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Anony Mouse posted:Me [32F] with my husband[33M] 12 years, he got caught lying "Porn addiction" in American evangelist Christian parlance tends to mean "looks at porn" in any and every capacity. It's an addiction because you can't stop doing it, despite being shamed by your religion and peers, and not even your wife refusing to sleep with you has helped to break you from its steely grip. It has to be an addiction, you see, because you don't murder people or rob strangers purely due to the influence of G*D, and looking at porn is just as bad, as all sin is equal. Truly, only the Lord Jesus can save you now, sinner. E: she's not mad about the lying, she's mad about the porn. Pvt.Scott fucked around with this message at 02:43 on Nov 30, 2016 |
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Porn is just a thing people need to accept and get over. Kinda like pooping. You don't try and catch them doing it, and you just hope you're not around when they do it.
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Nov 30, 2016 02:57
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Gumbel2Gumbel posted:Porn is just a thing people need to accept and get over. Kinda like pooping. You don't try and catch them doing it, and you just hope you're not around when they do it. Yeah p much just taking a creamy poo poo out of you're dick. 
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Nov 30, 2016 02:58
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ClamdestineBoyster posted:Yeah p much just taking a creamy poo poo out of you're dick. All I know is that if I don't do either for several days I'm pretty sure I'll die.
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Nov 30, 2016 03:00
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bone app the teeth posted:it doesn't work very well then Much like the majority of irony. (ironic that)
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Nov 30, 2016 03:16
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30 Goddamned Dicks posted:
I'm sure they didn't originally intend to drag her, but once you've got a live one on the line, old habits are hard to break
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Nov 30, 2016 03:20
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Pvt.Scott posted:E: she's not mad about the lying, she's mad about the porn. All she mentions is "he looks at porn" and "he lies about looking at porn in the face of my extreme negative reactions to it". If it was a real problem I'm certain she would've at least mentioned some other negative to it. She doesn't even mention reduced sex drive or anything Also, I don't know exactly why, but any time I see someone in these posts trot out a pet phrase like "trickle truth" in hers, it makes me absolutely certain they're horrible and insufferable to be around. It helps that she later used the idea in a sentence like "more information is coming out, and it's still trickling, slowly but surely, as I scream and swear at him"
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Nov 30, 2016 03:42
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Also I went to go find that post to see if she posted more, but got sidetracked herequote:My [20f] boyfriend [25m] will never directly initiate sex and his approximation of it makes me feel weird.
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Dial-a-Dog posted:Also I went to go find that post to see if she posted more, but got sidetracked here This is the funniest thing that's been posted in a while.
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Nov 30, 2016 04:03
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Dial-a-Dog posted:All she mentions is "he looks at porn" and "he lies about looking at porn in the face of my extreme negative reactions to it". If it was a real problem I'm certain she would've at least mentioned some other negative to it. She doesn't even mention reduced sex drive or anything Thing is, the immediate advice is really the same in in either situation: Get Therapy and/or Break Up. Like, either she's got some major hang ups or he's got a problem. Either way, he's skulking around behind her back and lying to her face. That lack of trust is going to sink the ship real fast no matter which one of them is being more unreasonable.
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Nov 30, 2016 04:31
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ClamdestineBoyster posted:Yeah p much just taking a creamy poo poo out of you're dick. Thanks in advanced for never putting those words in that order ever again
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Nov 30, 2016 05:05
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Gaunab posted:This is the funniest thing that's been posted in a while. Hahahahahahaha...I remember that goldmined E/N thread about the two people who were submissives and dating and couldn't figure out how to make their bondage centered sex life work. First post was: On a very special 'Who's the Boss?', Username and her boyfriend confront issues in their relationship.
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Nov 30, 2016 05:53
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Pvt.Scott posted:"Porn addiction" in American evangelist Christian parlance tends to mean "looks at porn" in any and every capacity. It's an addiction because you can't stop doing it, despite being shamed by your religion and peers, and not even your wife refusing to sleep with you has helped to break you from its steely grip. It has to be an addiction, you see, because you don't murder people or rob strangers purely due to the influence of G*D, and looking at porn is just as bad, as all sin is equal. Truly, only the Lord Jesus can save you now, sinner. Eh, if people can get addicted to gambling or sex I can see porn addiction being a thing. Unless you think evangelists invented those two? A lot of people will blame the woman for being dumb/prudish/insecure about porn as well, but some guys can just be pretty lovely about their porn watching habits. There's probably plenty of guys that watch a lot of porn and turn down sex with their wife which is not prudish to say is a problem.
