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Gaunab posted:When having young parents goes wrong Sucks for that kid to be in high school and have a 30 year old father, but she also can't expect her dad to be a chaste monk and not talk to attractive women. She should probably sit down and talk to him about not being so obvious about it though.
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I don't think he is doing anything?
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Mirthless posted:
it's not literal genocide but it doesn't need to be. it's moderately obnoxious and it comes off as clingy to be constantly checking in without actually having anything to say. if they were actually thoughtful, interesting messages that'd be a different story but it sounds like they're pretty much just 'hey. hey. hey. hey. are you thinking about me? hey. hey. hey. hey. hey.' combined with the rest of his scripting, guy's basically a spambot Moridin920 posted:I don't think he is doing anything? shouldnt'a dressed so sexy, you can hardly blame the girl he was basically asking for it A Wizard of Goatse fucked around with this message at 22:38 on Jan 23, 2017 |
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Gaunab posted:When having young parents goes wrong Ugh this sounds awful, she needs to talk to this girl and be like back the gently caress off and tell her dad about how it makes her uncomfortable as well. communicationnnnnnnnnnnn *edit* this does not sound like the dads fault btw she just needs to draw lines with her friends and tell them to back off or she's going to cut them out of her life.
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Gaunab posted:When having young parents goes wrong don't cockblock your dad
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Gaunab posted:When having young parents goes wrong lol wow She's got a rough life ahead of her if she can't handle her dad's friends being attracted to him. At least he's flirting with a 22 year old instead of somebody his daughter's age. MF_James posted:Ugh this sounds awful, she needs to talk to this girl and be like back the gently caress off and tell her dad about how it makes her uncomfortable as well. communicationnnnnnnnnnnn That's ridiculous. Friend's sister is not doing anything wrong and neither is dad. MF_James posted:she just needs to draw lines with her friends and tell them to back off or she's going to cut them out of her life. He's not even flirting with one of her actual friends. It's a family member of a friend, who is probably a little too young for him, but definitely old enough to rationally make that decision for herself. "Please don't date people I might occasionally interact with!  " is more than a little unreasonableMirthless fucked around with this message at 22:41 on Jan 23, 2017 |
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its not even clear youngdad is flirting. he has a valid interest in getting to know a person if his daughter hangs out at their house frequently
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Also youngdad is a wealthy and successful 30-year old single father who drives a BMW, is 3-5 years away from being able to solely focus on another woman's progeny and also probably very hot (at the very least: ripped) Everywhere he goes he is going to have women flirt with him and many of those women are going to be the family of her daughter's friends This is a guy who gets laid with his personal story as much as he gets laid from his wealth and good looks Mirthless fucked around with this message at 22:48 on Jan 23, 2017 |
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Jan 23, 2017 22:46
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Im impressed a guy who had a kid at 15 is now driving a bmw
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It would be one thing if girl's dad was perving on her teenage friends or some disgusting crap, but it's a 22 year old sister of a friend. He's fine. He just needs to be less conspicuous about it because it is understandably weird for his daughter.
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the girl DID say she wanted a mother figure in her life, after all
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Mirthless posted:lol wow It makes her uncomfortable, that's the fact, whether you think that's ok or not does not change the fact that it does make her uncomfortable, at the very least she should talk to her dad about it. It does NOT seem like he's flirting with the friend sister, or at least it's unclear, he might even not have any interest at all, but she shouldn't bottle it up if it's an issue. If she just buries it, she'll likely stop hanging out with her friend because of it.
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Mirthless posted:He's not even flirting with one of her actual friends. It's a family member of a friend, who is probably a little too young for him, but definitely old enough to rationally make that decision for herself. "Please don't date people I might occasionally interact with! "Please don't date my best friend's sister" is unreasonable? Idk man. It sounds like all he is doing is picking her up and staying in the car so the sister is going out to flirt to which he is just being polite. There's nothing going on. If he was getting into it I think it'd def be weird though. Anyway at the moment it seems like she's more upset at the 22 yr old making jokes and saying 'your dad is hot.'
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Moridin920 posted:"Please don't date my best friend's sister" is unreasonable? Yeah, it's pretty unreasonable. And I really don't see how this is weird. Would it be weird if he was trying to date friend's mom? Pretty sure the only reason she's uncomfortable with this is because somebody she views as a peer views her father as a sexual entity and it makes her uncomfortable. That's going to describe a lot of people unless he limits himself to dating women substantially older than his daughter.
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Mirthless posted:Yeah, it's pretty unreasonable. I mean I don't have kids but I feel like there's definitely some boundary violations going on if a parent is trying to gently caress people in the daughter's immediate social circle.
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Mirthless posted:Yeah, it's pretty unreasonable. Haha, absolutely. Dont gently caress people you know because of your child.
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Seriously there's a whole big wide world out there you don't need to start mining your kids' friends and their family members. Not that the dad is doing anything wrong here ofc.
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hell, I'd gently caress My Daughter's Friend's Hot Sister
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Plenty of people hook up their parents with the parents and family of people they know This is only weird because of the ages involved. 
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You all just wish you were hot dad.
