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Making poo poo worse and worse for sex offenders is a popular way for politicians to seem "tough on crime" and if you stand against it it's really easy for your opponent to insinuate that you are a pedophile, so now we have poo poo like that thing where guys who got drunk and peed on the wrong building have to live in shanty-towns under the freeway because they're not allowed to live near bus stops and bus stops are everywhere
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quote:Throwaway account just to be safe. English isn't my 1st language so sorry in advance. This is the fuckin' best.
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Nov 28, 2016 18:21
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loquacius posted:Making poo poo worse and worse for sex offenders is a popular way for politicians to seem "tough on crime" and if you stand against it it's really easy for your opponent to insinuate that you are a pedophile, so now we have poo poo like that thing where guys who got drunk and peed on the wrong building have to live in shanty-towns under the freeway because they're not allowed to live near bus stops and bus stops are everywhere I can't tell if you telling the truth or it's just hyperbole but it wouldn't surprise me if it was true.
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Nov 28, 2016 18:21
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loquacius posted:Making poo poo worse and worse for sex offenders is a popular way for politicians to seem "tough on crime" and if you stand against it it's really easy for your opponent to insinuate that you are a pedophile, so now we have poo poo like that thing where guys who got drunk and peed on the wrong building have to live in shanty-towns under the freeway because they're not allowed to live near bus stops and bus stops are everywhere "Dude who peed in public and is now on the registry for life" is a boogeyman the MRAs like to bring up. The vast majority of the people on that registry did some supremely hosed up poo poo.
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Nov 28, 2016 18:22
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well why not posted:This is the fuckin' best. The lovely tattoos and ironic glasses are the best part. Hilarious. 
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Nov 28, 2016 18:28
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well why not posted:This is the fuckin' best.  Does it have their ages?
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Nov 28, 2016 18:30
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Ratjaculation posted:
She's 27 and he's 37. 
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Nov 28, 2016 18:31
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The instagram thing is the best bit imo Edit: ^^ noo... no loving way
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Nov 28, 2016 18:32
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My [48F] daughter [27F] made a hurtful comment on social media, and I am struggling with how to confront herquote:My daughter "Donna" and I don't have the best relationship. She was always a willful child and acted out a lot as a teenager, and she moved out of the house when she was nineteen. Over the years, she's come back and had to ask myself and her dad for help a few times, which we have always given. Most of the time, though, she keeps her distance. Things are generally better than when she was a teenager, and more pleasant, but there are still times when she says things that I view as harsh and insists that she's "setting boundaries" so she should be allowed to have her way. A good example of this is how often she calls. Donna lives across the country from us and calls about every two weeks. I have told her I'd like to hear from her more often, but it has apparently fallen on deaf ears as she has maintained her every-two-week calling pattern for over a year. She has also requested that I not call her, as she is very busy and her job keeps odd hours. It seems that with Donna, there is very little "compromise" and instead a lot of "my way or the highway." 
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Nov 28, 2016 18:38
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Jeffrey of YOSPOS posted:She's 27 and he's 37. It actually makes a lot more sense this way, bog-standard mid-life crisis
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Nov 28, 2016 18:39
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sinking belle posted:My [48F] daughter [27F] made a hurtful comment on social media, and I am struggling with how to confront her The behavior of the daughter seems totally normal to me, I'm guessing they were lovely parents. E: Called it! quote:No, in this context "willful" means that Donna acted out quite a bit as a teenager in order to get her way, and that hasn't changed with age. She lied frequently, snuck out, broke her curfew, lied to her father and myself about relationships with boys, shoplifted, bullied her brothers, and skipped school. The list goes on. She has made a career out of lying to us about whatever she apparently feels she needs to, in order to get her way. Now that she's an adult, she apparently no longer feels that she needs to lie to us, but she still doesn't seem to care who she hurts as long as she gets her way. Oh no, my teenager did teenager things, what an awful child. WampaLord fucked around with this message at 18:42 on Nov 28, 2016 |
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Nov 28, 2016 18:40
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sinking belle posted:My [48F] daughter [27F] made a hurtful comment on social media, and I am struggling with how to confront her
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Nov 28, 2016 18:42
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Troposphere posted:kind of reminds me of my dad tbh haha oh no Dad autistic, oh no
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Nov 28, 2016 18:47
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WampaLord posted:"Dude who peed in public and is now on the registry for life" is a boogeyman the MRAs like to bring up. The vast majority of the people on that registry did some supremely hosed up poo poo. Most states have language in their laws that make public urination a misdemeanor UNLESS there's proof they're getting some sort of stimulation from the act, so yea, it doesn't happen.
