not the face of the movement, but what happens when they're the loudest, most obnoxious and well-known parts?

But they're not loving nobody I know irl even knows what those are let alone takes their cues from them. Sorry but some dumb internet poo poo just is dumb internet poo poo.

You guys are like panicked grandparents on Facebook forwarding dumb panic emails.

Gammatron 64 posted:

When that kind of feminism becomes more popular than say, academic, moderate feminism, which becomes the true face of feminism?

When what people who think women should be cloned and eradicate men are the true face of feminism in academic moderate circles? Do you really think that's a possibility my dogs

Moridin920
Nov 15, 2007

by FactsAreUseless

Applewhite posted:

It's never been illegal for a male identifying male to use a ladies' room any tiime he wants, it's just highly discouraged by social convention.

eh that's not quite as cut and dry as you think it is

Moridin920
Nov 15, 2007

by FactsAreUseless

8-Bit Scholar posted:

Yes, 100 percent, and precisely my point.

then educate yourself because you foolios are wrong when you say that

Moridin920
Nov 15, 2007

by FactsAreUseless
it varies wildly state by state and municipality by municipality dumbos

Moridin920
Nov 15, 2007

by FactsAreUseless

Applewhite posted:

Sorry pls post the bathroom law.

Uh okay. If I own a building and then I am allowed to set the rules/protocols within the scope of the law for it and if you violate those I am allowed to call the police and have you arrested for trespassing or disorderly conduct. According to my building rules, men aren't allowed in women's restrooms except the night crew janitors.

There you go, a situation where it is illegal for a male to use a women's restroom. If there are no laws to say otherwise, I'm perfectly within my rights as the building owner to do this.

Moridin920
Nov 15, 2007

by FactsAreUseless

Applewhite posted:

Yeah ok sounds perfectly reasonable. That shouldn't be changed?

If you specifically codify in trans bathroom or non-discriminatory bathroom stuff then I as the building owner can't say 'you're not really a woman, get out of the women's bathroom or I'll call the police.'

As it stands now, I am able to in states where those laws don't exist.


8-Bit Scholar posted:

That's not a law and he wasn't asking for a hypothetical you fuckman.

where's i said come in i want some real answers

It's not a law that a private property owner can determine who gets to use his facilities under what circumstances within the scope of the legal code?

I gave you a concrete example of what can happen in a state that says 'eh whatever' and doesn't pass any protections for trans people.

Moridin920
Nov 15, 2007

by FactsAreUseless

and so this isn't true in all situations then and you're just talking out your booty hole:

Applewhite posted:

It's never been illegal for a male identifying male to use a ladies' room any tiime he wants, it's just highly discouraged by social convention.

so it can't hurt to pass some specific protection stuff

Moridin920
Nov 15, 2007

by FactsAreUseless

Applewhite posted:

Ugh. Sorry I guess I should have specified that it's never been explicitly codified into state or federal law who can and can't use what bathrooms. It's been left up to the conscience of the individual proprietor, which is just as it should be.

Your argument was the exact argument used by people back in the day to justify refusing services to black people and other minorities though and it was pretty lovely and dumb



honk honk

Moridin920
Nov 15, 2007

by FactsAreUseless
some dude in CA was just arrested for going into women's stalls and videotaping them somehow idk people are bad

Moridin920
Nov 15, 2007

by FactsAreUseless

Saint Isaias Boner posted:

yeah but claiming to be trans isn't going to cover you for that

nope it won't, that poo poo is illegal regardless

which is why people being shitters in bathrooms isn't really a good reason to not pass pro-trans people laws

Moridin920
Nov 15, 2007

by FactsAreUseless

Applewhite posted:

Except segregation was a law tho?

not talking about jim crow

Heart of Atlanta Motel Inc. v. United States




honk honk

Moridin920
Nov 15, 2007

by FactsAreUseless
actually oppressed people all over the world need to join in one massive movement, not be splintered into ineffectual tiny groups

Moridin920
Nov 15, 2007

by FactsAreUseless

8-Bit Scholar posted:

2. Rushing to embrace transgendered people is a very noble goal, but in our haste I feel our lack of understanding has hit problems that now we can't discuss. I think it's horrifying to give little boys hormone treatments to become "girls" as they reach puberty. I think the surgery itself is barbaric and ineffective,