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Danger posted:You all just wish you were hot dad. I have a hot girlfriend in a loving relationship, so I'm one step above him. 
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I think 22 and 30 is a bit weird of an age gap too but it doesn't really sound like hotdad is the source of the problem either way.
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ArbitraryC posted:I think 22 and 30 is a bit weird of an age gap too but it doesn't really sound like hotdad is the source of the problem either way. He ought to aim older because he'd be pure gold for the looking to settle down crowd.
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On the dad's side, I'm 34 (good looking ripped and rich, too), my step daughter is 16, and my son is 2.5. Whenever the 3 of us go out somewhere without my wife, people assume we (me + step daughter) are "together" and my step daughter is my son's mother and all that and it is uncomfortable how readily people make that assumption.
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Mirthless posted:Plenty of people hook up their parents with the parents and family of people they know Plenty of people have dysfunctional families, too. It is rolling the drama dice for no good reason. I mean you know whatever obv he isn't doing anything really wrong just seems like a bit of a boundary issue to me. e: I'll put it like this: if you took 16 year old me and then had my mom hook up with my best friend's 22 yr old brother there would be beef for loving sure. Moridin920 fucked around with this message at 23:20 on Jan 23, 2017 |
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quote:I[29m] asked my girlfriend[30f] for an open relationship because I got a job offer in another state, she said no, that I was going to be manipulated by blonde gold-diggers.
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She was right to break up either way but she's also prolly right that NYC is gonna chew that dude up.
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At 29 years old this guy should be capable of being apart from his girlfriend for a couple of months without having to gently caress somebody I can see why the 22 y/os break up when they can't gently caress whoever they want whenever they want, all the time, but drat dude you should really have some self control by the time you're pushing 30 they've been together four years and he had a tantrum breakup because he couldn't have an unlimited fuckpass. this guy's gonna be a real catch for somebody. 
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Tiny Deer posted:Jesus, I get what Pick says about being insulted mostly by the laziness of cheaters. She wouldn't even change out of sweatpants and leave the house to cheat on her boyfriend! gently caress's sake, child. Put some effort into being lovely. I mean, don't get me wrong, cheating is wrong and I find it odious for all the normal reasons too. It's just, yes, exactly. For god's sakes if you are going to be a piece of poo poo, put in the effort to be a proper piece of poo poo. Don't even half-rear end being garbage, what does that say about you!?
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At your ages, time together, and job advancement she probably was expecting a different proposal. At least you were helpful and threw out some final flares on the rocket of romance so youre free to fly solo.
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I don't get why you wouldn't just break up by default at that point. Either they're worth waiting for or they're not, absolutely no way a ldr is gonna be able to compete with the honeymoon phase of someone you're actively boning.
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Barudak posted:At your ages, time together, and job advancement she probably was expecting a different proposal. At least you were helpful and threw out some final flares on the rocket of romance so youre free to fly solo. haha, seriously! I bet that completely blew her away. She's waiting for him to pop the question and he suddenly drops "I want to gently caress other people while I'm in another state and making tons of money" I can't loving blame her, she can't wring a commitment out of this guy to save her life and all of a sudden he doesn't even want to abide by the one commitment they have, an exclusive relationship? gently caress that dude. Man the more I think about it the worse this story makes me feel, jeeze. She invested a lot of time into that relationship and working out their lives together but he won't marry her and won't even stay exclusive, jesus, she must have felt so loving betrayed when he asked. I hate these stories the most, honestly. The people who ask for an open relationship and threaten to break up if they don't get it, or overreact to any resistance and push the issue until they get what they want - I feel like this is so much shittier than just cheating on your partner and dumping them. At least when you get cheated on you're not stuck with conflicting feelings over whether or not you were the one being selfish. Mirthless fucked around with this message at 23:57 on Jan 23, 2017 |
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big trivia FAIL posted:On the dad's side, I'm 34 (good looking ripped and rich, too), my step daughter is 16, and my son is 2.5. Whenever the 3 of us go out somewhere without my wife, people assume we (me + step daughter) are "together" and my step daughter is my son's mother and all that and it is uncomfortable how readily people make that assumption. A waitress flat out didn't believe us one time. I'm sitting there going why the hell would we make this up?!?
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Wow, he broke up with her because she bruised his ego.
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Gaunab posted:Wow, he broke up with her because she bruised his ego. oh don't forget she was very mildly misogynistic totally rational and valid reason to dump somebody after four years together
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BTW what are the odds this guy is fully supporting a 19 y/o art student inside of six months in NYC? she'll probably have blue hair tho
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lol it's a attractive guy who has women interested in him so he's instantly a villain cause girls have the gall to be interested in him and chat him up and he sounds like he's taking care of his daughter and doing the right things. Bad man for being human. And they're adults who can consent. I hope the 22 year old and Dad get together and she turns out to be the teenagers mother cause she can't even for being so embarrassed she could just die.
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What a piece of poo poo. Dump the woman who took care of you and suffered your bullshit lifestyle through residency as soon as your hours and finances improve. After all, people who demonstrably loved you even before you were wealthy are super easy to find. This is a cool and good thing to do
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