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well why not posted:I'm kinkshaming the woman in that story, and every single other poster in this thread Always. Be. Kinkshaming. eta: I made 189 public bowel movements last year. How many did you make? That's who I am, pal. Doc Hawkins fucked around with this message at 14:05 on Dec 7, 2016 |
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C-SPAN Caller posted:Yeah her blaming her foot on weight loss made my eyes roll. Just eat less. That being said her mom is being lovely even if the author is probably eating way too much. quote:I am 5'3 and 125 lbs...
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Lol welp nevermind her mom is loving nutso, I take back my comment, sorry redditor with crazy mom
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Demon Of The Fall posted:I've seen more fights at a Home Goods when I worked there than anywhere else, place is no joke especially when two people see the same lamp or whatever at the same time and then they brawl over it like dogs. Compromise is all well and good, furniture is expensive and everyone has a style. I have heard it can be difficult to get furniture as a couple because folks can have wildly different style preferences. I guess I got off easy because I mostly liked everything my partner liked. ... except for our loving couch. Gaunab posted:People with borderline personality disorder need to be medicated and go to therapy. 100 degrees Calcium posted:It's so weird to me that there's a mental condition which is just "makes you a jackass, incapable of keeping it together for more than a few months without deeply and unapologetically hurting the people who love you." Okay, look. I didn't want to do this but enough is enough. I have borderline personality disorder and I am not a terrible loving monster. (loving awful poster though. ) I'm kinda fed up with biting my tongue and staying silent whIle people just condemn and vilify people like me as toxic people unworthy of love or dispassionate remorseless jackasses or dangerous unpredictable powder kegs or whatever. I'm not going to pretend it's nbd and that everything is loving amazing. I know we're challenging. I know it's difficult sometimes. I've lived it. This is my life. There is no cure. There have been times when I have hurt people I care about and I feel incredible guilt over it. But I got treatment. I went to therapy and I got medicated. I'm near constantly working on myself and trying to improve. I still struggle. I am always fighting with this mental illness and I've had lapses but it has gotten much better. People enjoy being around me. They can lower their guard. They like having me around. I'm not dangerous and I'm worthy of love. I can't stop goons from being goons so I don't even know what I'm looking for here but damnit someone needs to say something. Sorry for the loving E/N derail but please loving realize that the mentally ill are loving people just like you. "Lol, nice meltdown etc." Whatever. I know. Jesus, gently caress me. Anyway, I think r/relationships would lose a lot of material if people stopped dating people ten plus years older than them.
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Jenner posted:Compromise is all well and good, furniture is expensive and everyone has a style. I have heard it can be difficult to get furniture as a couple because folks can have wildly different style preferences. I guess I got off easy because I mostly liked everything my partner liked.
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Jenner posted:Compromise is all well and good, furniture is expensive and everyone has a style. I have heard it can be difficult to get furniture as a couple because folks can have wildly different style preferences. I guess I got off easy because I mostly liked everything my partner liked. My best friend has it as well, also medicated and I've certainly never had an issue with it. Although her other friend with no diagnosis said she thought she had bpd and my friend WITH an actual diagnosis basically 'gave' it to her and was affecting her negatively.
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Didn't mean to imply you were a monster, I just think most people with mental illnesses need therapy and medication. Like this guy: quote:My boyfriend of a a year [26m] got mad when he lost at bowling yesterday, made a huge scene, and got us kicked out of the bowling alley. Not the first time he's gotten way too upset at losing and completely lost control. Wondering if I [24F] need to end things.
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It's obviously unfair to tar everybody with the same brush, but a lot of goons with negative opinions have probably just had bad experiences with people with BPD. Personally, my experiences have been universally negative. They are manipulative, unpredictable, egocentric, and quite frankly often malicious. Most of them were in therapy and on meds too. There are people who can co-exist and be friends with people with BPD, and all power to them. But I avoid them like the plague. I imagine a relationship with somebody with BPD is just an extremely stressful experience. For me, the pure focused devotion and love you can get from a BPD partner isn't worth the flip of a coin distrust, paranoia and anger over perceived slights which seems like a hallmark of that condition.
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Can we get nested quotes up in here some day? Anyway, how is she even questioning that she should dump that manbaby? Is fear of being alone that powerful? (yes)
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I can't wait for the update. She better not dump him in terms he understands, "You've scored in the negative with me, a negative 2, so we are breaking up." He might headbutt through her drywall screaming.
