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remember, cumslut is a garbage poster with bad opinions
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# ? Dec 29, 2016 07:51 |
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Cumslut will take a huge load whenever, though, so I think it balances out.
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# ? Dec 29, 2016 07:54 |
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Bullying is bad and not nice, and people should not write it off like it's something to get over because years have passed, especially those who know about it first-hand. Like goons. <>
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# ? Dec 29, 2016 07:58 |
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Popsci section of Boston.com runs article on thing using lots of weasel words, quotes low evidence studies without any criticism Goon uses it to die on a hill repeatedly Bullying sucks but uh, imo, rape sucks more
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# ? Dec 29, 2016 07:59 |
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I feel for the lady I too had a somewhat tall dude that used to make sure I wouldn't get laid in high school. Fucker was always there squashing any game I could muster with his loud rear end mouth and crude behaviour. I am Keyser Söze
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# ? Dec 29, 2016 07:59 |
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Themata posted:Bullying is bad and not nice, and people should not write it off like it's something to get over because years have passed, especially those who know about it first-hand. You are not wrong but she really only has a few options here 1) deal with it 2) find a new job Going to her boss or hr about literally high school problems is just going to get her fired for causing trouble.
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# ? Dec 29, 2016 08:02 |
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Ride The Gravitron posted:You are not wrong but she really only has a few options here 3) Revenge. Other than the lady dating her bully, I can't think of a better opportunity, especially if he really doesn't remember her.
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# ? Dec 29, 2016 08:21 |
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got a good one for you guys so stop arguing about bullyingquote:I need some advice. My mother is afraid of the end of the world more than the end of her family. [long]
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# ? Dec 29, 2016 08:23 |
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Mom schizo, so what
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# ? Dec 29, 2016 08:25 |
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Bullying is serious and though nine years have passed, those nine years didn't actually resolve their differences just put them on hiatus.
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# ? Dec 29, 2016 08:34 |
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Pick posted:Bullying is serious and though nine years have passed, those nine years didn't actually resolve their differences just put them on hiatus. bullying causes permanent neurological damage, so no amount of time will resolve anything.
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# ? Dec 29, 2016 08:44 |
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Pick posted:Bullying is serious and though nine years have passed, those nine years didn't actually resolve their differences just put them on hiatus. I don't get why she blames him for all that negative stuff in high school though. She tried to screw him out of a grade on a group project, and instead of talking to her crush she just let him think that she had something going on with that guy instead? A whole lot of this seems to be on her. Including still caring about it nine years later. I'd have a ton more sympathy for vicious rumors and/or her being ostracized. Instead it sounds like she annoyed a petty teenager by trying to be petty over a grade, he talked some poo poo whenever he saw her as people who don't like each other as kids/teens tend to do, and she's blaming her introversion/shortcomings on these events. It's even spilling over into modern day: she can't even talk with him or her boss about it. Khorne fucked around with this message at 09:05 on Dec 29, 2016 |
# ? Dec 29, 2016 08:50 |
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Cumslut1895 posted:bullying causes permanent neurological damage, so no amount of time will resolve anything. So the bullied are permanently damaged and never move past it? Sounds like the humane thing to do is put them out of their misery.
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# ? Dec 29, 2016 08:54 |
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Bullying is bad but Reddit is also one of those sites where everyone is in permanent high school persecution complex mode so it's hard to tell what's actually going on. Don't bully people though
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# ? Dec 29, 2016 08:55 |
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Cumslut1895 posted:bullying causes permanent neurological damage, so no amount of time will resolve anything. you know nothing
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# ? Dec 29, 2016 09:08 |
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Improbable Lobster posted:Bullying is bad but Reddit is also one of those sites where everyone is in permanent high school persecution complex mode so it's hard to tell what's actually going on. "permanent high school persecution complex" you know that's less a personal flaw and more a symptom right Chichevache posted:So the bullied are permanently damaged and never move past it? Sounds like the humane thing to do is put them out of their misery.
