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Elsa posted:How about contributing instead of posting about other people not posting or being weirdos. ur a scrub
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# ? Mar 7, 2017 22:01 |
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Lockback posted:Wanna read about a real winner? Raising a kid from a previous relationship is something I wouldn't really want to do but it'd be for all the internal reasons, I can't imagine caring about what other people would think. Does that dude hang out with living breathing strawmen from the redpill forums or something?
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# ? Mar 7, 2017 22:01 |
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ArbitraryC posted:Raising a kid from a previous relationship is something I wouldn't really want to do but it'd be for all the internal reasons, I can't imagine caring about what other people would think. Does that dude hang out with living breathing strawmen from the redpill forums or something? sounds like one of his bro-ier buddies lightly teased him about it once, or possibly said something completely unrelated, and he went into an all-consuming insecurity spiral
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# ? Mar 7, 2017 22:05 |
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zakharov posted:Elsa stop posting in this thread and get therapy
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# ? Mar 7, 2017 22:13 |
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Elsa posted:How about contributing instead of posting about other people not posting or being weirdos. Get more therapy
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# ? Mar 7, 2017 22:17 |
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Please tell me i am doing the right thing here?quote:Me boy 21 here girl 20 quote:Yes you are correct in ending it, but please improve your spelling and grammar if you want to get anywhere in this world. yolo OP quote:sorry not a native english speaker , never been to a english speaking country and i wrote that without any grammar/correction/spelling helping tool quote:OK, but be careful. It sounds like you are learning english from a gangsta rapper.
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# ? Mar 7, 2017 22:20 |
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Nazzadan posted:Please tell me i am doing the right thing here? /r/relationships: She is bad as gently caress whit oconnomy , dont hve a real job
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# ? Mar 7, 2017 22:29 |
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Was gonna make a joke butquote:sorry not a native english speaker , never been to a english speaking country and i wrote that without any grammar/correction/spelling helping tool Eh better than most of us would do in a foreign language I bet.
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# ? Mar 7, 2017 22:32 |
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Last few pages inspired me to do a secret word search... I accidentally let slip that I[24f] am in a polyamorous relationship to one of my coworkers[26m]. Coworker told everyone at the office and now another coworker[22f] believes I am fundamentally amoral and is making my work-life miserable. quote:I have been dating my girlfriend[26f] for about two years now, and last year I started dating my boyfriend[23m]. While my boyfriend and girlfriend don't date each other, they are extremely close. My boyfriend moved in with us about six months ago, and things are going as smoothly as ever.
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# ? Mar 7, 2017 22:37 |
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Hughlander posted:One of the things I'm afraid of, being in a poly-relationship, is being a spectacle. Huh maybe don't be telling people about your very out of the norm (despite what the internet would have us believe) relationship arrangement then? Go to HR. That's what they are for.
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# ? Mar 7, 2017 22:38 |
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Yawgmoth posted:I just love the one dude's name. THE SEX YELLER. THE_SEX_YELLER is my new favorite Reddit name, dethroning I_HAVE_HEMORRHOIDS_
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# ? Mar 7, 2017 22:43 |
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quote:Starting a conversation[new]
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# ? Mar 7, 2017 22:46 |
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Unfortunately, I appear to be at the end of the "horse" keyword. My [28F] SO of 4 years [30M] used my credit card without my consent quote:I gave him my card so he could go to the store to return a pair of shoes. He returned the shoes and gave me the receipt. We agreed that I am keeping that money on my card and using it for part of his portion of the monthly bills.
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# ? Mar 7, 2017 22:47 |
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Just launch into a Churchill speech
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# ? Mar 7, 2017 22:48 |
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Moridin920 posted:Bro that's fine but it's different when you wake up and only have 30 mins to get to work. You can't just go "well I'm too tired to drive today, guess I'll take the bus" and show up 2 hours late to your shift with the excuse of "well I didn't sleep well so I took the bus instead of driving." That would get your rear end poo poo canned in most service jobs. It's about the same level of risk, we just accept that risk as necessary. Drunk driving is also usually coupled with driving tired for a double dose of stupid, tho. Have you ever driven to work and not remembered the drive at all? That's your brain on autopilot, which is a cool rear end phenomenon and is relatively ok for highway driving as long as there's no obstacles or sudden surprises.