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Nov 28, 2016 18:48
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Grem posted:Most states have language in their laws that make public urination a misdemeanor UNLESS there's proof they're getting some sort of stimulation from the act, so yea, it doesn't happen. Do all registries require that the offence be a felony?
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Nov 28, 2016 18:50
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sinking belle posted:My [48F] daughter [27F] made a hurtful comment on social media, and I am struggling with how to confront her She has another comment where she 'gasped audibly' when she saw the horrible, offensive social media post.  This lady owns.quote:I fail to see how I am unreasonable for thinking that it's disrespectful to call one's parents so infrequently, and that it's insensitive to call someone "the greatest man I know" without thought for how anyone else reading it might feel.
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Nov 28, 2016 18:56
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sinking belle posted:My [48F] daughter [27F] made a hurtful comment on social media, and I am struggling with how to confront her This might as well be a post from my Mother-in-law. Really cool, and horrifying, to see this from the other side.
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Nov 28, 2016 18:59
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I'm having trouble not visualizing Hurtful Comment lady as Lucille Bluth
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Nov 28, 2016 19:00
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sinking belle posted:My [48F] daughter [27F] made a hurtful comment on social media, and I am struggling with how to confront her Narcissism is one hell of a drug. Good thing her daughter is 27 and can easily ignore her bullshit, unlike the earlier post about the shitbag mom who read her 16 year old daughter's diary and violated her privacy over absolutely nothing. People suck. It's hard enough being a teenager and nutty parents make it worse.
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Nov 28, 2016 19:01
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wow. My Dad was like that. For a few weeks I disconnected my land line while we were getting ready to move. My Dad sent me the email complaining that he couldn't just reach out and talk to me when he wanted. He also called my mom (they've been divorced for years) and other family members to ask how much time I spent with them when I was in town (I live 8 hours away). But then he'd do things like come all the way up for a visit (Southern Ontario) and obsesses over whatever college football game was on that weekend. One time in particular I offered to PVR the game for him so that we could have a nice dinner that my wife had been planning and cooking all day. One bite in the meal he winces and asks if he can eat while watching the game. Well that's my r/raisedbynarcissists story.
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Nov 28, 2016 19:05
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sinking belle posted:
I will not put in as much effort in buying Christmas presents for my adult and capable daughter, that will show her. 
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Nov 28, 2016 19:05
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OP is doubling down in the comments and the entire thread is calling her on her poo poo and if you've ever known anyone like this person then reading through the whole thing is gonna be the best feel-good experience you'll have all day https://www.reddit.com/r/relationships/comments/5fco1o/my_48f_daughter_27f_made_a_hurtful_comment_on/
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I have to wonder how "hurtbydaughter58" even found r/relationships and figured out how to use Reddit. She doesn't seem particularly experienced with Internet discussions.a redditor posted:
OP posted:Excuse me????? the first guy posted:Nope, you are absolutely not excused for doing this poo poo to your own kid. OP posted:Are you excused from explaining yourself? Where "by my own admission" am I unfair to her "her entire life"? You are so out of line. a different redditor posted:Dont argue like that it just makes the people on here dislike you more OP posted:So people here just say crappy things to posters and then don't back them up? What a great advice forum. I can picture very clearly the OP demanding to see a manager whose apology she may or may not accept
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Nov 28, 2016 19:22
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I couldn't resist finding that thread and replying. Had to point out to the mom that you're supposed to like your spouse more than your parents because your parents loving die on you. Hope the mortality check isn't too much for her 
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Nov 28, 2016 19:23
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I love it when they all team up and dunk on an OP. It's really satisfying.
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Nov 28, 2016 19:24
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Naerasa posted:I couldn't resist finding that thread and replying. Had to point out to the mom that you're supposed to like your spouse more than your parents because your parents loving die on you. Hope the mortality check isn't too much for her On one hand, don't touch the poop, but now that you did it, would you mind linking? Nevermind, found it. Space Kablooey fucked around with this message at 19:27 on Nov 28, 2016 |
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[California] Weird Question about age of consentquote:No, not that kind of question. I have a 4 year old son who is going to be 5 in September. His birthday is early enough in the month it is before the cutoff and he would be able to start Kindergarten this year. If he did, he most likely would be the youngest student in his grade. My wife and I are currently debating whether or not to start him this year or to wait another year. He's a smaller little guy but has made friends with children that will be starting school this year. She would like to hold him back so that he doesn't have to be the smallest kid in class, but I would like him to go to school to be with his friends. However due to being a legaladvice lurker I have another worry about holding him back: i'm trying to optimize the age at which i send my child to school so that in 2028 he can gently caress worry free, any advice
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Nov 28, 2016 19:26
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Christ, she's getting shredded in the comments.
