WAY TO GO WAMPA!! posted:

what exactly is a sfw nude? Like underwear/swimsuit?

C-SPAN Caller posted:

Lol if you think you can get good grades and be social to any large extent

Chomp8645 posted:

You can totally do this you just have to have an easy major.

Sorry engineers. Either pass classes or have fun, not both.

WAY TO GO WAMPA!! posted:

what exactly is a sfw nude? Like underwear/swimsuit?

Gaunab posted:

WAY TO GO WAMPA!! posted:

what exactly is a sfw nude? Like underwear/swimsuit?

Chomp8645 posted:

You can totally do this you just have to have an easy major.

Sorry engineers. Either pass classes or have fun, not both.

Pelvic Floor Wax posted:

In the comments she made it sound like waist up. "No clothes, nipples upwards. Shows my face."

As for what nipples upwards means... I can't help.

Dial-a-Dog posted:

She didn't mention the thieves taking any money either. You've gotta figure once you've upgraded your breaking and entering to multiple counts of assault and kidnapping you'd at least go for the obvious extra of robbing the people present

Pick posted:

Smartest guy I know ended up working at a call center. Took him like five years to get out of that poo poo

scrubs season six posted:

I'm starting to think we know each other. How big was this guys dick?

scrubs season six posted:

I'm starting to think we know each other. How big was this guys dick?

sucked my twin off posted:

My [23f] new bf [27m] of 3 months is either a disney character, crazy, or a liar. (guy with an eagle in his house)

flick my Mr. Bean posted:

If I was her, my biggest issue would be how to convince him to marry him. That guy is loving cool.

Leon Einstein posted:

Some of you will believe anything.

Leon Einstein posted:

Some of you will believe anything.

Leon Einstein posted:

Some of you will believe anything.

Leon Einstein posted:

Some of you will believe anything.

Leon Einstein posted:

You guys are touchy about being called out for believing in the beastmaster.

ikanreed posted:

Anyone got a raptor to sic on this guy?

Pelvic Floor Wax posted:

Regulation Size posted:

honestly, there are so many uninspired nude photos floating around 4chan, like literally thousands, that I'm surprised anyone would care. especially a "SFW" nude. fuckin' yawn, dude.

remigious posted:

I've never really had many female friends and I'm not proud of it, in fact it really bums me out.

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Over the past year my SO got a new job, this is a high stress job and I don't think he's been handling it very well. I have noticed that he's been slowly increasing how much he's been drinking since he got this position. There is a local bar/pub within walking distance to our apartment, we go there frequently. But, what use to be a 1-2x a week venture, is now 3-4x a week.

We were at this local bar 2 nights ago, I had to use the ladies room and asked my SO to watch my purse while I was gone. When I came back he was no where to be found. My purse was lying out, my new phone was laying beside it, not to mention I had valuables in my purse. I sat back down and was waiting for him, he reappeared about 10 min later. I asked him why he just left my items out like that when I asked him to watch it for an entire 2-3 min that I'd be gone. His response was basically no harm, no foul (nothing was stolen, fortunately). I explained that if I ask him to do something, and he agrees to do it, then he needs to follow through. I also explained that if he didn't want to watch my things he was free to say no and I'd take my things with me. We were both irritated but eventually decided to drop it.

Then the weirdness started. After his first drink he brought up our argument again and how I sounded mean when asking him "why didn't you watch my purse." I apologized if I sounded angry/mean, but I was frustrated that he promised to do something but ended up not doing it. He then used a fake-angry voice to mock me and said "you sounded like (fake mean voice) 'why didn't you watch my purse'!?"

I asked him to just drop it, and that I'd take my things with me from now on so he wouldn't have to worry about it. We get our 2nd drink, he mocks me again, this time using a slightly more aggressive mean voice when saying "why didn't you watch my purse?!" This pattern continues, every now and then he'll repeat that question and each time he uses a more and more aggressive voice. It gets to the point where he uses extreme sounding voices.. like when someone pretends to speak as if they are a demon or satan. Like a demonic sounding voice you'd hear from some cheesy 80's show - think Dr Claw's voice from Inspector Gadget.

