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SaltLick posted:chicklet teeth always seem to pop up on some really cute girls and it destroys the entire package. its really unfortunate This poo poo is the worst.
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Tumble posted:OK I officially don't get OKCupid - it's easy to hookup on there but the last few girls that I've hooked up with have gone TOTALLY cold (no contact) after hooking up a few times. They probably just lost interest. A lot of people using online dating don't see cutting cold from either messaging or dating as a big deal, because they don't really owe it to you and you're just someone they met. This happens in real life, by the way.
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May 6, 2015 23:45
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People do it a lot but nah it's pretty weird and kinda robotic/cold.
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My guess is that those girls were seeing other guys at the same time as you, things began to heat up with someone else, and they turned their attentions that way. They didn't want to "break it off" because they want to have you on reserve.
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Groovelord Neato posted:People do it a lot but nah it's pretty weird and kinda robotic/cold. Nah, it's actually human nature.
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May 7, 2015 00:00
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guessing obesity
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LOU BEGAS MUSTACHE posted:guessing obesity "bring back a treat" and "maybe share my food" makes it too easy
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NotDeadYet posted:"bring back a treat" and "maybe share my food" makes it too easy no friends so more time for you lol enjoy your clinger
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May 7, 2015 00:47
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The_Book_Of_Harry posted:My guess is that those girls were seeing other guys at the same time as you, things began to heat up with someone else, and they turned their attentions that way. They didn't want to "break it off" because they want to have you on reserve. Messaging or dating is fine, but if we've actually hooked up once or twice... Like I don't feel I'm OWED anything, but a "hey I had fun but I met somebody I really want to date" sucks WAY less than just going blank. And no it does not happen IRL - I've never met a girl in person, asked her out, hooked up and then had her go totally cold.
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May 7, 2015 00:54
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Tumble posted:Messaging or dating is fine, but if we've actually hooked up once or twice... Like I don't feel I'm OWED anything, but a "hey I had fun but I met somebody I really want to date" sucks WAY less than just going blank. if I was a woman, I'd just go dark too. don't take it personally, it's a needed defense mechanism from male rage and entitlement
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May 7, 2015 01:06
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TenementFunster posted:I'd just go dark too.
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May 7, 2015 01:10
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TenementFunster posted:people, and women especially, tend not to do this as other people, guys especially, are really bad at handling rejection and will suddenly become abusive. That's gotta be exactly it. That sucks.
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May 7, 2015 01:17
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TenementFunster posted:people, and women especially, tend not to do this as other people, guys especially, are really bad at handling rejection and will suddenly become abusive. I mean it's cool if you just wnet on a single date or maybe two to do the fadeaway but once you're loving it's really weird to do it. I def wouldn't just ignore texts/calls from a girl if my weiner's been in her even if I wasn't feeling it no more. it's actually kinda sad when girls reject me and then when I react like a normal person they're like "aww you're one of the good ones" when it should be how a guy handles that poo poo every time but I guess a lot of guys are psychos???
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Groovelord Neato posted:I mean it's cool if you just wnet on a single date or maybe two to do the fadeaway but once you're loving it's really weird to do it. I def wouldn't just ignore texts/calls from a girl if my weiner's been in her even if I wasn't feeling it no more. it's actually kinda sad when girls reject me and then when I react like a normal person they're like "aww you're one of the good ones" when it should be how a guy handles that poo poo every time but I guess a lot of guys are psychos??? yes
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Take a look at a girl's inbox sometime if you ever have the opportunity, it will make sense to you.
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Groovelord Neato posted:I mean it's cool if you just wnet on a single date or maybe two to do the fadeaway but once you're loving it's really weird to do it. I def wouldn't just ignore texts/calls from a girl if my weiner's been in her even if I wasn't feeling it no more. it's actually kinda sad when girls reject me and then when I react like a normal person they're like "aww you're one of the good ones" when it should be how a guy handles that poo poo every time but I guess a lot of guys are psychos???
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May 7, 2015 02:03
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man nurse posted:Take a look at a girl's inbox sometime if you ever have the opportunity, it will make sense to you.
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May 7, 2015 02:05
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just be cool. don't send more than one response in a row. don't be an entitled try hard. never assume you're the only one. always move on immediately
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TenementFunster posted:do you really just not understand women this much? yeah enough guys flip poo poo that women don't want to risk having to send out a rejection letter each time some guy doesn't pan out. you're either going to get some boo hoo about "give me another shot," some fuckboy calling you a slut, or some Eliot Rogers shithead. it isn't worth the risk because guys just can't be cool about the game. Don't gently caress them then before the fadeaway? I dunno the difficult part here. Elliot Rodger was a virgin pls learn the lore.
