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women need to stop dating terrible older men that smarter, age-contemporary women discarded. they're effectively subsidizing the dude not getting his poo poo together. then he gets to be 45 and too saggy even for the daddy-issue'd and then where will he be? eating chex mix out of a can, and it doesn't even come in a can. it's cruel.
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Tears In A Vial posted:It's also a long distance relationship, they met over Reddit six months ago, they're marrying to get him a visa and she's not telling her parents about the marriage. This is like Liebot finishing off a story for Phillipe.
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Dec 18, 2016 19:13
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Tears In A Vial posted:Oh, I just edited in another juicy little tidbit, she's not telling her parents about the wedding god drat she is a moron
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Dec 18, 2016 19:13
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Pick posted:It should be the brother, why is he douching out when their dad is dying? Probably because their dad is, y'know, dying. Doesn't excuse bad behaviour in any way, but it certainly makes it more understandable that it might occur. EDIT: haha ok I just read the part about them meeting on Reddit and marrying for a visa after 6 months. Disregard what I said, they're just a loving trainwreck couple/family
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Dec 18, 2016 19:14
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there's a league of laffos streamer who legit gets pissed off and breaks monitors fairly regularly. he even tweets out pics of it.
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Dec 18, 2016 19:15
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Lonely Virgil posted:Me (35 M) with my wife (33 F), I'm worried she's not very interested in our daughter (2 mo) Bring us the girl and wipe away the debt.
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Dec 18, 2016 19:16
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Pick posted:~learn to live~ I'm an ACoA and an oldest child, so that'll probably never be me  You do you, forums user Pick.I [M25] cheated on my girlfriend [F24] of 3 years. We moved far away from home together and now she wants nothing to do with me. quote:I saw another female twice within a two week time span. Both times I made up excuses so she didn't know my whereabouts. Both times I went to see the other female I couldn't put myself through with sex, and the second time bicycled home 40 miles because I couldn't stand to be there. I hid it from my girlfriend and when she found out she kicked me right out and wants nothing to do with me. That was 7 weeks ago. Not much contact since.
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Pick posted:It should be the brother, why is he douching out when their dad is dying? It almost certainly will be. Dad's dying, you're driving him around and being confronted with the reality of his illness while your brother is nowhere to be found. Then when your brother does show up his goal is to agitate you. I'd probably have a mini meltdown in that situation too. If he doesn't hit him at the funeral he'll almost certainly say something to damage their relationship for a few years.
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My brother and I didn't speak for a year after our dad's death. He had accused me of being uncaring, heartless, and not loving our dad because I had trouble expressing my grief. I called him a child for throwing tantrums over it in front of anyone. Cue black eyes. Granted we were 17 and 18 but still, we got over it.
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Dec 18, 2016 19:39
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Pick posted:women need to stop dating terrible older men that smarter, age-contemporary women discarded. they're effectively subsidizing the dude not getting his poo poo together. then he gets to be 45 and too saggy even for the daddy-issue'd and then where will he be? eating chex mix out of a can, and it doesn't even come in a can. it's cruel. I've known chicks in their 20s with daddy issues who date dudes in their 60s. There's always hope.
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Dec 18, 2016 19:45
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Eldred posted:I'm an ACoA and an oldest child, so that'll probably never be me 'Female' lol good on his gf though
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Dec 18, 2016 19:47
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Eldred posted:I'm an ACoA and an oldest child, so that'll probably never be me This is going to be the most beautiful relationship when he finally wears down her resistance to him pestering her and she accepts him back into her life. I can see now how his inability to learn from his mistakes, pushing of her boundaries, and inability to interpret normal human signs of care as not excusing past gently caress-ups will lead to a healthy and stable relationship for all involved. I just hope he can start guilting her about telling him to move home even though he moved across the country for her so that they can start this wonderful new journey together as soon as possible. True love 
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Dec 18, 2016 19:48
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i tried to cheat but i hosed it up. you don't want to throw out this mighty piece of win, female
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flick my Mr. Bean posted:My brother and I didn't speak for a year after our dad's death. He had accused me of being uncaring, heartless, and not loving our dad because I had trouble expressing my grief. I called him a child for throwing tantrums over it in front of anyone. Cue black eyes. Granted we were 17 and 18 but still, we got over it. I have three brothers and I already know which one I'm going to fight when the old man kicks it. We're 34 and 37.
