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Sex work is work. And the Cool Zone is the cool zone. So talk about sex work and how you think it's super problematic here. As in all jobs some people hate those they do work for, while others do not. It's fine to be critical of things, but most people I've seen on this forum don't seem to know what they are talking about. I doubt any of you have read anything Dworkin or Mckinnon wrote on sex negativity (which is a shame because Intercourses kind of rules; I've read like a few pages of mckinnon and she seems less cool). When you say something like sex work or pornography perpetuates rape culture, you speak of it as if it were merely a part of the society in which we live. However, it's more accurate to describe our entire society as a "rape culture." It's built on unfair exchanges, exploitation, and coercive power dynamics. Our sexual relations do not exist outside of society. When you gently caress someone, you do not leave your socio-economic or racial background on the floor with your clothes, nor can you separate gender dynamics from the equation of intercourse. This is especially true if you look a few decades back. If you are opposed to it, sex work is then, at its most ideal, simply a bit too honest about the situation for your liking, perhaps? It's hard work to acknowledge power differentials between yourself and and you care about? Maybe you're just Prudes? here's some articles if you want to educate yourselves: https://www.teenvogue.com/story/why-sex-work-is-real-work https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/standard-deviations/201807/why-fostasesta-harms-those-it-supposedly-serves https://medium.com/pulpmag/nordic-model-the-ongoing-criminalization-of-sex-workers-in-northern-europe-c1df02ba94ae here's a book rec'd by a sex worker: https://www.versobooks.com/books/1568-playing-the-whore Here are some more articles, rec'd by said sw: https://www.opensocietyfoundations....eT_P6basrpBveFc https://www.npr.org/2019/03/22/7053...k7upt6MR4ejYb8Y http://titsandsass.com/the-right-to-survive-the-case-of-alisha-walker/?fbclid=IwAR2Lr3HJtRrv6XWJrp358BJ2f6pLjcLzerX03ZVKdSuasc-B07rug5urkAQ LittleBlackCloud has issued a correction as of 19:26 on Jun 5, 2020 |
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Yeah, the coercion aspect was not a can of worms I wanted to open in the Cool Zone, because economic coercion is not the only form of coercion and the establishment of a transaction isn't the only reason people have sex they don't really want, and if you want to take coercion as a reason to attack sex work, well boy do I have a lot of things to tell you about the reasons people have lovely sex they don't want even when money isn't involved lmao It feels like a big L to people to say "sex work is work" period for some reason, but that's just spooky feelings people have about the act itself from external cultural forces imo Barring conditions of physical duress or imminent threats of violence (rather than the passive threats of violence we all live with every day as non-sex workers) that create slave conditions, if someone chooses to make their way through life with sex work, then protect them, give them healthcare, benefits, and prosecute rapists/assaults and then gently caress off smarxist has issued a correction as of 18:54 on Jun 5, 2020 |
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Hey I'm one of the rude dudes from Cool Zone and I'm just going to drop this article here which is the argument I was making in piecemeal over there anyway:quote:On Sex Work and the Communist Mode of Production https://anti-imperialism.org/2017/02/07/on-sex-work-and-the-communist-mode-of-production/
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Perry Mason Jar posted:Hey I'm one of the rude dudes from Cool Zone and I'm just going to drop this article here which is the argument I was making in piecemeal over there anyway: okay ignoring that this article is all theoretical preconfiguration, which is the dumbest possible thing you can engage in w/r/t to leftism, let me pose a Q to you, since you want to cite this ridiculous article: We're in the abolished value exchange and commodity form post-rev utopia. i'm some awkward dude that has that disease that makes me smell like rotten fish, and I want to gently caress how do i gently caress?
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or i'm just some person who doesn't like to socialize a lot, and when i'm done working at the commune hydroponics lab, i want to have raging sex with someone who will put their finger in my rear end without giving me a weird look and i'm willing to trade some of my labor vouchers for this
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Sex is not a right.
