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ZombieJesus posted:Also re the water drinking groom, maybe his fiance is being a bitch because she knows it's actually a bullshit "medical condition", and he drinks as some sort of ocd compulsion, and the hospitalisations for "passing out" we're actually just panic attacks? Even if your loon theory is true, she agreed to marry him.
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54 40 or gently caress posted:
Reddit is such garbage
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here so we can applaud you for severing or chide you for being dumb
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I mean yeah if he has 10 non-webbed fingers and 10 non-webbed toes and is functional enough to post on reddit he's fine. But talk about an atomic bombshell that you. can,. never. tell. anyone.
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Jan 15, 2017 05:09
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Nah make it your tinder profile text
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La Brea Carpet posted:I mean yeah if he has 10 non-webbed fingers and 10 non-webbed toes and is functional enough to post on reddit he's fine. I can't find it right now but there was the story about the guy and girlfriend who were talking about their first times, and the guy admitted his first time was loving his mother, and he continued loving his mother into his mid-20s. like, dude just you take that to your grave
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Pick posted:I can't find it right now but there was the story about the guy and girlfriend who were talking about their first times, and the guy admitted his first time was loving his mother, and he continued loving his mother into his mid-20s. Reminds me of that verified AMA a guy did about how his mom jerked him off when he broke his arms and it developed into a sexual relationship. Some psychiatrist did a full study on the family to prove his theory about positive incestuous relationships or something.
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Pick posted:I can't find it right now but there was the story about the guy and girlfriend who were talking about their first times, and the guy admitted his first time was loving his mother, and he continued loving his mother into his mid-20s. Those stories always depressed the poo poo out of me because I assume there's a very good chance that that kind of sexual abuse started in childhood
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54 40 or gently caress posted:Those stories always depressed the poo poo out of me because I assume there's a very good chance that that kind of sexual abuse started in childhood 
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ZombieJesus posted:Also re the water drinking groom, maybe his fiance is being a bitch because she knows it's actually a bullshit "medical condition", and he drinks as some sort of ocd compulsion, and the hospitalisations for "passing out" we're actually just panic attacks? not a doctor but aren't there very severe and chronic kinds of orthostatic hypotension where the treatment is very frequent dosing of water+electrolytes? leaving aside that it doesn't really matter if it's 'real' or not. even if they are 'just' panic attacks , he's not having them for fun.
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flick my Mr. Bean posted:Reminds me of that verified AMA a guy did about how his mom jerked him off when he broke his arms and it developed into a sexual relationship. Some psychiatrist did a full study on the family to prove his theory about positive incestuous relationships or something. i do not... think that the conclusion was accurate
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Pick posted:The real fallacy is thinking that being a friend prevents you from being considered as a partner. This is not true, and I've never seen it be true. Yes it is, I'm doing it to someone right now. My (32/m) friend (26/f) has been trying to get me to ask out her sister (23/f) who is also part of our friend group for a year, I won't do it because it could potentially blow up my entire social life. She's completely awesome and under different circumstances I'd absolutely be interested. But after sleeping with my best friend (now 32/f) back in the day who I'm no longer on speaking terms with, I have no interest in dating my platonic friends. E: I'm not leading this poor girl on or anything, just to be clear. I'd just rather stick to tinder than mix sex and friendships. UZR IS BULLSHIT fucked around with this message at 06:39 on Jan 15, 2017 |
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UZR IS BULLSHIT posted:Yes it is, I'm doing it to someone right now. Eh I mean in your case you're not looking for a long term romantic partner at all, yeah? Keeping sex out of friendships when you don't want them to become relationships is a good idea 99.99% of the time.
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what the hell? one of the perks of toddlers is having them fetch you poo poo. they love it
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Tiny Deer posted:Eh I mean in your case you're not looking for a long term romantic partner at all, yeah? Keeping sex out of friendships when you don't want them to become relationships is a good idea 99.99% of the time. Not sure what gave you that idea.
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Tiny Deer posted:Eh I mean in your case you're not looking for a long term romantic partner at all, yeah? Keeping sex out of friendships when you don't want them to become relationships is a good idea 99.99% of the time. Yeah, if the lady is just looking for some strange trim twice a week or whatever, squishing it and then scramming it on that guy's sister isn't going to do her anything good in her social circles.
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quote:[b]My [21F] boyfriend [22] blocked me after I made an inconsiderate mistake[b] lol break up you dummies
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UZR IS BULLSHIT posted:Not sure what gave you that idea. Wait were you roleplaying as the post or something?
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Axel Rhodes Scholar posted:not a doctor but aren't there very severe and chronic kinds of orthostatic hypotension where the treatment is very frequent dosing of water+electrolytes? This is diabetes insipidus and the treatment is not to drink gallons and gallons of water a day. He is doing this because of mental illness. This is a recognized manifestation of psychosis.
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Well I just signed up for r/childfree
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Hey, is that just for Junior or do we all get a go?
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Pearnicious posted:Nah, they were just charging up their JO crystals, right?
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Gluten Freeman posted:lol break up you dummies League of Legends is like DOTA, right, in that matches generally take 45+ minutes and you need to be concentrating basically the entire time or your team falls behind? Because  if so"I'm glad we can have a serious discussion about this, I really feel connected to you right now" "kk lol, brb 1 hour"
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subhuman filth posted:This is diabetes insipidus and the treatment is not to drink gallons and gallons of water a day. He is doing this because of mental illness. This is a recognized manifestation of psychosis. Okay, but that doesn't matter at all. Her weird stubborn refusal to let him have his needed medical thing or security blanky is going to ruin their wedding for no drat good reason.
