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Gerblyn posted:I'm not disagreeing with you here, I'm just raising the possibility that there might be some explanation behind why the guy is acting the way he is. She stayed with him for 5 years, he must have had redeeming features at some point in the past but something changed and I was just speculating as to what. she's the girl who's working herself to death making sure no stray goes unadopted, I'm betting it just took her five years to finally admit some should be sent back to the shelter
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the fact that she did it so casually and in a place she could so easily be caught tells me this happens all the loving time and this is the point it's escalated to he should get tested for STDs and file for divorce immediately
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Jeffrey of YOSPOS posted:Additionally as a Charitable Dude I would have had good charities in mind during the Cheap Gibe™ phase of the conversation. Or even said "let's find one together that we're both passionate about". Also, if you can empty a wine glass in one gulp then either you're the oral Kirk Johnson or there wasn't much in it.
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Gonna give some props, cheating during a party while family is there is incredibly bold if nothing else.
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Barudak posted:Gonna give some props, cheating during a party while family is there is incredibly bold if nothing else. yeah imo it says "looking for the thrill of spicy, risky sex" which is the kind of thing you do with somebody when regular loving isn't cutting it for you anymore how many times do you think she's cheated on this guy in 9 years of marriage? i figure it's gotta be a whole bunch, right?
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Mirthless posted:yeah imo it says "looking for the thrill of spicy, risky sex" which is the kind of thing you do with somebody when regular loving isn't cutting it for you anymore Oh its a whoooooole bunch. Dude needs to get divorced asap and, as far as things can be called lucky, his family has unambiguous experience of why they are now divorced so theyll have his back. As someone above mentioned he should probably get tested for STDs.
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Mirthless posted:c. He hadn't tried to dictate to his girlfriend what pets she could have in the house that belongs to her
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Jeffrey of YOSPOS posted:This was posted in the reddit thread and I kinda hate it. No, the name on the deed is not a trump card as far as home decision-making is concerned. It may be only her house but it's certainly his home as well. She should obviously get veto power to changes to the property but come on, pets are things you talk about and decide on with the other members of your shared household. It's extra true with pets (compared to say, furniture, which is still something your partner/roommates get a say in) because a pet in the home necessarily conveys some amount of responsibility to all members of the household. It was a tree frog and he put his foot down like he was the king of the castle. They weren't even married. They broke up and now he has to move out. Just can't feel bad for him. Edit: Seriously though I would see your point if it was like a dog or another cat or a bird or something that took up space, made things smell bad, required a lot of care and/or made a lot of noise, but it was basically a set piece decoration she wanted to relieve anxiety and the way he framed it makes him sound ridiculous and controlling. It wasn't even his place to put his foot down, he knew it and she knew it and that's why things ended this way. The lady wasn't in a hoarder situation and wasn't expecting any additional work or commitment from him so I don't think he had any place to get angry about it in the first place. Mirthless fucked around with this message at 16:22 on Jan 24, 2017 |
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Jeffrey of YOSPOS posted:This was posted in the reddit thread and I kinda hate it. No, the name on the deed is not a trump card as far as home decision-making is concerned. It may be only her house but it's certainly his home as well. She should obviously get veto power to changes to the property but come on, pets are things you talk about and decide on with the other members of your shared household. It's extra true with pets (compared to say, furniture, which is still something your partner/roommates get a say in) because a pet in the home necessarily conveys some amount of responsibility to all members of the household. if it was a dog or something yeah sure but a tree frog is basically a vertebrate houseplant
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A Wizard of Goatse posted:if it was a dog or something yeah sure but a tree frog is basically a vertebrate houseplant Careful now, they have feelings too (mostly hunger).
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A Wizard of Goatse posted:if it was a dog or something yeah sure but a tree frog is basically a vertebrate houseplant Yeah, really, how much maintenance and energy does a tree frog require that a person with years of veterinary experience wouldn't be able to handle all by themselves? Looking on Google, seems like the only thing they need is a small enclosure and the most basic equipment, no special care regimens, no crazy (read: specific) humidity requirements, dietary requirements are easy to meet. They're easier to keep than goldfish. Imagine this same story and everything is the same but he's going ballistic over her bringing home a betta fish from walmart Mirthless fucked around with this message at 16:28 on Jan 24, 2017 |
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Lifetime movie in the making here:quote:
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La Brea Carpet posted:Lifetime movie in the making here: She needs to find the contact page for her school district and start reaching out to people, because this is a rape waiting to happen What a loving creepy dude, what a loving creepy story. quote:tl;dr: Weird-behaving, creepy varsity basketball coach wants to come to a service opportunity I'm hosting and is constantly emailing me about it. How do I tell him that I don't want him to come without risking my varsity spot on the team? I need excuses! It's better if you just read the whole thing, it makes more sense ugggggh I can just imagine this dude trying to leverage this for sexual favors
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quote:He therefore sometimes says stuff like, "Let me be your dad. Let me help you and coach you. I'll make you feel comfortable. I'm just like your dad. You'll feel perfectly fine."
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I am so glad she told her parents, although if I was her parent I'd be five steps ahead on the "call someone and get that rear end in a top hat fired" path.
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Benagain posted:I am so glad she told her parents, although if I was her parent I'd be five steps ahead on the "call someone and get that rear end in a top hat fired" path. Yeah what the gently caress are her parents doing? I found the comment thread and the girl was making posts four months ago on /r/teenagers listing herself as [14F] which makes this whole story a billion times loving worse
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Mirthless posted:Yeah what the gently caress are her parents doing? 4 months ago she was 14? That seems suspicious... Assuming this story is true though, I agree. What the gently caress are her parent's doing. That poo poo needs to go straight to the principal at the very least.
