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steinrokkan posted:Any mod who tries to self-impale and illicit sympathy by portraying himself as suffering for the good of the forums like a manipulative piece of poo poo should be automatically considered illegible for the mod position. Word.
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# ? Dec 24, 2019 00:59 |
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# ? May 5, 2024 11:10 |
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BENGHAZI 2 posted:joyous noel to you also Big Benghazi ain't goin' away
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# ? Dec 24, 2019 01:00 |
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steinrokkan posted:Any mod who tries to self-impale and illicit sympathy by portraying himself as suffering for the good of the forums like a manipulative piece of poo poo should be automatically considered illegible for the mod position. And make it a perma, like the rest of the transphobes got.
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# ? Dec 24, 2019 01:00 |
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Party Plane Jones posted:it's weird that when posters kramer into the tg fascist thread where beer got so much poo poo, the actual trans poster who was originally aggrieved by him and called him out 6 months ago had accepted his apology and told them to drop it You've already probed yourself, and it looks like BENGHAZI 2 got unprobed while I was writing all this, which is great, but still: let me break this down for you. There are two ways for the community to react to the punishment given to BENGHAZI 2--either by taking it at face value, or by looking for a further explanation. At face value, it's incredibly arbitrary and disproportionate compared to what other posters get. Indeed, it's not entirely clear what element of the post actually warranted punishment. So a further explanation is actually necessary. The further explanation provided by other moderators is that this was some kind of response to her posting history in its totality. Which raises a million questions, such as "which posts specifically?" and "why weren't they punished at the time?" No answers have been forthcoming to these questions, so in lieu of that, people are going to keep looking for other explanations. And the other, really obvious, explanation is: bigotry. It's great that Arivia and Beer are good, or whatever. But there's no reason he should have been allowed to keep modding after saying something so egregiously, deliberately hostile to the community. Modding's not just something people are automatically entitled to. If he really understood how wrong he was, he would have resigned as a mod; the fact that he didn't indicates he hasn't taken it seriously enough to change himself. Which brings us to this situation: a trans person pointed out, in the mildest way possible, that Beer shouldn't be a mod after displaying this level of judgment, and got hit with a vastly disproportionate punishment. I get the people who look at this and say "doesn't matter, it's just an internet forum"--personally I think that's naive after 2016, but I get it. But here's the thing: for so many transgender people, internet forums are the only place we can actually discuss transitioning, trade information, and just be open about who we are. It's not safe, or even possible, to do that in person most of the time. So that's why you really have to dot your i's and cross your t's when it comes to transphobia among moderators: because if you give the wrong person the power to regulate the place where trans people connect, they can do serious, lasting harm. (Same goes for every form of bigotry, but I'm staying in my lane here.)
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# ? Dec 24, 2019 01:01 |
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This whole affair has been the REAL Benghazi 2 if you were to as-*crowd pelts me with rotten vegetables, large vaudeville hook pulls me by my neck offstage*
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# ? Dec 24, 2019 01:06 |
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free dickeye free crazy cloud remember sailor
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# ? Dec 24, 2019 01:07 |
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some of those that work forces are the same that burn crosses
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# ? Dec 24, 2019 01:08 |
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steinrokkan posted:Any mod who tries to self-impale and illicit sympathy by portraying himself as suffering for the good of the forums like a manipulative piece of poo poo should be automatically considered illegible for the mod position. Agreed. Both mods have shown ample evidence of terrible patterns of behavior and should be gone.
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# ? Dec 24, 2019 01:08 |
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Yay Big Benghazi coming back! Boo for a petulant self-imposed sentence that is only half of the original approved ban for nothing! Resiggggggggn
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# ? Dec 24, 2019 01:10 |
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NienNunb posted:This whole affair has been the REAL Benghazi 2 if you were to as-*crowd pelts me with rotten vegetables, large vaudeville hook pulls me by my neck offstage* A big flaming stink sure raised A big flaming stink!
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# ? Dec 24, 2019 01:13 |
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# ? May 5, 2024 11:10 |
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Ok, Beer4TheBeerGod has made a statement:Beer4TheBeerGod posted:Hi everyone. Having read through the thread I wanted to reaffirm that what I posted towards Arivia was unequivocally wrong and that apology was absolutely sincere. I understand that words are just words and I made an inexcusable mistake, but I would hope that my actions since then have reflected a sincere attempt to learn from that failing and grow. If I've done anything that comes off as opposing the values that Ettin and I are doing our best to support then please let me know. If you're not comfortable talking to me directly, PM Ettin or an admin. And now we're going to close this thread for a while. Do not open it, nor create new threads in the same vein. Most of the mods and admins are busy with family or other obligations this time of year, and cannot properly discuss or respond to this kind of thing. After the holidays pass, we'll revisit this. I know this isn't a particularly satisfying conclusion, and I apologize for that. I promise that quite a few mods are interested in what is going on here, and when we have more time we'll give this the attention it deserves.
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