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Triglav posted:please, the alphabet soup is subject to 4% annual inflation. it's lgbtqiaap+ now wait when did we drop two Qs into one? also does P stand for pan because if so P crew represent also hello thread I am a cis male who's been part of various aspects of the queer-alphabet-soup community (mostly through having a bunch of trans friends) for most of his life. I just wanted to drop in to say you are all cool and good people.
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Raere posted:I'm a fan of using queer instead of LGBT++++++++++ because someone's always going to be left out if you use an acronym. LGBT++++ would queer again
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Anyone have a short braindump of trans info for Alaskans? Friend of mine lives up there and has pretty much no resources at her disposal.  Anything helps
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it never continues to disappoint me that Jodorowsky never got to finish Dune
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fishmech posted:generally if you are asking this you have it well this is making me wonder a lot of things I wasn't expecting to wonder.
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Same. I didn't move super far away but there's a large enough body of water between my old home and my new home that I can't just say "gently caress it imma drive an hour and see my friends" At least in tyool 2018 we have the magic of the internet so we can all still hang out in Discord and stuff but it seriously fuckin sucks that I have no one to go to the pub with or even just chill and watch a movie or something. And there's no meeting people through extended social circles. I haven't been on a date in like two years.
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Oh right I mentioned a while back in this thread one of my best friends was going through some rough times wrt trans resources in Alaska. Good news, she and a close friend are both gtfoing that mess and moving! Admittedly they're moving to Utah but apparently Utah has actual anti-discrimination laws that cover trans people and I mean the mormon faith is extremely not my poo poo but I can honestly say most mormons I've met are friendly enough folks. Things are looking okay after all for her and I'm really happy about that 
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That kind of thing always worries me and I'm not sure if I'm seriously in much of a position to lose but I know a lot of people who are and who have so I try to steer clear of touching the poop. YOSPOS isn't currently behind the paywall which honestly surprises me. I thought more of the good forums would be paywalled what with the taxman being broke as gently caress these days
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That basically just sold me on going to the Y. I should figure out where the nearest one is and what it costs for membership.
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ate all the Oreos posted:bizarre gay sorcery oh but if I were a username-changing kind of poster
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Progressive JPEG posted:what about your tongue tho which would you rather absorb the stinging heat: a big slab of muscle or the root nerves of your teeth
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similarly, I haven't been to a therapist since I was a kid, and that was for anxiety attacks. I've been having weird thoughts about gender and stuff like that for years but never really thought much about therapy for it because I haven't really felt it impacting my day to day life much? it just kind of feels like one of those recurring side thoughts more than anything and it kind of makes me wonder if it's something I think about because two of my best friends are trans or if there's something rooted deeper in my head going on.
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I try to avoid the whole "is below-average libido part of the greater queerness spectrum" mostly because I don't even know where I myself fall into the regex. Like I've been thinking about it on and off for years (including several "am I trans?" moments which ended up being "lol I still don't have a fuckin clue") and while piling a whole series of descriptors together to explain my personal state of gender and sexuality would take a good couple lines to fully express I also don't feel really comfortable just saying I'm queer I guess. It also totally depends on who I'm talking to, like, my best friends are all variously part of the regex so it's just a big pile of fabulous. But to the outside world I'm just a cis white dude who likes girls and has dated a boy or two in his time and I don't feel personally constrained by that. So I don't know if that "qualifies" me so to speak to have input in discussions about queerness and what is/is not queer. Gender and sexuality are hard. It'd be nice if everyone was as cool and good as yospos. e: I need to post here more often. y'all are awesome
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Hi y'all! A friend of mine is moving to outer LA as part of escaping the backwards hellstate she lives in and is hoping to find an endo so she can stop self-medicating and get titty skittles the right way. does anyone here have any good resources I can pass on to her for that?
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Zamujasa posted:i'm really dumb atm but what's the gender neutral alternative to "sir"/"miss" "comrade" (actually I'm not 100% sure myself and am curious to know) also I'm thinking of posting more in this thread because I'm starting to figure out my own gender kerfuffle but I'm wondering if maybe it wouldn't be a bad idea to change my username to something that isn't known to be me everywhere, at least to maintain some kind of low-effort illusion of safety. I'm not out to really anyone so a thin veil of anonymity wouldn't be a horrible thing to maintain I guess. is this just paranoid or a decent idea?
