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boner confessor
Apr 25, 2013

by R. Guyovich

therobit posted:

Yes, because goons know better than licenced professionals that met with and evaluated a patient. Seriously, not everything is mental illness or some tragedy that people need help for. Sometimes people are dumbshits or lazy assholes with no other pathology or reason behind it.

laziness isn't an actual diagnosis, i assume the OP is paraphrasing due to well deserved contempt

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Who What Now
Sep 10, 2006

by Azathoth

timefly posted:

He is a lazy rear end in a top hat and I'm not just someone with no authority on the matter. But let's just agree that someone lazy enough to let himself die needs professional assistance.

True, but unfortunately assisted suicide isn't legal anymore.

ArbitraryC
Jan 28, 2009
Pick a number, any number
Pillbug

boner confessor posted:

laziness isn't an actual diagnosis, i assume the OP is paraphrasing due to well deserved contempt

e: like there's literally no way board certified doctors just threw up their hands and said "he's just lazy a little bootstraps will fix what ails him", odds are much more likely family/op had just had enough of his poo poo and interpret a more nebulous problem of anxiety/depression as lazy.

not to say the sister/family should be stuck with that burden forever just that there's not a good solution and it's a bit understandable she just doesn't want to give him a very real death sentence by dumpin him on the street.

ArbitraryC fucked around with this message at 04:09 on Mar 31, 2017

boner confessor
Apr 25, 2013

by R. Guyovich
in my experience it's chronic depression that cause people to give so little poo poo about their own life, like a drawn out expensive suicide. could be a lot of stuff though. dude is def mentally ill, but caring for them without extensive therapy is just another form of enabling

timefly
Apr 29, 2008

Well I mean if you don't even have the motivation to take care of yourself, and shame and homelessness and starvation don't motivate you, you die or fall into the hands of social services once your entire family has abandoned you. If you think you can get that far without being mentally ill in any way I'd disagree

WampaLord
Jan 14, 2010

Jeff Sichoe posted:

just make his lazy rear end life loving living HELL

Prank the ever loving gently caress out of that son of a bitch, i'm talking hosing him down first thing in the morning, chili in his eyes, kick him, beat him with your fists, pull his hair, nipple gripples, dead legs, loving poke his eye when he's asleep, put glue in his shoes gently caress the oval office

Hahaha, yea, totally awesome to treat a human this way.

DrPlump
Oct 5, 2004

by Jeffrey of YOSPOS

A Wizard of Goatse posted:

ahahahahaha

Boyfriend (29M) extremely critical of many of my (27f) choices, saying I am privileged and not "woke" enough to see it

In my mind he is doing all of this ironically as punishment for her calling him privileged once.

Moridin920
Nov 15, 2007

by FactsAreUseless
lollin at the irl Snorlax BIL

ArbitraryC
Jan 28, 2009
Pick a number, any number
Pillbug
ima go around playing a pokeflute replica and when people ask me wtf I'm doing I'll just say I'm tryin to help them get woke.

Criminal Minded
Jan 4, 2005

Spring break forever

A Wizard of Goatse posted:

If you get a cochlear implant ASAP they're apparently pretty good, but the longer you go without the more of the hearing-related parts of your brain turn to pudding and once you've lost that capacity it's unrecoverable. The 'deaf culture' slapfight over kids is either you fix em right away and they don't grow up Deaf or you let em sit and their capacity to process sounds is hosed forever, there is no waiting or letting them sort it out when they grow up.

Hey, a topic about which I can speak firsthand.