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lmao I just noticed that the sidebar states that "misandry" is against the subreddit rules, that's like the most reddit possible thing
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Nov 30, 2016 06:53
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Dial-a-Dog posted:Also I went to go find that post to see if she posted more, but got sidetracked here The "back out of the room meowing to hide your boner" dude evolved to have an actual sex life, I see
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sinking belle posted:lmao I just noticed that the sidebar states that "misandry" is against the subreddit rules, that's like the most reddit possible thing Wait: "misandry" but not "misogyny"?
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outlier posted:Wait: "misandry" but not "misogyny"? Duh there's no such thing as misogyny it's just evil females conspiring against hard-working nice guys.
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Nov 30, 2016 11:29
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quote:I'm [24F] sad my boyfriend's [26M] erectile dysfunction was fixed. There's jumping to conclusions, then there's "I'm going to ruin my relationship and my health to spite my boyfriend for being attracted to me!" 
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Nov 30, 2016 11:29
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Why would you date someone you weren't sexually attracted to and not have sex for a year?
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Nov 30, 2016 12:07
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Of course he's going to compliment you if you look better you idiot, not only does he like you more but he's trying to motivate you! Reddit my partner likes me and sexes me more when I'm hotter, sever?
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Nov 30, 2016 12:09
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Hugoon Chavez posted:Of course he's going to compliment you if you look better you idiot, not only does he like you more but he's trying to motivate you! This is what bothers me the most, she's legitimately considering spiting the guy for being supportive, and also for making personal progress with ED caused by trauma from literally being raped  And a good deal of the responses are agreeing that he's a bad guy.
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Nov 30, 2016 12:15
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Yeah I honestly feel bad for the guy. He has a trauma that is causing an embarrassing physical reaction, and has been in a sexless relationship due to it. Suddenly his girlfriend becomes sexually attractive enough for his body to start reacting healthily, he's feelling better, he's getting laid and he feels like complementing his partner more.... Then in a few days she breaks up with him because he's a terrible person for getting better. Also the internet says your erection is fatphobic.
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Nov 30, 2016 12:23
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she also mentioned that before they still had some kind of sex 2-3 times a week, which he was presumably doing mostly for her enjoyment
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Nov 30, 2016 12:26
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Help! My partner finds me more attractive now that I'm more attractive, why did he find me less attractive when I was less attractive?
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Danaru posted:I'm [24F] sad my boyfriend's [26M] erectile dysfunction was fixed. what 
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BB2K posted:she also mentioned that before they still had some kind of sex 2-3 times a week, which he was presumably doing mostly for her enjoyment drat, dudes dick is broke and his gf is fat but he still chows down multiple times a week? what a champ.
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insufficient guns posted:Why would you date someone you weren't sexually attracted to and not have sex for a year? Maybe he got on with her really well and thought she was super cute but didn't find himself lusting after her enough to overcome his trauma-induced nonboner but tried to make up for it with oral/whatever? His finding her more attractive after she goes from chubby/overweight to a healthy weight isn't something she should be surprised or ashamed about, their liking eachother enough to stick together for that long in spite of his problems is something she should be both celebrating and moving on from. I can understand her maybe (unreasonably)feeling like she was somehow partly responsible for his ongoing ED trouble by being unattractive/fat and being upset by that, which I think might be why she's talking about getting fat to spite him.
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e: Beaten, depressing. Well now I feel lovely... Montgomery Co. mother charged with two counts of murder in deaths of her daughter and son "I did not want him to take my kids" http://archive.is/bgwya Frosted Flake fucked around with this message at 12:40 on Nov 30, 2016 |
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Frosted Flake posted:The Anti-Pete this is old and she killed the kids
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That already got posted. TL:DR follow up: The wife stabs the kids to death.
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Malkof posted:My father in law died flat broke. He was living with his sister driving a van his buddy paid for. The wife and I buried him with zero money or emotional support from his family. Two things from this poo poo show: Yeah people can be real cunts when it comes to stuff like that. My mom hasn't talked to my aunt for almost a decade after she wouldn't give her anything after my grandmother died. She literally would not give anything to remember her mother, even stuff that was only sentimental like pictures or the knick knacks she made.
