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boner confessor posted:social media addiction is a real thing and it's going to be something people talk about increasingly over the next 5-10 years as people wreck their lives obsessively checking their phones One of the reasons I like the film ParaNorman is it makes an extremely good point about how happy the bullied are to become bullies as soon as they have the leverage to do so.
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Sisal Two-Step posted:hahahahaha of course they are yeah my lack of surprise is palpable
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boner confessor posted:social media addiction is a real thing and it's going to be something people talk about increasingly over the next 5-10 years as people wreck their lives obsessively checking their phones Yeah giving a species that's best defined by our ability to communicate well and often with other members of our species, and to take pleasure from the act, a big old 'communicate now' button was perhaps unwise.
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# ? Jan 19, 2017 22:15 |
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This dude [29M] creeps me [23F] out but he hasn't specifically harmed me. Am I overreacting, and if not, how do I tell him to back off?quote:So a while ago I met this guy at my college dorm area. We chatted for a while. We bonded over being fellow oldies on campus and he told me he had a girlfriend, and then she called him and he put her on speakerphone (WTF in retrospect), but at the time I was thought that since he already had a girlfriend, we could just be friends and there would be no mixed signals or anything, which is good because I am 100% not interested in a relationship (am gay). There is a quote, "CRAZY F***KING UPDATE?!?" but the mods deleted it.
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# ? Jan 19, 2017 22:20 |
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Idk what she's talking about I take acquaintances to sex shops so we can watch kinky sex acts happen in front of us all the time and no one has complained EVEN ONCE
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monkeytennis posted:Bit harsh. I laughed
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Nazzadan posted:This dude [29M] creeps me [23F] out but he hasn't specifically harmed me. Am I overreacting, and if not, how do I tell him to back off? I NEED TO KNOW THE UPDATE!!!
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# ? Jan 19, 2017 22:29 |
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My [25M] girlfriend [23F] does not appreciate any of my hobbies and interests.quote:It didn't bother me at first but its really started to get to me. Pretty much every time one of hobbies comes up, she goes out of her way to be insulting and make negative comments. I fully admit that I have a lot of very fringe interests (I'm into video games, anime, and the brony community), but it really hurts my feelings when she goes out of her way to be insulting like that. This actually reached kind of a boiling point recently when she found some rule 34 MLP fanart on my computer and started repeatedly accusing me of being immature, which wound up leading to a big fight. I love this one. UGH, my[25M] girlfriend[23F] found MLP porn on my computer and got skeeved out. What's her DEAL, it's just a HOBBY
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# ? Jan 19, 2017 22:32 |
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Nazzadan posted:My [25M] girlfriend [23F] does not appreciate any of my hobbies and interests. lol at the way that he puts being a brony right up there with videogames and anime like beating off to porn of horses from a children's tv show is a completely normal hobby many people share
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# ? Jan 19, 2017 22:32 |
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Nazzadan posted:This dude [29M] creeps me [23F] out but he hasn't specifically harmed me. Am I overreacting, and if not, how do I tell him to back off? which D&D poster is this
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# ? Jan 19, 2017 22:33 |
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The pony porn is rule 34 you know a joke haha why don't you understand god
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# ? Jan 19, 2017 22:35 |
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Nazzadan posted:My [25M] girlfriend [23F] does not appreciate any of my hobbies and interests. He's lucky she didn't just up and leave his rear end when she found it. She should have.
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Mirthless posted:lol at the way that he puts being a brony right up there with videogames and anime like beating off to porn of horses from a children's tv show is a completely normal hobby many people share And he's TWENTY FIVE loving years old. Humanity is hosed.
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# ? Jan 19, 2017 22:36 |
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I don't believe this post. Four women in a row who wanted an open relationship? Either this dude is smack dab in the middle of portland and has some phenomenally bad luck, or this is a bitter redditor making up a fake pussy pass/all women are whores story. Alternatively, the only place this guy can meet women is Tinder and it surprises him that he's just a booty call. And he's not exactly coming across very well himself, but I doubt most redditors are going to acknowledge that, lol he's absolutely hiding something from her, lol i'm gonna bet it's a second household by the ages, or at the very least, that he has more kids she doesn't know about.
