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hey y'all im bi. maybe other things but gosh who knows.
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maybe you should stop defining your identity by the words furries use
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Dec 7, 2017 08:29
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Triglav posted:maybe cuz west coast + hippie school, but "they" was taught to me and what i heard as a kid its really not though
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Dec 10, 2017 08:04
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if dude is agender what's the deal with dudette
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Dec 10, 2017 10:42
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maybe it's an east coast/west coast thing, but i can't imagine dude being used gender neutrally
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Dec 10, 2017 10:44
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spankmeister posted:Men are actually good. This is because I am good, and I am a man. unlikely
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Jan 20, 2018 14:06
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my now-sister came out to the family in a group text yesterday (none of us knew, though i had some idea). had a pretty stressful time waiting for my parents to figure out what to say in response, but in the end i think they're down with the whole concept. she explicitly said not to out her to any extended family members, so it's going to be pretty lovely having to deliberately misgender her each thanksgiving at my Ayn Rand-loving Fox News-watching grandparents house.
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Feb 13, 2018 10:51
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Dillon2 posted:What if I am both queer and black so is cis autodrag
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Apr 13, 2018 15:06
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stymie, my dude, i don't think you're homophobic, at least not on purpose. but this thread is meant to be a safe space for queer people, and you are - to my knowledge - a non-queer person who is making somebody in this thread feel unsafe. so you might just want to take your leave.
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Apr 16, 2018 21:54
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SENSUAL DAD KISS posted:Idunno I think this is actually the literal definition of 'empathy' and is entirely possible, it's just really loving hard and scary as hell sometimes it is good to try putting yourself in someone else's shoes to understand how they feel. it is bad to try putting yourself in someone else's shoes to talk over them.
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Apr 28, 2018 13:02
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signs that i might be trans are becoming hard to ignore. what do i do now.
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Jun 11, 2018 05:05
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thanks for all the advice. anything i can do about finding a decent therapist for this sort of thing in my area, other than just going to a whole bunch until i find a good one?
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Jun 12, 2018 05:27
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you can't get or keep one billion dollars without being a big time fucker
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Aug 6, 2018 06:19
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if you're choosing a weird name for yourself? hell yeah. that's powerful. you know it's gonna be harder but you're still doing it because you feel it fits you. cool as hell.
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Sep 18, 2018 18:17
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got me them sweet Girl Pills today. helll yeah.
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Nov 2, 2018 21:38
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aardvaard posted:signs that i might be trans are becoming hard to ignore. what do i do now. oh poo poo it's been like a year of transing. wack. can you believe this thread was the fuckin first place i went
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Jun 3, 2019 07:08
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no cops or corporations at pride
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Jun 8, 2019 21:13
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lyft's polyamory pride balloon was a surprise though
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Jun 8, 2019 21:14
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oh they are and they shouldn't be at pride but i appreciated that they went for more than the bare minimum rainbow flags and "LOVE IS LOVE".
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Jun 8, 2019 22:27
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SunAndSpring posted:Just feel utterly depressed. I got this degree for nothing, all I could get after months of searching is something that makes me 12.50 an hour. I'll never get any of the procedures I want, not even loving laser, on the budget I have. Every stupid loving friend I have always chants, "you don't need it, you should make yourself happy "you're beautiful as you are" "you shouldn't care about what society thinks" "you don't need surgery to be happy" is the dysphoria equivalent of telling a depressed person that they should "just try to stop feeling sad" - technically true but absolutely unhelpful and dismissive. it's true that society shouldn't have a say over how anyone looks but if it were as easy as a mindset change nobody would have issues with their body.
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Jun 10, 2019 22:50
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, stop looking for external validation" but that poo poo is so loving dumb and reeks of stupid stoic mindset. Yeah, let me just imagine away how loving lovely i feel to look at myself every day.
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Poniard posted:my waffling on hrt probably means i should just go figure out how to get it whereabouts do you live?
