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Smirking_Serpent posted:AITA for not allowing daughter (17F) to attend parties? getting arrested for underage drinking at a bonfire is probably the healthiest way to get arrested. i can't even imagine what kind of square rear end cop would arrest someone for that. oh a bunch of teens are drinking natty light in a field? ten years hard labor, all of you
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Pick posted:You can wring your hands about my posting all day, thus simulating the experience of actually working lol no wonder you haven't been posting lately if this is the best you can do
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luxury handset posted:getting arrested for underage drinking at a bonfire is probably the healthiest way to get arrested. i can't even imagine what kind of square rear end cop would arrest someone for that. oh a bunch of teens are drinking natty light in a field? ten years hard labor, all of you mandatory MADD propaganda class even though none of them drove there
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# ? Aug 15, 2019 19:17 |
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Araenna posted:Yeah. Like, unless I stayed closeted and never transitioned, I'm gonna basically look like a TERF's strawperson of a trans woman. Literally there was one going around recently that is basically me. I'm not gonna keep myself closeted because I might make other trans people "look bad" to people who already hate trans people. Instead, I'm going to exist as myself and bigots can die mad about it.
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# ? Aug 15, 2019 19:17 |
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Smirking_Serpent posted:AITA for not allowing daughter (17F) to attend parties? I am not that horribly strict! I just keep my daughter in a remote location and refuse to let her go to any social events I deem improper for a lady of her stature!
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# ? Aug 15, 2019 19:19 |
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i [30f] gave my boyfriend [40m] a shirt and now it's all he ever wearsquote:i'm going to start saying that boyf has a brain disorder. i say this bc it has colored our relationship and it makes it hard to ask others for advice, since i can't disclose this info to people who know him. our... our ages are slightly different than what i said on here. i'm sorry. i'm younger, he's older, he's probably a predator kind of person (and we get a poo poo ton of Looks about this) or whatevs, but i don't want to think about it, i am genuinely in love with him. No I'm not a 30-year-old woman who says "the boyf" and yes my retired boyfriend is going senile but at least I tricked his cranky rear end into a nap schedule Anyway, about the plaid shirt
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# ? Aug 15, 2019 19:23 |
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PetraCore posted:Hey, nothing wrong with transitioning later in life. gently caress the haters, you be you. Thanks! It's less about transitioning late and more about being nonbinary (AFAB on testosterone). I look how I look by choice and am happy with how I look for the first time in my life (even if I hate the loose skin from weight loss). It does make me feel like I'm hurtng trans women sometimes. But I haven't met a trans person who would give a gently caress who isn't truscum, so I just focus on how mad me being happy makes TERFs instead.
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# ? Aug 15, 2019 19:24 |
While not the story, what if the cocktail was pre-mixed? It's how I like to prep for parties.
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# ? Aug 15, 2019 19:27 |
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Pinecone Sample posted:i [30f] gave my boyfriend [40m] a shirt and now it's all he ever wears Having bipolar II isn't an excuse for making a teenager into your caregiver/bangmaid. Edit:^ probably ok if you pour everyone's at the same time while they watch from the same container.
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# ? Aug 15, 2019 19:28 |
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Araenna posted:Thanks! It's less about transitioning late and more about being nonbinary (AFAB on testosterone). I look how I look by choice and am happy with how I look for the first time in my life (even if I hate the loose skin from weight loss). It does make me feel like I'm hurtng trans women sometimes. But I haven't met a trans person who would give a gently caress who isn't truscum, so I just focus on how mad me being happy makes TERFs instead.
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# ? Aug 15, 2019 19:30 |
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Or for not working
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Pick posted:Or for not working Edit: wait no I think that was in response to something else sorry
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Pinecone Sample posted:i [30f] gave my boyfriend [40m] a shirt and now it's all he ever wears
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# ? Aug 15, 2019 19:35 |
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Yawgmoth posted:I'm not that strict! I just never let her have any fun unless I can preside over it like a goddamned vulture. Weren't we all just posting a couple pages ago about how there are rape monsters all over the place and women must live in constant fear?