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May 7, 2015 02:12
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Groovelord Neato posted:Don't gently caress them then before the fadeaway? I dunno the difficult part here. I actually kinda get it - from our perspective yea if we hook up with somebody then we are cool and all good and chill and poo poo. But I've also never been called names by a girl who i thought was capable of hurting me, whereas that's a real fear for women who tell a guy they don't want to hook up anymore because they met another guy they want to date more for whatever reason. I was bumming earlier but I for real got some perspective today. And it kinda sucks even more.
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Groovelord Neato posted:Don't gently caress them then before the fadeaway? I dunno the difficult part here.
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Tumble posted:l was bumming earlier but I for real got some perspective today. I mean at least you get it now
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May 7, 2015 02:57
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Please stop paying Italians 50x food cost for mutilated grains and cheese.
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TenementFunster posted:how old are you that you're just now figuring this out? do you not have any actual women friends who think you're cool enough with to talk with about this crap? 29 But i just moved to a new city in a new state so I've been more into online dating than I was before. I had a lot of female friends but none of them ever said "I cut off contact with guys because I don't want to be scared of their reaction." I know you're just being a dick for fun, i just honestly never considered that point of view before. I've known thats its different with online vs in person dating i just never knew that a woman would hook up with a guy but still want to cut off contact entirely vs risking telling him. I didn't have girl friends that did that but I'm just saying that i get it now - like I said, new perspective. Tumble fucked around with this message at 03:22 on May 7, 2015 |
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Sheep-Goats posted:Please stop paying Italians 50x food cost for mutilated grains and cheese. counterpoint: mutilated grains and cheese are delicious
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Tumble posted:OK I officially don't get OKCupid - it's easy to hookup on there but the last few girls that I've hooked up with have gone TOTALLY cold (no contact) after hooking up a few times. You're interesting/attractive enough to gently caress a few times but not what they're specifically looking for. You can decide for yourself how you feel about being Dane Cook :Edit: man nurse posted:Take a look at a girl's inbox sometime if you ever have the opportunity, it will make sense to you. https://instagram.com/byefelipe/ TheSpiritFox fucked around with this message at 03:26 on May 7, 2015 |
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May 7, 2015 03:23
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loquacius posted:counterpoint: mutilated grains and cheese are delicious
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I love Italian but for real gently caress Italian restaurants, eat that poo poo at home.
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Tumble posted:I've known thats its different with online vs in person dating
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TenementFunster posted:no, it's not. how are you goddamn 29 and still don't understand some of the most basic things about women and dating? i didn't get it until I was like 22 and stopped being a shithead. 29 is beyond pale. when you let go of that insecurity and can take a hint when the fadeaway happens it's amazing how much your life changes for the better.
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5-HT posted:i didn't get it until I was like 22 and stopped being a shithead. 29 is beyond pale. when you let go of that insecurity and can take a hint when the fadeaway happens it's amazing how much your life changes for the better. nobody wants to deal with having to expressly reject a tedious and possibly abusive mouth-breather
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TenementFunster posted:also strange how women will be way more open about what they want when you aren't throwing the oblivious, possible fuckboy vibe out there. odd how obsessive dumbfucks get the fadeaway a lot more, huh? yeah this too. confidence is really just letting go of your insecurities over any form of potential rejection and knowing exactly what it is you want. you'd think it'd be more obvious, but there are tons of dudes who just cannot or will not get it because they're not wanting the insight.
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May 7, 2015 07:34
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lmao every rejected man is a possible elliot rodgers shithead!!!
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TenementFunster posted:also strange how women will be way more open about what they want when you aren't throwing the oblivious, possible fuckboy vibe out there. odd how obsessive dumbfucks get the fadeaway a lot more, huh? brah, no goonette reading this is gonna shag you cos you're getting super mad on their behalf.
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Cutting someone out like that seems like it could create the very reaction that these women fear. It provokes me at least. Normal rejection i can deal with. But if you just disappear i am going to keep calling and sending emails until i get a loving response. Then i`ll never contact you again once i know what`s up.
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opus111 posted:brah, no goonette reading this is gonna shag you cos you're getting super mad on their behalf. Baudolino posted:
5-HT posted:yeah this too. confidence is really just letting go of your insecurities over any form of potential rejection and knowing exactly what it is you want. you'd think it'd be more obvious, but there are tons of dudes who just cannot or will not get it because they're not wanting the insight. I met my current girlfriend in person (on a plane of all places), and she still played the intentionally slow response game with me. it drove me crazy at the time, and months later she told me it drove her crazy, too, that I didn't send another message until she did, but that's the dumb brain game of feigning disinterest we all have to play. TenementFunster fucked around with this message at 08:10 on May 7, 2015 |
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Baudolino posted:But if you just disappear i am going to keep calling and sending emails until i get a loving response. start wearing this on your dates so both of the parties can avoid any awkward situations 
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opus111 posted:lmao every rejected man is a possible elliot rodgers shithead!!! rape culture
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