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Moridin920 posted:Go rescue her from the sea of incel nerds she is apparently surrounded with so we have more tales of woe about Chads and Stacies to post in the other thread. Dear reddit, So I divorced my husband in order to help make new stories for something awful... Jesus, what a shameful snipe
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Nazzadan posted:I [40 M] with my female friend [32F]: How come she doesn't like me? /r/relationships: she is interested in other men, who are supposedly hot and vegan!
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# ? Feb 17, 2017 23:15 |
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Me [26 M] with my [25/F] of 6 months who got mad I rode her like a horse.quote:Me and my gf were playfighting a bit after work the other day and after getting the upper hand I straddled her like a horse and rode her around a bit before ending the fun in the kitchen to cook dinner. I of course did keep saying "giddyup horsey" and other sweet things but nothing rude or mean. I was also using her thong as a sort of horse bit to steer her around and control her speed.
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# ? Feb 17, 2017 23:32 |
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He said yay and she said neigh.
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# ? Feb 17, 2017 23:35 |
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From a few pages back, but: /r/relationships: weirdos and losers[Assorted Ages]
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# ? Feb 17, 2017 23:37 |
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Pivotal Lever posted:Please do not doxx yourself at this point in time
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# ? Feb 17, 2017 23:46 |
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I [24/M] overslept and missed a date with my GF [22/F] of nearly 1 year. She showed my dick pic to her friends.quote:This morning I overslept and didn't meet my GF for a morning date of looking at furniture. I wanted to go and it would make her happy. It'll be several years before we consider moving in together so any time we play house it's a romantic, gay old time. I hosed up and need to fix both the situation and my habits because this isn't the first time that it's happened. Obviously, my poo poo is not together, but that isn't the meat of this post. Or it is. Your opinion is your prerogative. He's getting ripped to shreds in the comments lol
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Even ignoring the main thrust of the post:Nazzadan posted:I [24/M] overslept and missed a date with my GF [22/F] of nearly 1 year. She showed my dick pic to her friends. why? You've been together a year already and are both drat adults, save some rent money homeslice.
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# ? Feb 17, 2017 23:53 |
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Nazzadan posted:I [24/M] overslept and missed a date with my GF [22/F] of nearly 1 year. She showed my dick pic to her friends.
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# ? Feb 17, 2017 23:59 |
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quote:She showed an extremely personal and private picture that I shared with her (they were impressed, but would any guy really care?! NO, I am not flattered). Yea, I'd be flattered as gently caress.
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i guess that's one way to disguise a pilonidal cyst Somebody fucked around with this message at 21:17 on Feb 23, 2017 |
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I don't really see how he can be mad. She did ask.
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WampaLord posted:Yea, I'd be flattered as gently caress. Yeah I mean, I don't really care what people know about my dick but if they already know and are impressed, awesome.
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# ? Feb 18, 2017 00:02 |
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Now having a girl casually start talking about your dick in front of her sisters, mom, and mixed company of friends is in fact not okay
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# ? Feb 18, 2017 00:04 |
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How big of a deal is it supposed to be to get stood up?
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# ? Feb 18, 2017 00:05 |
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flick my Mr. Bean posted:Yeah I mean, I don't really care what people know about my dick but if they already know and are impressed, awesome.
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# ? Feb 18, 2017 00:07 |
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Pick posted:How big of a deal is it supposed to be to get stood up? For a date or something, with no notice? I'd be pissed. For fuckin furniture shopping, which you can just go do on your own? who cares (not guy's GF) otoh r/relationships vehemently insists that being 15 minutes late to anything is a breakup-worthy sign of contempt so
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# ? Feb 18, 2017 00:11 |
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Yeah, but schedule a morning date at your own peril.
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# ? Feb 18, 2017 00:12 |
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I [25M] Had a weird experience with my horse riding instructor [20 F]. She's been my instructor for 3 months and after this incident will not stop contacting me.quote:I started riding at a new stable recently, after being a very loyal client at my previous stable they we're very rude when I was late for a group trail ride. So I decided to shop around and found an awesome place. quote:I'm not making it up Bro.
