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From previous thread:mystes posted:People can have 500 beds for all I care, they just can't eat in any of them I am having oatmeal and tea in my bed right now, brought by my perfect husband, and it's loving great.
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# ¿ Apr 2, 2024 18:07 |
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# ¿ May 21, 2024 01:50 |
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Nobody Interesting posted:Honestly really thought after the first few sentences, Jeff was just gonna go impregnate his sister.
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# ¿ Apr 3, 2024 18:47 |
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Funktastic posted:AITA for taking “advantage” of my gf? quote:As an Australian I’m surprised to learn that 8 drinks is a lot, but I still say YTA because I feel he’s taken advantage of the arrangement.
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# ¿ Apr 5, 2024 17:30 |
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Via Carolyn Hax.quote:Dear Carolyn: I consider myself a good feminist, so I normally avoid talking in terms of gender roles, yet here I am. Is it the role of a wife and mother to help bridge a rift between a father and his grown sons? quote:Functional Single Parent: I consider myself a good masculist, yet here I am: Your “men have egos” has me rethinking my policy against falling off my chair in fits of snark.
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# ¿ Apr 5, 2024 18:43 |
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AITA for telling my SIL she was extremely harsh by kicking my mother out of my brother's hospital room while he was critically injured?quote:This actually happened back in October but it's just recently flared up. My (M33) little brother Sam (M26) was very badly injured in a car crash and in a coma. It didn't look like he was going to make it the first several days and still uncertain weeks afterwards. During this time, our mother (F61) suggested to us that we should freeze his sperm so his wife Emma (F27) could get pregnant "if the worst happens." Paragraphs added.
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# ¿ Apr 6, 2024 21:06 |
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Eletriarnation posted:I think people conceptualize their children as being in some way a part of them or at least a product of their lives that will outlive them, and see having a lineage as a small sort of immortality in a world where the real thing isn't possible. Needless to say, I don't say poo poo about this to my children.
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# ¿ Apr 7, 2024 19:06 |
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AITA For prioritizing a friend over my pregnant wifequote:My wife (28F) and I (29M) got married last summer. She is currently 7-months pregnant with our first child. She had an appointment with her OB/GYN 2 weeks ago to address some complications with the pregnancy. The doctor wasn't overly concerned and confirmed that both my wife and the baby are healthy. But they did recommend her starting her maternity leave early and taking as much bed rest as possible.
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# ¿ Apr 10, 2024 22:25 |
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Jabor posted:No, no I do not "know".
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# ¿ Apr 12, 2024 04:29 |
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redshirt posted:...So like 2 wears and its verboten?? Depends on whether it's a fabric that crumples. Not an issue in knits.
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# ¿ Apr 12, 2024 05:08 |
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AITA for running up a $150 tab after my dad said “order whatever you want”?quote:My dad (45M) is an employee at a high end italian restaurant. He will occasionally play guitar during the busier hours on weekends and the owner compensates him for this via under the table cash. On this specific night it was just him and some other girl preforming - he was playing guitar and she was singing. They made $600 total from what I was told, so $300 each. He drank a whisky drink He drank a vodka drink He drank eight drinks.
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# ¿ Apr 14, 2024 22:47 |
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mystes posted:Everyone on reddit is saying YTA but I honestly feel like this is poor communication on both sides. It's not totally crazy for the OP to assume his father got some sort of discount, although he didn't actually try to confirm that, and it also would have been really easy for the father to tell him to keep it to a certain amount, especially at a restaurant like that where it's probably extremely easy to run up that much money from drinks.
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# ¿ Apr 14, 2024 23:15 |
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mystes posted:Where is 8 drinks coming from? Is that just an estimate based on guessing how much each drink should have been? I don't think the OP actually said that. In one comment it seems like he said 5 (he may have gotten five beers?), and it seems like he was waiting for a long period before he started which is why he ended up getting so many.
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# ¿ Apr 15, 2024 01:38 |
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AITA For backing out on an agreement my husband and I made years ago regarding potential kid namesquote:My husband (38M) and I (37F) have been married for 11-years and have 2 daughters (8 & 4). I am currently 12-weeks pregnant with our third child. I just had an ultrasound and we were able to determine the sex of the baby, a little boy. We have found out the sex of all of our children this way. AITAH for telling my girlfriend to stop her sisters from touching her? quote:I (m25) have been dating (f21) for a year now and moved in 2 weeks ago. We fell in love pretty quick because she's amazing and honestly i think she's the one. So we decided to meet eachother's families. I grew up with my older brother and parents who she has already met when she came to dinner last week at my parents' house. It went really well. Yesterday it was my turn to go to her parents' house for dinner. She had always told me that her sisters treat her like their daughter as she is the youngest in her family. Her sisters are (f27) and (f32) which are both significantly huge age gaps. She also had told me that her parents always loved them in a cute cuddly manner which i thought was cute. When i went to her house yesterday her sisters greeted her by pecking her cheeks and hugging. They kept pulling her cheeks and kissed her forhead again when we were about to leave and idky why but the entire pecking thing made me really uncomfortable. Everything else was great, they're all great people but her mum, dad and sisters all actually pecked her on forehead before saying bye which was super uncomfortable for me. I told my girlfriend about this when we reached home and she got really upset and embarassed and said i was making it sound like incest which seems a bit too much. She went to sleep after that with teary eyes and hasn't talked to me all day. Am i the rear end in a top hat for feeling this way and telling her about it?