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# ? Dec 29, 2016 09:22 |
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I feel if we're gonna go for a "they were developing children and we need to understand that some things we'd expect adults to shrug off had lingering impacts on their childhood experience" sort of angle to bullying (which is totally fair) you have to also acknowledge that the perpetrators were also children and the bad stuff they did was mostly for social jockeying and indirect enough that it's p unreasonable to hold it against them a decade later.
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# ? Dec 29, 2016 09:30 |
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I was bullied all throughout grade, middle and high school and I turned out fine after a decade of substance abuse, meds and therapy. God, sack up you ninnies.
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# ? Dec 29, 2016 09:33 |
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Cumslut1895 posted:"permanent high school persecution complex" you know that's less a personal flaw and more a symptom right I meant that adult redditors act like they're in high school and that they're the persecuted outcasts and everyone around them are the mean jocks and popular kids. I wasn't trying to discredit any personal trauma people may have suffered during their younger years. Childhood traumas obviously affect people well into adulthood. Then again you're a disingenuous idiot
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# ? Dec 29, 2016 09:33 |
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ArbitraryC posted:I feel if we're gonna go for a "they were developing childrend and we need to understand that some things we'd expect adults to shrug off had lingering impacts on their childhood experience" sort of angle to bullying (which is totally fair) you have to also acknowledge that the perpetrators were also children and the bad stuff they did was mostly for social jockeying and indirect enough that it's p unreasonable to hold it against them a decade later. except the liifetime statistics (suicide,mental illness,chance of marrying etc) of bullying victims are terrible, so the fact that they were children doesn't really matter. it's not like you'd shrug off any other kind of permanent damage the same way. if one kid beat another kid with a bat until they were physically or mentally disabled, I don't think you'd be quite so forgiving edit: and a lot things dismissed as bullying when they happen to children would result in serious prison time if done by an adult, so it's a little unreasonable to talk about things that adults would shrug off Cumslut1895 fucked around with this message at 09:37 on Dec 29, 2016 |
# ? Dec 29, 2016 09:34 |
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Cumslut1895 posted:except the liifetime statistics (suicide,mental illness,chance of marrying etc) of bullying victims are terrible, so the fact that they were children doesn't really matter. it's not like you'
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# ? Dec 29, 2016 09:37 |
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ArbitraryC posted:Maybe we should go to the police whenever children call each other fat or maybe literally smashing a childs teeth out or sexually assaulting them (as happened several times at my school) should be treated a bit more seriously
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# ? Dec 29, 2016 09:39 |
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Cumslut1895 posted:or maybe literally smashing a childs teeth out or sexually assaulting them (as happened several times at my school) should be treated a bit more seriously I'm sure that all the lawmakers in GBS will get right on it,
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# ? Dec 29, 2016 09:40 |
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Cumslut1895 posted:bullying causes permanent neurological damage, so no amount of time will resolve anything. wow pretty hosed up that you're calling the victims damaged goods
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# ? Dec 29, 2016 09:50 |
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fruit on the bottom posted:wow pretty hosed up that you're calling the victims damaged goods does the phrase "head trauma causes permanent neurological damage" bother you?
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# ? Dec 29, 2016 09:52 |
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being bullied is a fetish
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# ? Dec 29, 2016 09:53 |
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Cumslut1895 posted:does the phrase "head trauma causes permanent neurological damage" bother you? No, Dan Savage says I'm not allowed to kinkshame.
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# ? Dec 29, 2016 09:55 |
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ArbitraryC posted:I feel if we're gonna go for a "they were developing children and we need to understand that some things we'd expect adults to shrug off had lingering impacts on their childhood experience" sort of angle to bullying (which is totally fair) you have to also acknowledge that the perpetrators were also children and the bad stuff they did was mostly for social jockeying and indirect enough that it's p unreasonable to hold it against them a decade later. Yes, this. Bullying is a very lovely thing with very deep running effects, and it's good to acknowledge that and fight it, but the perpetrators tend to not be calculating and malicious, but just dumb kids doing what their self-preserving brain is telling them to do. Don't hate on the single digit aged kids that do it. Reserve your hate for that dude who bullied a girl at age ~25 from that story a while ago. That is truly lovely behaviour because at that point you should know better.
