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I also want to know how old her husband is. She's a young 18 judging by the timeline. Obviously all the stuff with the kids is hosed up but does she ever sound entitled with the way she talks about her space being invaded. She lives rent free with her grandparents!
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Dec 5, 2016 16:49
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That's disturbing - if only she had said no. They're gonna stay and she's gonna have to move out now.
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Dec 5, 2016 17:04
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Jeffrey of YOSPOS posted:That's disturbing - if only she had said no. They're gonna stay and she's gonna have to move out now. Strangely, it sounds to me like those children needs to be in that house more than OP and her husband because where the hell else would they be otherwise? And that scares me. Hope the aunt and her children get the intensive help and care they clearly need. Anyway, from r/legaladvice  quote:(Montreal, Canada) Isn't there a law about pedophilia where something like if they're 5 years older and one is a minor and the other a major it's considered pedophilia or something? Definitely sounds like some creepy older guy wants to prey on a younger girl to me! Nothing suspicious about any of that at all quote:In this case it's a 16 yo female with a 21 yo male Bingo
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Actually, it's called ephebophilia Edit: and also the age of consent in Canada is 16 according to http://www.justice.gc.ca/eng/rp-pr/other-autre/clp/faq.html. lol that they have a faq Syncopated fucked around with this message at 17:14 on Dec 5, 2016 |
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Dec 5, 2016 17:11
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Has the amount of brokebrains train wreck families increased over the last 20 years or so, or is it just social media and the internet that makes it so visible now?
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Cacafuego posted:Has the amount of brokebrains train wreck families increased over the last 20 years or so, or is it just social media and the internet that makes it so visible now? It's the second one plus rising social norms, 40 years ago it wasn't seen as weird at all to be an alcoholic who beat your kids depending on where you lived
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Cacafuego posted:Has the amount of brokebrains train wreck families increased over the last 20 years or so, or is it just social media and the internet that makes it so visible now?
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Jeffrey of YOSPOS posted:I would guess it's the other way - they've gone down and it's just easier to hear about them now. It's the same effect where society is trending to be less violent, but people keep thinking it's more violent due to increased exposure.
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Dec 5, 2016 17:34
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America is also very unique compared to most well developed countries where there isn't a really good social safety net so it's a lot easier to gently caress yourself over really hard.
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Dec 5, 2016 17:38
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quote:Me [31M] with my wife [32F] recently married after 7 years together, marriage is awful other than this festering sore on my anus, things aren't too bad
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Dec 5, 2016 17:51
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Have... you considered washing?
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corn on the cop posted:other than this festering sore on my anus, things aren't too bad How do people go through seven years of being in a relationship before they realize they're completely incompatible Also: mfcrocker posted:Have... you considered washing?
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corn on the cop posted:other than this festering sore on my anus, things aren't too bad Have you considered compersion?
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mfcrocker posted:Have... you considered washing? Once you are married, you can sort of, you know, you are not courting anymore, let yourself go… So you have caked turd in your asscrack flaking out like peeling paint
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Danaru posted:How do people go through seven years of being in a relationship before they realize they're completely incompatible i believe it's known as thinking you can't do better syndrome
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bonster posted:I've worked pediatric psych. 7-year-olds can be very violent, and they can keep going for hours. That kid needs wrap-around services, stat My younger brother was violent and psychotic from a young age; I had to visit him in various children's facilities and can confirm preadolescents like that are terrifying. I feel real bad for the older sisters 
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Dec 5, 2016 18:38
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If you read the initial post she made in a different subreddit that I posted, she claims the middle child is also pretty hosed up. I wonder why it seems like she changed her tune since then
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Pick posted:Once you are married, you can sort of, you know, you are not courting anymore, let yourself go… So you have caked turd in your asscrack flaking out like peeling paint I hate this concept, people shouldn't want to give up on themselves ever imo.
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Dec 5, 2016 18:45
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That concept has killed many marriages That said it didn't sound like the problem in that marriage was that the guy suddenly stopped showering but he might not have been the most reliable of narrators
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i always notice that the vast majority of these people have kids way too young and get married way too young. i don't know a single person that didn't get married or had kids until their late 20s at the earliest.
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I had to read it again to realise that he has had sex with his wife three times in seven years.
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Jeza posted:I had to read it again to realise that he has had sex with his wife three times in seven years. No, he said in the comments that before they got married they had sex about once a month.