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AOC was on the stream for a bit earlier apparently which is pretty dang awesome imo e: donation fund is almost at 250k e2: they did it! Kazinsal fucked around with this message at 01:33 on Jan 21, 2019 |
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that reminds me, I need to *get* a doctor. and figure out if informed consent is a thing in BC or if I should find a waitlist for a specialist
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OldAlias posted:ok so it is a thing, but depending on your doctor they might not be comfortable with it and require you to go through the hoops, of going to a therapist so they can write you a letter that you can take to an endo. if you don’t have a doctor ATM, then you can look for someone who’s comfortable with it. the city you’re in will factor into what’s available too and ofc oof. I don't know much about this kind of thing (being new to all of this is seriously terrifying) so I guess I need to figure out if the recommended doctors/clinics in vancouver will take me or being on the outskirts of the area will force me to go to friggin chilliwack or something like that. thanks for the info, I'll see if I can find a doc to help start the process
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congrats jit bull!
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good to hear you're doing better, jbt. hope all is well from here on out.
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Palemdromes posted:<bad post expunged> I'd say "welcome to yospos" but I think the consensus is you aren't
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sadly none that I know of at this point. ontario is a shitstack of a province right now and will be until ford either keels over or gets voted out (and lol at that happening considering the voting pool is so loving broken there that they voted him in to begin with). basically, if you're trans and in ontario, go literally anywhere else. gently caress, even alberta is less dangerous right now, and they just voted in the "ford nation? hold my beer" party.
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Lain Iwakura posted:welp congratulations!
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pride parade is here this weekend and while I really want to go (never been to one, always wanted to) I don't know if I really... fit in? like internally I've been battling the genderfeels for a couple years but externally I just present as a cis-enough pansexual guy for various reasons and I feel like my going would be a waste of time. like I feel as if my presence would be a case of, oh look another long haired bearded white guy, good job going to pride you absolute muppet. am I way off base here? I'm incredibly new at this whole "being publicly not-cishet" thing. maybe I should find a therapist instead of going to pride lol
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y'see the furry tail plug and suit head thing wouldn't even register as unusual to me since a couple of my friends run an internationally well known fursuit studio here in the vancouver area thanks for the words of encouragement everyone sounds like it would definitely be a good thing for me to go and see what all the excitement is about.
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yeah I remember someone mentioning once that they got their longvatar to work by putting a 1x1 pixel transparent PNG as the actual avatar then both "avatar" parts in the title section
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weed cat posted:I got AJJ mixed up with Brian Jonestown Massacre and my brain was trying to jam them together into Andrew Jonestown Jazzacre. new project name right there jazz fusion with baritone electric guitars instead of standard and EWIs instead of a brass section let's do this
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I didn’t need to come out as bi/pan, everyone already figured so my “coming out” was just adding it to my twitter bio lol all my friends know I have a case of The Genders so that’s a thing too
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endlessmonotony posted:Are you planning to sell, trade, or give any fucks on your journey, or are you trying to claim all of these are for personal use? she is a bespoke fucksmith, skilled in her craft
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a combination of the above
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ultravoices posted:beos is the gayest operating system, because it's cute and dead I know a guy who worked on beos and I'm pretty sure he's either gay or ace so that tracks
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sooooooo I'm still not even a month through my probationary period at my new job but it's a union gig and our newest collective agreement has a section specifically calling out $30k of funding on top of extended health insurance for anything related to gender-affirming care I am getting some real fuckin Feels that I've suppressed for the past eight years of working for a certified old boys club because of this
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I mean when you put it that way who wouldn't want the look pretty and also boobies juice
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Shame Boy posted:i've only met one trans girl named "emily" and i know a lotta trans girls so i guess i missed this half the trans girls in my extended friends circle are named some variation of evelynn and that's not an exaggeration
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the best part about black nail polish is you can make your toes look cute without arising suspicion the second best part is the euphoria
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girls mommy gorl
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