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Dec 18, 2016 19:54
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Flipping is out going to happen when people you love are dying, it suuuuuuuuuuuuucks.
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Adam Vegas posted:Probably because their dad is, y'know, dying. I think you mixed up the stories. Visa is for couple getting married where dude wants girl to say she must obey him. Dying dad is already married couple with dude expressing his emotions inappropriately.
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Don't most wedding vows in the states involve "to have and to hold" in the text, unless you're saying some hippy self-written poo poo? Essentially both partners are gaining legal ownership over one another through a verbal and written contract, likely in front of dozens of witnesses, and always in front of an officiating representative of the state (often an ordained cleric). She doesn't even need to add "obey" anywhere in her vows, she just needs to waive her half of the joint control. Simple. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Habendum_clause Pick posted:Flipping is out going to happen when people you love are dying, it suuuuuuuuuuuuucks. Very true. Your emotions explode at weird times when Grams or your buddy are dying. Two real example for me. Pvt.Scott fucked around with this message at 20:18 on Dec 18, 2016 |
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Dunning Krugerrand posted:Original post: It's nice to see a somewhat happy ending to one of these disaster stories 
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Yeah it's unrealistic to expect people to flip out 0 times in their entire lives.
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Dec 18, 2016 20:24
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people are bad at writing fake stories. the dude in that craigslist one put in way too much detail that nobody would remember if they were recounting something that happened. nobody would go oh the food was tasteless but it was a california roll and some designer roll. they probably wouldn't even mention they kept eating as she broke down.
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Groovelord Neato posted:people are bad at writing fake stories. the dude in that craigslist one put in way too much detail that nobody would remember if they were recounting something that happened. nobody would go oh the food was tasteless but it was a california roll and some designer roll. they probably wouldn't even mention they kept eating as she broke down. I could believe that a redditor would do and write that down to feel like a badass calm logic man (when hes just being dweebish online) The roll description is just a part of his hammy writing style
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Dec 18, 2016 20:28
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Even though it's not true, it's pretty engrained that being cheated on is a thing that only happens to schlubs. Wanting to regain some honor through portraying yourself as the better person is pretty natural, even though some people venture pretty far into stdh territory.
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military cervix posted:Even though it's not true, it's pretty engrained that being cheated on is a thing that only happens to schlubs. Wanting to regain some honor through portraying yourself as the better person is pretty natural, even though some people venture pretty far into stdh territory. Well, that if it happens to a guy, he's a schlub. It's one of those rare cases where I do think being a woman is easier; if your boyfriend cheats on you, I think you're more likely going to get genuine sympathy.
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Pick posted:Well, that if it happens to a guy, he's a schlub. It's one of those rare cases where I do think being a woman is easier; if your boyfriend cheats on you, I think you're more likely going to get genuine sympathy. Good point. Even though the underlying reason for that dynamic is pretty much that "men should be able to keep their women under control", I guess it shakes out to womens advantage in some edge cases.
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Pick posted:Flipping is out going to happen when people you love are dying, it suuuuuuuuuuuuucks. That was my first impression, but her post made it sound like its happened before, so maybe not?
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flick my Mr. Bean posted:I'll never become friends with my coworkers because the fake work version of myself is a lot more likable Holy poo poo, this. I let a ton of crap go by me at work that I wouldn't take for even a minute in my non-work life.
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JnnyThndrs posted:Holy poo poo, this. I let a ton of crap go by me at work that I wouldn't take for even a minute in my non-work life. Pretty much. work:  home: 
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military cervix posted:Good point. Even though the underlying reason for that dynamic is pretty much that "men should be able to keep their women under control", I guess it shakes out to womens advantage in some edge cases. nah the underlying reason is she probably went elsewhere cuz you weren't tongue bathing her clit on the reg.
