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Mirthless posted:This guy is living the dream of every nerd who got bullied in high school. He's got a good job in management, he's athletic with an awesome wife, and now his high school bully is a fat balding loser he has authority over.
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# ? Apr 4, 2017 14:24 |
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# ? Jun 3, 2024 22:25 |
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Assuming this isn't stdh.txt:Mirthless posted:This guy is living the dream of every nerd who got bullied in high school. He's got a good job in management, he's athletic with an awesome wife, and now his high school bully is a fat balding loser he has authority over. On paper it sounds good, but the reality would be less so. Now the OP has to stare at the guy's rear end in a top hat face every day at work and any "settle the score" bully revenge fantasies he'd have would result in an assault charge. Also as lovely of a kid as the bully was, the fact is as an adult he won't have a chance in hell at a new job with a direct supervisor that has a strong bias against him. I bet the OP would salivate at the thought of firing him after a couple of typical rookie mistakes. I agree that HR is the best decision. Maybe plead his case to get former bully moved into another department.
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# ? Apr 4, 2017 14:26 |
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My (24/F) date (24/M) of 2 months slept with someone else recently and I don't know what to doquote:We've had the exclusivity talk and he said "eventually", then, a week later I discover he slept with someone else. I found out because his scent was different and the way he touched me too. Intuition. He didn't deny it. "My boyfriend won't commit to being exclusive, and I decided that was okay, but then later on he wasn't exclusive How could I have seen this coming?"
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# ? Apr 4, 2017 14:30 |
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Ever since I[26/F] gave birth to my son[>1/M], my husband's [27/M] sister [24/F], who has chosen a childfree lifestyle, has acting way out of hand. My husband and I have been together 8 years, married 2 years. I gave birth to our first child less than a year ago. My husband's sister is a hardcore childfree person, she keeps saying she doesn't hate kids but she does a lot of stuff which makes it seems like she does (more on this in a bit). I want to say I don't have a problem with people being childfree, I don't want to tell other people how to live their lives, just like I don't want people to tell me how to live my own life. The problem is, ever since my husband and I announced we were planning on having kids, and especially since our son was born, my husband's sister has been stuffing her childfree views down our throats to a point where I've started feeling like she is harassing us. Whenever she is in the same room as any of us, she starts talking about how it is selfish to have kids (mostly environmental stuff) or about how she thinks that no one actually want kids and people just have kids out of obligation or she starts telling stories about experiences she has had with bad parents like those stories apply to all parents. There's no point in trying to argue with her or to even try and give her "my point of view" on these things or she'll immediately accuse me of trying to "convert" her. Her attitude towards our kid has also been outright cruel/nasty and when she is called out on it, she gets mean. An example; my husband and I was visiting my husband's parents and my husband's sister suddenly showed up on a surprise visit. All of us were in the living room talking when my son started crying and I went to find out why. The moment I got back, my husband's sister said; "Oh my god, don't go to him whenever he starts crying, you're teaching him he'll get whatever he wants by crying, you raising an entitled brat ..." ect. I didn't even bother trying to talk to her about it, and my husband's mother got pretty upset about it anyway and gave her a stern talk. Later on, I found my husband's sister looking down on our son while he outside in his stroller crying, telling him; "Yeah, you just keep crying, I don't give a poo poo". I told her my son was crying because he was cold and once again she just said "No, he is crying because you are giving him attention". Two weeks ago, my husband's family was hosting an easter dinner and most of my husband's family had shown up. A lot of people were fawning over our son, which apparently made my husband's sister upset, she went around bitching about how people shouldn't bring small children to "parties" (it was just dinner) and how my husband and I was acting entitled bringing our kid like that. A lot of people got mad at her and told her off. The next day she sent an incredibly mean text to me and my husband about how it was our fault. I told my husband at that point that I was putting my loving foot down and that I no longer wanted any contact with his sister. I told him I would not attend another event with her present and that I would no longer talk to her. My husband agreed his sister was getting out of hand, but he also thinks I am overreacting. I just really don't see any other way to solve this problem. I've tried being direct with her and tell her to stop, I've tried to reason with her and I've tried to ignore her. Any advice? TL;DR My husband's sister is childfree, she doesn't like our son and is making a point out of telling me and my husband how bad people we are for having kids.
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# ? Apr 4, 2017 14:34 |
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gentle pete posted:Ever since I[26/F] gave birth to my son[>1/M], my husband's [27/M] sister [24/F], who has chosen a childfree lifestyle, has acting way out of hand. This woman is literally jealous of a baby. It sounds like she doesn't like kids because they draw attention away from her. A lot of childfree people will moan about having a kid present at parties but it all depends what you make of it. My in laws have awesome parties and people's kids are there but they are good at keeping each other preoccupied so you can have a typical adult party without everything necessarily revolving around the kids themselves.
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# ? Apr 4, 2017 14:51 |
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La Brea Carpet posted:Caught boyfriend [M25] in the act this morning. Extremely embarrassed. What can I [F26] do? I genuinely cannot understand this.
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# ? Apr 4, 2017 14:54 |
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Some people are really embarassed about sex and masturbation. We've seen so many stories ITT from couples who, ten years into their marriage, totally melt down after suddenly discovering their partner... *gasp* Masturbates!
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# ? Apr 4, 2017 15:07 |
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Mirthless posted:Some people are really embarassed about sex and masturbation. We've seen so many stories ITT from couples who, ten years into their marriage, totally melt down after suddenly discovering their partner... *gasp* Masturbates! To be fair, most people aren't present when someone is masturbating before being in a relationship. So for some, it's like being in the bathroom while your partner is taking a dump; you are in the presence of an activity that is typically seen as a solitary act. Even sex positive parents will teach their kids that masturbation is a private activity. A significant portion of these stories probably also boil down to dysfunctional relationships where the sex isn't great/not happening but the dude is jerking off all the time, which can be a sign that one partner is putting his sexual needs above the other.
