TheScott2K posted:

This "is the thread reacting with the appropriate solemnity to the reality of sexual abuse?" derail sure is so much more fun than mocking the idiots posting about their dumb problems on Reddit.

Mirthless posted:

subhuman filth posted:

No you loving dumbshit that was literally not the claim at all

Leon Einstein posted:

Lol, you need to make sure people realize what subset you're using. 1 out of 10 women in America are not molested by their dads.

Mirthless posted:

if we're conservative, probably 10% or more of women have been sexually abused by their dad

Mirthless posted:

1 in 15? 1 in 20? I gave you a link to a page with numbers. You need me to go find you a peer reviewed study in a journal or something?

If 1 in 3 women are going to be sexually assaulted as minors, and if nearly 70% of those assaults are perpetrated by family, what do you think the number of assaults by dads is?

Mirthless posted:

btw if 1 in 20 women are raped by their dads that's still alarmingly common for such a disgusting crime

Tiny Deer posted:

Jesus Christ, what the gently caress is wrong with men? Like honestly: what the gently caress? I pointed out exactly what you all were going to do, and you still did it instantly.

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• About 90% of children who are victims of sexual abuse know their abuser.12,13 Only 10% of sexually abused
children are abused by a stranger.12
• Approximately 30% of children who are sexually abused are abused by family members.12,13

WampaLord posted:

Mirthless and Moridin are not representative of all of us.

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My boyfriend and I were texting earlier, joking around. He sent me a video of Jordan Wolfson female figure exhibit of 14 rooms (youtube if you'd like to understand better, but its a robot in stripper clothes dancing in front of a mirror with a creepy mask and talks, saying "love me. Ect" in a man's voice) and he added a text saying "welcome to the weird part of youtube". I commented back with a joke saying "thats why you don't use youtube as a source of porn... unless your into that lol" he went on to talk about how it's good art, sends a strong message.. (ps. Hes never.. in the year we've been dating expressed ANY interest in art)
I simply said "uh ok, well enjoy that lol".
7 minutes later he exploded, calling me a philistine. Saying he can't believe I think he's jerking off to that.
I replied to chill out, I didn't say that, I was joking.. and he called me a philistine again.
So, I got upset and recited the meaning of philistine from Websters dictionary and informed him that he used the word incorrectly, and that attacking someone based on a difference in opinion is a bigot.
He called me.. he apologized, but than exploded in another huge fight over that dumb art piece and I have no idea what is going on...
During the phone call he called me sexist because I thought that robot would get him off.. I again said I NEVER SAID THAT and just said I disagree with it being good art.. its creepy, it's cool, it shows how far we've come with robotics showing the fluid movement... but I disagree with there being any "strong emotional message" behind it....
The phone call ended with me just saying "bye". I couldn't take it anymore... am I wrong here? Is there more going on? I'm so confused right now... should I apologize?
Tl:dr Bf exploded because I made a joke about some art.. it was a robot dancing in front of a mirror in stripper close.. he called me philistine and sexist.. was I in the wrong??
Edit: typos

Tiny Deer posted:

Jesus Christ, what the gently caress is wrong with men? Like honestly: what the gently caress? I pointed out exactly what you all were going to do, and you still did it instantly.

Antivehicular posted:

Guess the ages:

Boyfriend (31M) and I (30F) just had explosive fight over "art", am I wrong?Relationships
submitted an hour ago * by throwaway0101p4


I looked it up so you don't have to: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JestwuC1Cik
Please do not masturbate to that.

Moridin920 posted:

Just feels a bit ridiculous to get shouted down and met with a 'what's wrong with MEN?!' thing just because I ask for some data out of sheer curiosity/disgust lol.

Moridin920 posted:

Just feels a bit ridiculous to get shouted down and met with a 'what's wrong with MEN?!' thing just because I ask for some data out of sheer curiosity/disgust lol.

Mirthless posted:

when somebody gave you the data you stuck your fingers in your ears and screamed SORRY YOU CAN'T REACH ANY CONCLUSIONS FROM THAT NUMBER BECAUSE IT DOESN'T SPECIFICALLY QUANTIFY DADFUCKERS

Mirthless posted:

when somebody gave you the data you stuck your fingers in your ears and screamed SORRY YOU CAN'T REACH ANY CONCLUSIONS FROM THAT NUMBER BECAUSE IT DOESN'T SPECIFICALLY QUANTIFY DADFUCKERS

Antivehicular posted:

I looked it up so you don't have to: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JestwuC1Cik
Please do not masturbate to that.

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Me [26 F] with my boyfriend [28 M] of 1 yr 2 months, he wants one of my pubic hairs

Throwaway so it doesn't tie to my main reddit account.

Ok so quite the odd situation. I've been dating my bf for about 14 months now. Everything has been good and he is an awesome guy. He's caring, attractive, has a good job as a mechanical engineer and loves to spoil me but something happened 4 nights ago that threw me off a bit.

We were laying in bed after just having sex and he turns to me and says "Is there anyway I can have one of your pubic hairs?"

I kind of feel chills throughout my body and just blurt out "no way!". He says "I'm sorry but it would mean a lot to me". After further digging he says he has a pubic hair from every girl he's had sex with and now he wants mine. I kind of pause in disbelief and he notices that I look disturbed.

He then proceeds to get up to go to his closet and grab a scrapbook. He sits down on the bed and opens it up. On the front page are 7 hairs taped down to the paper with a name above each one.

Honestly I'm spooked and say "I'm sorry but no"

I know from previous conversations his former girlfriends have just not worked out for one reason or another (all legit reasons such as them cheating or just not being compatible). So I don't think he scared them off or something.

He hasn't brought it up again since that night but I want to know if this is something I should be worried about. This is the only "red flag" I've seen from this guy. I think he's awesome and I love him but the "pube book" just creeps me out.

I sat him down last night and told him all my concerns and pretty much gave him an ultimatum. I said its "odd and creepy" that he was doing this and he needs to get rid of that "scrapbook". He said he understands, it sounds weird to him as well but it means a lot to him. He will not get rid of the book. He respects my wishes not to give him another "pube" but he's going to keep the book.

My question is, should I end this if everything else is great?

tl;dr: Bf collects pubes. Should I end great relationship over this?

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Waterbed Wendy posted:

It's very weird but just one hair isn't that bad right?

Tiny Deer posted:

Jesus Christ, what the gently caress is wrong with men? Like honestly: what the gently caress? I pointed out exactly what you all were going to do, and you still did it instantly.