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The point is that people are odd, and they have weird apetites, and they like to do things certain ways, that sometimes don't jibe well with others in ideal circumstances, or any circumstances our brains are enormous because of social dynamics and basically nothing else, we've been growing these stupid hunks of meat so we can do 14th dimensional chess body language reading and comprehending, for a lot of people cultivating and exercising these personality quirks becomes essentially their personality Thinking that you can eliminate something as old and pervasive as trading a sex act for some bit of value because you've abolished capitalism is so loving laughable and also not even really desirable or enforceable, in a truly free/liberated utopia, people should be able to have sex for whatever loving reasons they want, and they'll find weird reasons to have it even when you eliminate economic coercion and the patriarchy, so using the idealized future to apply critique of current material conditions and the way people navigate them is utterly shite and you may as well thump a bible.
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Perry Mason Jar posted:Sex is not a right. So if that person arranges a sex act with someone, trades some bit of value or labor to them, in whatever form it exists, what would / should the society do?
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I think it would be helpful to the conversation to differentiate between "sex positive" sex workers, and sex workers who are in such an abject situation that they are resorting to the the most mask-off self-commodification possible in order to survive. Privileging the discourse of the former over the latter is like using hippie organic farming communes to valorize the exploitation of migrant farm labor. Anyway I'm dumb as poo poo on this topic so I look forward to learning & following along
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Perry Mason Jar posted:Sex is not a right. neither is food that tastes good but we still seek it out and crave it and consider it a cornerstone of the human experience
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LittleBlackCloud posted:Sex work is work.
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lol at 'ideals' being posted against the reality, yes we all would like to be living in an utopia too we can look at NZ and see what can be done to protect the welfare of sex workers and general population quote:Prostitution Reform Act 2003 quote:Prohibitions on use in prostitution of persons under 18 years and the interesting thing was that because it was classified as legit work, they were able to receive government subsidy/payout during the covid19 shutdown too to ensure the effectiveness of the lockdown coke posted:well the government could step in and help everyone out to minimize death but we'd rather give all the money to the rich instead i'd argue it's similar to prohibition back in the days, it's easy to provide so it will be almost impossible to shutdown so the best thing you can do is to regulate/protect the people
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You could have just looked in a mirror and chanted Pick's name three times, you didn't need to make a thread
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Perry Mason Jar posted:Hey I'm one of the rude dudes from Cool Zone and I'm just going to drop this article here which is the argument I was making in piecemeal over there anyway: This is either a total misframing of sex work or a naturalization of capitalism. Sex work is a pre-capitalist phenomenon. Sex Work could be performed as part of a barter exchange for something such as artisan goods, or as a service for public good. ie loving the disabled. furthermore, saying "sex work will be abolished under communism" is not a valid critique of sex work under capitalism. We don't live in Communism.
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night danger posted:I think it would be helpful to the conversation to differentiate between "sex positive" sex workers, and sex workers who are in such an abject situation that they are resorting to the the most mask-off self-commodification possible in order to survive. Privileging the discourse of the former over the latter is like using hippie organic farming communes to valorize the exploitation of migrant farm labor. the only differentiation to me that exists is what i said above about imminent physical violence or being bodily restrained and enslaved. everyone has to do work they don't want to do to avoid abject conditions, like homelessness, prison, etc. if we're starting from the premise that sex work is work, then we can't create a divide between the walmart cashier and the prostitute who works corners or backpages in dangerous situations. the latter's job is only more dangerous typically because of the criminality/morality bullshit society thrusts upon their activities. i don't see any difference between a sex worker who works for themselves and isn't trafficked/enslaved and a freelance massage therapist, nor should anyone else imo
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smarxist posted:you may as well thump a bible.