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I read through a whole lot of this topic to not only take my mind off some hilariously awful family drama, but to hopefully find out someone I knew popped up in here since they seem like the reddit type. Kind of disappointed they didn't. At least it's good to know my family still isn't bottom of the barrel, no one I know has left a baby in walmart yet.UZR IS BULLSHIT posted:Yes it is, I'm doing it to someone right now. Dating within your friend circles is asking for trouble when poo poo goes awry. Especially if it's ever the kind of argument that gets people picking sides and then a break up costs you like half your friends even if it's not an especially bad break up. Anyway, actual content; This one doesn't need the meat of the post, just this. quote:I [34M] just got a call from the police. My gf [33F] was lying drunk in the middle of the street So lets try again: quote:My[14M] mom[38F] won't let me or my sisters[8&10] go to the renaissance fair because someone she used to know works there. How can I convince her it's safe?
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54 40 or gently caress posted:Those stories always depressed the poo poo out of me because I assume there's a very good chance that that kind of sexual abuse started in childhood I just read an article about this today. Surprise: it is depressing. http://www.news.com.au/lifestyle/re...eac6094e2523a7e First line is "TRIGGER WARNING: This story discusses experiences of childhood sexual abuse, incest and suicide."
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r/relationships[new] My [32M] wife [28F] saw my father spanking our son [4} and flipped out.. u/FamilyInShambles5h We have been together for 7 years and our relationship is pretty stable except when it comes to my parents. My wife and parents do not get along, they disagree on a lot of things especially parenting. They think she is too gentle and doesn't establish strict enough boundaries while she thinks their parenting choices are too controlling and borderline abusive. I was belted ..even I got into trouble but I learned how take it and get it over with, otherwise growing up was pretty good. My wife was raised the opposite way, her parents were all about talking and learning through mistakes, she was never belted, grounded or yelled at like I was. Our parenting style is similar but I have found it hard to be as calm as she and I have lost it a few times but Ive never spanked our son. My parents were looking after our son and he is very high energy and is going through a phase where he likes to hid things on people and this can be VERY frusrating. He apparently hid my fathers car keys causing my dad to be late for work so my dad belted my son. When my wife and I came in my son was standing crying saying his bum and back hurt because my dad had spanked him. My wife and him got into an argument, apparently he hit him with his belt on his bare bottom and it was now so red and sore he couldn't sit down. She lost her poo poo yelling he didn't have the right to spank him and picked up the belt and hit my dad with it (my son was not in the room at this point) and said "how does it feel bastard" and stormed out We drove home in silence with my wife holding our son because he couldn't sit down on the seat. Once my son was taken care of my wife and I got into another argrument about the spanking, I told her that I didn't agree with him hitting him but she was wrong to do that to my father and I tried to get her to apologize and told her that maybe a spanking will teach him something, I don't agree with how extreme my father did it but a tap might not hurt IMO. She wouldn't even hear it, screaming we are the parents and they should respect our choice and what a bastard my father was, he was never to see my son again etc She ended up leaving the house with our son and won't respond to any of my calls or texts... she sent me one text about how my son also had red marks on his back meaning that he was belted all over his back and not just his bum, it wasn't a simple spank and that just solidifises her decision on them never seeing my son again. This puts me in a really hard place, my parents aren't welcome (according to my wife) but I don't think that is fair, they are my parents I can't just cut them out like this, they punished my son how they thought was best. Im sorry this is all jumbled and probably not making much sense but Im at a lost of what to do, how to handle this situation. Its my wife versus my own parents. My parents are my parents, I owe them so much and can't bare the thought of never seeing them again. I just wish my wife would come home so we can discuss this.. tl;dr: My dad spanked my son and my wife lost her poo poo and hit him with the belt so he'd feel what my son felt. Everyone is fighting now and she won't apologize for hitting my dad and says my parents aren't seeing my son ever again.
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There's spanking and then there's beating. Leaving marks and using implements pushes it way towards the beating end of the scale.
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quote:I told her that I didn't agree with him hitting him but she was wrong to do that to my father and I tried to get her to apologize and told her that maybe a spanking will teach him something, I don't agree with how extreme my father did it but a tap might not hurt IMO What kind of argument even is this? "Well if the situation was completely different and my dad didn't completely gently caress up our child with a belt, it would have been fine so what's the big deal?"
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I would love to have seen the look on his father's face while she was wailing on him with the belt. gently caress that guy.
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quote:I told her that I didn't agree with him hitting him but she was wrong to do that to my father and I tried to get her to apologize and told her that maybe a spanking will teach him something See, I know that the husband is referring to the kid "learning something" here but ideally he would be talking about his dad learning from getting smacked by his wife..
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I was spanked as a kid and I turned out terrible but I think it's unrelated.quote:This puts me in a really hard place, my parents aren't welcome (according to my wife) but I don't think that is fair, they are my parents I can't just cut them out like this, they punished my son how they thought was best. He's such a goddamn coward it's making me angry. I don't care whether you consider spanking a kid's rear end is abuse or not, I think we can all agree whipping a child's back is genuine physical child abuse.
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The guy probably got beat like that regularly as a child, so it is understandable that he wants to rationalise this and downplay his father being an abusive piece of poo poo as an initial reaction. He was abused, so he can't see it for what it is, maybe? He is getting a pretty big reality check in the comments, though, which will hopefully get him to see it for what it was and stand up to his father about it.
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