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Ouhei posted:4 months ago she was 14? That seems suspicious... 14 is exactly the age where you lie about how old you are online to sound more mature Her naivete makes a lot more sense to me now I'd go over the principal entirely and go straight to someone at the district level. The gym teacher's going to have friends and colleagues at the school he works at, people who might try to protect him or shield him from the worst consequences.
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They're trying to keep from ruining her life at school, where she will be ostracized by most of her team and friends for trying to get Mr Coach fired when he was just trying to be helpful and didn't do anything wrong it was just some emails he said she said.
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Jill of the Jungle there loving rules and I'm glad she not only dumped that clown but got an extra tree frog out of the deal
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purple death ray posted:Jill of the Jungle there loving rules and I'm glad she not only dumped that clown but got an extra tree frog out of the deal the extra tree frog is such a hilarious capper to the story, seems like they always realize they're being a tremendous douche just too late for it to matter i bet this guy is going to be obsessively following her social media profiles and furiously drunk texting her when she posts pictures of her and her new boyfriend that loves animals and values the work she does
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A Wizard of Goatse posted:she's the girl who's working herself to death making sure no stray goes unadopted, I'm betting it just took her five years to finally admit some should be sent back to the shelter Yeah, and as we have seen, it generally takes people way too long to break up. Frankly, she seems really awesome, and he seems like a nasty piece of work. The kind of person who says, "I don't really like animals" has never born out as anyone I wanted anything to do with.
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Haha yeah it's her house that he lives in for free because she has good jobs, I think his claims to decide what goes on there are 0 and nil respectively. Mostly because he was the other rescue animal she was supporting until she realized his lovely behavior around the other pets made him incompatible with her household. I mean I don't doubt she's probably somewhere on the crazy rescue lady spectrum, which correlates with dating lovely guys. There's a quote I like about this phenomenon: "Women love a sick child or a healthy animal; A man who is both itches them like an incubus." - Marilyn Hacker P.S. Cheating on your husband at his own party in your house while everyone you're close to is there is a kind of cheater lazy I've yet to see and it is beautiful.
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purple death ray posted:Jill of the Jungle there loving rules and I'm glad she not only dumped that clown but got an extra tree frog out of the deal
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Tiny Deer posted:Haha yeah it's her house that he lives in for free because she has good jobs, I think his claims to decide what goes on there are 0 and nil respectively. Mostly because he was the other rescue animal she was supporting until she realized his lovely behavior around the other pets made him incompatible with her household. I think as far as crazy rescue lady goes, she's not doing that bad. Four total pets and a tree frog isn't that bad. It seems like she knows how to sanitize her personal life from her charitable work, at least enough that she's not becoming one of those people with 10-15 fosters operating a "rescue" out of her living room. It still kills me that he seriously thought he could "put his foot down" in the house he wasn't even paying rent in.
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I think when my babby Tokay gecko gets big enough to be moved in with her future husbando, I will move other geckos around to make room for a tree frog. Cuz why not.
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Tiny Deer posted:"Women love a sick child or a healthy animal; A man who is both itches them like an incubus." - Marilyn Hacker i don't like it when strangers know me that well
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Pick posted:i don't like it when strangers know me that well I may have actually heard of that quote from you years ago now that I think about it.
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I [22/F] and my fiancee [22/M] - I had a breakdown and accidentally pissed on him, now I feel like our relationship is over. Yes, alcohol was involved. He won't forgive me.quote:Throwaway because I don't want anyone to know how hosed up I am.
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WAY TO GO WAMPA!! posted:I [22/F] and my fiancee [22/M] - I had a breakdown and accidentally pissed on him, now I feel like our relationship is over. Yes, alcohol was involved. He won't forgive me. What the gently caress
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MUR. DER.
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Those two sound so trashy. That poor kid.
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WAY TO GO WAMPA!! posted:I [22/F] and my fiancee [22/M] - I had a breakdown and accidentally pissed on him, now I feel like our relationship is over. Yes, alcohol was involved. He won't forgive me. Just them both. Cough Drop The Beat fucked around with this message at 18:37 on Jan 24, 2017 |
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16 shots in one night and they have a kid. Jesus.
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# ? Jan 24, 2017 18:35 |
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Do tree frogs make noise at all because if they're that easy to take care of I'm thinking about getting one. How chill would that be to just sit back and smoke some weed with a little frog just chirping in the background
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Unironically i think that poor childs life might be improved if he were kidnapped and raised by his kidnapper.
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That poor, poor kid. Poor mom, too, her partner sounds like a loving monster, although I question her decision making re: drinking heavily on medication while having a history of psychotic episodes. But mental illness is a hell of a drug. But mostly: poor kid, Jesus. I hope your mom leaves your dad and gets help.
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Barudak posted:Unironically i think that poor childs life might be improved if he were kidnapped and raised by his kidnapper.
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WAY TO GO WAMPA!! posted:I [22/F] and my fiancee [22/M] - I had a breakdown and accidentally pissed on him, now I feel like our relationship is over. Yes, alcohol was involved. He won't forgive me. Everything about this is sad
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Barudak posted:Unironically i think that poor childs life might be improved if he were kidnapped and raised by his kidnapper. Help, I [14M] just met my real parents and found out I was snatched out of the crib as a child, how do I politely but firmly tell them to gently caress off and not disrupt my life? (non-romantic)
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