I lost my hearing from a double-whammy of chicken pox and bacterial meningitis at the age of 4. Meningitis is basically your brain boiling inside of your skull - my fever reached 108 as my parents were rushing me to the emergency room - and hearing loss is a common consequence. (Really, with that fever, I'm lucky to be alive, so I'll take it.) Anyway, I got an implant pretty much straightaway; it only took a couple of months for my hearing loss to become profound, and I think I had the implant like a matter of weeks after that. So as far as hearing with an implant goes, I'm about in the 99.9th percentile, due to both how young I was when I got it and how soon after I lost my hearing that I actually received it. I hold regular conversations in public places, I listen to music and attend concerts, I see movies in the theater, etc. Now, because I only have one implant, it's kind of like hearing in mono instead of stereo, which means I have a lot of trouble telling the direction of sounds - if you yell my name, I know somebody is vying for my attention but I don't know where their voice is coming from. And I still have trouble with the lyrics to songs in a lot of cases, as well as a lesser amount of trouble with dialogue in TV and film (thank god for subtitles). But other than that, and some difficulty hearing in extremely loud places e.g. concerts or bars, which is kind of a given for anyone I figure, it's fantastic. Plus, the new model I just got comes with bluetooth capability which gives me the ability to completely shut out background noise and stream audio from my phone in otherwise total silence. It's loving awesome.

DragQueenofAngmar
Dec 29, 2009

You shall not pass!

Criminal Minded posted:

Plus, the new model I just got comes with bluetooth capability which gives me the ability to completely shut out background noise and stream audio from my phone in otherwise total silence. It's loving awesome.

This loving rules

Gloryhold It!
Sep 22, 2008

Fucking
Adorable
108? drat! That's where enzymes break down from sheer heat

Alan_Shore
Dec 2, 2004

Criminal Minded posted:

Plus, the new model I just got comes with bluetooth capability which gives me the ability to completely shut out background noise and stream audio from my phone in otherwise total silence. It's loving awesome.

Holy poo poo, that sounds awesome! I didn't even know that was possible. Talk about immersion!

Criminal Minded
Jan 4, 2005

Spring break forever

DragQueenofAngmar posted:

This loving rules

It's something I never knew I wanted - my last model had a pretty nifty audio cable which plugged right into the implant, which allowed me to listen to music that other people couldn't hear, but I still had background noise present. With this one, I can adjust the balance of background volume and streaming volume however I like. Usually I keep background noise fairly audible so that I don't have to switch it off just to hear somebody at work, but if I'm listening to a podcast in public, that poo poo's going down to zero.

Also, the newest model has a sort of condom you can slip over the whole unit to make it entirely waterproof, which is something I've wanted all my life, since pools/waterparks/swimming in lakes and oceans have always been wasted on me, socially speaking.

Gloryhold It! posted:

108? drat! That's where enzymes break down from sheer heat

I was, apparently, straight up hallucinating on the way to the hospital. My dad said I was squirming around with my eyes closed muttering "Rocket...spaceship...stars..."

ArbitraryC
Jan 28, 2009
Pick a number, any number
Pillbug
does it automatically equalize media? Cause a lot of music is recorded explicitly with stereo in mind and it really ruins the experience when you need to only use 1 bud for w/e reason. maybe I've just had lovely media players but I've never actually found an option to just treat things as mono, I assume that would be part of the one earpiece tho?

The Lone Badger
Sep 24, 2007

Why only one implant?

Criminal Minded
Jan 4, 2005

Spring break forever

ArbitraryC posted:

does it automatically equalize media? Cause a lot of music is recorded explicitly with stereo in mind and it really ruins the experience when you need to only use 1 bud for w/e reason. maybe I've just had lovely media players but I've never actually found an option to just treat things as mono, I assume that would be part of the one earpiece tho?

Well, in my case, when I'm streaming, I'm getting both channels, so it pretty much just is mono at that point. And I know Winamp actually offers that option anyway. And yes I still use Winamp in 2017. :colbert:


The Lone Badger posted:

Why only one implant?

I suppose you'd have to ask my parents, which I oddly never have, because it hasn't bothered me; most likely just the prospect of sending their four-year-old son under the knife for yet a second incredibly major surgery. I spent a lot of time in the hospital as it was. Didn't really bother me at that age, or at least I don't remember it bothering me. I only have scant memories of the actual "I'm really sick and this is bad" part of it; most of what I remember is eating pizza and watching the little model boats go downstream in the fake river/waterfall in the cafeteria, playing this Super Mario arcade cabinet, and my mom sleeping on the cushion in the windowsill in my room. Oh, and what I referred to as the "Ball Machine," which was this glass-enclosed contraption which sent a bunch of metal balls flying around and running down ramps and poo poo. I watched that a lot. Props to St. Louis Children's Hospital.