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# ¿ Apr 15, 2024 23:12 |
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Exactly. I am not crazy about aristocratic-style names, but OP not only made the promise before they married, but repeated it for each of their previous two pregnancies which turned out to be daughters. She'd had eleven years to change her mind and discuss it, but she waited it until the instant the ultrasound dropped.
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# ¿ Apr 15, 2024 23:35 |
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From the comments on no-food wedding:quote:But what did she and her husband eat and drink, if they had anything at all?
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# ¿ Apr 17, 2024 20:40 |
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From Ask A Manager, a saga:quote:……I went to a conference in another country. My colleague from work was there too. He had been at a different conference before so we didn’t fly there from the same city but we were flying home from the same city. The flight home was a different airline than my flight there. The airline home made me take 2 seats because of my weight. He got bumped from his seat. I’m senior to him and I went home first. (Ask A Manager is sympathetic, as are commenters) quote:I was the one in charge of our tickets being that I was the senior person, not him. So the company is lying it at my feet for not using a company approved airline. He has no say. (Ask A Manager and commenters are outraged at the company) quote:I had his work phone that we had been loaned for the trip. Our travel plans have to be approved by HR but I changed it afterwords. I’m at the level I can book my own travel and travel for those junior to me. You are correct that we get an allotment of money for the trip and I book a cheaper unapproved airline against policy. He didn’t have money to make any calls and the company doesn’t accept collect calls. Bottom line is I should have told the company and our boss when I got back, but I didn’t and I’m ashamed if it. Thank you for the support. An AAM commenter posted:You left your junior coworker in a foreign airport. You took his ticket, the petty cash, and his phone with you. You knew he had no money or credit card with him and no way to book a new ticket. You didn’t tell your employer that he was stranded, but abandoned him completely. And the reason this whole debacle kicked off was because you took approved travel reservations, and switched them to unapproved reservations without your employer’s permission and against policy.
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# ¿ Apr 18, 2024 19:02 |
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house of the dad posted:Yeah, having a hard time figuring out what would lead the manager to do this in the first place, because I can't see the benefit in it unless they were pocketing the money they saved by using an unapproved airline.
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# ¿ Apr 18, 2024 19:32 |
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Scathach posted:Honestly she's bringing it on herself. I don't know why she even works when she'd make more money staying home There is more to working than the salary.
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# ¿ Apr 18, 2024 23:51 |
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A lot of Redditors have pointed out, IMHO correctly, that he needs to be evaluated for OCD.Hughlander posted:A phone can have a map with a blue dot showing where you are on the map. That alone makes it superior to a paper map where the relative sizes and distances are often calvin ball.
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# ¿ Apr 19, 2024 21:58 |
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Dear Miss Manners: My 29-year-old, fully independent daughter recently told me that she does not wish to hear negative comments from me: “If you can’t say something nice, don’t say anything at all.”quote:I am the retired senior director of a large multimillion-dollar firm with two postgraduate degrees. I successfully managed hundreds of employees over the years and undertook extensive, complaint-free personnel management, staff development and mentoring. I have a forthright personality and am used to speaking my mind directly with family, due to years of having to be politically correct in the office. I raised my daughter to be a strong, successful career woman. I am at a loss now that I must be politically correct all the time. quote:Not wanting to be a punching bag for bottled-up negativity, Miss Manners notes, hardly qualifies as censorship. Perhaps your daughter is so successful because she learned from you how to maintain cordial business relationships. Now she is doing you one better by recognizing that family deserves the same respect, if not — brace yourself — even more. Dear Miss Manners, I have been forced to be polite and accepting all my life, when really I longed to be racist. My daughter doesn't want to listen to my being racist. Tell me I'm being wronged.
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# ¿ Apr 20, 2024 17:03 |
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Fatty posted:Thanks, remembering that helped me find the rendition. Is this in the r/relationships "greatest of all time" list? Because it should be.
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# ¿ Apr 21, 2024 18:53 |
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Moon Slayer posted:AITA for not inviting my mentally unstable cousin to my wedding quote:Post, their cousin isn’t mentally ill, they’re trans. She didn’t just discreetly not invite him; she made a huge show of going round the table at Christmas (or thanksgiving?) dinner, and giving a huge invitation card to every single person EXCEPT him as a deliberate FU. quote:Hi! I (22f) am really unsure here. My best friend and roommate (22f) Amiee had been seeing a guy for two months. She really likes him, it seemed to be going super well.
