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Rutibex
Sep 9, 2001

by Fluffdaddy
I got cheated on and didn't care for it, so now I only date women that already have partners. I figure if they are already cheating they on their husband they won't have the energy or time to cheat on me. :eng101:

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Rutibex
Sep 9, 2001

by Fluffdaddy

Three Olives posted:

I've never been cheated on (My last and only other serious relationship was open) but I think I could handle it. My one rule is if you cheat on me you have to tell me and we have to start using condoms again until we both get tested. Cheating I can forgive, if you knowingly put my health at risk that is unforgivable.

i think this is the wrong attitude to have. cheating happens all the time, and it has throughout history so there is no avoiding it. but openly acknowledging it is how we go down the path of cucking and open relationship drama and polyamory and whatever. maybe that works for some people (if everyone knows about it from the start) but this stuff is starting to creep into normal relationships and its loving society up pretty bad.

if you cheat you should just keep it to yourself, there is no reason to burden your partner with the knowledge or harm their reputation by letting it get out.

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