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# ? Feb 18, 2017 00:13 |
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Why the heck would you flirt with someone if you're not willing to have kinky sex right then and there. Redditors continue to get weirder
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# ? Feb 18, 2017 00:18 |
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A Wizard of Goatse posted:For a date or something, with no notice? I'd be pissed. For fuckin furniture shopping, which you can just go do on your own? who cares (not guy's GF) I usually cap at 3-4 times of being stood up in a short period of time. But 15 minutes late is no big deal.
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# ? Feb 18, 2017 00:19 |
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Pick posted:I usually cap at 3-4 times of being stood up in a short period of time. But 15 minutes late is no big deal. I think out of a dozen or so first date, I've had one woman show up on time. Of course that was the one time I was late; but usually people show up 10 minutes late. It might be a cultural thing. Getting stood up for a first or second date though, meh, I won't bother calling again.
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# ? Feb 18, 2017 00:22 |
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E: nobody wants to read all that poo poo about my opinions Me [24 M], is getting stood up "the new normal?" quote:Hello internet collective of dating advisors,
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# ? Feb 18, 2017 00:37 |
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ArbitraryC posted:Hahaha, even when reddit points out she was being an idiot for getting upset in the first place she doubles down on the whole "they were my feelings and it's not fair to just invalidate them like that". I had a gf like that and it's miserable to deal with because they're never "wrong" they're just "upset" and literally every fight has to end in you groveling because their emotions are always valid, it's exhausting. These people never consider your emotions or how you might feel after they accused you of a bunch of bad poo poo that wasn't even on your mind. Example: A: <a relatively innocuous prank> B: Aaaaaaa A: You're being a dumb idiot B: gently caress you! A: Emotions are dumb and you are dumb for having them B: EMOTIONS EVERYWHERE (repeat indefinitely) Now lets validate! A: <a relatively innocuous prank> B: Aaaaaaa A: Oh jeeze you're really upset. Are you OK? <- this is validating B's emotional state by recognising its intensity and by showing that A cares about B's emotions B: I'm not OK <- B is calmer now because their partner is coming across as an ally rather than an opponent, instead of having to fight against their partner's dismissal of their feelings on top of the actual feelings themselves A: That sucks. Why did that upset you so much? <- It's important that A actually give a poo poo about why it upset B so much, which, if they're dating, presumably they do. B: <explains> It may turn out there's a good reason that A could not have been aware of. Now A is aware of something important about their partner they didn't know before (e.g. their partner had an ex who gaslighted the gently caress out of them for years). Note that A has at no point apologised for the relatively innocuous prank, because they did nothing wrong, but are still providing emotional support. There may by a reason that A should have been aware of (knew and forgot, or missing some kind of basic understanding of human nature). A should apologise for forgetting that B's ex gaslighted the gently caress out of them, and continue to provide emotional support. There may be no good reason and it just weirded B out (which is probably what happened here). In that case the conversation goes: B: I don't know. It just weirded me out. A: That must have sucked. But I don't think I deserved getting yelled at for joking around. B: You didn't and I'm sorry. A: Also he was actually a mule B: I will loving end you. e: As with pretty much everything involving actually showing consideration for other people it can also be co-opted by idiots to use as a trump card in arguments they're losing so Splicer fucked around with this message at 00:54 on Feb 18, 2017 |
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I [26 M] am all of a sudden done mentally and emotionally with my 5-year marriage to my wife [27 F] after one too many attention-seeking threatsRelationships submitted 4 months ago * by ridethestrugglebus quote:Throwaway because I'm probably going to get pretty specific. My wife and I are high school sweethearts and have been married for 5 years and we have a 2 year old son together. Over the years, she has struggled with OCD and personality disorder, occasionally taking medication to ease symptoms, but never consistently. A lot has happened in those 5 years (and 2 years prior of dating) that has scarred me emotionally and caused me to go into my own depression, which I take anti-depressants for. Mainly, she has used the threat of suicide to her advantage by my count 16 times, including an ultimatum for me to buy an engagement ring. And while I say threat, I know that she's very serious and I had some sort of intervention each of these 16 times, including 3 visits to the hospital. my dude, how broken is your brain
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# ? Feb 18, 2017 00:53 |
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I [18F] am wondering when, and if, it's a good time to talk to my SO[29M] about my sexuality.quote:Me: 18 year old female
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Nazzadan posted:I [25M] Had a weird experience with my horse riding instructor [20 F]. She's been my instructor for 3 months and after this incident will not stop contacting me. hook me up with the crazy dom horse lady reddit guy
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Splicer posted:A: <anything> In honor of Mirthlessing all over ourselves, i have edited this for my experiences of trying to empathize with a permanent victim, particularly drawing a certain example from what caused the break up.