I was speechless for awhile. I asked him to drop it, he wouldn't. I got fed up and told him he was overreacting to the situation, that I didn't sound like a demon, and he was being incredibly immature about a stupid request that he failed to fulfill. He got angry. The bartender, someone who is also a mutual friend, heard me say he's overreacting and saw him getting angry. She even told my SO that he needed to calm down, that it's okay and he doesn't have to get angry. He got pissed for being told to "calm down" and stormed out of the bar without paying. I was stuck with the bill and I was too pissed off to deal with this poo poo. So, I sat there and finished my beer. I figured he walked back to the apartment.

The bartender seemed concerned about me. She asked if I was okay and agreed with me that he was starting to get loud and out of line. I eventually finish my beer, maybe 20-30 min later. I walk outside and he's standing there waiting for me. This time he looks really, really sad. He says to me "I was hoping you would run after me after I left the bar." I'm standing there like wtf did I just hear? I said no, we hadn't paid our bill, I wasn't finished, and you stormed out for a reason I thought was unnecessary. He started to apologize but then turned it around on me, that he was so upset that I would talk to him like that, and mocked me yet again by saying in the most horrific fake-demonic sounding voice "why didn't you watch my purse?"

I was tired, didn't haven't any comebacks, and I just felt drained. I just wanted him to stop mocking me. That's all I wanted. But, it didn't end there. We walk back to the apartment, once inside he reiterates the purse story AGAIN. And mocks me AGAIN this time using a super whiny pathetic sounding voice to say "why didn't you watch my purse?" I tell him to drop it, and he finally agrees.

I thought that was it, but yesterday morning after we got up, he goes over the same incident again, mocks me again, using a scary sounding voice. I don't respond to this. That was finally the end of it.
We've been together for nearly 6 years, met at the same university and were in the same program together. He use to be a nice, calm, rational and intelligent person. I don't recognize him anymore. Can this be saved? How do I talk to him? I don't want to end a 6 year relationship off of something so stupid and bizarre. But, I also know I never want to be mocked like that ever again.

tl;dr I asked my SO to watch my purse while I was gone, he didn't. I asked why he didn't watch my things like I asked, he said nothing was stolen so it was fine. He begins to use weird/angry/demonic sounding voices to mock me throughout the night saying "what didn't you watch my purse?" over and over again. Together 6 years, I don't want to end a relationship because of something so stupid, but I feel drained after that argument. How can I talk to him or salvage this relationship?

Leon Einstein posted:

Some of you will believe anything.

Tolkien minority posted:

My (26f) SO (27m) of 6 years mocked me using a fake aggressive scary sounding voice multiple times after an argument.

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That voice he did isn't crazy or a sign that he was acting crazy. That voice was just the classic way of a male rear end in a top hat to tell you that your female emotions are stupid and worthy of mocking.

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I think we need to go back to the beginning of your post. You tasked your bf to watch your things, essentially, to caretake your easily portable items. A lot of guys do not like this sort of imposition. He's one of them.

When you asked him it's not clear from your post that he agreed to do so, but let's assume he said, 'ok.' He then passive aggressively left your stuff alone as a way of saying, "Watch your own purse, or just take it with you. I'm not your lapdog."

After you publicly remonstrated him he felt embarrassed and began to attempt to relay to you how that felt in a rather childish way. Because you were both a little drunk, nothing was communicated clearly about why he was bothered by the whole interaction in the first place and he, ironically, wanted an apology.

When he didn't get that, he began to ramp up his prodding, meanwhile continuing to drink, until he was pushing your buttons in a way he felt was commensurate. Then stuff starts to get out of hand as he begins injecting more of his actual emotional state into the interaction, relaying in an oblique manner that he is feeling overloaded by the burden of his high stress job and not wanting to be tasked any more than he is already.

Then he becomes more and more passive aggressive about what he feels you should already know, eventually leading to him leaving and expecting you to understand what he wants without telling you.

He wants an apology from you. Even though you don't feel you were in the wrong, maybe it is worth recognizing that he felt you were adding to his burdens by asking him to do something when he was 'off the clock' as a way of starting a conversation about why his behavior was not ok, and also as a way of checking in to see how he is managing his work responsibilities. It's not ok for him to take his feelings out on you, but he also needs to know that it's ok to share them. Also, he should apologize for his bullshit behavior. I suspect he will if he feels he can open up about the pressure he is taking home with him from work.