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Using a colleague as a counsellor or therapist is a bad idea.
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# ? Dec 19, 2016 18:46 |
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# ? May 26, 2024 11:39 |
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Oh, also the woman dating a serial rapist, should not date a serial rapist any more!!
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# ? Dec 19, 2016 18:56 |
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The drunk rapey guy has got a lot of penance to do for his poo poo, and dumping his old life and just forgetting it happened isn't what that looks like. If he is drinking again, he needs to double down and get on anti-alcohol meds at this point, because he's clearly a danger while inebriated and can't be trusted not to drink. AA or some sort of other extended group therapy gig with accountability buddies is a must. Apologizing by letter would probably be best once he gets his poo poo in order, along with offers to make amends. At no point should he put responsibility for his actions on anything other than his poor choices and lovely behavior. Never ask for forgiveness, cause you aren't going to get it and you'll just cause hurt in this case. If one of the women presses charges, take your fuckin lumps. I believe people can get better, but I don't have any sympathy for this guy.
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# ? Dec 19, 2016 18:58 |
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How could that other guy think he can just sever from his wife and 4 kids by kicking them out of "his house?" I would love to be a fly on the wall when they go in front of the judge.
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# ? Dec 19, 2016 19:23 |
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DOMDOM posted:How could that other guy think he can just sever from his wife and 4 kids by kicking them out of "his house?" I hope he's a sovereign citizen, should be extra hilarious.
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# ? Dec 19, 2016 19:24 |
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flick my Mr. Bean posted:You don't understand. They've evolved past the archaic social construct of jealousy. One step loser to shedding their corporeal form entirely and becoming beings of pure energy. It was the dawn of the third wedding of mankind. It's goal: to prevent another divorce by creating a place where one person could be cucked freely. It was a home for redditors, low self esteem, and misread signals by coworkers. It can be a dangerous place, but it was our last, best hope for love. The year is 2016, the name of the place is open relationship 5.
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# ? Dec 19, 2016 19:38 |
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DOMDOM posted:How could that other guy think he can just sever from his wife and 4 kids by kicking them out of "his house?" People bluff. Many people are not legal eagles, and can get tricked into being in terrible situations.
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# ? Dec 19, 2016 19:41 |
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I [28/f] can't tell if BF [29/m] is abusive or just "a yeller"quote:My [28/f] boyfriend [29/m] of just over a year and I moved in together and were moving toward a future together. I really love him and know he is a good-hearted person, but recent actions are making me think he can't handle a relationship or we're just horribly suited to each other — or, worse case scenario, he's potentially abusive. WAY TO GO WAMPA!! fucked around with this message at 19:46 on Dec 19, 2016 |
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WAY TO GO WAMPA!! posted:I [28/f] can't tell if BF [29/m] is abusive or just "a yeller" My hot take: they both kinda suck.
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# ? Dec 19, 2016 19:47 |
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It does seem like men and women tend to cheat for different reasons, but hell it does not make it better to explain it to a woman from your point of view that any woman who makes you feel "sexy" is going to get your dong out.
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# ? Dec 19, 2016 19:47 |
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ikanreed posted:It was the dawn of the third wedding of mankind. It's goal: to prevent another divorce by creating a place where one person could be cucked freely. It was a home for redditors, low self esteem, and misread signals by coworkers.
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# ? Dec 19, 2016 19:57 |
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Jeffrey of YOSPOS posted:Please drop this. screw you it was way better than deep space nine!
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# ? Dec 19, 2016 19:59 |
Pick posted:It does seem like men and women tend to cheat for different reasons, but hell it does not make it better to explain it to a woman from your point of view that any woman who makes you feel "sexy" is going to get your dong out. You always see those types of justifications in these stories and it's almost precious. As if the natural defense is "what am I supposed to do, not cheat??"
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# ? Dec 19, 2016 20:00 |
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Pick posted:screw you it was way better than deep space nine!
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# ? Dec 19, 2016 20:05 |
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Jeffrey of YOSPOS posted:Please drop this. Sure. I'm not actually that down on open relationships, but I'm a loser nerd who likes terrible pop culture references.
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# ? Dec 19, 2016 20:05 |
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Pick posted:btw this is when you eventually find out they're nazis https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PiLVAz-Jczg
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# ? Dec 19, 2016 20:13 |
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DOMDOM posted:How could that other guy think he can just sever from his wife and 4 kids by kicking them out of "his house?" It's going to be great when the judge raids the deadbeat moron's bank accounts for his (ex-)wife's legal fees. It's going to be equally great when the cops inevitably lock him out of their house since she's on the deed and is the primary caretaker of 4 kids in an abusive situation.
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# ? Dec 19, 2016 20:17 |
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Why did you yell at me after I kept ceaselessly haranguing you for doing something you regret that we just agreed was dealt with? Why are you not talking to me now that I've continued to hound you for yelling at me in exasperation? They're both dumb, but this would be the worst thing to sit through for me.
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# ? Dec 19, 2016 20:18 |
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She's only dumb for continuing to try to date this guy who was kissing some other girl while out with her. She does seem incredibly stubborn, though. She should be in sales.
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# ? Dec 19, 2016 20:22 |
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is that david mitchell?
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# ? Dec 19, 2016 20:28 |
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HardDiskD posted:is that david mitchell? Yeah, in a show he and Webb did called Peep Show, and it is amazing. If you want to watch a show that perfectly summarizes the internal monologues of 99% of the people we see in these r/relationships posts, watch every single episode. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=s2_NMRXQ0d8 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MkjeorS12F0 NomChompsky fucked around with this message at 20:42 on Dec 19, 2016 |
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There any follow up on the guy who suddenly wants to make his family homeless cause yeah I wanna see the courts smack him upside the head in a way only a judge can.