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Me [26 M] with my gf [26 F] duration 1 year, recently found out that my gf used to be a prostitute. I'm not sure how I feel about this.quote:This was a huge blow to me and I feel sick, for numerous different reasons. First of all, a couple of years ago, several circumstances in my life led me into a spiraling depression with severe self-esteem issues. As a coping mechanism I slept around ALOT. I am ashamed to say this now, but at the time, I would find women off of craigslist who were willing to sleep with me. When it was hardto find women who wanted sex, I would also have sex with men (I'm a male). My first sexual experiences with men were from Craigslist. To this day I am still confused about my sexuality, but I believe that I am most likely bisexual. Overall, I don't even think I could count how many people (male and female) I had sex with, but it was alot. Dozens upon dozens. I also coped through alcohol and pill popping (vics, oxys, etc). For various reasons, it was a very depressing and awful period of my life. I numbed everything through sex, alcohol, and drugs.
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Danaru posted:
bf raped, so what?
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Frosted Flake posted:Me [26 M] with my gf [26 F] duration 1 year, recently found out that my gf used to be a prostitute. I'm not sure how I feel about this. he had sex with dozens of strangers as a lovely/dangerous coping mechanism and that's cool but she got 2 dudes to pay for her poo poo through college and that's just unforgivable
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Nov 30, 2016 12:48
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Panfilo posted:Eh, if people can get addicted to gambling or sex I can see porn addiction being a thing. Unless you think evangelists invented those two? Nah. I'm saying there's a large part of the American population for which porn addiction and "got caught looking at porn occasionally" are tantamount to the same thing. Dude could absolutely be rubbing his dick raw constantly, but if she has to go out of her way to find evidence (like actively checking his computer while he's busy hosting a frat party) it seems a little less likely to me. The fact that he hides and lies about it could be due to the shame addicts feel, or the shame he feels when his wife berates him and possibly informs their social circle. I got the anti-masturbation, anti-porn message drilled into me by evangelical youth ministry at multiple churches and denominations in different states/countries growing up, and a sense of group shaming was part of it.
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Frosted Flake posted:Me [26 M] with my gf [26 F] duration 1 year, recently found out that my gf used to be a prostitute. I'm not sure how I feel about this. Please tell me he's being roasted.
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Nov 30, 2016 12:49
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Frosted Flake posted:e: Beaten, depressing. Maybe "The filicide story was already posted" should be added to the thread title.
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Nov 30, 2016 12:53
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HardDiskD posted:Please tell me he's being roasted. Well, The Snoo posted:he had sex with dozens of strangers as a lovely/dangerous coping mechanism and that's cool but she got 2 dudes to pay for her poo poo through college and that's just unforgivable quote:I know a couple of sugar babies--typically you get into the business out of sheer desperation to pay the bills (a coping mechanism of sorts indeed:)). She found a line of work that pays (VERY) well and she followed through with it. I have a lot of respect for OP's girlfriend. quote:Well, sex is sex. No more, no less... As for the paid part, some people can accept it, some people can't. However as OP had a lot of partners too - what's the difference? All of these happened in the past. If you like a current relationship then enjoy it; if not, then change. So simple. quote:It's simply natural evolution. However we are here, and we are aware, and we have control and power, it's time to change. quote:If its Consensual sex and she is comfortable with it I don't see how its any worse than sleeping with a poo poo load of people off Craigs list that you don't know. As a bi guy I'd rather be in a relationship with the girl than the guy in this case. quote:Same. She sounds put together, in control, and, on top of that, nonjudgmental towards OP. And that lack of judgment is the most significant part here. Honestly, I'd think twice about getting involved with a former craigslist-whoring drug addict. I wouldn't judge them, but I'd consider finding someone with a more similar background who had experiences I could relate to. quote:Yeah, coping with being broke. You have to admit, it's fast money. quote:If you want to break with her for having two sugar daddy relationships in college while you slept your way around because "tough times", fine, but just know you're a huge hypocrite and she deserves better. On the other hand quote:lol if we cant have the standard of wanting our gfs to not be prostitutes, past and present, what loving standards can we have anymore? For gently caress's sake lol. quote:You don't understand. This was "sugaring" not "prostitution". It's re-branded now so it's okay. quote:None at all.
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HardDiskD posted:Please tell me he's being roasted. It was from a few months ago, there were actually some really good responses.   
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