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and for fucks sake that it's noted to be one of the oldest profession for a reason they literally found brothels in the ruins of pompeii, almost 2000 years ago https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lupanar_(Pompeii)#Brothels quote:There have been 134 graffiti transcribed from the Lupanar at Pompeii. The presence of this graffiti served as one of the criteria for identifying the building as a brothel.[6]
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night danger posted:Anyway I'm dumb as poo poo on this topic so I look forward to learning & following along I have added more articles to the OP
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i think framing sex work exclusively as a manifestation of patriarchy is an old-fashioned kind of view. the article reminds me of a lot of second wave feminism stuff that is in retrospect very confined in its framework by the era it was written in - how does anything other than straight sex work fit into a framing that is predicated on men doing the objectification and women being objectified? sex work seems essentially impossible to eliminate from society without some real totalitarian poo poo or literal star trek replicators with infinite energy budgets for everybody. in FALGSC you would see far fewer career sex workers for sure but unless exchange of goods and services between private persons is entirely prohibited casual sex work is not going to disappear
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smarxist posted:the only differentiation to me that exists is what i said above about imminent physical violence or being bodily restrained and enslaved. My bad, I guess I'm starting from the premise of "sex work is work" and looking forward to the political demands that might flow from a bougie, media-savvy class of sex worker versus a class who is working as stereotypical street prostitutes, within the context of our actually-existing system. I don't think it's a stretch to imagine that, once the basic hurdle of the legitimacy of sex work is surmounted, then the former and latter may still have very different ideas about what protections or regulations are needed, and what the legitimate concerns are. We see this in every other industry.
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smarxist posted:i don't see any difference between a sex worker who works for themselves and isn't trafficked/enslaved and a freelance massage therapist, nor should anyone else imo how many sex workers do you think are doing it voluntarily vs. how many are enslaved
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night danger posted:looking forward to the political demands that might flow from a bougie, media-savvy class of sex worker i imagine the demands would look exactly the same as any other bougie media savvy person. pod save america basically.
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gh0stpinballa posted:how many sex workers do you think are doing it voluntarily vs. how many are enslaved Abolition of human trafficking is not abolition of sex work. So this doesn't matter. Especially since as I mentioned, coercion in sex is not cut and dry. Decriminalization of sex work would aid in the prosecution and/or elimination of human traffickers.
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gh0stpinballa posted:how many sex workers do you think are doing it voluntarily vs. how many are enslaved how many women right now are in lovely relationships with crap dudes they still gently caress because they can't afford to live alone the distinction you're trying to draw is arbitrary if my position is to liberate everyone and leave them the gently caress alone to do w/e they want (even if that includes having sex with someone not for their own pleasure/procreation. why would they want to do that? who cares gently caress off). nobody should be enslaved nobody should be punished for having sex for any reason they want to if they're nominally free if you want to argue agency and what it means to actually be free in the current material conditions and/or post rev, we're gonna have a really long philosophical detour
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smarxist posted:Thinking that you can eliminate something as old and pervasive as trading a sex act for some bit of value because you've abolished capitalism is so loving laughable and also not even really desirable or enforceable, in a truly free/liberated utopia, people should be able to have sex for whatever loving reasons they want, and they'll find weird reasons to have it even when you eliminate economic coercion and the patriarchy, so using the idealized future to apply critique of current material conditions and the way people navigate them is utterly shite and you may as well thump a bible. You think people will have sex with people they wouldn't have otherwise despite the fact that their housing, food, healthcare, education, and employment is guaranteed? Capitalism is a contemporary mode of class society. The article would be improved by replacing all mentions of it with class society. Prostitution exists in class society because there is a dominating class. Because housing, food, healthcare, education, and employment are not guaranteed.
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Perry Mason Jar posted:You think people will have sex with people they wouldn't have otherwise despite the fact that their housing, food, healthcare, education, and employment is guaranteed? Yes. and I'd argue that it's so obvious they would that the burden of proof is on you to prove they wouldn't.
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Why? Edit (replying to stealth edit): okay, because if I don't want to have sex with somebody them offering money I don't need is in no way an incentive to have sex with them. What the gently caress??
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smarxist posted:how many women right now are in lovely relationships with crap dudes they still gently caress because they can't afford to live alone there is not an arbritrary distinction between a woman who has a boyfriend who forgets her birthday and has to stay with him to pay rent vs. a woman who has been kidnapped, trafficked, beaten, raped, and forced on penalty of death to blow johns in back alleys. there is a very big difference between the two. and i literally just want to know how many sex workers you think are doing it for the good vibes vs how many are doing it because they're being coerced. i haven't actually said i am against sex work i just find the way its discussed by people like yourself who are really into it to be very cavalier and weird. like there is a matrix of factors to be carefully talked thru and dealt with before you just flick a switch and make it legal.