This is the second time you brought this up which has no relevance or bearing on anything we're talking about now. We agree? But what's your point? People shouldn't dick with pre-puberty kids' genders therefore all trans stuff is not good?

quote:

I think the broad majority of trans people fail to adequately pass by either their standards or society's.

but that's not relevant to either point and it's kinda just transphobic lol

who cares whether you think they pass or not that isn't the fuckin' point HONK HONK

Moridin920 fucked around with this message at 17:17 on Aug 15, 2016

Moridin920
Nov 15, 2007

by FactsAreUseless
Look I'd be for less laws in the bathroom situation but the fact is a large portion of the country are utter assholes to trans people and wig out over the bathroom used so it can't hurt to pass some non-discrimination law. idk why that's so controversial.

it's just like back in the day when people said 'I refuse service to blacks bc they are black' and we had to get a SCOTUS decision to get those shitters to stop being shitters. Yeah IDEALLY you wouldn't need a civil rights act at all but turns out society is not ideal and we had to get one.

Moridin920
Nov 15, 2007

by FactsAreUseless

Applewhite posted:

Whatever I don't think it's a direct analogy.


People can't help but be the race they are but isn't it a central aspect of the transgender narrative that we're free to define our own gender? If so, then that places gender presentation under the realm of conduct, rather than selfhood, and makes a property owner requiring certain bathroom usage rules no more different than requiring a dress code.

it's totally a direct analogy. whether or not they can choose their race vs their gender is immaterial because it isn't your call to make, it's theirs

trying to justify your reasoning by comparing changing gender to a change of clothes is some extremely lol poo poo my man; you're usually smarter than that

Moridin920 fucked around with this message at 17:22 on Aug 15, 2016

Moridin920
Nov 15, 2007

by FactsAreUseless
let's try a different tack: let's say alright I agree let's pass some laws saying men for men's bathrooms and women for women's bathrooms and no funny stuff

how do you enforce such a thing? Just those who don't pass get the cops called and the others roll the hard 6 every time they want to take a piss?

Do you really want to waste taxpayer resources on that? WallyWorld already calls the police out for every minor rear end thing.

Moridin920
Nov 15, 2007

by FactsAreUseless

Applewhite posted:

If someone owns a fancy restaurant and the dress code is black tie for men and evening dress for women, and a very obvious male walks in in an evening dress with all their chest hair poking out of the cleavage window, I don't think it's unreasonable to require them to change regardless of the gender with which that person identifies.


lol are you guys gonna make an argument that isn't based on how gross you find people who don't pass or what?

jfc


revdrkevind posted:

Not that Alexa is without its issues but:

http://www.alexa.com/siteinfo/jezebel.com
Global Rank 1,467
Rank in United States Flag 365
Third most popular search term: 3 more women baylor
...and you have to remember this is after Hulk ran wild on the Gawker network.

http://www.alexa.com/siteinfo/buzzfeed.com
Global Rank 140
Rank in United States Flag 48
Second most popular search term: Brock Turner

Buzzfeed is way bigger than for example NPR.

websites designed to get traffic clicks are high in traffic oh snap

idk man I mean alright I might be downplaying it I suppose but imo let me know when Jezebel and Buzzfeed starts affecting policy makers

Moridin920 fucked around with this message at 17:32 on Aug 15, 2016

Moridin920
Nov 15, 2007

by FactsAreUseless

Applewhite posted:

It's the difference between banning Black people from your establishment and banning rap music (because you're an rear end in a top hat who automatically conflates the two). Yeah it's a dick move but I still don't think it should be illegal to ban rap music from a place.

I'm don't support these types of prejudicial decisions but I'm worried about the precedent we set by making it illegal to be an rear end in a top hat.

So if a transwoman passes and you can't tell, it's fine?

what's the litmus test here because 'chest hair poking out' isn't gonna wash.

Moridin920
Nov 15, 2007

by FactsAreUseless
plus there's the whole issue of 'let me judge what gender you are based on your perceived ugliness'

like lol man there's already people kicking out women (with vaginas from birth and all) from bathrooms because 'she looked like a man' do you really want to feed that poo poo?