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# ? Dec 19, 2016 20:45 |
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HardDiskD posted:is that david mitchell? if you know who david mitchell is but you havent watched the first 4 series of peep show then you have a serious problem in your life that needs to get fixed immediately
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# ? Dec 19, 2016 20:45 |
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boner confessor posted:if you know who david mitchell is but you havent watched
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# ? Dec 19, 2016 20:47 |
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The best thing about that dude that wants to boot his family out is that it's one of the few realms of American law that is actually going to be doing its job in an ok fashion. Family court is going to tell that guy to move into an apartment and pay child support if he wants out.
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# ? Dec 19, 2016 20:58 |
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Pvt.Scott posted:The best thing about that dude that wants to boot his family out is that it's one of the few realms of American law that is actually going to be doing its job in an ok fashion. Family court is going to tell that guy to move into an apartment and pay child support if he wants out. Yeah I don't see a judge OK'ing kicking a mother and 4 kids out into the snow. The cops aren't gonna go for that either. If that dude wants to move out he can do it anytime, same with divorce, but he's gonna be paying child support for the next 15 years or so. That lady is entitled to at least half that house, plus ongoing payments from him. You can't abandon your family, you've got obligations bud. E: half of everything, not just the house. Probably half+ of everything that was in those accounts and very possibly more than half of everything, if she's going to be the primary caregiver Uncle Enzo fucked around with this message at 21:15 on Dec 19, 2016 |
# ? Dec 19, 2016 21:04 |
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And thankfully she asked for advice so hopefully she's getting told that there isn't poo poo he can do to enforce that ultimatum.
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# ? Dec 19, 2016 21:12 |
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Also her name is on the deed, that guy is hosed
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# ? Dec 19, 2016 21:18 |
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give it a year and that guy will be complaining on reddit about how the legal system is biased against men in divorce cases
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# ? Dec 19, 2016 21:19 |
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Me (26F) upset with boyfriend's (32M) attitude, how to talk to him about itquote:My boyfriend was cooking breakfast in the kitchen and I was sitting at the island yesterday morning when we began arguing about something related to our Christmas plans (a long issue.) We were going back and forth pretty badly and when he finished cooking, he set the plate of food in front of me very roughly, making a loud noise.
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# ? Dec 19, 2016 21:24 |
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WAY TO GO WAMPA!! posted:Me (26F) upset with boyfriend's (32M) attitude, how to talk to him about it This seems like a really loving dumb thing to fight about and if you're having dumb fights like this a lot, I think you might have bigger issues. I would just be psyched that someone put food in front of me and start eating.
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# ? Dec 19, 2016 21:26 |
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I have been dating my girlfriend forever and I've never once had that argument or ever put a plate down too hard. God bless
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# ? Dec 19, 2016 21:26 |
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LethalGeek posted:There any follow up on the guy who suddenly wants to make his family homeless cause yeah I wanna see the courts smack him upside the head in a way only a judge can. Nah that was a new one but I'm sure he is going to get completely hosed by the judge. There was another legal advice story about a guy whose father tripped over a box at a department store that wasn't properly put away and died because of it. Legal advice just about pissed their pants they were so excited that the situation could not have been more ideal for the OP. Long story short the guy got a lawyer who gladly took on the case on contingency and OP bought the watch his father had his eye on and wanted. The watch was $7.77 something about the dad being excited to pick out such a cheap watch just made the story even more depressing
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# ? Dec 19, 2016 21:27 |
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WampaLord posted:This seems like a really loving dumb thing to fight about and if you're having dumb fights like this a lot, I think you might have bigger issues. It never lasts, we always talk through it. Which is what that poster should be doing!
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# ? Dec 19, 2016 21:29 |
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WAY TO GO WAMPA!! posted:We don't have fights like that where either of us do stuff like shoving each other out of the way or slamming plates, just the stuff like getting upset with each others reactions, getting angry about anger, huffing and puffing, that kind of stuff. Fair enough, but living like the way the couple in that post lives sounds exhausting.
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# ? Dec 19, 2016 21:34 |
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This is old and legal advice but..quote:My ex husband and his new wife made my daughter a back brace out of wood and steel and forced her to wear it. and the update: quote:Update: My ex husband and his new wife made my daughter a back brace out of wood and steel and forced her to wear it (Florida) I repeat.
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# ? Dec 19, 2016 21:39 |
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54 40 or gently caress posted:Nah that was a new one but I'm sure he is going to get completely hosed by the judge. Are you alright? You've been posting some sad stories lately.
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# ? Dec 19, 2016 21:44 |
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Gaunab posted:Are you alright? You've been posting some sad stories lately. IM JUST FINE THANKS I'm actually great, thanks for asking! I think I gravitate to them because I always hope for the best outcome. Plus these posts tend to be more outlandish in content so that probably factors on as well. How are you, Gaunab?
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# ? Dec 19, 2016 21:49 |
54 40 or gently caress posted:This is old and legal advice but.. They dislocated her arm with the brace??? I don't think there is a big enough.
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Depending on the person, it's not that hard to dislocate a shoulder. I know I told someone that they needed to be careful with me because my joints are bad, and their response was ha-ha to grab my wrist and tug at my arm! They dislocated my shoulder
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