PHIZ KALIFA
Dec 21, 2011

#mood

The Lone Badger posted:

Why only one implant?

how many fuckin ears do you think people got, huh? jesus. whered he even PUT the second?


ugh no, dont answer that. goons. turning fuckin everything into buttplugs. ugh. this is going in my diary

ArbitraryC
Jan 28, 2009
Pick a number, any number
Pillbug

Criminal Minded posted:

Well, in my case, when I'm streaming, I'm getting both channels, so it pretty much just is mono at that point. And I know Winamp actually offers that option anyway. And yes I still use Winamp in 2017. :colbert:
So it just sends both channels to one piece? Makes sense. And yeah my clip doesn't have it but winamp does, it really whips the llama's rear end, just a bit unfortunate cause I never need mono at home but on the go I might use just one bud for w/e reason.

Shadin
Jun 28, 2009

Criminal Minded posted:

Plus, the new model I just got comes with bluetooth capability which gives me the ability to completely shut out background noise and stream audio from my phone in otherwise total silence. It's loving awesome.

I swear to God that sounds so awesome I want my own.

Milotic
Mar 4, 2009

9CL apologist
Slippery Tilde
My [34F] boyfriend [32M] believes that the average woman in a relationship initiates sex several times a week by putting on lingerie and getting things started.

quote:

u/Zuzus_Petals1946
My boyfriend after over a year of being together suddenly decided to enlighten me that "all" women initiate sex multiple times per week by putting on lingerie and starting sex with a man. In my almost 2 decades of being sexually active I've never heard any guy ever say or expect this. I can't help but feel terrible about this for many reasons and I can't really understand why he's so adamant this is the norm. I'm 100% for lingerie and spicing things up, but my experience with sex on a regular basis has been much more organic.

tl;dr My [34F] boyfriend [32M] believes all woman initiate sex with lingerie every time.

Jeffrey of YOSPOS
Dec 22, 2005

GET LOSE, YOU CAN'T COMPARE WITH MY POWERS

Criminal Minded posted:

Well, in my case, when I'm streaming, I'm getting both channels, so it pretty much just is mono at that point. And I know Winamp actually offers that option anyway. And yes I still use Winamp in 2017. :colbert:


I suppose you'd have to ask my parents, which I oddly never have, because it hasn't bothered me; most likely just the prospect of sending their four-year-old son under the knife for yet a second incredibly major surgery. I spent a lot of time in the hospital as it was. Didn't really bother me at that age, or at least I don't remember it bothering me. I only have scant memories of the actual "I'm really sick and this is bad" part of it; most of what I remember is eating pizza and watching the little model boats go downstream in the fake river/waterfall in the cafeteria, playing this Super Mario arcade cabinet, and my mom sleeping on the cushion in the windowsill in my room. Oh, and what I referred to as the "Ball Machine," which was this glass-enclosed contraption which sent a bunch of metal balls flying around and running down ramps and poo poo. I watched that a lot. Props to St. Louis Children's Hospital.

Goon project: let's apply for a grant to get this guy a second cochlear implant to see if folks who grew up with hearing in only one ear can learn to use binaural cues as an adult

boner confessor
Apr 25, 2013

by R. Guyovich
why stop there. let's create the first dolby 5.1 compatible human

Jeffrey of YOSPOS
Dec 22, 2005

GET LOSE, YOU CAN'T COMPARE WITH MY POWERS
Mod challenge: go to a doctor and ask him to "crank up the bass"

Modus Pwnens
Dec 29, 2004

Criminal Minded posted:

Oh, and what I referred to as the "Ball Machine," which was this glass-enclosed contraption which sent a bunch of metal balls flying around and running down ramps and poo poo. I watched that a lot. Props to St. Louis Children's Hospital.

It's still there, by the way.

Werong Bustope posted:

I [35/M] want to give my BIL [24/M] an ultimatum, but my wife [33/F] is not ready to. At the end of my rope

He's bringing drugs and hookers around their children. She cares more about her deadbeat brother than her own kids. That's a one-way ticket to divorce-town.

Did I say divorce? I meant :murder:

boner confessor
Apr 25, 2013

by R. Guyovich

Modus Pwnens posted:

He's bringing drugs and hookers around their children. She cares more about her deadbeat brother than her own kids. That's a one-way ticket to divorce-town.