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# ? Dec 29, 2016 09:59 |
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Cumslut1895 posted:or maybe literally smashing a childs teeth out or sexually assaulting them (as happened several times at my school) should be treated a bit more seriously Having terrible veneers was already part of the mental image you project, but I'm happy you've confirmed it.
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# ? Dec 29, 2016 10:00 |
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Chichevache posted:Having terrible veneers was already part of the mental image you project, but I'm happy you've confirmed it. not me. a girl beaten up by a group of like 4 others, It was racially motivated too. super hosed up so it shouldn't surprise you that literally nothing happened to them. Griefor posted:Yes, this. Bullying is a very lovely thing with very deep running effects, and it's good to acknowledge that and fight it, but the perpetrators tend to not be calculating and malicious, but just dumb kids doing what their self-preserving brain is telling them to do. Don't hate on the single digit aged kids that do it. Reserve your hate for that dude who bullied a girl at age ~25 from that story a while ago. That is truly lovely behaviour because at that point you should know better. I guarantee you that psychopath was bullying people in school. Cumslut1895 fucked around with this message at 10:07 on Dec 29, 2016 |
# ? Dec 29, 2016 10:03 |
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people who allow themselves to be bullied are weak if society ever breaks down, you guys are the first to go
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# ? Dec 29, 2016 10:08 |
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Zzulu posted:people who allow themselves to be bullied are weak i'm gonna do a FUCKLOAD of curls and next week? mark my words, bitch i'm gonna bully u when you least expect it
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# ? Dec 29, 2016 10:37 |
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Shutup nerds
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# ? Dec 29, 2016 10:39 |
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Check out the narc My [21f] boyfriend [29m] was prescribed Codeine and it's worrying me quote:I'm typing on my phone so sorry for any spelling errors.
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# ? Dec 29, 2016 10:43 |
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An opiate... technically true but c'mon
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# ? Dec 29, 2016 10:51 |
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DOMDOM posted:Shutup nerds
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# ? Dec 29, 2016 10:58 |
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Me [18M] with my BF [31M] of 1 year, his family threw away my baked Christmas gifts to themquote:To preface; yes, I know there is an age gap between my boyfriend and I that is an underlying issue here. quote:I know they take issue with the age difference, which is another reason i tend to make myself scarce. I was trying to be cordial to them for the holidays without imposing and stayed home by myself this year.
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# ? Dec 29, 2016 11:26 |
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Lonely Virgil posted:I'm [32F] pregnant and sick and I feel like my husband [28M] isn't taking care of me. He feels like I'm ungrateful. Ew ew ew this guy sounds exactly like my coworkers ex. It took a lot for her to leave him but he was and is a huge piece of poo poo. And to answer your question probs at least 300 like the guy I'm talking about. She made a big tray of lasagna for the week, comes home to find he demolished all but a sliver.
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# ? Dec 29, 2016 11:27 |
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DOMDOM posted:Me [18M] with my BF [31M] of 1 year, his family threw away my baked Christmas gifts to them The relationship is hosed up, but the teenager does not have primary responsibility for it. If the family is pissed, they should tell the 30-something creeplord how disgusted they are with him, not passive-agressively toss a literal child's baked goods in the trash.
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# ? Dec 29, 2016 11:51 |
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Bullying is terrible. Do not let your kids bully other kids. Allowing your kid to make another feel like worthless poo poo because kids will be kids or any other excuse makes you an objectively terrible parent and a horrible person. Childhood is when you are at your most impressionable and sets the foundation for development of your later worldviews and personality. A severely bullied kid wakes up every morning and feels like human garbage. That kid goes to school and has it confirmed by their peers that they are, in fact, human garbage. Of course that sticks with you for life.
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# ? Dec 29, 2016 12:36 |