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A 60k difference in income is huge when you consider being able to set up an emergency fund or afford more reliable things. Given how expensive medical care can get in the US people of considerable means can still effectively be one paycheck away from destitution. And I always thought talking about income was taboo in the US. I was certainly raised not to ask people that question, as it was considered too personal. I didn't even know how much money my parents made.
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Panfilo posted:And I always thought talking about income was taboo in the US. I was certainly raised not to ask people that question, as it was considered too personal. I didn't even know how much money my parents made. it tends to be. and there's a reason for it. hmm, I wonder who would benefit from keeping workers from comparing notes on compensation, hmmmmmm.
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Panfilo posted:And I always thought talking about income was taboo in the US. I was certainly raised not to ask people that question, as it was considered too personal. I didn't even know how much money my parents made. It's this weird dichotomy where income is super important in our culture but you're not allowed to discuss it. Even among family it's considered to be taboo to discuss it. Unless someone dies, then it's a free for all.
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# ? Mar 4, 2017 20:26 |
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quote:I am getting married in 3 weeks and plan to run away and skip the wedding, which will make me rich. I'm not sure this plan is quite foolproof just sayin I dunno if the numbers are all there picturing this anon cackling and rubbing his hands together as he goes to his youngest daughter's high school graduation because the long con is playing out perfectly and those saps on Youtube will eat this footage right up just smelling that sweet Internet money rolling in as he posts photos of his 50th anniversary dinner to Instagram quote:I love getting blackout drunk and submitting to this thread. I guess that AA is alright for some people. For me it felt too much like church; which conflicted with the only thing I hate more than being an alcoholic, which is hearing other people praise god. My childhood was a constant bounce between being raped by a family member, beaten by my mother, or abandoned to raise my siblings (which I did poorly). I begged god over and over again to make it better but it didn't happen. As a result I don't believe in god and I hate the very idea of him and if I suddenly found myself dead (one can hope) and in front of the bastard I would spit on him and attack with everything in my power. I've never been to AA, I dunno if they're all like that, but if I were you I'd talk to someone in charge about what your options are if the meetings are too Jesusy to resonate with you. I'm also not knowledgeable enough to know whether therapy could help you quit but it's probably a good idea regardless based on the rest of your stuff.
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# ? Mar 4, 2017 20:34 |
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No hate but saying 'therapy' as the end all solution to problems is just not true.
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Sjs00 posted:No hate but saying 'therapy' as the end all solution to problems is just not true. Of course it's not an end all solution to problems, but it's a step toward healing for a lot of mental issues notably including "past trauma" which it sounds like that guy had out the wazoo
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# ? Mar 4, 2017 20:54 |
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how much does therapy cost anyway, it can't be cheap/feasible for most people to just book a slew of sessions
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# ? Mar 4, 2017 21:20 |
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loquacius posted:Re: YouTube goon Nope, not even close to the actual amount you'd make on 1,000 views. It's more like like $10 per 1,000 at the high end, but it all depends on whether you can get your viewers to click on ads. There is no set formula for views to dollars. If you get a million views and no one clicks on your ads, you get nothing. No one gets $100 per 1,000 views. A simple Google search explains it all. Nice try, YouTube goon, but you're a fake, and thank god for that.
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# ? Mar 4, 2017 22:03 |
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The 'I got Trump elected, now back to my YouTube prank channel' wasn't enough?
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loquacius posted:wedding goon Hate to break it to you pal, but Youtube payouts are like 1/100 of what you think they are
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# ? Mar 5, 2017 00:20 |
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Does nobody else see the humor in the fact that his evil plan was to live a fulfilling life with his long-term girlfriend like, he found a nice girl, romanced her, gave her nice things, went on fun trips, and is now going to commit to her for life in a small, intimate ceremony, lol owned
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# ? Mar 5, 2017 00:22 |
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loquacius posted:Does nobody else see the humor in the fact that his evil plan was to live a fulfilling life with his long-term girlfriend quote:I am getting married in 3 weeks and plan to run away and skip the wedding, which will make me rich
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VanSandman posted:'Italians' and 'those who mock autism' were the only two good jokes in there, anon writer. There's a bit in a Bridget Jones movie where, in an effort to look uber-tolerant, her mum makes a banner welcoming all kinds of deviants, including Italians. I hope this confessor didn't steal material from fking Bridget Jones' Baby
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loquacius posted:Does nobody else see the humor in the fact that his evil plan was to live a fulfilling life with his long-term girlfriend someone didnt eat his shreddedd wheat today haha
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how did I miss that detail quote:I know this sounds more like EN but anyway. Let me preface with the obligatory "I love my GF but..." quote:I go to the zoo 2-3 times a month to make fun of this dumbshit snake that lives there. He's got these goofy rear end cross eyes and when I tap on the glass, he'll strike at it like an idiot and end up just scaring himself. I've been asked to leave a few times but they don't remember me so I can come back whenever.
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# ? Mar 5, 2017 14:53 |
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I find that second one hard to believe just because snakes seem like one of the least responsive animals there are when it comes to tapping on the glass. At least he's providing a fairly steady stream of money to the zoo assuming it is true.
