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I do the same thing, except I'm a man and actually touched in the head. Men do find me adorable, but nobody lets me pet bunnies anymore EDIT: Shameful snipe, redemption content: quote:My [23F] BF [30M] snapped and said he hates the way I look. I think it's my fault that I pushed him to say it. Is it? MyBodyGallery pegs 155 pounds at 5'4" as something between curvy and gently caress-that-guy, depending on body shape. Bubblyblubber fucked around with this message at 11:16 on Feb 13, 2017 |
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Antivehicular posted:Oh, right, the 75% Of Female Protagonists in YA Fiction Effect Yeah, it's also really common in animaaahaha, you almost got me! Phew!
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Bubblyblubber posted:I do the same thing, except I'm a man and actually touched in the head. It really depends on the body shape but she admits she could lose some weight herself. That said, gently caress that guy not for saying a 5'4" 155lbs girl should lose weight but for how he tried to motivate her by making up poo poo another girl said and other similarly dumb poo poo that came out of his mouth. If she's not comfortable going to the gym alone then cool, you can work out a schedule where you both go and workout or something. It's not hard.
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if you're not comfortable going to the gym by yourself your weight is probably a symptom of bigger problems
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I'm beginning to think going to the gym is a
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Holy poo poo they need campus security all over this guy yesterday. I know it's a thing with people who don't want to be confrontational, but it's long past the point where Jesse needs to tell this guy straight-up that she doesn't like him and wants him to stop interacting in any way, ever. With a friend/security there, preferably.
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Beachcomber posted:I'm beginning to think going to the gym is a How so? Edit: Nevermind, been a long day and my brain is fried. Mekchu fucked around with this message at 12:00 on Feb 13, 2017 |
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Funnily enough, I think that when it comes to r/relationships the only thing that's not a is actually, literally, physically waving a giant red flag around.
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Bubblyblubber posted:MyBodyGallery pegs 155 pounds at 5'4" as something between curvy and gently caress-that-guy, depending on body shape. I hope she broke up with that garbage rear end in a top hat yesterday, because some dude who bullies his partner by making up gym stories about rail thin gym girls isn't worth giving the time of day. She is worth much more than that. It's even more transparently lovely because 155 at 5'4 is around normal weight to slightly curvy at most body types. gently caress that guy and gently caress him hard.
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By the way, I really, really love my new avatar and title. Thanks to all of you!!!
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Bubblyblubber posted:MyBodyGallery pegs 155 pounds at 5'4" as something between curvy and gently caress-that-guy, depending on body shape. Assuming she made a typo and meant that he lost 30 pounds instead of gained it, he's 220lb at 5'9, which puts him firmly into the obese category too. He should be proud of the progress he's made, but he's got a ways to go before he can start lecturing on healthy weight. He needs to lose another 50lb before his BMI hits "Normal".
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abigserve posted:if you're not comfortable going to the gym by yourself your weight is probably a symptom of bigger problems Ah nah, I think most people are little intimidated by going to the gym by themselves the first couple times. That's not an abnormal thing to be uncomfortable about
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i didnt read that story but partners making eachother go to the gym is cool and good especially if you are american, since so many of you are grotesques these days
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Nessa posted:Totoro is good. Miyazaki films are good. Hey, it's my parents from the 80s/90s! The preacher man said all anime was porn or something, I guess. D&D and other RPGs were also forbidden because they would make me a suicidal Satan-worshiping druggie warlock. Joke was on them, I was already suicidally depressed!
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Pick posted:She's doing it to be cute because pop culture has told women that men think that being clumsy is adorable and a great way to seem unthreatening. uh maybe if you just time warped out of the fuckin 90s or something lmbo
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Zzulu posted:i didnt read that story but partners making eachother go to the gym is cool and good No you are.
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I'm SO not
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There's nothing wrong with encouraging your partner to hit up the gym and stay in shape. That's a generally good thing, no matter his/her weight or lifestyle. But if you're trying to break them down and emotionally manipulate them into losing weight at 5'4" 145 lbs, then you should shut the hell up.
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Zzulu posted:I'm SO not My [35M] internet friend [28M] said I was fat, how do I tell him he's wrong?