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# ? Aug 15, 2019 19:37 |
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spacetoaster posted:Weren't we all just posting a couple pages ago about how there are rape monsters all over the place and women must live in constant fear? It's almost like they can't just choose to live in a bubble and have to function socially while also making decisions that safeguard their well-being.
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# ? Aug 15, 2019 19:39 |
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in my best relationship ever but religion sperates us....(26m) and (30f)quote:Im dating this girl where we hit it off the minute we met. Ive never dated someone older than me. BUt thats not a big deal at all. THe biggest thing is the fact that she is Mormon. I live in utah so its not out of the blue. Problem is she got divorced 5 years ago and has a 9 year old daughter. Daughter goes with dad remarried wife half of the time. Is tater tot casserole kosher?
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spacetoaster posted:Weren't we all just posting a couple pages ago about how there are rape monsters all over the place and women must live in constant fear? lol sorry women don't just never leave the house
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# ? Aug 15, 2019 19:45 |
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Very normal intro. [/quote] r/relationships: he's probably a predator kind of person (and we get a poo poo ton of Looks about this) or whatevs, but i don't want to think about it, i am genuinely in love with him.
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# ? Aug 15, 2019 19:50 |
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Basically a roomie with benefits, who gets half your stuff when he moves out My husband (26M) and I (25F) are running out of things to say to each other Relationships I think after 7 years together, my husband and I have finally reached an impasse. We've always been very different, but before there was a lot to discover about the other person. Now, if we want to talk, it either becomes a small argument or it's talking that leads to sex. None of the fulfilling conversations we used to have. Over the years we've both delved into our respective hobbies and interests, and while we listen to each other ramble about them here and there, there's no common ground. We talk about finding a new hobby or interest but haven't found anything yet. It's definitely an option though. I think there's some apathy on both sides we have to overcome. Our usual routine is that after work, we watch TV over dinner and make small talk, then we sort of go our separate ways (he plays video games and I do crafts or something). We go to separate rooms because the games bother me too much to be around them. And then later he initiates sex and sometimes we do it, and go to sleep. It feels bleak written out like this. Any advice in rekindling the spark? We do go on dates once a week and those are fun, but there are still 6 days in the week where it's hard to connect. Tl;Dr husband is very different from me and we have a hard time connecting
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# ? Aug 15, 2019 19:50 |
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A couple that has a date once a week and has regular sex seems like they're doing something right.
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AnoHito posted:I am not that horribly strict! I just keep my daughter in a remote location and refuse to let her go to any social events I deem improper for a lady of her stature! *(17f)develops telekinetic powers and kills everyone with them
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# ? Aug 15, 2019 19:58 |
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WIBTA if I called in an anonymous immigration tipquote:So this is posted on behalf of my boyfriend.
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# ? Aug 15, 2019 20:02 |
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Marchofthepenguins posted:WIBTA if I called in an anonymous immigration tip gently caress YOU
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# ? Aug 15, 2019 20:04 |
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Yeah, he's totally not doing it out of resentment since the illegal makes more than him. It is his sense of right and wrong. It's hard being so virtuous.
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# ? Aug 15, 2019 20:04 |
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My (18f) boyfriend (19) is leaving me alone for 2 weeks for a job at Denny’s in another state and I feel betrayed. My dad is furious. I need help and advice.quote:I live in Brooklyn, my dad lives in Long Island, my mom is in Ukraine until next month. My boyfriend (of 1+ year) and I were supposed to stay here together and watch the pets (dog, cat, chinchilla, fish) until my mom gets home. It’s not an option for me to go with him until my mom comes back in September. Once she returns, I move with my boyfriend to the other state.
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# ? Aug 15, 2019 20:06 |
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sorry babe, you're just not a "grand slam" like this job is
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# ? Aug 15, 2019 20:07 |
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spacetoaster posted:Weren't we all just posting a couple pages ago about how there are rape monsters all over the place and women must live in constant fear? This is a bad post. The point of the drinking-drugging discussion was what kind of common sense precautions women should take when attending parties hosted by strangers. No one was saying women should hide bawling in fear every time they see a man's shadow. It's about how to take care of yourself in a public setting known to be exploited by predators. "Women often have to factor in the risk of being drugged when offered an alcoholic drink by a stranger" =/= "there are rape monsters all over the place and women must live in constant fear" Don't be silly now.