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# ? Feb 18, 2017 00:56 |
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Is horse shy a thing people say?
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Splicer posted:Going to hop in and Mirthless the gently caress out of this: Validating feelings is a really useful communication skill. If someone's upset then they're not really in a good mindset to be told they're being a dumb idiot. If you empathise with their emotional state without necessarily agreeing with their reasons for being in that state it makes it easier for the person to calm down and deal with the feelings. Then you can call them a dumb idiot, or possibly even discover they were not actually being a dumb idiot. Being able to do the second one instead of the first one is the reason my current fiancee has actually stayed with me for so long. She hasn't exactly lived the best life and has a lot of insecurities and fears that have been built up from that crappy childhood and a string of lovely boyfriends and flings before she met me, so it's really important to learn not to hold anything against her and to try and understand how she's feeling. There's been quite a few cases where I accidentally upset her because she was afraid to tell me about something negative from her past and I didn't know that what I was doing or trying to convince her to do was upsetting her. Being able to talk about it like adults is the reason we're getting married at the end of the year instead of having broken up after the honeymoon phase was over.
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Nazzadan posted:I [18F] am wondering when, and if, it's a good time to talk to my SO[29M] about my sexuality. Right now, because he'll freak out and break up with you and you'll be free.
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Nazzadan posted:I [25M] Had a weird experience with my horse riding instructor [20 F]. She's been my instructor for 3 months and after this incident will not stop contacting me.
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Nazzadan posted:I [25M] Had a weird experience with my horse riding instructor [20 F]. She's been my instructor for 3 months and after this incident will not stop contacting me. Don't dox me bro.
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How do I [18F] politely quit the club my cousin [14F] started?quote:I'm a senior in high school and my cousin is a freshman. At the beginning of the year I suggested to her that we start a Polynesian club, since there were clubs for other students of different ethnicities but nothing for us. She did all the paperwork and made the club official, so it's her club. Since it's hers, of course all of her lovely freshman friends joined. I can't STAND them. They keep calling us Hawaiian. We're Samoan! They call each other mom or daughter (it's all girls.) and I thought that stupid childish crap was left behind in middle school. They do nothing but horse around and twerk and act like this is the strip club group when we're doing traditional dances. I caught one of them writing "join the Strip Club!" On one of our posters. One had the audacity to say I was confused when I grew up with this poo poo and she doesn't even know what an ie is. Not only that, but apparently they've all been going to my cousins house to practice which is unfair because she didn't even tell me about that.
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# ? Feb 18, 2017 01:12 |
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Troposphere posted:hook me up with the crazy dom horse lady reddit guy same
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# ? Feb 18, 2017 01:16 |
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Troposphere posted:hook me up with the crazy dom horse lady reddit guy Pick posted:same
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# ? Feb 18, 2017 01:19 |
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Pick posted:same I just wanna be ruthlessly pegged by a crop wielding lady is that so wrong?!?
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# ? Feb 18, 2017 01:24 |
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Splicer posted:Going to hop in and Mirthless the gently caress out of this: Validating feelings is a really useful communication skill. If someone's upset then they're not really in a good mindset to be told they're being a dumb idiot. If you empathise with their emotional state without necessarily agreeing with their reasons for being in that state it makes it easier for the person to calm down and deal with the feelings. Then you can call them a dumb idiot, or possibly even discover they were not actually being a dumb idiot. It's a common issue for people to get too defensive when they're called out on being insensitive, and it's something most people could work on, but at the same time you can't just always go straight to "they're my emotions and no matter how much I'm overreacting you can't call me on it".
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# ? Feb 18, 2017 01:25 |
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alright i think we've hit the requisite amount of a half dozen people saying they want to gently caress someone from one of the posted stories and can move on now
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Captain Yossarian posted:
Choke me, weird horse lady
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