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# ? Jan 19, 2017 22:37 |
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Portland or Brooklyn?quote:How do I [23F] get my coworker [40sF] to stop brewing our office coffee incorrectly? Also by the OP: quote:Is it unaligned with feminism that I like it when my boyfriend orders for me at restaurants?
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La Brea Carpet posted:Portland or Brooklyn? Portland or Seattle imo I'm personally leaning towards Seattle because it's the only place I can think of where someone would be this loving insufferable about coffee and this proud to have had a minimum wage job pouring bitter black liquid into foam cups I feel like Brooklyn would be mostly the former, and Portland mostly the latter. A crunchy granola smoker can rationalize buying lovely coffee if it's suitably fair trade and organic and a new yorker isn't going to brag about their job that doesn't make them enough money to pay for the doormat in front of their 200sq ft studio apartment Mirthless fucked around with this message at 22:43 on Jan 19, 2017 |
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somehow that guy referring to his porn cache as "rule 34" still stands out as the most awkward part of that post to me, like jerk your gherkin to whatever hosed up poo poo you like buddy but once you can only refer to sex things by their internet meme names you're just not fit for human company anymore
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Mirthless posted:I laughed You're pretty weird sometimes but you can take a joke like a champ. Nazzadan posted:This dude [29M] creeps me [23F] out but he hasn't specifically harmed me. Am I overreacting, and if not, how do I tell him to back off? What the actual gently caress. I am dying to know what the deleted update is.
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# ? Jan 19, 2017 22:51 |
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Pvt.Scott posted:I'm glad none of you are on my jury, Christ. Well said, the shrieky/weepy paranoia about her guaranteed cheating is some straight up scary poo poo. Also, no guy getting no-strings-attached sex on the side would sabotage it with a lame-rear end douchey text like that. That was a dude wishing he was getting action. The husband is also being a baby.
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# ? Jan 19, 2017 23:06 |
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Pick posted:CAT CAME FIRST If that cat comes first it should at least give you oral after
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La Brea Carpet posted:How do I [23F] get my coworker [40sF] to stop brewing our office coffee incorrectly? Just bring in a French Press or something and quit whining, everyone hates a coffee snob. Signed, a recovering coffee snob.
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# ? Jan 19, 2017 23:13 |
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Moridin920 posted:fwiw I bet you there's a lot of 50-60 year olds who have been married for 10-20 years doing all kind of swinging/orgy poo poo and they get through it just fine because they aren't drama bombs posting on Reddit Edit: To clarify I never saw "let's open the relationship" levels of drama. That poo poo is so loving stupid.
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My family will disown me(22f) and my husband(25m) if we chose to adopt out the baby I'm pregnant with, so we are looking into having an abortion and hiding it from the family.quote:This is going to be very long. I apologize in advance. If you're against abortion I respect your views, but please don't bash me. I'm going through enough right now Update quote:So everything has essentially gone both great and horribly. So her family sucks and I felt really bad for her, but I went through her account because it isn't a throwaway and she has pages and pages and pages of started threads on a vast array of subreddits. Some of them definitely belong here, so here is her username so you guys can find some and post at your leisure: Atsuyo
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# ? Jan 19, 2017 23:16 |
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Pick posted:One of the reasons I like the film ParaNorman is it makes an extremely good point about how happy the bullied are to become bullies as soon as they have the leverage to do so. Paranorman is a really really great film
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# ? Jan 19, 2017 23:30 |
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She has family problems, likes animals, and plays a lot of video games. Idk she'd be a goon if she was posting here? "I think I just convinced a man I'm an alien" http://logs.omegle.com/2f04091 this was something hahaha LethalGeek fucked around with this message at 23:34 on Jan 19, 2017 |
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Tale as old as time, chapter 43. My [23f] boyfriend [27m] left me after an open relationship disaster. Where to go from here? quote:Our story is long so bear with me please.
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They will always, always leave you for the one who got away. Even if they know that it's a bad idea.
