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Pvt.Scott posted:Can you imagine the Klingon version? Lol. This is great. I have nothing of value to add.
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tactlessbastard posted:I'm not defending him. He's a jackass, just like his moody girlfriend. Nobody was saying his girlfriend was blameless in their problems, just, that she's not the primary problem here Girlfriend is reacting to outside stimulus; Boyfriend is just doing whatever he can to maintain his bubble. I have to take her side in this because at the end of the day he's just choosing to stay inside his comfort zone at the expense of his girlfriend. Regardless of what wrongs she's engaged in, he's still a 26 year old man who lives with his parents and puts their needs before those of his partner. That's hosed up.
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My [27F] boyfriend [40M] told me that he was going to be leaving his wife[40F], a year in and still nothing has been done.quote:I've spoken to him many times, at first it seems he wanted to do it but now he keeps saying it's not the right time. I love the guy, I really do. Everything I want in a guy, he's a good dad, has a good job and is very handsome but I can't be with him when he's being indecisive like this. I thought it'd be a month max and he'd leave her, but nope. I've committed to leaving with him soon after I confront him to leave her. Do I tell his wife and let him know that he's been cheating on her? I feel it my responsibility. 
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WampaLord posted:Behold, the dumbest argument ever: the open relationship chat but with dead people dude's heaven-ultimatum is nutty as hell but you don't really get to whine about how "insecure" your partner is when they react badly to you letting them know you've ironed out a ranked list of backup lovers out of the people you both know, lady here have a typical tightfisted jew, refusing to share his jew gold My(31M) GF's(28F) family is anti-semitic and hits me up for money. quote:I posted this before and it was removed for having politics, so I edited and reposted. A Wizard of Goatse fucked around with this message at 16:40 on Jan 30, 2017 |
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WAY TO GO WAMPA!! posted:My [27F] boyfriend [40M] told me that he was going to be leaving his wife[40F], a year in and still nothing has been done. 13 year age gap, he's married with kids. dude's a creep and a liar and she's dumb as hell for ever thinking he was going to split up with his wife, lol. I'm sure he's in a rush to kick 30% of his income in child support to his wife for the next ten+ years A Wizard of Goatse posted:the open relationship chat but with dead people the only guy she listed was his cousin, as a joke it's such a bizarre question to ask somebody, she probably didn't think he was being all that serious.
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Jan 30, 2017 16:38
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lol it's one of those things where it mattered how ready you were to answer like if it was this I get being upset: husband: heh, so if I died would you consider sl- wife: YOUR COUSIN MARK WITH THE TATTOOS!!!
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^haha, definitely. "Not that I have a place picked out or anything but I'd definitely let mark gently caress me on the kitchen counter when everyone finally left after your wake"Mirthless posted:
It really is. I've had that conversation with my wife and it also quickly ran from funny to weirdly serious. That poster above who said to lie and say "nobody but you" is absolutely right.
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areyoucontagious posted:^haha, definitely. "Not that I have a place picked out or anything but I'd definitely let mark gently caress me on the kitchen counter when everyone finally left after your wake" I'm generally never one for lying to your partner but there is absolutely no way your partner would ever find out you were lying about this, so why the hell not
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WampaLord posted:Behold, the dumbest argument ever: The heaven card is lovely to play, didn't even Jesus himself flip the gently caress out when some Pharisees asked him who got to bone down with whom in the afterlife when they were all legally married but the widow kept remarrying after her husbands' deaths? I think if the actual Son of God doesn't have a real answer for you there, it's kind of off limits for a relationship fight.
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Mirthless posted:I'm generally never one for lying to your partner but there is absolutely no way your partner would ever find out you were lying about this, so why the hell not yeah you think this and then one day you find yourself dating a 1700-year-old lich and it just slips out and whoaaa
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A Wizard of Goatse posted:yeah you think this and then one day you find yourself dating a 1700-year-old lich and it just slips out and whoaaa you had to open your magic mouth, now she's teleporting without error back to her parents and not responding to your scrying
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i don't know what any of that means
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Me [22 F] with my boyfriend [22 M] of 4 years; he is angry with me because I wish to keep my marijuana use completely inside the home?quote:Hi guys, long time lurker. I'm using a throwaway just in case. I'm posting here because I've tried talking to my boyfriend about this multiple times, but he just doesn't seem to get it and it's starting to cause problems we've never had before.
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A Wizard of Goatse posted:Me [22 F] with my boyfriend [22 M] of 4 years; he is angry with me because I wish to keep my marijuana use completely inside the home? I mean, she should either stop getting high or be more cool about it. No student's going to go "I saw the teacher stoned at a diner!" and get her fired.
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WampaLord posted:I mean, she should either stop getting high or be more cool about it. No student's going to go "I saw the teacher stoned at a diner!" and get her fired. lol are you kidding this is literally exactly what will happen, low-seniority teachers get shitcanned for crap like that all the time even when it's not a federal crime. are you unchill stoner boyfriend A Wizard of Goatse fucked around with this message at 18:03 on Jan 30, 2017 |
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WampaLord posted:I mean, she should either stop getting high or be more cool about it. No student's going to go "I saw the teacher stoned at a diner!" and get her fired. It's not just about getting fired... She wants her students and their parents to respect her. She doesn't want to lose credibility. Even if she didn't get fired, it would damage her reputation at the school and hurt her career prospects in the long term. I think she's a little too hesitant (before a concert? really, you really think somebody from school is going to recognize you and notice you're high?) but at the same time her boyfriend is being a really tremendous rear end in a top hat about it. He probably has a seriously problematic relationship with weed and he's getting mad at her because her reduced use makes it harder for him to rationalize his own use. Alcoholics and smokers do this to each other as well.