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In the current material conditions, sex work is mostly economical in nature, but the economical superstructure surrounding it is built on biological imperative, and our weird human brains To think that there's going to be some fabulous equilibrium in a post-rev society where everyone has as much sex as they want with all their favorite quirks included is delusional, so where does that leave us? You'd have an unmet need and people willing to trade SOMETHING for that need to be met, and you'd have people who have what they want and are willing to accept that SOMETHING to do the act, because they want the SOMETHING or because its fun for them to have a bit of transactional sex, or it a thrill, they get off on it, whatever that something is, a labor voucher, a chocolate ration, some loving yard work, i guarantee you it will exists in the post rev world.
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Dude if I want a loving chocolate bar and a dude told me to suck his dick first I'd go ask someone else for the loving chocolate bar. What the hell??
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LittleBlackCloud posted:Abolition of human trafficking is not abolition of sex work. So this doesn't matter. Especially since as I mentioned, coercion in sex is not cut and dry. how many sex workers are doing it voluntarily and how many are forced into it by scumbag pimps/addiction/traffickers. this is an important question that helps us move closer to a just set of decriminalisation and justice policies.
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Perry Mason Jar posted:You think people will have sex with people they wouldn't have otherwise despite the fact that their housing, food, healthcare, education, and employment is guaranteed? when all basic needs are fulfilled, people seek luxury needs. this is why i say that you'd have to have an infinite energy star trek replicator to actually eliminate sex work. well the holodeck probably cuts down on it too if you're going to extend out to that kind of technology absent effectively infinite abundance of goods, unless private exchange of goods and services is literally entirely prohibited, there will still be people that make the calculation that A. I want something but don't have the (money/labor vouchers/energy credits/etc.) to obtain it B. sex work is the least objectionable form of work for me, because i'm down to gently caress and i'm confident i can screen clients to find someone i'm okay with C. so i'm gonna post on the space facebook that i'll suck your dick for 20 credits
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gh0stpinballa posted:how many sex workers are doing it voluntarily and how many are forced into it by scumbag pimps/addiction/traffickers. this is an important question that helps us move closer to a just set of decriminalisation and justice policies. why not just cite sourced statistics instead of trying to activate some trap card? i wouldn't really know before i googled it either.
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Jazerus posted:when all basic needs are fulfilled, people seek luxury needs. this is why i say that you'd have to have an infinite energy star trek replicator to actually eliminate sex work. well the holodeck probably cuts down on it too if you're going to extend out to that kind of technology I already responded to this, if you'd like to respond to my response please do because smarxist skipped it.
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Perry Mason Jar posted:I already responded to this, if you'd like to respond to my response please do because smarxist skipped it. which post is the response in question?
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before we go any further, how horny and/or unhorny are you
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Victory Position posted:before we go any further, how horny and/or unhorny are you i'm volcel, I don't even have a dog in this fight, sex is fake
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smarxist posted:why not just cite sourced statistics instead of trying to activate some trap card? i wouldn't really know before i googled it either. its not a trap card, im not trying to fight im just interested in the different opinions itt. i think establishing a baseline number of voluntary/involuntary then helps us talk thru things like reparations for freed slaves, how we organize sex workers under a legal framework, what we do about the pimps who are out of a job etc etc.
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Jazerus posted:which post is the response in question? Perry Mason Jar posted:Dude if I want a loving chocolate bar and a dude told me to suck his dick first I'd go ask someone else for the loving chocolate bar. What the hell?? If someone wants me to suck their dick for a chocolate I'll find another way to get a chocolate. Anyone who doesn't (who has ample means to, because all their needs are met) was already willing to have sex with that person, much like how your wife will gently caress you if you do the dishes - I don't object to that but it's also not prostitution.
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Perry Mason Jar posted:Dude if I want a loving chocolate bar and a dude told me to suck his dick first I'd go ask someone else for the loving chocolate bar. What the hell?? so in your post-rev future, either: A) everyone is having all the sex they want to have period or B) there's still shortfall disparity in sex, but the the people who aren't getting what they want are in no way able to find it on offer from others who engage in a transaction with them for any reason? do you see how ridiculous either of these is?
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