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I'm a few pages behind but the correct answer to pube dude would bePick posted:I'd let him choose his favorite lol Splicer fucked around with this message at 14:28 on Feb 13, 2017 |
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quote:I (34m) found a notebook my wife (30f) has written a whole novel detailing made up scenarios in which she gets revenge on female friends (varying ages) of mine.Relationships
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She is going to his friends and his penis
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I'm torn on how much of it is psychopathic anger and how much of it is fetish. It's definitely a mix of both
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Splicer posted:She is going to his friends and his penis 54 40 or gently caress posted:I'm torn on how much of it is psychopathic anger and how much of it is fetish. It's definitely a mix of both She has no violent tendencies, does not hound him with her insecurities, he brings up therapy at multiple times so it's safe to see she sees a professional, and like most people in therapy she keeps journals, which she writes in under the understanding that nobody but her is going to read them. People have insecurities. She is trying to cope with them. This was probably recommended to her by her therapist and I guess she made the mistake of feeling comfortable enough in the trust of her relationship that she could use the pages of her journal to vent her insecurities rather than let them fester and destroy her relationship. It is a massive violation of trust for him to raid her therapy journals. That is so much worse than digging through somebody's text message history. Gross. You're all gross. Edit: Seriously though if he addresses this to her and it actually is a therapy thing it could very well ruin therapy for her, she will not be able to trust that her journals are safe anymore. This is really unfair to her.
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54 40 or gently caress posted:I'm torn on how much of it is psychopathic anger and how much of it is fetish. It's definitely a mix of both That's what I was thinking too. She's been honest with him about her feelings, and she's been respectful of his friends. This sounds like a harmless venting/sex tool. And I may be projecting here but the thing is so over the top "you slut, being around a married man!" That it almost sounds satirical.
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The notebook, referred to hereafter as "exhibit A", contains trace amounts of DNA from both Ellen and the defendant.
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Mirthless posted:It is a massive violation of trust for him to raid her therapy journals. That is so much worse than digging through somebody's text message history. Gross. You're all gross. His wife is a writer, he though he had stumbled upon a book of hers he hadn't read yet, calm the gently caress down. It wasn't labeled "Therapy journal."
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Ride The Gravitron posted:That's what I was thinking too. She's been honest with him about her feelings, and she's been respectful of his friends. This sounds like a harmless venting/sex tool. And I may be projecting here but the thing is so over the top "you slut, being around a married man!" That it almost sounds satirical. Even if it's" just" venting, I'd be worried that she even needs this kind of venting. How about being not so hilariously jealous?
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My hot take is that she's crazy as a coconut, but what does that mean?
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I started reading Mirthless' comment without seeing who posted, got about a dozen words in before I realized I was reading the words of our resident idiot apologist. Mirthless is there any dumbshit whackadoo thing you don't have personal experience with? This is not a rhetorical question, I am looking for a genuine list.
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Psycho Society posted:My hot take is that she's crazy as a coconut, but what does that mean? Its purely psycho-somatic
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Mirthless posted:This lovingly detailed torture journal is a normal part of therapy. This is fine. When you think about it, he's the monster. Hello old friend.
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Oh my loving god you're right, she's completely well adjusted and doesn't cause any problems in her relationship, for her husband, or with her husband's friends, and the fact that she has thoughts and feelings that she has the audacity to feel and cope with in private is surely a sign that she's an unhinged and murderous crazy person Yes, the husband who was raiding his wife's private possessions was definitely the person in the right for pulling back the curtain and revealing his wife is crazy Would we be having this conversation if he'd snuck a tape recorder into his wife's purse during a therapy session?
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I wonder how understanding people would want to be if it was a dude writing all that poo poo out.
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VanSandman posted:I started reading Mirthless' comment without seeing who posted, got about a dozen words in before I realized I was reading the words of our resident idiot apologist. I always get a bit angry when someone quotes him and I get a brain aneurysm after 5 words in. Me blocking him doesn't work if everyone quotes his dribble.
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Breetai posted:Hello old friend. This is why people with mental health problems have to meticulously hide them from everyone, even the people they love. Her stupid murder fiction isn't hurting anyone. She's not policing his interactions with the women he interacts with, she's not stalking people, she's not threatening him or anyone else. She had a therapy journal she wrote words in. new phone who dis posted:I wonder how understanding people would want to be if it was a dude writing all that poo poo out. Equally understanding because writing therapy is a thing and the poo poo you put in your journal is supposed to be sacrosanct. You don't sit in on your partner's therapy sessions and you don't read their loving journal! Mirthless fucked around with this message at 15:46 on Feb 13, 2017 |
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Helios Grime posted:Even if it's" just" venting, I'd be worried that she even needs this kind of venting. How about being not so hilariously jealous? "MY PARTNER SHOULD NOT BE ALLOWED TO PRIVATELY THINK AND FEEL THINGS I DO NOT LIKE" (USER WAS PUT ON PROBATION FOR THIS POST)
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Mirthless posted:gently caress off, you're being an ableist rear end in a top hat. This is why people with mental health problems have to meticulously hide them from everyone, even the people they love. Her stupid murder fiction isn't hurting anyone. She's not policing his interactions with the women he interacts with, she's not stalking people, she's not threatening him or anyone else. She had a therapy journal she wrote words in. Okay.
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I'm going to read all of my partner's journals. lmao @ page 56! this fuckin GUY! it's okay it's therapeutic for me
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