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Jan 30, 2017 17:54
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corn on the cop posted:or she could just ditch the dead weight They should probably split up, yeah The total lack of respect he has for her professional career is a huge 
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A Wizard of Goatse posted:lol are you kidding this is literally exactly what will happen, low-seniority teachers get shitcanned for crap like that all the time even when it's not a federal crime. Mirthless posted:(before a concert? really, you really think somebody from school is going to recognize you and notice you're high?) This is what I mean. Yes, boyfriend is the problem, I guess, but she's also being ridiculous.
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"my gf betrayed our romance by not wanting to stumble around buying munchies in a haze. just cause she works with kids doesnt mean she has to take it home with her. shes such a bitch and delivery services don't exist in my state"Mirthless posted:He probably has a seriously problematic relationship with weed and he's getting mad at her because her reduced use makes it harder for him to rationalize his own use. Yeah, it's this.
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I suspect the weed thing is really just what ended up the focal point of that guy's Peter Pan syndrome now that everyone he knows is out of college and becoming loving grownups with careers and aspirations and interests that aren't getting blazed and watching Spongebob all day but either way yeah
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Jan 30, 2017 18:11
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Short of someone being dressed in a Phish shirt, how do you tell someone's high in public anyway from a distance?
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WampaLord posted:Short of someone being dressed in a Phish shirt, how do you tell someone's high in public anyway from a distance? From my understanding it's generally the Colorado license plate that gives it away.
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WampaLord posted:Short of someone being dressed in a Phish shirt, how do you tell someone's high in public anyway from a distance? gonna guess the primary negative side effect she deals with /w weed is paranoia
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quote:Pretty sure I'm [22F] insane and will end up alone and abandoned. Any help will do. Left out the first half of this because it was just bog standard depressed/anxiety stuff, but then it veered in a different direction.
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WampaLord posted:Behold, the dumbest argument ever:
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Man imagine if a parent caught a teacher drunk, at a bar, or the teacher's lounge. I think she's being kind of a bum for no reason. Are the concerts in her hometown? "We're 30 minutes out of town at this arena but maybe a parent is here and ready to measure how dilated my pupils are" is pretty silly to me.
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A Wizard of Goatse posted:lol are you kidding this is literally exactly what will happen, low-seniority teachers get shitcanned for crap like that all the time even when it's not a federal crime. At the same time, I highly doubt a grade school kid is going to know if someone is high or drunk. If they do. that says a lot about their home life and how irresponsible their families are, TBH
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A Wizard of Goatse posted:I suspect the weed thing is really just what ended up the focal point of that guy's Peter Pan syndrome now that everyone he knows is out of college and becoming loving grownups with careers and aspirations and interests that aren't getting blazed and watching Spongebob all day but either way yeah *he quietly mumbles to himself while tearing up and eating an entire bag of funions*
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Jeffrey of YOSPOS posted:Man imagine if a parent caught a teacher drunk, at a bar, or the teacher's lounge. Alcohol is perceived pretty differently from pot by a lot of people, in terms of "character".
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Shes being very paranoid but at the same time teachers absolutely get fired over this and its not the students, its the parents of students thats an issue.
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Don't Mormons have a thing where they have regular death do us part marriage but also a separate eternal afterlife marriage?
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Barudak posted:Shes being very paranoid but at the same time teachers absolutely get fired over this and its not the students, its the parents of students thats an issue. Yeah, some Christian Mom™ would have a total meltdown and start hammering school board members until she got pink slipped. It's still federally illegal so the district has an out and the union isn't going to step up to defend her. She hasn't been around the school long enough to be irreplaceable, so they'd fire her just to save themselves the irritation of having to deal with outraged parents she's still being way paranoid about it but I can't really blame her, she's probably got tens of thousands of dollars in student loan debt and if she ever wants to make money as a teacher she can't afford to have stumbling blocks in her career this early
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Subjunctive posted:Alcohol is perceived pretty differently from pot by a lot of people, in terms of "character".
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If you're going to be that paranoid, why even smoke weed at all? What if a kid came to her door one night? If the issue was she was trying to quit weed and he was hurting that effort with his constant weed smoking, I'd have way more sympathy, but she still wants to be a stoner.
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WampaLord posted:Short of someone being dressed in a Phish shirt, how do you tell someone's high in public anyway from a distance? Grateful Dead t-shirt.
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quote:My (22f) boyfriend (25m) pulled a really mean prank on me. Can this be fixed?Relationships Prank backfires v3.2049302 Also people with public facing professions such as teachers, doctors, judges, etc have to be double paranoid because people in small towns will readily gossip and judge if you get caught doing something even slightly unorthodox.
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Ohhhh yeah. Now I'd even be scared to dump him since he clearly has no issue wanton with such private stuff
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dipshit doesn't know the meaning of the word prank, news at 11
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