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Drunk Nerds posted:The most offensive thing, for me, in this entire thread, is that someone has 1 million+ just sitting in their savings account and not being invested If he's had this money for five years he's pissed away at least half a million dollars that he would have made just off generic mutual funds.
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flick my Mr. Bean posted:I wish I had a wedding as small as my brother's. I had a ridiculous event because wealthy family members were paying for it and we ended up letting them have a bit too much control. When several things went wrong, I ended up having to fix them because the wedding coordinator cracked under the pressure. Aside from the ceremony, it was a miserable goddamn day for me from. My wife on the other hand was happy because she had no idea anything was even wrong. The best feeling in the world was sinking into the seat of my car and knowing it was over. I feel like that even just standing up at other people's weddings so I definitely wouldn't prefer a big wedding but if my SO wanted the hugest longest wedding on the planet then that's what we'd do.
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Wait, what mutual funds do you have that give 8.5%pa, because I'd love in on that edit: safely, any schmuck can gamble Serephina fucked around with this message at 13:21 on Feb 5, 2017 |
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Tale as old as time...Beauty and the Creep... My (23f) fiance (38m) is suddenly being very weird and told me the things I'm not "allowed" to wear this summer?? quote:I have been with Kyle for 4 years and it's been really amazing. I had some issues in the beginning and he's honestly helped me through it all and helped me get over serious things. I'm the happiest I've been in quite awhile. The top comment: quote:Here we go again, another story of the first signs of a controlling personality in a relationship where the guy is far older (he started dating you when he was 34 and you were 19, God almighty). Yes, he never showed this kind of behaviour before. Yes, the relationship is perfect apart from this. Yes, the age gap doesn't bother you and you feel you are both on the same page. Yes, he did a lot for you in the past (btw that's how he got your trust). And yet, we can assure you this is just the likely beginning of an abusive relationship. I bet that after getting married he won't want you to work. I bet that he won't want you to see your friends and family much. And so on, till he swaps you for a newer model once you become a mother or you start looking older than 19.
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WampaLord posted:Tale as old as time...Beauty and the Creep... Lol this person is tired of this poo poo Themata posted:
This guy sounds like he has an eating disorder
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WampaLord posted:Tale as old as time...Beauty and the Creep... Buy that commenter an account
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Serephina posted:Wait, what mutual funds do you have that give 8.5%pa, because I'd love in on that 2011/2012 to now hasn't been typical performance. The DJIA went up 54% over that time period and over the last five years my worst Vanguard fund did 10.8% average annual and the best did 14.65%.
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chumbler posted:I think if you call it "sexytimes" you should have your sex license revoked. It's just a reddit thing. Like naziism and inceldom.
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54 40 or gently caress posted:Lol this person is tired of this poo poo
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# ? Feb 5, 2017 15:48 |
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Could the r/relationships mods just automatically post in any thread with an age discrepancy greater than, say, 7 years?
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# ? Feb 5, 2017 15:54 |
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Mameluke posted:Could the r/relationships mods just automatically post in any thread with an age discrepancy greater than, say, 7 years? This is the subreddit where manchild is considered a slur. So, no.
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Mameluke posted:Could the r/relationships mods just automatically post in any thread with an age discrepancy greater than, say, 7 years? Reddit has a ton of particular bots, there should be a severbot that does exactly this
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# ? Feb 5, 2017 16:05 |
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an exciting twist on an old classicquote:My [22F] bf [23M] tells me I need to wear something different in public and we've had huge arguments about it these last couple of days
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WampaLord posted:Tale as old as time...Beauty and the Creep... you fucker edit: man you comment on all of these things I don't really care that much
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quote:My dad [40M] found out I [18F] call my boyfriend [19M] daddy. Now he can't look me in the eye.Non-Romantic
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# ? Feb 5, 2017 16:27 |
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lol calling a fursuit clothing is some great lede-burying
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# ? Feb 5, 2017 16:30 |
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Are fursuits clothing now? I thought they were classified as fuckhusks. Can't wait for the Armani summer fursuit line, ermine and mink all up in them sexy rear end puppy costumes.
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# ? Feb 5, 2017 16:35 |
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He's upset because he's trying to figure out how he hosed up raising you so badly. Not that you turned out to be a bad person, it just turns out it's skin crawlingly creepy to call your boyfriend daddy--especially when you call him that so much he's saved that way in your phone. Basically your dad is wondering if all of your therapists are just going to assume he molested you.
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Tiny Deer posted:He's upset because he's trying to figure out how he hosed up raising you so badly. this is 100% it "jesus christ, did I hug her too much?" it's obvious there's some deep freudian poo poo going on with his daughter, she probably has this fetish because her dad did too good of a job tbh. her idealized man is her dad. that's gotta gently caress up attraction for her a lot.