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Jun 18, 2019 21:24
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i'm gay just in general
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Jul 12, 2019 05:13
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Ms. Twiggy posted:strap ons are a thing tho gonna say they already know
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Jul 13, 2019 02:52
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yeah i just heard about that book/film and i am extremely What The gently caress Who Made This God drat
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Jul 15, 2019 17:51
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flakeloaf posted:
oh so she's like super a terf huh
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Jul 15, 2019 23:08
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there are plenty of trans people of all sorts of genders (including trans women) who have been poisoned by terf rhetoric. some people find the idea of being "one of the good ones" attractive, and don't care about who they're throwing under the bus.
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Jul 16, 2019 23:12
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i assumed troon was just "trans goon". looked it up and oh. oh no.
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Jul 25, 2019 01:21
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fishmech posted:it literally is just trans goon, tho urbandictionary has a bad definition of it from 2005
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Jul 25, 2019 03:12
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except for the boobs. afab people don't get any help with those.
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Aug 1, 2019 21:09
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Kazinsal posted:pride parade is here this weekend and while I really want to go (never been to one, always wanted to) I don't know if I really... fit in? like internally I've been battling the genderfeels for a couple years but externally I just present as a cis-enough pansexual guy for various reasons and I feel like my going would be a waste of time. like I feel as if my presence would be a case of, oh look another long haired bearded white guy, good job going to pride you absolute muppet. there are a lot of queer people who don't look like queer people, you will not stand out. i understand exactly where you're coming from, having once walked through a pride fair as a cis-enough pansexual guy before ditching because i felt really awkward and out of place. then i figured out that i was actually a very trans pansexual woman, so maybe you have that in your future.
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Aug 3, 2019 04:16
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Shame Boy posted:also pride is full of cishet people there to so what you're saying is that the gays are corrupting our children?
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Aug 3, 2019 06:08
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Shame Boy posted:i think you can be plenty sex positive and body positive and all that and still not be thrilled when someone's doing fetish stuff in front of a 6 year old but i guess if you're fine showing your kids that i'm not gonna stop you what do you think is going to be the effect of your kids seeing someone walking around wearing a pup hood? what sort of negative effect do you think someone making dog sounds is going to have on children? there's a difference between engaging in your kink and being proud of your kink and wearing a pup hood and a leather harness and making dog noises is a pretty tame way to be proud of your kink.
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Aug 3, 2019 19:55
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Improbable Lobster posted:even the buttplug thing isn't a big deal if the guy isn't a big deal if they aren't like, nude i'm fairly sure you can't tell a buttplug tail from a clip-on tail unless you checked really closely so i'm not sure i trust shame boy's judgement fishmech posted:interest in thoroughly basic fursonas which havent been cool in years nah the kids are all into closed species these days
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Aug 3, 2019 20:47
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someone please think of the children
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Aug 3, 2019 22:11
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too young to know what a pup hood is: oh, that man kinda looks like a dog, and has a tail. that's neat. old enough to know what a pup hood is: literally no innocence lost here i'm really not seeing how this dude is corrupting our children.
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Aug 3, 2019 22:24
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if you want to rail against rampant sexuality being exposed to our kids, maybe like, every commercial, billboard, magazine cover featuring an unrealistically thin scantily clad woman, which is actually going to have a serious effect on that kid's future? and not The Gays?
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Aug 3, 2019 22:27
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do the trans thing. it always seems impossible and unachievable but then you do it and realize that you can actually be really cool and good looking and girl. most importantly, it won't go away if you try to stop thinking about it, and actually being trans is a pretty drat good way to deal with it. maybe get out of florida though.
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Aug 22, 2019 17:21
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you're trans. cis people don't question their gender to this degree. exactly what your gender actually is (could be none) is entirely up to you.
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Aug 22, 2019 17:46
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Shame Boy posted:i mean i already knew i was trans, i've identified as "genderfluid but not enough to give a poo poo or do anything about it" for quite a while now that's where i was for a while. could be your gender, that's entirely valid. i know for me it's just where i was because i was scared of pulling the trigger on being a girl. sounds like you might be in a similar place, but maybe not.
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Shame Boy posted:sure but like, this something new is something that will make changes that i'll basically be locked into forever. i'll probably get even bigger boobs than i have now and i think boobs are fuckin' weird and gross in general not all trans people are women and you can be a trans enby Shame Boy posted:like i think i want to be a girl who looks and dresses like a boy and has a penis??? entirely valid. that's a real gender. hell, that's basically where im at, except i want to look a little less like a boy.
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