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Yeah the Craiglist guy was kinda STDH. How about another picky manchild for a change? I [20F] Had a get together. Bf [25M] Blew up at me because he didn't like the food. quote:We've dated for 9 months. My friends and I have a little tradition where every couple weeks we get together at someone's house and have a food party. It basically goes like, let's say it's johns turn to host. John is at liberty to order any kind of food he wants and he orders or cooks enough for everyone. So when we all get to his house the food is there and we all share and eat and get drunk. The point is that the food is a surprise and you try new things. So, it was my turn to host yesterday. I hosted at bfs place. quote:He does have a very... "America in the summer" type of palate. Hot dogs, hamburgers, French fries, ect. He doesn't even like rice. He's gone to one other one with me and by luck it was Italian food. So he was happy to eat spaghetti and meatballs all night but he still wouldn't touch tiramisu. Pickiness isn't cute, it's embarrassing in social situations especially if you have any self awareness at all. And I say that as a picky eater who has been making a major effort to expand my palate. Also kebabs and baklava are loving delicious.
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If you don't like stuffed grape leaves you probably deserve to drown in a vat of pizza grease. 
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Jesus what a loving loser.
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She should be thankful for friends who will mock her baby bf for throwing a mac n cheese tantrum.
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lol sounds like my ex autistic roommate who threw a tantrum when my parents took us out to a really nice restaurant because they didn't have buffalo wild wings, the only thing she would eat
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Chichevache posted:If you don't like stuffed grape leaves you probably deserve to drown in a vat of pizza grease. Dolma is the fuckin best
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People who are adamant about being picky eaters are also usually adamant about being insufferable in general. I know someone who had a family history of diabetes and was told if he didn't cut it out with his '"America in the summer" type of palate', he was gonna end up diabetic as gently caress. Several excuses and complaints like 'vegetables aren't real food' later, he's now a proud owner of insulin syringes with his diet still intact. Pizza lunch with picky eaters is also a chore because anything other than cheese or pepperoni is gonna turn into a short story about vegetable incompatibility.
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Themata posted:People who are adamant about being picky eaters are also usually adamant about being insufferable in general. I only *like* pepperoni, sausage, and olive toppings but I'll eat anything but mushrooms on pizza and still enjoy it. Mushrooms are a total no-go.
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That was hard to read. I think the panic response to being outside his comfort zone is worse - sheltered and childish but willing to try things or at least not throw a tantrum would be more tolerable to me. This literally means that she can never go anywhere unknown to him, like a huge part of the human experience is closed off as long as they're together.
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flick my Mr. Bean posted:I only *like* pepperoni, sausage, and olive toppings but I'll eat anything but mushrooms on pizza and still enjoy it. Mushrooms are a total no-go. I'm okay with most things, but pineapple, yam and mayo are low on my list of toppings I like.
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lovely adult children remind me about this time me and a group of friends went out for apps and one girl offered up her place to hang out after. We got there and her shithead boyfriend gives us a very theatrical once over before saying "I didn't know we'd be having guests" before turning around and stalking off to their bedroom and slamming the door. It was so awkward the entire time and when we were driving home we saw him taking a brooding midnight walk, I think he slunk out when we were all trying to have fun. She tried to say he had a hard day at work and his buddies that were supposed to game with him ditched but in reality he's just a little piece of poo poo.
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54 40 or gently caress posted:lovely adult children remind me about this time me and a group of friends went out for apps and one girl offered up her place to hang out after. We got there and her shithead boyfriend gives us a very theatrical once over before saying "I didn't know we'd be having guests" before turning around and stalking off to their bedroom and slamming the door. It was so awkward the entire time and when we were driving home we saw him taking a brooding midnight walk, I think he slunk out when we were all trying to have fun. She tried to say he had a hard day at work and his buddies that were supposed to game with him ditched but in reality he's just a little piece of poo poo. for all we know he was faced with an apartment full of foam adventure types
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