ravenkult posted:

Wait so what kind of boob porn is he watching where D cups are too small to work for him?

Doflamingo posted:

I've been reading that subreddit for a while now and find it hard to believe it was that clear-cut, honestly. Most of the people on there seem more logical than what you're describing.

quote:

It has come to my attention that my girlfriend let slip that she basically has this huge crush on a character from Full Metal Alchemist basically to the point that she would want to have sex with this character. I don't usually watch anime and I'm just looking for advice on how to react or handle a situation such as this.

All in all how the hell do I react?

tldr: Girlfriend wants a character from an anime.

Edit: Throwaway for obvious reasons. I can't have her find this

Jeff Sichoe posted:

The best titties to gently caress are not the best ones to look at.

Choose one.

ravenkult posted:

Wait so what kind of boob porn is he watching where D cups are too small to work for him?

Pvt.Scott posted:

veiny disaster bags

Antivehicular posted:

"Veiny Disaster Bags" was a chapter title in my Master's dissertation in Titfucking Mechanics

zakharov posted:

This thread is getting uncomfortable

Pvt.Scott posted:

I(33M) need an adult(16f)!

Pick posted:

One more thing on the list of what listless morons will ruin their lives over when placed in an environment where basic needs are met

quote:

I (25/F) was expected to make a lot of sacrifices for my brother's (23/M) athletic career. Now he's made it pro, he's never acknowledged that and it's his girlfriend who was never there who gets it all. It's making me resentful to him and my parents.

Obviously a throwaway and I'm going to be vague about some details and not mention the sport or country we are in for identity protection.

My brother is a very successful professional athlete on a 7 figure a year contract.

As a child, I was expected (not asked if I was ok with) to make numerous sacrifices for the sake of developing his career. He's never once thanked me for this. My parents have never once acknowledged it. It's something that really bothers me and I want to talk to them about it and don't know how.

As a child, I enjoyed taking ballet classes. This stopped when my brother showed prodigy style talent in his sport and my parents were told he could be a pro. I was pulled out of ballet to accommodate him so they could pay for extra practices for him. I was always expected to spend my weekends watching him rather than getting to do my own thing. And that was only the beginning of it. I was always put in second hand clothes, not given my own experiences (I never got a birthday party after it all started) so all the money could be poured into his sport.

Halfway through high school, my family moved six hours away for the sake of living somewhere where he could join a professional clubs youth development program as he was starting high school. No one cared that I was happy and didn't want to go and leave my friends. No one cared when I started getting bullied at the new school because I was the new kid and became withdrawn and deeply unhappy living in the new city. I just got told to stop sulking and support my brother. I tried to talk about the bullying and was dismissed. Even a teacher called my parents into the school and said 'I think your daughter is struggling with her mental health and feels like she doesn't have the support of her parents because you are so focused on moulding your son into a professional athlete'. Instead of having the wake up call they needed, they complained about the teacher and got her into some trouble.

I actually reached out to that teacher on Facebook about three years ago and thanked them for what they did for me. She wrote back to me and asked what I was doing, without a single reference to my brother despite the fact he he just achieved something very big that everyone knew about. I told her I'd just got accepted into law school and had passed the C2 proficiency test to be deemed highly proficient in a foreign language I studied during my studies. She wrote back and said 'I want you to know I am very proud of you. Your achievements matter'. I actually burst into tears! It was the first time I'd ever felt like I mattered as much as my brother. No one has ever really cared about anything I've done without making a reference to him as well. For once in my life, I felt like an individual who mattered for something other than being XXX XXX's sister. I've actually stayed in touch with the teacher and they have become a mentor to me. I am so thankful to her.

By this time as a teenager, my brother himself was starting to show a real entitled attitude about it all too. He'd say things like 'it's not my fault I'm the talented one' and 'it's not my fault you're average'. It really bothered me. Because despite what my brother said.......I'm not average. I'm actually very academically gifted and this was never acknowledged because being smart isn't as 'glamorous' as being a jock. I feel a lot of resentment about the fact my talents were never acknowledged by my family and that they don't view my accomplishments (like graduating high school top of my class, my first class honours degree and getting into a very prestigious law school on a scholarship) don't matter. They didn't even make the effort to come to my graduation.

But it's all still bothering me.

Something that is really bothering me is the way I have been left to struggle financially through my studies while my brother is rich because my parents prioritised his needs over mine. I hate seeing his girlfriend carrying around designer handbags and shoes he's paid for when she wasn't the one who had an awful upbringing to make this all possible. It sounds entitled, but I feel like I was made to sacrifice my own happiness, my own interests for the sake of making him rich and and I don't see a single bit of the reward or thanks for it. It's like I had to give give give and got nothing back. Meanwhile she waltzes in when all the 'dirty work' has been done and starts doing nothing by trying to be an Instagram celebrity with his money and acting like she has accomplished something with her life because she hit the 'holy grail' of dating an athlete. She never had to deal with the downsides of getting him there the way I did.

It's not even about the handbags. I'm not even the type to want a handbag that costs a four figure sum. I actually find it disgusting the way her handbag and shoe collection added up could buy a house. But it upsets me the way she wasn't the one who was treated like crap all childhood and now she is basically wearing the benefits of all my sacrifices. She also does literally nothing but spend his money and post to instagram. I feel annoyed that after everything I did, she is living this life of luxury on the back of my sacrifices while I work hard for less. Hell, he lives in luxuty and yet my brother has never offered to do something nice to me to say thank you, to help with my studies, nothing to basically say 'hey sis, thanks for being expected to give up everything you ever wanted when you were younger to make me a millionaire athlete'.