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Nov 28, 2016 19:27
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almightyerin posted:Christ, she's getting shredded in the comments. Because there's a lot of people out there who can see their own parents in her post and are opening fire on them by proxy.
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Nov 28, 2016 19:28
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It's just fascinating to see the other side of 'My Mother/Mother In Law is a lunatic' posts.
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There are legit problems with the sex offender registry. Not so much about public urination, but more about teenagers and kids making bad decisions and having their lives ruined. Even if they get off the list their history is one Google search away.
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Nov 28, 2016 19:37
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Pick posted:Which, of course, wouldn't be a big problem except that his zygomatic arch is 2 cm insufficiently protuberant Is this a phrenology thing? Idgi
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Naerasa posted:I couldn't resist finding that thread and replying. Had to point out to the mom that you're supposed to like your spouse more than your parents because your parents loving die on you. Hope the mortality check isn't too much for her Jeffrey of YOSPOS fucked around with this message at 20:08 on Nov 28, 2016 |
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I [26m] am currently in a relationship with my girlfriend [25f] for almost a year. She is my second cousin once removed. I really need help on this one. Both of our parents are against with our relationship. They want us to stop it, even from the very beginning. However, we didn't stop it because we really like each other. We love each other and want to spend the rest of our lives together. Both of our parents (including our siblings and some family members) are really angry and would really want us to stop our relationship. They're saying that it is immoral and not right; that we should be ashamed of ourselves because of what we're doing. They're all Christians, and I've studied the belief of Catholics and some other Christian denominations when it comes to this matter. For a little bit of information, the Canon Law (Catholicism) and the Holy Bible does not forbid relationships between second cousins once removed. In fact, Joseph and Mary (parents of Jesus) are somehow related to each other. In my opinion, for them to say that what we're doing is immoral is not based on their religious belief but based on the way their brain works. They are worried on what other people will think about us. To tell you the truth, we've talked to our friends and other relatives, and they have no problems with our relationship. I see it as they are more worried on what other people will think about them. They're worried that they will look bad because of what my girlfriend and I are doing. My family already stopped talking to me about it because I told them that I've made up my mind, and I'll do everything and anything it takes to spend the rest of my life with her. Even though they're not talking to me anymore, they are still trying to look for ways to stop us by talking to my friends to tell me to end it. On the other hand, her parents are somehow different. They told her that they would not allow us to be together. As the matter of fact, they told her they would kill me to prevent us from being together. I know they are only saying that to scare her and get into her head, and the bad part is, it is working! I keep telling her that it is not them who will be with me forever, and same thing with my parents. It is you who's going to be with me, and it is me who's going to be with you. Please help me know more about this kind of relationship and how to deal with it. I've searched all over the web and notice that people who are against it are straight to the point by saying "ew," "disgusting," "get help," etc. However, those who are not against it, or at least know what's going on, are saying their opinions and findings in more detail. We are both truly in love with each other. We're not asking for anything else but to only be together and spend the rest of our lives together. Please, help me find words to encourage her every day; that we're not alone and have people out there who recognizes what she and I have. We're almost going to hit our first year, and I want her to be more happy than ever. Thank you so much for the time you spent on reading this. It already means a lot to us. TLDR: I'm in a relationship with my second cousin once removed. Both of our parents do not want us to continue because it is immoral.
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Syncopated posted:Is this a phrenology thing? Idgi it's from earlier when guys were talking about how they are too ugly for women because *impossibly precise measurement on obscure body part* is not correct and how unfair this is
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Jeffrey of YOSPOS posted:I obviously cannot prevent people from going and posting there but...please don't report back here when you do. I don't think it's any shocker that people want to comment, but lets not open pandora's box and let this thread be a place to post your epic pwns. Yeah that's usually not something I feel the need to do, since I like to think of these reddit threads as nature preserves that need to be left to flourish on their own, but it's just so rare to see the crazy mom be the one to post that I couldn't resist pouncing on it.
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Farg posted:[California] Weird Question about age of consent I don't know, this seems like a legit worry. I know I wouldn't want any kids I have picking up bullshit severe charges for fooling around in high school and I've met several prosecutors who would go all in on these types of cases. His state not having Romeo and Juliet laws is kind of hosed; even my state does and people tend to poo poo on it as being the worst Red state in existence.
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Naerasa posted:Yeah that's usually not something I feel the need to do, since I like to think of these reddit threads as nature preserves that need to be left to flourish on their own, but it's just so rare to see the crazy mom be the one to post that I couldn't resist pouncing on it.  I've gotten a couple reddit accounts banned from the subreddit....apparently calling someone a wet blanket is too harsh.)
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Farg posted:[California] Weird Question about age of consent i wish my parents were this thoughtful about my loving
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