Pick posted:

Based on what I've seen I'd say it's mostly for complete lack of any kind of instruction in life on how to deal with ... anything, properly. No way of dealing with frustration, stress, confusion, anything. Zero life coping skills whatsoever. I think poor impulse control is right on the money too. Your second point is absolutely correct and I wish more people understood that.

lazorexplosion posted:

Shanghaied posted:

Ahahahahahahahahahahahahahahah

And the testicles are vulnerable organs hanging on the outside of the body. And the appendix serves no conceivable purpose, but can get inflamed and kill you. Yeah the human body is not well designed.

ReidRansom posted:

Also to show off your huge pendulous balls to potential mates, even if it doesn't necessarily attract them

lazorexplosion posted:

Even if I was 8/10 face at 6'3 height with decent frame, as long as there is a male better looking than me, i will never be happy.

Whats the point if I KNOW that there are males living better lifes than me just because of genetics? No matter in which good position I imagine myself to be, can't shake the anger, envy and unfairness of other males living better lives than me because they are higher on the looks scale. I don't care about the "Chads are very few, you will probably run into one very few times". I don't care about numbers, I don't care about how if I was a 8/10, very few males would outclass me. I don't give a poo poo about how uncommon top tier males are, that doesn't give me the slighest relief. As long as there is ONE privileged male that has a better life quality because of birth genetics, i will never be at ease and this feeling of range, anger and hatred will never cease. I don't care if im somehow guaranteed to never run into someone better looking than me. Only knowing the fact that they exist and which life experience they may have makes my blood boil.

Pick posted:

You know I am pretty sure women actually don't care about sex as much as men do, and that needs to be respected instead of insinuating there's something wrong with women if they're not DTF 100% of the time.

Pick posted:

A lot of women are anorgasmic though. I think in different studies it usually hovers around 10% of women have never experienced climax and never will, and quite a few don't regularly (which may or may not be because their partners are trash).

Oh but that wasn't my point... yeah I think women genuinely don't care as much about sex though, on the whole, and that a lot of the sexual behavior of women in their teens and 20s, this based off of knowing a lot of women then and now, and being one, is basically the result of social pressure, and they did a lot of things that they genuinely didn't really want to do, but thought they were supposed to want to do if they were "free". It was a strategy that a male-dominated society used to try to get what it wanted, women be damned one way or the other.

fruit on the bottom posted:

Actually it is, see also: Healthy at Every Size.

I couldn't tell you how prevalent it is offline, but there's large swathes of online communities that buy into it. The major belief is that there's no connection between obesity and health and that any opinion to the contrary is a form of fat phobia.

It's not good or healthy, but realize that HAES is basically exclusively women and it's really easy to see how it ties in with the general package of body and image issues women get subjected to.

Pick posted:

Yeah, actually a lot of these guys had a history of creeping women out (and so they didn't go out with these guys, which turned out to be completely justified from a safety standpoint wooow)

chumbler posted:

Isn't screwed up teeth correlated with modern diets or am I just half remembering something? And I mean not just the mountains of sugar in everything part of modern diets.

Palpek posted:

Those reddit incels aren't some super intelligent academics too socially inept to find a partner. They've been proving over and over that they have poor knowledge and cognitive skills. They come off as people not better in those areas than your average Joe but the average Joe at least showers.

HazCat posted:

Computer programming was primarily women's work for years. Here is the first result for googling "was programming seen as women's work".

And here's the second and the third, in case you'd like to learn about how women pioneered computer programming.

Anne Whateley posted:

There are some false negatives but really not a lot of false positives.

Anne Whateley posted:

Assuming we're talking about super high-functioning, verbal autistic people with normal IQs?

If you're able to internalize that other people are people, you should be able to learn normative behavior by rote by the time you're into adulthood.

If you aren't able to learn (or aren't interested in learning) that other people are people, and you can't or won't abide by big social norms, yeah that's legit dangerous.

Sure, there are people who are still awkward, but awkwardness doesn't really look like dangerous misogyny.

SatansOnion posted:

The main character's self-image metamorphoses over the course of the comic, as his commitment to improving his character becomes more apparent. A Cartoon.

BrigadierSensible posted:

This post is going to sound a little racist, but we have been focusing on the white, American incels, and I think incel-ness can really take a hold in the hearts and minds of certain members of the Indian community.

Imagine you are a smelly useless loser without a good job or any sort of skills, but because you are the first born son you have been doted on by your mother who literally worships the ground you walk on and has told you all your life how ace and awesome you are. You still live at home, (why not? mum still does the cooking and cleaning and washing up etc.), but at some stage all this parental devotion turns into worry, and the worry turns into nagging. "When are you going to get married?" style nagging. But because you are a shut in loser, you have never, and don't know how to meet girls, let alone date.
Don't worry, because your family is super traditional, they will set you up with acceptable, appropriate women, (based on how well her parents like your parents, and how fair her skin is, what part of India the family is from, etc.), so you can both sit and have an awkward conversation in the company of yoru expectant parents.
Now, the way that arranged marriage works these days, (at least among the educated classes), is that either the potential bride or potential groom can say no for any reason and it is officially OK. Of course there is the nagging etc. but once you say no, your mum can't make you marry anyone you don't like. So smelly loser gets set up with some reasonably attractive, nice, and intelligent women who are forced to meet with him out of the same sense of famillial guilt. But these girls have, if not much then some, agency, so after polite chitchat with the parents, they go away and say "no thanks, I don't want to marry this guy" for whatever reason.
After several of these rejections, and with his doting mother constantly telling him it is not his fault, for he is a perfect golden god, this smelly useless entitled loser starts to believe that women are all bitches who only want rich/handsome supermen, and are too dumb/shallow to appreciate all his good qualities. gently caress them, why aren't they all lining up to be with me? Why can't I get the pure, virginal, super beautiful, demure, maid/cook, wife that I have been promised by my super repressive culture?
Then you go on the internet, and find the incel community reinforcing all your bad ideas about femoids and how shallow/stupid/slutty they are. You watch popular culture/TV etc. and take away the idea that only the idealized version of white beauty is desirable, and so start hating all your minor and perceived racial/genetic flaws. All the while retreating from the outside world, and hating/fearing what is out there.

To mitigate a little of the racism/stereotyping of the previous paragraphs, I will say that I am half Indian myself so I have seen family members and family friends go through the Arranged Marriage dance, and my cousin actually got married through that process. Her and her husband seem happy, and live in Florida with their two kids. Also, I don't know any incels, or anyone made incel this way. I am just imagining how this process can further break the already broken.

Sentient Data posted:

I love American culture! Busy World is my favorite show ever, even though it might not be quite as deep as Totally Spies. What did you think about the third season finale of Powerpuff Girls?

Liquid Communism posted:

Slaves have more agency than these chuckle fucks want, what they're really looking for is a supermodel with a dog brain or at least an ice pick lobotomy.

noether posted:

fun fact: the author of ready player one is an incel type

Somfin posted:

Lol like incel quarks can get strange

Literally A Person posted:

Literally A Person posted:

It's really hard to jerk off through that kind of eye pain but, uh, yeah probably.

Benny Harvey posted:

Showing bloody sheets to the groom's family is a thing for gypsies.

E: lol I say that as if the groom and bride have different families.