Did I say divorce? I meant :murder:

i understand the urge to care for family in a time of need

but this guy is counting on burning through family goodwill like bad credit. the only way to tackle this sort of thing is with a unified tough love plan, because someone with a mental illness that causes them to exploit and malinger is just going to suck and suck charity like a vampire. dude is going to ruin his sister's marriage and she's the one who has to be sane and recognize it. if she's not willing to the only remedy is to sever, unfortunately. if he's not going to shape up on his own despite being left out to die of exposure like a sick animal then, well, life is cruel sometimes

DICTATOR OF FUNK
Nov 6, 2007

aaaaaw yeeeeeah
https://www.reddit.com/r/wangchung/

Buzkashi
Feb 4, 2003
College Slice
Just put your hands around BIL's throat and squeeze and homeboy will be too lazy to stop you choking him to death

feedmegin
Jul 30, 2008

Pvt.Scott posted:

Did the old warhorse finally pop off? I've been avoiding news almost entirely for a good while.

And/or my memory has gotten kinda lovely for medical reasons.

She's been in the grave for a decade and a half, dude. :shobon:

Mr-Spain
Aug 27, 2003

Bullshit... you can be mine.

Buzkashi posted:

Just put your hands around BIL's throat and squeeze and homeboy will be too lazy to stop you choking him to death

Cheeto bag over the head

Pvt.Scott
Feb 16, 2007

What God wants, God gets, God help us all

boner confessor posted:

imo dude needs to admit he's engaging in sexual colonialism and dump his asian gf

Plant a flag in that rear end imo

CannonFodder
Jan 26, 2001

Passion’s Wrench

timefly posted:

He is a lazy rear end in a top hat and I'm not just someone with no authority on the matter. But let's just agree that someone lazy enough to let himself die needs professional assistance.

The professional assistance once provided by Dr. Kevorkian.

Pvt.Scott
Feb 16, 2007

What God wants, God gets, God help us all

feedmegin posted:

She's been in the grave for a decade and a half, dude. :shobon:

haha, I was thinking of the current Queen. What, do you think I'm some sort of filthy papist or something?

CannonFodder posted:

The professional assistance once provided by Dr. Kevorkian.

Dr. Kevorkian and the Suicide Machines was an ok band.

InediblePenguin
Sep 27, 2004

I'm strong. And a giant penguin. Please don't eat me. No, really. Don't try.
just for future reference the queen mum was the queen's mum, not "the queen, who is a mum"

timefly
Apr 29, 2008

Lol might be time to go night-night, I didn't say they should keep taking care of him. They could drop him at a shelter or something but he's probably just going to have to take the kids and leave before she'll do that

Bored
Jul 26, 2007

Dude, ix-nay on the oice-vay.

therobit posted:

Yes, because goons know better than licenced professionals that met with and evaluated a patient. Seriously, not everything is mental illness or some tragedy that people need help for. Sometimes people are dumbshits or lazy assholes with no other pathology or reason behind it.

Or that's how the family's interpreting it because they are frustrated. I don't believe "lazy" is a clinical term.

Pebergehund
Jan 21, 2010

Lazy guy probably wasn't expecting to be staying on the street for too long. Just a day or two until someone in his family would feel bad and let him live like an adult child again

flick my Mr. Bean
Nov 18, 2014

My sister-in-law is like that. If she manages to get into your house, expect her to sit on her rear end drinking every day with absolutely no interest in getting a job until you kick her out. Unfortunately she has six or seven kids with her. My father-in-law is the same way.

A Wizard of Goatse
Dec 14, 2014

Bored posted:

Or that's how the family's interpreting it because they are frustrated. I don't believe "lazy" is a clinical term.

my diagnosis is that the patient is infected with the sin of sloth, brought about by an imbalance of phlegm in the system. I've written a prescription for a trepanning and the waving of incense over his living space for four months.

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therobit
Aug 19, 2008

I've been tryin' to speak with you for a long time
All we have to go on is what the OP wrote. It is entirely possible that a professional said "nothing clinically wrong."

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