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WampaLord posted:On the one hand, she's freaking out way too hard over this. with the rest of her descriptions of the execs high-fiving and chest bumping it sounds like she works at a frat house
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It's always interesting to see how much people turn a blind eye to in the name of lovequote:My wife 29 [f] has a friend 31 [m] she has known longer than me, and I am not OK with their relationship. I am 29 [m].
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Pick posted:I just don't know how he finds the time to take all these pictures. Are they at least different in composition and background? Or is it the same grainy bathroom shot every time? Isn't it just going to look like the same penis? Ten photos a loving day!!!!!! if you string them all together in a stop-motion gif it does a little dance WampaLord posted:That one's great because the only downvoted comments are people telling him he might have a problem with drugs if it leads to situations like this and the rest of Reddit shaming those people for being anti-drug. Reddit is a magical land where everyone arguing really is a ridiculous idiot strawman of their position
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tactlessbastard posted:
Absolutely. What a loving cretinous rear end in a top hat.
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Pearnicious posted:I always wonder when I read statements like this if they're full of crap or if he has actually been diagnosed. It seems like an easy excuse for lovely people to just say "eh, I'm mildly autistic" and just continue to be a piece of poo poo. What does he even mean by "mental exhaustion drain"? Like normal people don't get mentally exhausted from dealing with life in general? Throwing autism around like that can be an excuse for drat near anything. Didn't do the dishes? "Sorry, I'm too mentally exhausted because of my mild autism and ADHD. I can't do the dishes right now, I need to focus on my video games." He probably actually suffers from depression since that causes lethargy and memory problems. That's my take on, as a person with no psychology degree and over the Internet, at least. Edit: missed the part about him being an abusive fucko. Now I don't wanna feel bad for him. Bored fucked around with this message at 16:39 on Jan 5, 2017 |
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Gaunab posted:It's always interesting to see how much people turn a blind eye to in the name of love
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Jeffrey of YOSPOS posted:Man that guy should have let her go to new england, then broken his lease and moved out during her trip. She can come home and have nowhere to go and no clue where he is. That would be EPIC OWNAGE!!!!
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Pearnicious posted:Yeah, they're not similar. I said that. The responses were though. And I'm not going to let it drop because I think I can actually help you understand instead of just being frustrated! The issue is that both situations aren't about a woman solving her own problems, they're about the men's problems. Shirt grabber and dick photographer are both exhibiting issues that actually have nothing to do with the women they're acting them out on. Shirt grabber wants to assert control over a woman he's probably attracted to, and he expresses that by examining her body without consent and spreading false information to her friends and family in an attempt to shame her out of her relationship. All the woman in the story did was exist and have rough sex with her boyfriend. It's not her responsibility to fix shirt grabber's problems or to teach him not to invade other people's privacy and attempt to defame them. Dick photographer is much less malicious, but his anxiety and quest for reassurance still have nothing to do specifically with the woman he's dating. What he really wants is society's validation that his body is adequate as it is. Note that his actual dick size isn't mentioned--it's entirely likely that like most men who think they have small penises his is entirely average. This is important, because the actual size doesn't matter, only his belief that he's inadequate. In this case if the woman in question wants to work through his anxiety with him it would be kind of her to guide him towards therapy and a frank discussion of his problems--however, she has no outright responsibility to do so. I'm stressing the issue of responsibility because the reason people are responding with annoyance or derision towards you for questioning why people are willing to write these men off is centered on that. Women are often attributed the responsibility for fixing men's problems, even when those problems lie outside of their control, and then are frequently blamed for a) not solving the issue b) solving the issue incorrectly c) solving the issue, but doing so in an overly assertive, 'bossy', or 'nagging' way. It's one of the most classic traps women can fall into, and the thing is that women have learned over time that if you do try to fix the problems of men who don't take responsibility for their own problems first you will almost never succeed or be rewarded. That's because you can't actually fix what other people aren't ready to fix themselves. So your suggestions, while well-meaning and generous, touch on that nerve of 'Oh, of course it's women's work to fix men's lovely emotional and behavioral problems'. They also are unfortunately unlikely to produce results that are any good for the women involved in these situations, who ultimately have to take care of themselves first. Shirt grabber is actually an enormous creep who should never be spoken to again, dick photographer is making his insecurity his girlfriend's problem when really he needs to seek therapy to do the work of saving his own relationship. For what it's worth I agree that dick photographer's girlfriend should talk to him gently instead of unilaterally severing without a word, whether or not she wants to stay with him while he figures his poo poo out, but it's still his poo poo, his problem, and his responsibility.