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Charles Get-Out posted:I hate this concept, people shouldn't want to give up on themselves ever imo. Yeah it's a complete crock, and also it means the foundation of your marriage is "a-ha! I tricked them into marrying a person who is better than the real me, but they're locked in now!" wow u must really love them to completely misrepresent the most important decision of their life to them!
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Dec 5, 2016 18:53
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If my partner started getting fat like a bunch of old dudes at work I know after we got married I'd probably divorce them immediately like their wives did to them since gaining weight and not giving a poo poo is a legit failing. All the fit guys at work are happily married.
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54 40 or gently caress posted:If you read the initial post she made in a different subreddit that I posted, she claims the middle child is also pretty hosed up. I wonder why it seems like she changed her tune since then It seemed like middle daughter was closer to adolescence (12?, iirc) and had at least partly been raised by gma and gpa-just weird and inappropriately sexual. Sometimes tweens be like that. It's easy to sit here and make suggestions, but yeah, expecting couple should move out and help grandparents initiate contact with child services. It's unlikely concerned parties at the school level will be able to do anything. I guess it hit a nerve, because I grew up with similarly extreme (though different context) circumstances, and a lot of previous posts where kids were called evil or manipulative were written off as "it's just a kid, kids do that". In those cases it was probably true, but really young kids can be super hosed up and dangerous and it requires a huge amount of nonexistent resources and involvement to manage/help those kids. Theokotos fucked around with this message at 19:11 on Dec 5, 2016 |
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My father gained a bit of weight on his torso once he hit his 50s, but aside from that he and my mother are the same weight they were when they married 35 years ago, and seeing how their friends act about it (and remark about it) I have to think that appearance/weight is a huge issue in a lot of marriages. I mostly think of it as an issue of health. It's not fair to basically throw up your hands and be like, "enjoy those last 20 years alone in the nursing home!"
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Theokotos posted:It seemed like middle daughter was closer to adolescence (12?, iirc) and had at least partly been raised by gma and gpa-just weird and inappropriately sexual. Sometimes tweens be like that. I feel bad for all three kids and the aunt, sounds like those kids didn't even stand a chance So here's something that could potentially be very frightening in the future: quote:My [24M] ex-girlfriend [19F] says that I'm dead to her. Looking for ways to cope with this He's made about five threads across different subs regarding this. Then newly in relationships.. quote:Me [24M] haven't talked to my ex [18F] in 2 weeks. Going to do something ballsy. This is legit a little frightening
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I see he forgot to age her up in the latest thread. So she was 17 and he was 23. Nice.
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54 40 or gently caress posted:This is legit a little frightening I notice that they've been together for almost a year, and he changed her age from 19 to 18 in the title e:f;b
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They're been together for a year but "official" for six months, meaning he waited like a predator until she turned 18. Nasty.
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NomChompsky posted:My goodness what a depressing thread that I cannot stop coming back to. I tried telling my wife the story of the girl whose boyfriend's sister sent her an email saying "my brother is planning on proposing to you; I need you to turn him down because he is younger than me and it's not fair" and she was like "why do you read this stuff" and I was like "dunno"
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NomChompsky posted:My goodness what a depressing thread that I cannot stop coming back to.
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Are we allowed to react to these with only emoticons? I'll edit below if not but this is from legaladvice, presented with absolutely no further infoquote:What's the statute of limitations on pushing an 80-year old woman out of a 2-story building if she didn't die? (NY)  
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loquacius posted:I tried telling my wife the story of the girl whose boyfriend's sister sent her an email saying "my brother is planning on proposing to you; I need you to turn him down because he is younger than me and it's not fair"
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54 40 or gently caress posted:Are we allowed to react to these with only emoticons? I'll edit below if not but this is from legaladvice, presented with absolutely no further info what the hell If there is one thing I get from this thread it is that I am right to never, ever talk to anyone. NomChompsky fucked around with this message at 20:01 on Dec 5, 2016 |
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loquacius posted:I tried telling my wife the story of the girl whose boyfriend's sister sent her an email saying "my brother is planning on proposing to you; I need you to turn him down because he is younger than me and it's not fair" I personally enjoy watching people be really loving stupid and petty, which is the bulk of what happens here thankfully.
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Groovelord Neato posted:i always notice that the vast majority of these people have kids way too young and get married way too young. i don't know a single person that didn't get married or had kids until their late 20s at the earliest. lol you should come to the south we have such sites to show you recently divorced 25 year olds on tinder looking for "friendship and maybe something more  ", jeepers
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