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Pick posted:They will always, always leave you for the one who got away. Even if they know that it's a bad idea. I was about to say idk how much of this is drat open relationships vs that one chick popping back up. Though I'd want to know if the dude knew she was available when/if he was the one that brought up the open thing
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"Let's open the relationship up so we can start nailing our exes again nonstop/pursue people we had crushes on or were deeply in love with at one time" is always the funniest turn to take in these stories, it always ends this way Like if you're really think you can separate love and sex, you should probably keep people you legitimately loved (or deeply pined for) before your current relationship out of the loving equation
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# ? Jan 19, 2017 23:44 |
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Odd to see the dude smashing the open relationship for once
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Mirthless posted:"Let's open the relationship up so we can start nailing our exes again nonstop/pursue people we had crushes on or were deeply in love with at one time" is always the funniest turn to take in these stories, it always ends this way Was thinking the same thing lol
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Ratjaculation posted:Odd to see the dude smashing the open relationship for once yeah, seriously i think women have so much opportunity in an open relationship that it usually ends up being them that goes way over the line just by virtue of gradual escalation. in this case I think it's definitely more "that one chick" as LethalGeek put it - he had this girl pop back into his life, and she's interested now, and probably not interested in an open relationship. He knows he's only going to make this work if he dumps his girlfriend but he has that monkey brain guilt he can't assuage himself of, so he orchestrates a fight, overreacts, and dumps her immediately. This was all about opening himself up so he can go after the one that got away, imo. Moridin920 posted:Was thinking the same thing lol "Gee, I was married to this person for five years and we have a kid together, but I'm sure I can start loving him/her without hurting my current relationship or getting attached again, no problem" lmao people what the gently caress do you think is gonna happen Mirthless fucked around with this message at 23:56 on Jan 19, 2017 |
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Pick posted:They will always, always leave you for the one who got away. Even if they know that it's a bad idea. Jesus, ain't that the truth. Dunning Krugerrand posted:Tale as old as time, chapter 43. I feel pretty bad for this girl. Can't close that box after you've opened it though.
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Mirthless posted:"Gee, I was married to this person for five years and we have a kid together, but I'm sure I can start loving him/her without hurting my current relationship or getting attached again, no problem"
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My gf [24f] still keeps her ex's deodorant?quote:Hello. I"m 27m, and my girlfriend of one year [24f] and I have been going strong. During our first few months, I saw that she had a bottle of axe, and I said, "Is that your version of an air freshener?" She told me that it belonged to her ex. They had dated from high school throughout college, so I figured, ok... This doesn't seem like THAT big of a deal, but it is weird that she said she'd toss it then hid it in her dresser.
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# ? Jan 20, 2017 00:10 |
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I would assume she likes his 'scent' (or a reminder of it at least) as a way to remember some good times in the past or that it's a drug stash. Dunno that it would really bother me that much either way other than if it is a drug stash I expect her to share damnit. It's prolly the former though and it's not a big deal but she doesn't want to make the current bf think she's still into the ex or something.
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Moridin920 posted:I would assume she likes his 'scent' (or a reminder of it at least) as a way to remember some good times in the past or that it's a drug stash. Dunno that it would really bother me that much either way other than if it is a drug stash I expect her to share damnit. keeping around something simply so you can be reminded of their scent definitely qualifies as still being into somebody imo esp if you were kind of slightly deceptive about it I'm not saying she's in the wrong or he's in the right necessarily, edit: poo poo I don't know how I got 2 months, they've been together a year? Jeeze. It'd skeeve me out if I found it after she said she was going to pitch it, if nothing else. Mirthless fucked around with this message at 00:27 on Jan 20, 2017 |
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Mirthless posted:keeping around something simply so you can be reminded of their scent definitely qualifies as still being into somebody imo Depends on the context really. Maybe it's her quilt. quote:esp if you were kind of slightly deceptive about it Yeah (maybe I'm being naive here) but I still think it's more that she's just embarrassed about telling her current bf "my ex and I had a great relationship and we've both moved on but I keep this as a reminder of some good memories" wrt the deception. I agree she should probably pitch it if they get serious but if I was in her shoes I wouldn't start tossing mementos 2 months into a relationship either.
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Moridin920 posted:Depends on the context really. Maybe it's her quilt. Having another dudes item as a security blanket is hosed and unhealthy
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Mirthless posted:keeping around something simply so you can be reminded of their scent definitely qualifies as still being into somebody imo And she's been broken up with dude for three years
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