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My friend Wendy is Korean but was born in Australia. We got to Uni together and we've rented an apartment. Wendy has always been someone who catches the eye of men. She had a really bad boyfriend 2 years ago who gave her a black eye. She did not date since then. She met Jordan (he's white) and she really took to him. She likes muscular guys and he's really nice. He's to nice sometimes in my opinion. He goes to Uni with us as well.

Wendy has liked him for a while and she had been looking for a boyfriend. We were watching a horror movie last night and she was sitting right against Jordan who I invited over as a favour to her. She asked him to come to her room because she did not want to sleep alone. This morning she came out to the kitchen with him. Kissed him and said she can't wait for the date tonight. They're out right now as a matter of fact. My boyfriend is having trouble understanding why she's not dating a guy of her 'own race' and is being a douche about it.

tl;dr: How do I stop my boyfriend from being a douche?

Demon Of The Fall posted:

I dated a girl who would actually reach over and honk my horn for me when I was in the car if someone did something stupid and I didn't honk fast enough or if I decided it wasn't a big deal that required me to honk at them. I told her repeatedly not to touch the horn and she kept doing it. Who raises their kids to do that?

WoodrowSkillson posted:

I hope therapy works for these two, i do not think they are bad people.

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We've been married for 5 years, together for 19 in total.

For as long as I can remember, right from back when we were in high school, my wife has been paranoid about me leaving her for someone else. I ended up distancing myself from female friends because they made her uncomfy; the same thing happened in college and in later life, too

2004 was really bad, looking back at my journal, and there were a few times where she was slightly physically violent - shoving me and slapping me, that kind of thing - during arguments.

Around 3 years ago it reached its absolute worst point, with her breaking into my email, reading my journal, and talking about driving round to my therapist's offices whilst I was in a session to ensure that I wasn't having an affair (my therapist at the time was a woman). It got so bad that I moved out for 3 months, and we went through two rounds of marriage counselling, which I thought got us back on track.

Now, though, it's getting worse again. Every day for the last month, something has come up - some question about my fidelity, or an assertion that I don't really love her, or an argument over whether I looked too long at a woman in the street (I don't do that sort of thing and never have, though my wife will spend an uncomfortably long amount of time ogling good looking guys).

Moridin920 posted:

Once again projecting your goony rear end self bc it is 2017 and poo poo tons of everyday people use Reddit and social media.

IPA Regulations posted:

Wow that was a terrible derail

There should be a rule against perpetuating circular arguments in this thread for more than a page, or you're obliged to post content if you really need to get in the last word. Any advice or opinions generated are even more loving useless than the reddit ones because the OP isn't here to listen/clarify

Pivotal Lever posted:

Moridon is so insufferable to be around in real life that his girlfriend got a benzo prescription to numb herself enough to deal with him on a daily basis

Moridin920 posted:

many pages ago there was some dude who beat his gf until her rib broke and raped her in the butt until a neighbor had to pull him off her


her 'crime?' she brought vegetables into his home

chernobyl kinsman posted:

link

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He was defensive, called me some unsavory names and told me that I have no right to bring vegetables into our living space without his consent. He said that I was basically raping him, and making him feel violated.

Nazzadan posted:

What the crap, Gerber?

Mirthless posted:

This is legitimately a problem. Food for kids, even babies is loaded with sugar and salt. Ridiculous amounts of it.

Meme Emulator posted:

This is really stupid AA cult poo poo.

gentle pete posted:

My (27m) girlfriend (32f) of 2 years got drunk and called me a "f**" when were out with friends because I "wouldn't shut up" (her words) about Game of Thrones

Elsa posted:

Elsa posted:

Rakthar posted:

What the gently caress bro is reading poo poo on the internet so draining that you are hosed up over it?

Thousand yard stare I had to skim a bunch of loving posts that maybe I didn't care about, I HOPE WE CAN MOVE ON

Be sure to search my loving posts for how much I posted in this thread while you're at it lmao

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My [F22] girlfriend [28] doesn't listen to me when I tell her not to pop my zits or to at least ask first, which I see as an issue of consent which triggers me.
u/SeacretsNoLyes
[F22] + [F28] together for a year.

Yeah, I know. It's zits. But hear me out.

This happened almost every day:

Can I pop this? No. Please. It's just this one here that really bothers me. I said no. she touches my face I'm just looking (Then I feel her nails) HEY Look it's already gone

IPA Regulations posted:

Its weird Its like reddit is leaking into the thread almost?

Heres one I found through a secret topical word search thats boring apart from the title maybe?

Pick posted:

women love poppin zits, its a fact

Buzkashi posted:

Wait Elsa loving owns now?

Pick posted:

women love poppin zits, its a fact

Blue Train posted:

Download the awful app it's good

therobit posted:

It does the same thing to me with the app.

therobit posted:

It does the same thing to me with the app.

WampaLord posted:

Yea same here, don't bother spoiler tagging them, Elsa.

If they're NWS, just link it.

Buzkashi posted:

Wait Elsa loving owns now?

Elsa posted:

Incoherence posted:

The only problem with the Elsa comics is that there's some sort of weird Radium bug with spoiler tags + timg on Android Chrome so I have to jump through some hoops to see them when I'm reading this thread on my phone.