Moridin920
Nov 15, 2007

by FactsAreUseless

8-Bit Scholar posted:

why are you posting like an abject retard

I mean even by your standards

cuz you guys are posting like abject retards, even by your standards



8-Bit Scholar posted:

Are you pulling this out of your rear end or are you referencing something specific? Who kicked a biological woman out of the poo poo place?

I'm referencing something specific

http://www.washingtontimes.com/news/2016/may/17/woman-accused-being-transgender-kicked-out-walmart/

and that's not even the only one


Applewhite posted:

If a trans woman passes and you can't tell the law is unenforceable either way so that point is moot.


It's not about who's icky or gross it's about comfort and social convention.

lol come on guy there could be a 400lb landwhale dude wiping encrusted smegma off his dick in the men's room and that's chill but a person with a strong jawline and an adam's apple in a dress in the women's room well THAT just violates all decency!!!!!


also, address women getting kicked out of women's bathrooms for not looking hot enough. bc that is sure as poo poo happening already.

bc this is what your arguments support:

quote:

“She said, ‘You are not supposed to be here. You need to leave,’” Ms. Toms said. “So at first I was like, ‘Does she think I work at a different store, and I shouldn’t be in this bathroom?’ So I said, ‘Yes I do,’ and then she flipped me off, and she was like, ‘You’re disgusting,’ and stormed out.

and again for the cheap seats that woman was not trans

Moridin920 fucked around with this message at 17:54 on Aug 15, 2016

Moridin920
Nov 15, 2007

by FactsAreUseless
like holy poo poo just let people use whatever bathroom they want I can't believe we gotta pass loving laws about that because some people can't just get over it already "uhhh but my comfort" just take your poo and move on guy

Twelve Batmans posted:

Such a case of mistaken identity actually did happen. But this sort of thing is hardly as wide-spread as people make it out to be.

http://www.nydailynews.com/news/national/woman-mistaken-transgender-harassed-walmart-bathroom-article-1.2638748


chances are as attitudes like Applewhite's become more acceptable, we'll see more cases of this.

there's loving groups of men 'patrolling' bathrooms now you weirdos. and I'm pretty sure the women using those bathrooms feel veeeerrry secure and comfortable. good thing there's men present to let them know they look acceptable enough to use the woman's bathroom!!!

Moridin920 fucked around with this message at 17:58 on Aug 15, 2016

Moridin920
Nov 15, 2007

by FactsAreUseless

a dog from hell posted:

Hmm should I spend my morning grinding a dull razorblade into my skin or arguing with moridin about transexual bathrooms? Choices, choices, there truly are too many of them to behold.

lol

Moridin920
Nov 15, 2007

by FactsAreUseless
i have strong opinions on who should be allowed to use the bathroom, I simply CARE A LOT about women and don't want them to have to deal with icky trans men. people who say existing laws are sufficient to prevent/punish criminal activity thus we should let people use whatever bathroom they like simply do not know the horror of the chest hairs poking out while you're trying to have a wee



HONK HONK

Moridin920
Nov 15, 2007

by FactsAreUseless

Applewhite posted:

Isn't "uhhh but my comfort" the sum total of the counter-argument? If it truly doesn't matter who uses what bathroom then use the bathroom you know society wants you to use. Why should everyone else have to change?

The whole entire point of gendered bathrooms is to keep the "wrong" gender out. If that's not going to be allowed any more then we don't need gendered bathrooms because they serve literally no other purpose.

They still serve a social convention purpose dog. The point is, don't let it become a thing where people can harass trans people about bathroom use and be legally protected in doing so. Since it is becoming a thing, some states are passing non-discrimination laws in response. Some people don't like that and imo those people are dumbos. Some of said people are now 'patrolling' bathrooms because they're apparently that bereft of other poo poo to do.

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Moridin920
Nov 15, 2007

by FactsAreUseless

8-Bit Scholar posted:

We don't, actually, that's entirely the point.

We do actually, because dumbfucks across the country are harassing citizens about what toilet they want to use.

lol i'm beginning to understand your red text


8-Bit Scholar posted:

And this. I don't quite understand it, and outside of validating "black experience", I fail to see why this issue needs to be forced in any way whatsoever.

i know how dare those minorities want to be treated as equal citizens without worrying about morons harassing them about whether they have the right appearance

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