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Me 41 with my 42 M bf of 1 month who said he had to drink heavily to get through holidays with MEquote:I have a new guy.....we started hanging out about a month ago. We started sleeping together about 2 weeks ago. When we did that.. I told him that I needed to be exclusive. I take sleeping together very seriously. He said the same...
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WAY TO GO WAMPA!! posted:Me 41 with my 42 M bf of 1 month who said he had to drink heavily to get through holidays with ME I want to drink heavily after reading something with so many ellipses.
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That lady's...writing style...is loving insufferable... ...
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Tiny Deer posted:For what it's worth I agree that dick photographer's girlfriend should talk to him gently instead of unilaterally severing without a word, whether or not she wants to stay with him while he figures his poo poo out, but it's still his poo poo, his problem, and his responsibility. It's a good thing you wrote all these words about why it's sexist to consider what women asking for advice could do to solve their problems the two of you don't even disagree about what should happen, you just felt the need to lecture some guy on why thinking of an answer to a woman's question instead of insisting the nearest man solve it for her oppresses women. A Wizard of Goatse fucked around with this message at 17:20 on Jan 5, 2017 |
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He sounds like quite a catch and she should definitely put in the effort to make that relationship work.
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quote:Problem is -- It was NOT MY gum. So, clearly another woman had been in his room.... and chewed gum... DISGUSTING. loving lmao at this. Is she more disgusted by the woman, or the gum?
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WampaLord posted:loving lmao at this. Is she more disgusted by the woman, or the gum? I should have spoilered the ages and length of the relationship
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A Wizard of Goatse posted:It's a good thing you wrote all these words about why it's sexist to consider what women asking for advice could do to solve their problems I was actually trying to help him understand other people's reactions because I agree with him, but if a woman trying to explain why other women might find something offensive is too offensive then I honestly don't know what I can do for you?
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That's how....old people..type........
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Valid points, and I agree. I never defended the offending men in these situations, at least that wasn't my intention. There's no question that the blame is totally on them. All I suggested was that there was a possibility that it could be solved with a serious conversation and setting the record straight. People love to just immediately jump to extremes like restraining orders and other nonsense, but really that would just cause way more drama than necessary. It would most likely permanently destroy friendships and relationships. It would be more practical to just tell shirt lifter fuckhead to butt out of her personal life, reach out to her friends to tell them he is 100% wrong and has no idea what he's talking about, and then avoid him like the plague. If it escalates from there, sure go to police and literally force him to go away. I'm just baffled that offering a reasonable adult solution like trying to talk it out is considered victim blaming. No, she wasn't "asking for it" when he lifted her shirt, and no she wasn't "asking for it" when her BF is sending her 10 dick pics a day. Tiny Deer posted:Women are often attributed the responsibility for fixing men's problems, even when those problems lie outside of their control, and then are frequently blamed for a) not solving the issue b) solving the issue incorrectly c) solving the issue, but doing so in an overly assertive, 'bossy', or 'nagging' way. I totally understand that, and I'm not saying that either of these women should be responsible for these problems. They certainly have no obligation to try and solve these problems, but if they wanted to just sever forever they wouldn't be asking for advice. Shirt lifter guy is a fuckhead and there might not be a way to salvage that, but the boyfriend sending dick pics...it's not going to stop unless she does something. It's not her insecurity problem, sure, but it does affect her, and the only way to solve it is by taking action. If asking her to talk to her boyfriend about it is victim blaming then it is just a lose-lose situation with no solution. Passivity is never going to get anything done.