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Marchofthepenguins posted:WIBTA if I called in an anonymous immigration tip
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HIJK posted:This is a bad post. The point of the drinking-drugging discussion was what kind of common sense precautions women should take when attending parties hosted by strangers. No one was saying women should hide bawling in fear every time they see a man's shadow. It's about how to take care of yourself in a public setting known to be exploited by predators. spacetoaster is a trump guy so
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# ? Aug 15, 2019 20:09 |
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"Want a drink?" "Uh no thanks." "HOW CAN YOU PEOPLE BEAR TO LIVE LIKE THIS, COWERING LIKE DOGS"
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# ? Aug 15, 2019 20:10 |
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Pick posted:Maybe you guys would know some of how society feels if you ever talked to people outside your exact political and age demographics This could probably apply to most people.
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# ? Aug 15, 2019 20:11 |
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HIJK posted:No one was saying women should hide bawling in fear every time they see a man's shadow. I was referring to this: MasBrillante posted:high probability of being raped every time we interact with men. goethe.cx posted:spacetoaster is a trump guy so When did this happen?
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Frog Act posted:My (18f) boyfriend (19) is leaving me alone for 2 weeks for a job at Denny’s in another state and I feel betrayed. My dad is furious. I need help and advice. This is a weird one. OP sounds pretty paranoid and dad sounds like he knows if she's alone he'll be getting constant frantic phone calls. Though if her house was broken into before I imagine that's a horrifying experience and makes it drat near impossible to ever feel safe and secure. BF is also a moron
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Pick posted:My gauge is 15 million so you can't even keep numbers straight. This reminds me of people who say, "A million dollars isn't really even a lot of money these days." To which I reply, "Fine, give it to me then."
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# ? Aug 15, 2019 20:18 |
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Denny's pays servers around 3 dollars an hour. It's the right move for their future.
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# ? Aug 15, 2019 20:19 |
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Pick posted:Maybe you guys would know some of how society feels if you ever talked to people outside your exact political and age demographics Now please continue, as a native of the Pacific Northwest, to talk about racial minorities and how they should behave.
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# ? Aug 15, 2019 20:26 |
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Pick, bravo on the trolling - demonstrating the futility and inadequacy of respectability by doing it yourself!
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# ? Aug 15, 2019 20:30 |
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5000+ pages and you goofs are still reading and responding to pick posts, yet you mock redditors for being dumb?
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# ? Aug 15, 2019 20:30 |
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spacetoaster posted:I was referring to this: I don’t know what the probability of being raped by a dude is but even if it is high that poster wasn’t saying women should be constantly terrified of men, at least as I read it. Pointing out “this group is at risk for being attacked by another group” doesn’t indicate what we should do in the face of such risk, it’s just a statement. The point is that if there is a risk of injury, however big or small, every day people must still go on with the business of living. There are sensible precautions that everyone should take. If it matters I think men should also take care when living and partying and working, men are victmized by violence and drugs and predators passing themselves off as friends as well. So they ought to make sure to stay safe. Don’t accept mixed drinks from strangers.
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Tetramin posted:This is a weird one. OP sounds pretty paranoid and dad sounds like he knows if she's alone he'll be getting constant frantic phone calls. Though if her house was broken into before I imagine that's a horrifying experience and makes it drat near impossible to ever feel safe and secure. BF is also a moron OP sounds like she has anxiety issues (I would bet that's the chest pain at age 18) and her dad has been accidentally enabling, rather than getting her help. Being left alone for two weeks shouldn't be an emergency for someone in their late teens. spacetoaster posted:Denny's pays servers around 3 dollars an hour. It's the right move for their future. They're planning to move away together, so I guess they need income. At least he's taking some initiative.
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