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# ? Mar 7, 2017 22:49 |
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quote:Should I [33 M] be upset/concerned that the girl [23 F] I'm seeing stayed over at another guy's house?Relationships we're not in a relationship but i want her to act exactly as if we are comments great quote:you are probably right that she's not on the same page...I don't think she's trying to take advantage of me but I also don't think she wants to make the commitment to be in a relationship and all the meaning that that entails.
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lol, burying the lede:Nazzadan posted:Unfortunately, I appear to be at the end of the "horse" keyword. if somebody says they "can't have a bank account" for any reason, run the gently caress away as fast as you can you don't get denied a bank account over bad credit
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# ? Mar 7, 2017 22:51 |
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On the one hand, not really up to her to be dictating what homie can spend his money on. On the other, don't use her card if she said no you dolt. Get a prepaid card for like $3 or whatever and load your cash onto that.Pvt.Scott posted:It's about the same level of risk, we just accept that risk as necessary. Drunk driving is also usually coupled with driving tired for a double dose of stupid, tho. I have done that and I understand it is about the same level of risk, it's just that I have 0 sympathy for people who drink and drive whereas I have some sympathy for tired drivers bc one is way way more ethically suspect than the other. imo. I only said anything because people were going "no they are both totally voluntary decisions and thus ethically/morally the same." But like yeah if you're on a road trip and tired, pull over and take a nap.
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Moridin920 posted:I have done that and I understand it is about the same level of risk, it's just that I have 0 sympathy for people who drink and drive whereas I have some sympathy for tired drivers bc one is way way more ethically suspect than the other. imo. I'm just saying I can't wait until my robot overlords come. The US doesn't function without personal vehicles.
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# ? Mar 7, 2017 22:53 |
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quote:we aren't officially boyfriend/girlfriend not cheating then, is it? Unless they sat down and worked out the boundaries before hand without officially being bf/gf which seems... odd. Pvt.Scott posted:I'm just saying I can't wait until my robot overlords come. The US doesn't function without personal vehicles. I can't wait for robot cars man. Every time I see some gently caress causing traffic on my commute home I mutter that under my breath lol.
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# ? Mar 7, 2017 22:56 |
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I like this one because it's from my town and the dude is totally right about how the women dress here. Not that there is literally anything wrong with it, I think it rules. I'm [27M] having trouble with the way my [30F] girlfriend likes to dress quote:My girlfriend and I have been together for a couple years, and while things are good and I like spending time with her, I'm not sure how to best address the fact that I hate the way she dresses.
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# ? Mar 7, 2017 22:56 |
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Mirthless posted:
what the gently caress do you get refused a bank account for, ISIS affiliation? Moridin920 posted:On the one hand, not really up to her to be dictating what homie can spend ummmm....
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# ? Mar 7, 2017 22:57 |
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nerd plus rage posted:r/relationships: I am IRISH!
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# ? Mar 7, 2017 22:59 |
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Wear what you want but be prepared to realize nobody will take you seriously in your chunky crappy skate shoes
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# ? Mar 7, 2017 22:59 |
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Nazzadan posted:I like this one because it's from my town and the dude is totally right about how the women dress here. Not that there is literally anything wrong with it, I think it rules. What do? Do your hot, youthful girlfriend that dresses like a teenager, you moron.
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# ? Mar 7, 2017 23:00 |
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Yeah, not being able to get a bank account is a sign that you are a massive fuckup who got on the banking blacklist. I once had to deal with one of these guys in my consumer lending days. He barged into a vehicle dealership demanding to be approved for financing and wouldn't leave until he talked to "the bank." Salespeople will try to get anyone approved but even they were like, "Please just talk to this rear end in a top hat for a few minutes so he will leave." I tried to explain how bank accounts are pretty important for approving sub-PRIME lending clients, that no he could not use someone else's bank account, that he couldn't simply show up to the dealership and hand them cash every month, and that the carbon copies of handwritten checks from his dad's business's ledger didn't count as proof of income. He was an immense rear end in a top hat the entire time and continued to demand that I approve him, but it was kind of fun because it was like explaining basic everyday adult finance poo poo to an alien.
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cumshitter posted:He was an immense rear end in a top hat the entire time and continued to demand that I approve him, but it was kind of fun because it was like explaining basic everyday adult finance poo poo to an alien. This was my favorite part when I worked at a golf course. So many total assholes trying to act like they're PGA material who had no understanding of golf, common course policies, etc. and I'd get to watch the light go out of their eyes when I explained incredibly basic poo poo to them that undermined the reason they were mad. Like, poo poo that you should know if you've played putt putt before basic.