Basically, I just want to tell them how I feel without sounding like an rear end in a top hat. I want to tell them how much it bothers me I matter less to them. How do I do it?

tl;dr: Was made to make tons of sacrifices for my brother to become a pro athlete, now he isn't even grateful and my parents enable it all. How to talk to them about how much it hurts without sounding like a brat?

Pvt.Scott posted:

disaster bags

loquacius posted:

Tittyfucking IRL is a blowjob enhancement technique, not a standalone activity

The Snoo posted:

this is what we've decided to call mine now, thank you


👌👌👌

my husband likes to hit me in the face with me own tit

Mocking Bird posted:

Maybe that girl should have been nicer to her little brother before he got rich if she wants him to buy her stuff

Sorry, there are no lovely parent reparations and they certainly wouldn't come from your sibling if there were

Gaunab posted:

quote:

I met this man and hit it off with him very quickly. The first few weeks of dating were nice and seemed normal from a frequency of contact perspective. Now, we see each other once every 7-10 days, for a few hours at a time. We're both extremely busy professionals, but I feel like I could handle getting together 3x per week. It feels like the infrequent contact is a sign that he's interested only in sex and not a relationship (even though he says otherwise). We discussed the lack of contact and emotional intimacy last night (which ended with him saying that he couldn't see me this week because he had to work on his house....). Should I just end this now, or give him a chance? What is normal for frequency of contact? He said he could do 2 get-togethers per week. I would prefer at least 3, with calls or texts in between, he is a no text no call guy.
TL;DR Should I end a relationship where the frequency of contact is minimal (1-2 times per week, no calls or texts in between)? What is a normal amount of contact in a relationship?

La Brea Carpet posted:

Should I end this relationship? I (33f) have been dating someone (32m) for several months, and he seems to want very little contact (1x per week), and no calls or texts in between.



Hmm....

1.) Infrequent contact
2.) No text, no call
3.) Only meets for sex

Gonna need Scooby Doo to help solve this mystery.........

You're his side piece

Pvt.Scott posted:

I dunno, this pretty much describes my most recently developed friendship. Chica is just busy.

From the other side, this probably describes me pretty well from my friends' POV when I'm depressed.

Not sure sex being involved would change much in either case.

E: sometimes it is literally "only meet for x thing"

Charles Get-Out posted:

Even if she was nicer, no one ever appreciates you as much as you feel like you should be appreciated if you fall into the trap of expecting to people to give a poo poo about how much you've suffered, for them or otherwise.

MorgaineDax posted:

I'm not posting the whole thing, because it's too depressing and he might end up deleting it. But a guy has been posting for the past month about how his wife was cheating on him, and he didn't know if he should leave or stay for the sake of his kids.



He posted this meme, and finally decided to ask for a divorce two weeks ago. Then he posted an update this morning that consisted of this link.

I wanted a better update.

Pvt.Scott posted:

I dunno, this pretty much describes my most recently developed friendship. Chica is just busy.

From the other side, this probably describes me pretty well from my friends' POV when I'm depressed.

Not sure sex being involved would change much in either case.

E: sometimes it is literally "only meet for x thing"

MorgaineDax posted:

I'm not posting the whole thing, because it's too depressing and he might end up deleting it. But a guy has been posting for the past month about how his wife was cheating on him, and he didn't know if he should leave or stay for the sake of his kids.



He posted this meme, and finally decided to ask for a divorce two weeks ago. Then he posted an update this morning that consisted of this link.

I wanted a better update.

La Brea Carpet posted:

I mean I get that different people have different expectations about these things, but this isn't a friendship or buddies.

She wants to have a real relationship and he is sending all the "I just want to be FWB" signals while paying lip service to the relationship ideal.

MorgaineDax posted:

I'm not posting the whole thing, because it's too depressing and he might end up deleting it. But a guy has been posting for the past month about how his wife was cheating on him, and he didn't know if he should leave or stay for the sake of his kids.



He posted this meme, and finally decided to ask for a divorce two weeks ago. Then he posted an update this morning that consisted of this link.

I wanted a better update.

quote:

I'm a guy and physical touch means everything to me, and while I'd never prohibit my girlfriend from getting piercings or even give her an ultimatum, I'm very frustrated she got them.

Piercings are simply an aesthetic decoration, literally #aesthetics for people my age. It comes at a heavy tradeoff of 6-9 months (minimum) healing time in which I can't really hug her hard, I can't cuddle spooning her and holding her breasts, I can't lick them for...probably 9+ months because of possible infections, plus I LOATHE the taste of metal and how clumsy it feels in my mouth (do I just flick the nipple, can't go around because stupid loving bar hits me in the teeth every time I trace around the nip) vs. a normal fuckign nipple, so I'm not licking them if and when they heal.

I can't help but be resentful and bitter that she knew these things would happen because I told her all of this, yet she got them anyway. Help me realize I'm wrong. I'm okay with a selfish choice, but a selfish choice that affects our intimacy and sex life for up to a year? I'm wary of that

EDIT: I'll learn to live with the piercings. I'm beginning to realize that I was just as selfish in my own right. Also reddit has a serious problem of just saying "break it off". It's too easy to break things off at the drop of a hat, it's much harder to deal with issues and personal problems, isn't it? I rather work on my own selfishness and insecurities than break things off.

tl;dr: girlfriend got nipplie piercings, I'm taking it as a sign that she cares more about some dumb visual aspect than our intimacy

loquacius posted:

I'm getting the idea that post would have done better in r/raisedbynarcissists