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# ? Mar 5, 2017 15:22 |
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I think Ron the snake confession is very real
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# ? Mar 5, 2017 15:34 |
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First confessor is in a
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# ? Mar 5, 2017 15:44 |
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How the hell can a snake have crossed eyes? They're on the sides of their heads.
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# ? Mar 5, 2017 15:48 |
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Or she is just lazy. One thing I will tell you is that you can't make someone else want to start exercising. If this is a deal breaker, then you should tell her now and start looking to draw down the relationship.
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Solice Kirsk posted:How the hell can a snake have crossed eyes? They're on the sides of their heads. Actually, Solice has a point. His eyes probably go in two DIFFERENT directions away from one another, which is ((at least in Oklahoma/colloquially)) called "walleyed", not "crosseyed". Crosseyed is when eyeballs go in different directions toward one another, if I'm remembering right. That's probably pretty hard for snakes to do. There's your morning fun fact. Freakbox fucked around with this message at 16:01 on Mar 5, 2017 |
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The writer suggests locking Uncle Ron up before he has done the terrible things and I'm not comfortable with that. The snake isn't in prison anyway. I'm in a hospice bed and can't get up to reach for my thesaurus or I'd expand upon my reply more thoroughly. Ron doesn't deserve a sanctuary; Ron is a free man; Ron is a reptile and walleyed if Freakbox's reply is reliable testimony. Free Ron. I'm with Ron. Be with Ro
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# ? Mar 5, 2017 16:09 |
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Snake one seems real cause who would make up a story about taunting snakes
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# ? Mar 5, 2017 16:09 |
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Nissin Cup Nudist posted:Snake one seems real cause who would make up a story about taunting snakes Probably the brother of the "lust for monkey death" guy.
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Nissin Cup Nudist posted:Snake one seems real cause who would make up a story about taunting snakes
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# ? Mar 5, 2017 16:57 |
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Lazy gf goon sounds like he has far more serious problems because he is incapable of having a discussion with her. Just seething in anger instead of communicating is either going to blow up and end your relationship or leave you miserable and resentful. So how about you stop being a passive aggressive pussy and talk to her about something that is apparently a big problem for you?
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# ? Mar 5, 2017 16:58 |
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Paging that komodo guy
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# ? Mar 5, 2017 16:59 |
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I'll post for him: Just suck it up and stay in the relationship. There's no fairy tale endings and no one can be happy forever. Grab that lumpy girl of yours and make the best of the poo poo lot that you drew.
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# ? Mar 5, 2017 17:01 |
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The weight isn't the problem! It's the fact that she isn't trying to solve this non-problem which irritates the writer so much. He really does love her but by God can't she just go swimming without him more often? Hang in there. You'll find a way through this maelstrom.
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# ? Mar 5, 2017 17:22 |
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Honestly I think coming right out and telling her she needs to start losing weight is the best option. I had a girlfriend tell me that once when I put on 20lbs, and yeah, it hurts your feelings but at the end of the day you know where you stand and it's either lose weight and keep your significant other or lose them. If subtlety isn't working then it's time to just tell her how you feel.
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# ? Mar 5, 2017 17:33 |
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Solice Kirsk posted:Honestly I think coming right out and telling her she needs to start losing weight is the best option. I had a girlfriend tell me that once when I put on 20lbs, and yeah, it hurts your feelings but at the end of the day you know where you stand and it's either lose weight and keep your significant other or lose them. If subtlety isn't working then it's time to just tell her how you feel. Yeah, that's definitely a conversation the genders can have both ways yes sir.
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# ? Mar 5, 2017 17:37 |
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I like the bit where they write "She's not fat" which precedes the paragraphs of how they tried to coerce the girl into doing things she really doesn't want to do and trying to secretly put her on a diet.
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# ? Mar 5, 2017 17:45 |
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I think if you come out and flat out say "you're getting too fat, please lose weight" it's never going to end well. You have to be a little more subtle about it and make exercise and healthy eating something you can do together, where it's clear what you want without insulting/hurting them. If that doesn't work, probably nothing will.
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# ? Mar 5, 2017 17:47 |
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haha she probably smells really bad
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# ? Mar 5, 2017 17:55 |
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Actually honey every pants make you look fat
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# ? Mar 5, 2017 18:18 |
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Be honest with her. Tell her about your insecurities and mental health issues.
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# ? Mar 5, 2017 18:28 |
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You gotta be ok with fat gf or tell her not to fat, you candy rear end
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# ? Mar 5, 2017 18:36 |
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start calling her oinker
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# ? Mar 5, 2017 18:48 |
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Fat girlfriend goon, fatties are gonna be fat. Nothing you can do. Time to man up and
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As pretty much everyone has said (with varying degrees of judgment baked in), communication is necessary here because boiling over with resentment is your alternative and that won't fix anything. Tell her what you told us. It's not that you think she's fat and disgusting, it's that you find it unattractive that she is too lazy to be a grown-up and work out twice a week under any circumstances. Do not mention her gaining weight; do not say she needs to lose weight; use words like "healthy lifestyle" a lot. Add that it's easier for you to stick to your routine if she's doing it along with you (which it probably would be).
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