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Gaunab posted:Didn't mean to imply you were a monster, I just think most people with mental illnesses need therapy and medication. Like this guy: Here's one: My [23M] girlfriend [23F] says I should be "leading" my family instead of my sister [32F] because I'm a "man". I think this is creepy. quote:From 6 to 4 years ago I lost my parents (mom to cancer first, two years later dad to suicide). After that it was just me and my twin sister and our older sister. We were 19 and she was 28. It was a very difficult time but our older sister stepped up and was really influential on us. She provided a lot of emotional support, guided us from the tragedy back into normal life and made sure we got the help that we needed. quote:Oddly enough during sex she always says "dominate me". I always took that as equivalent of "gently caress me". Maybe she means other things...
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Ira Glass Jaw posted:gently caress that couch Seriously. A+ cat though. Gaunab posted:Didn't mean to imply you were a monster, I just think most people with mental illnesses need therapy and medication. Like this guy: Yes, people with mental illnesses need therapy and medication. Jeza posted:It's obviously unfair to tar everybody with the same brush, but a lot of goons with negative opinions have probably just had bad experiences with people with BPD. Personally, my experiences have been universally negative. They are manipulative, unpredictable, egocentric, and quite frankly often malicious. Most of them were in therapy and on meds too. There are people who can co-exist and be friends with people with BPD, and all power to them. But I avoid them like the plague. I imagine a relationship with somebody with BPD is just an extremely stressful experience. For me, the pure focused devotion and love you can get from a BPD partner isn't worth the flip of a coin distrust, paranoia and anger over perceived slights which seems like a hallmark of that condition. I don't wanna keep derailing but I'm sorry you had such experiences. I mean that for everyone here who had similar experiences as well. It can be difficult to not feel like it is personal or malicious but people with BPD usually aren't doing their poo poo intentionally. That's why it's so hard to treat. If it was a behavior they were doing on purpose then they would stop it (ideally.) Since they are largely behaviors they are doing unconsciously they just have to be hyper vigilant and catch themselves. (At least, that's my way of dealing with it.) The biggest hurdle for someone with BPD is usually realizing they're being the worst and beginning to work on themselves. Anyway, my apologies if that came off as a lecture. I'm sorry about your experiences. Anyway, I come to you bearing the greatest r/relationships post of all time. My [23f] new bf [27m] of 3 months is either a disney character, crazy, or a liar. quote:Theres no non-awkward way to say this, my bf has an eagle living at his house. The first time I went over he warned me not to freak out because it might be inside the house when we walked in. I thought he was joking because people don't really own birds like that, but he told me it was real and he doesn't really own it, that it comes and goes as it pleases and is more of a "friend". Just so we're clear I would marry the gently caress out of this guy and demand his eagle BFF be the best man or ring bearer.
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Eagle Man is a repost, but is worth reposting
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# ? Dec 7, 2016 15:56 |
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Girl who wants to be dominated should just split and get with a "real man". Better for both parties.
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WAY TO GO WAMPA!! posted:Anytime I read stories like this all I can think of is that scene from 30 Rock where Jon Hamm loses at tennis and gets upset and screams "THIS RACKET IS A FART" person in early 20s has fetish; needs to be told that the world is not said fetish same old story Dude does need to properly dominate her in bed though, maybe she wouldn't be so wound up about the rest of his situation w/r/t gender politics that way (also sensible chuckle at "man" in scare quotes)
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When was the last time you accidentally made a flippant suicidal gesture and then basked happily in the warmth of your friends and family crying by your emergency room bed
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quote:He jokingly said "if it wanted to attack you, it would have already", which did NOT help. This really isn't the best way to calm her down, but it is hilarious.
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WAY TO GO WAMPA!! posted:Anytime I read stories like this all I can think of is that scene from 30 Rock where Jon Hamm loses at tennis and gets upset and screams "THIS RACKET IS A FART" Women can be misogynist.
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Chick is cray, Eagle dude is awesome. His eagle is awesome.
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# ? Dec 7, 2016 16:09 |
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Gaunab posted:Women can be misogynist.
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# ? Dec 7, 2016 16:14 |
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she should kill her mom
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# ? Dec 7, 2016 16:36 |
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The word for it is internalized misogyny which she has in spades lol Also I wish there was a followup on the eagle post because I wanna know how the eagle is doing and if the guy is single
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C-SPAN Caller posted:The word for it is internalized misogyny which she has in spades lol :itisafetish: she's basically a female cuck-wedding guy
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# ? Dec 7, 2016 16:46 |
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It's probably just, as already mentioned, a Sub looking for a Dom. She might not need all men to dominant, just the one she's sleeping with.