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quote:My (25/M) fwb (32/F) keeps calling me daddyDating
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I hate this new secret word. Edit: not enough to not want to see what trainwrecks emerge from it, I just hate it. Please carry on.
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Ride The Gravitron posted:
if calling him daddy gives her a fulfilling sex life, maybe he should try to divorce the connotations and just let it go, she's a 32 year old doctor i think it's fair to say she's doing alright psychologically and probably knows what she wants out of sex, also it's an FWB situation so why bullshit to accommodate him in the first place? there are so many worse fetishes than this even if it's really creepy and weird if she really is faking it like he suspects then but some women really just get noisy and weird and maybe her ex boyfriend was mad because she wouldn't pound his rear end with a strapon Mirthless fucked around with this message at 16:50 on Feb 5, 2017 |
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It seems pretty weird that she put him in her phone as daddy, you don't need to fetishize every interaction you have with someone. I don't really care about the daddy thing, it seems to turn a lot of girls on but it's probably not worth thinking about too much.
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# ? Feb 5, 2017 16:50 |
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He should start calling her mommy, or mum
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datajugend posted:He should start calling her mommy Never do this
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Psycho Society posted:It seems pretty weird that she put him in her phone as daddy, you don't need to fetishize every interaction you have with someone. yeah i think that's the really messed up part, she is way too into this fetish esp. at that age, jesus christ slow down kid this is how you end up in a predatory relationship with a 40 year old before you're 20
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datajugend posted:He should start calling her mommy, or mum quote:My boyfriend (26m) started calling me (32f) mommy during sex, not sure how to react?Dating
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# ? Feb 5, 2017 16:57 |
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loving people can't communicate, gently caress. "Hey, so we need to talk about how you like to call me 'daddy'. I understand that it's something you enjoy and turns you on, and that's fine, but it just does the absolute opposite for me due to [reasons, probably involving him immediately thinking of his own dad]. I'm really sorry, but I can't do what you want. Maybe someone else can help you fulfill that need? I'm not sure if this arrangement can work." datajugend posted:He should start calling her mommy, or mum Psycho Society posted:Never do this Nah, or do it when he knows the relationship's played out, for fun Then report back with results!
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Psycho Society posted:It seems pretty weird that she put him in her phone as daddy, you don't need to fetishize every interaction you have with someone. Clearly you must, or have you forgotten berth ell pup?
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Coucho Marx posted:Nah, or do it when he knows the relationship's played out, for fun Help, Reddit! I [35m] called my wife[38f] of ten years mommy while we had sex, she left me while I was at work and she's not returning any of my texts or calls!
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I don't think calling someone daddy in sex is weird but once it exits the bedroom, what the gently caress.
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# ? Feb 5, 2017 17:01 |
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Also this dude is spending way too much mental effort over a FWB situation. Ask her to stop saying it. If she doesn't, then just stop loving her. Like he said, she'll find someone who's way into it and they'll live happily ever after.
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Mirthless posted:Help, Reddit! I [35m] called my wife[38f] of ten years mommy while we had sex, she left me while I was at work and she's not returning any of my texts or calls! she's just using controlled comforting, it's fine
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WampaLord posted:Also this dude is spending way too much mental effort over a FWB situation. yeah this is true if it's really that much of a boner killer for him they should definitely discontinue the arrangement
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# ? Feb 5, 2017 17:11 |
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just put some loving headphones in and turn on porn like an adult
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# ? Feb 5, 2017 17:20 |
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can anyone link to the walmart story?
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# ? Feb 5, 2017 17:21 |
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Tiny Deer posted:He's upset because he's trying to figure out how he hosed up raising you so badly. To add to this, anyone who calls a significant other 'baby' should be registered as a pedophile.
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MinionOfCthulhu posted:To add to this, anyone who calls a significant other 'baby' should be registered as a pedophile. Come now, even a retard like yourself must be able to see how these things are different
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Coucho Marx posted:loving people can't communicate, gently caress. The dude probably still wants to be able to gently caress this woman so I don't think telling her someone else can fulfill her need is the solution he is looking for. He wants to gently caress his cake and not have the cake call him daddy. To be fair, yours is definitely the reasonable approach and there's tons of other people who wouldn't say daddy, but he's getting cake served to him now and I understand not wanting to go find new cake. Reddit should be telling him to get over it imo.
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/r/relationships: He wants to gently caress his cake and not have the cake call him daddy But yeah, a lot of people posted here have difficulty seeing when a problem in their relationship completely overshadows the relationship itself. edit: I mean, they see it, that's why they're posting, but 99% of the time there's too much denial and they need that extra push to see that the relationship is fundamentally flawed or whatever and can't be salvaged. Coucho Marx fucked around with this message at 18:34 on Feb 5, 2017 |
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