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# ? Mar 7, 2017 23:14 |
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Help my gf wears metal tees and has a lip piercing what do? Also she shows too much leg!!! (PM me that's what you do <3)
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Nazzadan posted:I like this one because it's from my town and the dude is totally right about how the women dress here. Not that there is literally anything wrong with it, I think it rules. that's definitely not where i expected that story to go. quote:in the winter she wears oversized hoodies and big chunky skate shoes. this is a bad look.
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# ? Mar 7, 2017 23:15 |
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I'm not gonna be that guy who links the Monty Python skit but I am tempted
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# ? Mar 7, 2017 23:16 |
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A Wizard of Goatse posted:ummmm.... Yeah but he is spending the money and immediately reimbursing her with cash. I do this with my SO and my friends all the time it's not that big a deal. She's not out any money of her own at all; he just wants to use the card to make an online purchase. He's not like asking to borrow it or anything. Her own reasoning is "well I don't think he should be making that purchase because he is unemployed at the moment." Ofc she is free to say "no you can't use my card" and he shouldn't have used it, don't get me wrong, but she is also making a judgement about how the dude should spend his money. Moridin920 fucked around with this message at 23:19 on Mar 7, 2017 |
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A Wizard of Goatse posted:what the gently caress do you get refused a bank account for, ISIS affiliation? Also, there's nothing wrong with wanting your gf to dress her age.
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# ? Mar 7, 2017 23:18 |
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Moridin920 posted:Yeah but he is spending the money and immediately reimbursing her with cash. I do this with my SO and my friends all the time it's not that big a deal. She's not out any money of her own at all; he just wants to use the card to make an online purchase. He didn't ask, and he's spending money they can't afford. It's not even close to the same.
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# ? Mar 7, 2017 23:19 |
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Moridin920 posted:Yeah but he is spending the money and immediately reimbursing her with cash. I do this with my SO and my friends all the time it's not that big a deal. She's not out any money of her own at all; he just wants to use the card to make an online purchase. lol gently caress off you don't get to help yourself to the contents of other peoples' bank accounts just cause you'll, like, totally pay them back, man, and people absolutely can refuse your dumb rear end a loan for some bullshit they don't approve of (when you haven't stolen from them)
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# ? Mar 7, 2017 23:19 |
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many johnnys posted:He didn't ask, and he's spending money they can't afford. It's not even close to the same. It's not "their" money is what I am saying. It is "his" money, and he wants to use her card for the payment and hand her cash. They're not married, they don't have a joint bank account. It is his money and if he wants to buy a skateboard with it then that's on him. A Wizard of Goatse posted:lol gently caress off you don't get to help yourself to the contents of other peoples' bank accounts just cause you'll, like, totally pay them back and people absolutely can refuse your dumb rear end a loan for some bullshit they don't approve of (when you haven't stolen from them) K well that's not what I'm saying at all but alright.
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# ? Mar 7, 2017 23:20 |
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Moridin920 posted:It's not "their" money is what I am saying. It is "his" money, and he wants to use her card for the payment and hand her cash
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# ? Mar 7, 2017 23:21 |
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Leon Einstein posted:No, it's the lending institution's money, and he was told he couldn't use it. Why are you defending this? I mean jesus dude how many times do I gotta say "he was def in the wrong and shouldn't have used the card" here?
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# ? Mar 7, 2017 23:22 |
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Moridin920 posted:I mean jesus dude how many times do I gotta say "he was def in the wrong and shouldn't have used the card" here? Nobody but you is talking about whether she should allow him to buy a skateboard.
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# ? Mar 7, 2017 23:23 |
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Seriously no one itt has ever been in between cards and wanted to buy something online so you said "hey gf, let me use your card here's the cash for it?"Leon Einstein posted:As long as you keep saying it was his money and no big deal. I didn't say it was no big deal, I said that her reasoning for the refusal was "I don't think he should spend money on that" which is lame on her part. quote:I told him no, I didn’t want to do that because he is currently unemployed, has limited funds and felt like he shouldn’t be spending his money on that since he already has a few skateboards that he doesn’t use that often.
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# ? Mar 7, 2017 23:23 |
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no, I can safely say I have neither stolen money from people close to me nor committed credit card fraud as an end-run around someone else's consent
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