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C-SPAN Caller posted:The word for it is internalized misogyny which she has in spades lol
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Jeffrey of YOSPOS posted:It's been around for 17 years, I don't think it's going anywhere. I mean what if it's eagle life is over since they live for like 20 years C-SPAN Caller fucked around with this message at 16:54 on Dec 7, 2016 |
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C-SPAN Caller posted:I mean what if it's eagle life is over since they live for like 20 years Nah, dude is a Ranger or a Druid and the eagle is his animal companion.
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Jenner posted:Nah, dude is a Ranger or a Druid and the eagle is his animal companion. How do I find one and date them instead of just lucking into it like this girl did
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C-SPAN Caller posted:How do I find one and date them instead of just lucking into it like this girl did if jenner knew, do you think they would tell us?
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more /childfree because I am a sucker for punishmentquote:Aren't those 3D sonograms just creepy? Nah there's nothing at all special for a parent when they see the thing Growing Inside My Body In relative detail. I mean, why would anyone want to share that excitement with others? And why would Humans enjoy celebrating that excitement? I've run all the simulations and it just does not compute. quote:My SO and I love Disneyland a lot. So we went for her birthday the other day because it's always beautiful this time of year. We are both CF and even though I don't really like kids at the best of times, I'm not about to poo poo on their good time on the happiest place on earth if they are behaving well. But oh my god. These two little fuckers who sat behind us when we went to the Frozen Show. Now, I understood going in that it wasn't going to be a 100% quiet affair, and I was content with that because 1. It's Disneyland, no way to avoid it, and 2. I really don't like frozen (aside from Sven 💕) and was only seeing the show to cross it off out bucket list. In the words of Elsa, let it go~ quote:I think I may be experiencing the animal version of "baby fever." Definitely feeds into our theories about childfree obsessed people being just as bad as the "mombies" and "daddicts", but with animals
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54 40 or gently caress posted:more /childfree because I am a sucker for punishment I think those sonograms are creepy
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Someone who writes like that is definitely not going to stop at just one.
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Jesus I thought me and my girlfriend (we don't want kids, who cares) pine for a puppy too much.
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I enjoy how half of child free stories are "there I was, at the McDonald's Playland, just grooving on the slides and enjoying the ball pit, and some BITCH of a toddler threw up in a tunnel and the employees told me I had to stop playing because it was a biohazard!" They're just jealous that people forgive children for throwing tantrums in public and not them.
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Captain Yossarian posted:I think those sonograms are creepy Hell, I think normal sonograms are creepy. It's this weird black and white outline of a vaguely baby-shaped thing.
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Captain Yossarian posted:I think those sonograms are creepy They should add cool flames and guitars to make them more relatable.
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/ChildFree reminds me of some post, either here or elsewhere, where some guy took his little girl to see a My Little Pony movie and had to leave because the theater was full of Bronies berating them. I don't have any kids of my own but if I'm in an environment that is focused on or created for children, I get that they may a little hyped up. Is it that hard to speak to another adult in a calm manner and say, "Excuse me, your child is kicking my seat and making me uncomfortable. Thank you" rather than giving a 4 year old the stink eye?
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Bonzo posted:Is it that hard to speak to another adult in a calm manner and say, "Excuse me, your child is kicking my seat and making me uncomfortable. Thank you" rather than giving a 4 year old the stink eye? I'm trying to imagine the mindset where you not only give a 4-year-old a threatening glance to make them stop a behavior, but are surprised when that doesn't work Again, sometimes these people are right to be mildly annoyed but instead they throw giant tantrums, yell at or threaten children, make a scene in public, and learn nothing from the experience, because they are children themselves, which bombs their moral high ground into a crater Even in the classic CF example of the person at the Harry Potter launch party, it doesn't actually make sense to award a free book to an infant who cannot read and does not know what Harry Potter is, but this point is lost in the noise of a grown adult kicking and screaming about not winning a costume contest at the launch of a children's book and talking loudly and publicly about how they hope a baby dies
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this thread started out innocuously but these comments... quote:My [29M] wife [33F] smells bad.
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r/relationships 3.0 - i get an onion scented vagJenner posted:Compromise is all well and good, furniture is expensive and everyone has a style. I have heard it can be difficult to get furniture as a couple because folks can have wildly different style preferences. I guess I got off easy because I mostly liked everything my partner liked. You need to open up your relationship with the couch and let other furniture into your lives and pet the cat again pls
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