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# ¿ Apr 21, 2024 19:14 |
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Crocobile posted:Yeah wasn’t this why women were supposed to ride side saddle? I think it’s a common trope in old-timey literature for there to be a thing with women and horses and virginity. Women died fairly regularly because they fell off their horses, the long skirt got caught on the saddle or the stirrup irons, and they were dragged.
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# ¿ Apr 23, 2024 16:45 |
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compshateme85 posted:That said, I just don't get having a total breakdown over a food craving.
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# ¿ Apr 24, 2024 18:48 |
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(deleted because I completely misread the conversation)
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# ¿ Apr 26, 2024 19:06 |
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Pope Corky the IX posted:I think you need to reread the post and the response. You're right, I completely misread. Deleting.
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# ¿ Apr 26, 2024 19:09 |
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Jack-Off Lantern posted:Kinda. If you call them for a non emergency, they'll bill you, and if the patient refuses to get driven. So pranks and non compliance. It's like 600€ here.
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# ¿ Apr 29, 2024 03:39 |
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Mr. Lobe posted:It also might be a low-pass filter for spinelessness in the way of heavily misspelled Nigerian Prince scam emails are for gullibility. She might only be looking for someone she can really push around and this guy didn't pass muster
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# ¿ Apr 29, 2024 19:12 |
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Halloween Jack posted:A lot of "airport hotels" have a policy where if you stay one night, you can leave your car there for a week. It's usually cheaper than airport parking and they have a shuttle to and from the airport anyway. It's a whole business model. The post isn't all that interesting, but I love this comment. quote:A: I would really recommend you take the quiz "is my relationship healthy" at loveisrespect dot org
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# ¿ Apr 29, 2024 23:58 |
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Florentines are amazing.
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# ¿ May 1, 2024 19:35 |
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I associate Silas with a verse from Gimme That Old-Time Religion. It was good for Paul and Silas (x3) And it's good enough for me We used to sing it in the car on long trips, along with A Long Way to Tipperary and other random songs.
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# ¿ May 2, 2024 06:11 |
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Flashing back to despised Nanny lady, it is really unnecessary to "teach" an infant to roll over, unless it's disabled. That is a normal developmental stage, and infants do it when they feel the need. In fact, the age they learn it is something a pediatrician keeps track of! There's such a thing as overdoing the loving support. Teach them to eat from a spoon, sure. Sitting up and rolling over are things they innately want to do and figure out themselves.
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# ¿ May 4, 2024 19:28 |
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Hellblazer187 posted:I don't think kids starve to death by having a late dinner.
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# ¿ May 7, 2024 01:22 |
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MagusofStars posted:OP apparently operates under the rules of mythical creatures, where she will answer a question honestly, but only the exact question asked.
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# ¿ May 7, 2024 23:44 |
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If you enjoy wearing pretty formal dresses and you're a teenager, prom is your only chance. Bridesmaid dresses do not count. I'm overall with the mom, though. You knew the rules, you took the chance, now take the consequences without asking Mom or Dad to fix it.
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# ¿ May 8, 2024 06:20 |
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Funeral-proposal guy failed to realize that there were two people who knew about the deal, and one of them was lying there full of formaldehyde. Furthermore, nobody else in the family wanted the fun party that Grandpa had wanted. I get the good intentions, but I also get why they threw him out.
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# ¿ May 9, 2024 02:10 |
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Midnight Voyager posted:Aimie is just French. It's not that weird, it's not a basic name spelled weird. You're projecting.
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# ¿ May 9, 2024 05:25 |
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AITA for wanting to eat a dessert in a restaurant?quote:So my boyfriend (29m) and me (28f) are currently travelling through Italy. Yesterday we would take a train from Florence to our next hotel in the countryside of Tuscany. We were going to have a last dinner there yesterday night, I chose a place that has the best tiramisu in Florence according to insta and we didn't manage to go there earlier. Our meal took a bit longer than expected and my boyfriend reminded me that the last train we could take was at 21.40, the next train would only come early in the morning. He said that it would be too tight to eat dessert and that we should just pay and leave to make it to the train. According to my estimation we had 20 minutes left, so it would either be 20 minutes waiting in the station or 20 minutes in the restaurant, no big deal.
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# ¿ May 9, 2024 18:45 |
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Chewbecca posted:It's absolutely this Far, far too many of them.
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# ¿ May 10, 2024 03:56 |
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# ¿ May 21, 2024 01:50 |
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quote:My husband and two teenager sons are going away on a trip this weekend. In comments: quote:Your family bought you a crack pipe. This is actual grounds for divorce in my book. If my loving husband did that to me I'd be out the door so fast. NTA The_Franz posted:Grandma's secret dessert recipe taken from the side of the Cool Whip™ package specifically requires Real Cool Whip™. Accept no substitutes. (Bambi eyes) Do you feel like sharing?
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# ¿ May 10, 2024 18:35 |