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WampaLord posted:Imagine a post written in the exact same tone about a girl finding porn on her boyfriend's phone. That's all it is, porn. You'd breakup with someone because they look at porn? weirdo dogdick furry mpreg porn is not the same as "big tit milf gets hosed" dude take some time off the internet
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Pearnicious posted:Valid points, and I agree. Yeah you never defended those guys and I don't think you condone them at all! It's just that often in these kinds of discussions people do defend these types of guy, so it hits a sensitive place for a lot of people who will read into what you're saying (as we see often in this thread and the entire span of human communication). I think with shirt grabber specifically people jumped to restraining order because...sometimes guys like this escalate to needing a restraining order, but at this current time it's ridiculous to suggest she could even get a restraining order. Can you imagine what a loving nightmare world it would be if everyone could get restraining orders based on 'that guy was an rear end in a top hat'? Basically a lot of what seems like baseless overreaction from people in the thread (men, women, and cucks) is seeing red flags in these stories and immediately jumping to the worst case scenario based on personal experience. At least that's why I overreact to some of these situations sometimes! Edit: to be clear your points are all valid and proactive communication is the solution to like 95% of these dumb stories to a hilarious extent. Tiny Deer fucked around with this message at 17:35 on Jan 5, 2017 |
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Gaunab posted:It's always interesting to see how much people turn a blind eye to in the name of love r/relationships 3.0: So 1am rolls around and no wife.
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Why is "big tit milf gets hosed" more acceptable?? I am more lenient towards erotic fiction because at least then no real people are being hurt.
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Because the plot in big tit milf is better But seriously are you asking why porn of someone having sex with an attractive person is considered less weird than this porn where people gently caress and impregnate each other with dog dicks Zelder fucked around with this message at 17:39 on Jan 5, 2017 |
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WAY TO GO WAMPA!! posted:Me 41 with my 42 M bf of 1 month who said he had to drink heavily to get through holidays with ME Elaine Benes
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remigious posted:Why is "big tit milf gets hosed" more acceptable?? I am more lenient towards erotic fiction because at least then no real people are being hurt. anime porn avatar edit: googled it and its an ANIME CHILD PORN AVATAR MODDSSSS Zelder posted:Because the plot in big tit milf is better he has anime child porn in his avatar
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remigious posted:no real people are being hurt. Lmao
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remigious posted:Why is "big tit milf gets hosed" more acceptable?? I am more lenient towards erotic fiction because at least then no real people are being hurt. That big tit milf was not harmed
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Sherlock fucks Watson with his dog dick and gets him butt pregnant or Man ejaculates on and around lady with fake tits these are your only choices
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its almost like people into anime child porn are really weird hosed up individuals with really weird hosed up opinions
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Tolkien minority posted:weirdo dogdick furry mpreg porn is not the same as "big tit milf gets hosed" dude take some time off the internet "Holy poo poo I am shocked at the graphic lewdness of this story!" he says as he turns back to his throat-gagging compilation.
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No big tit milfs were harmed in the making of this production
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Tiny Deer posted:Yeah you never defended those guys and I don't think you condone them at all! It's just that often in these kinds of discussions people do defend these types of guy, so it hits a sensitive place for a lot of people who will read into what you're saying (as we see often in this thread and the entire span of human communication). And some of it is just being outright obtuse. *suggestion that woman might be able to resolve issue with an adult conversation* --> "that's victim blaming" --> *mental gymnastics* --> "you condone rape." Why even try?
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Tolkien minority posted:its almost like people into anime child porn are really weird hosed up individuals with really weird hosed up opinions This avatar was obviously given to me as a joke. And I am a lady.
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WampaLord posted:"Holy poo poo I am shocked at the graphic lewdness of this story!" he says as he turns back to his throat-gagging compilation. although there is no proof i can google iwthin 30 seconds like with the other poster defending weird hosed up bestiality porn, i am going to assume you're probably also into weird hosed up anime or bestiality porn remigious posted:This avatar was obviously given to me as a joke. "my anime child porn avatar, its just a joke! also women cant be pedos "
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WampaLord posted:"Holy poo poo I am shocked at the graphic lewdness of this story!" he says as he turns back to his throat-gagging compilation.
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Pull up, thread!
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I am the pornax, I speak for the milfs (milves?)remigious posted:This avatar was obviously given to me as a joke. ladies can be hosed up weirdos Just ask my ex wife! *mugs towards camera*
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^^^plural should definitely be milvesPearnicious posted:And some of it is just being outright obtuse.
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Also while I'm on a ladysplaining tear here: the problem with the weird porn women like over the weird porn men like is that in women's disgusting porn trash there's a good chance a man will be treated like a woman starring in porn, which is anathema.
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Something Awful is a community largely built around gawking at websites full of weird porn, how do you get this freaked out by the concept that some people look at weird porn I don't even have any weird porn on my phone but if I found out someone I knew had been snooping through it that that'd be the very last time we interacted A Wizard of Goatse fucked around with this message at 17:49 on Jan 5, 2017 |
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