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# ? Apr 4, 2017 15:20 |
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The fact that he's j/oing to a swimsuit picture of her is either the cutest gross thing or the saddest gross thing I've ever heard
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# ? Apr 4, 2017 15:40 |
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Buzkashi posted:The fact that he's j/oing to a swimsuit picture of her is either the cutest gross thing or the saddest gross thing I've ever heard Based on how many "my boyfriend has nudes of his ex!" posts we see, not providing your boyfriend with nudes seems like a good call.
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# ? Apr 4, 2017 15:45 |
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Buzkashi posted:The fact that he's j/oing to a swimsuit picture of her is either the cutest gross thing or the saddest gross thing I've ever heard Depends. Is she in the Sears catalogue?
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# ? Apr 4, 2017 15:45 |
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Well, that explains why the kid is hosed up pretty well.
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# ? Apr 4, 2017 15:49 |
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I'm hoping that just like (from what I'd believe) of justnomil, parenting is full of really overblown stories written by women whose mommy blog didn't get her preferred number of hits for the month and so she's whipping up some drama. I mean, stranger things have happened than those stories though so maybe that's just my brain trying to protect itself
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# ? Apr 4, 2017 15:52 |
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Can our Landlord force us to remove our Frankenstein statue from our windowquote:I rent a house with some friends and ever since last Halloween we've kept a large statue of Frankenstein in our back window overlooking the porch. Sometimes we change his clothes, but we've always had him in the window. The land lord has been to the house multiple times, seen Frank, and even laughed about him. But recently we've been having trouble with our neighbors and as what I can only call an act of petty revenge they called our landlord and complained about Frank in the window. This month when she came to collect the rent, she brought her husband who told us we had to move Frank out of the window. There's nothing in the lease about this. I've already ordered a cardboard cutout of Trump to put in the window in my own act of petty revenge but I want to know if our landlord can dictate how we decorate the house if it's not a permanent fixture or against the law. http://m.imgur.com/a/yZ1lw for pictures of Frank. Edit: location, Western New York. Edit: Not an April fool's joke. We have very few things that bring us joy. Frank is one of them. quote:Just a heads up, that's not Frankenstein. Frankenstein was the doctor who created him. quote:Also, why does Frank have a gun in that picture?
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# ? Apr 4, 2017 15:59 |
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Man I hate petty neighbors That's a loving dumb thing to have in your window but god drat man who cares? 54 40 or gently caress posted:I'm hoping that just like (from what I'd believe) of justnomil, parenting is full of really overblown stories written by women whose mommy blog didn't get her preferred number of hits for the month and so she's whipping up some drama. I mean, stranger things have happened than those stories though so maybe that's just my brain trying to protect itself hahaha I'd never been to justnomil until today, good lord, what a trainwreck. I hope this is all just creative fiction She finally did it: FMIL and being "his best girl" quote:Hello lovely people of JustNoMIL. I've been a lurker and mostly silent for a while now, and have used your stories to help me figure out that this poo poo I've been putting up with is in fact not okay. I am a rather blunt person, but I haven't really had to stand up to my FMIL until recently. i don't know if i should be more put off by the weird incesty vibe between mom and son or how disrespectful this lady is towards her extended family, good god Mirthless fucked around with this message at 16:13 on Apr 4, 2017 |
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I'm assuming the gun, the grateful dead shirt, and the implied blunt have more to do with it than the doll.
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# ? Apr 4, 2017 16:07 |
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Frankenstein was the doctor's last name so what do you think the monster that was basically his bespoke son would be called if not Frankenstein you pedantic shithead
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# ? Apr 4, 2017 16:08 |
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purple death ray posted:Frankenstein was the doctor's last name so what do you think the monster that was basically his bespoke son would be called if not Frankenstein you pedantic shithead He calls himself Adam in the book. He also hates his creator, I doubt he would want his name.
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# ? Apr 4, 2017 16:08 |
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purple death ray posted:Frankenstein was the doctor's last name so what do you think the monster that was basically his bespoke son would be called if not Frankenstein you pedantic shithead he would be called a Frankenstein's Son
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# ? Apr 4, 2017 16:08 |
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purple death ray posted:Frankenstein was the doctor's last name so what do you think the monster that was basically his bespoke son would be called if not Frankenstein you pedantic shithead Franklin "Frank" Frankenstein
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# ? Apr 4, 2017 16:09 |
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WampaLord posted:He calls himself Adam in the book. Adam Frankenstein then. I don't like carrying my lovely dads name around either but that's life
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# ? Apr 4, 2017 16:10 |
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purple death ray posted:Adam Frankenstein then. I don't like carrying my lovely dads name around either but that's life Change your name then dumbdumb, Adam did
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# ? Apr 4, 2017 16:11 |
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c'mon people it's 2017, Adam Frankenstein is long since dead This is Frank Frankenstein, Adam Frankenstein's great great grandson, who is kind of a burnout and a real disappointment to the family
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# ? Apr 4, 2017 16:15 |
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Gumbel2Gumbel posted:I'm assuming the gun, the grateful dead shirt, and the implied blunt have more to do with it than the doll. Yeah, also when you're renting and your decorations are causing problems with your neighbor then the landlord can tell you to stop. Depends on the lease terms but there's usually a clause in there about keeping the place looking nice outside and this decoration is now effecting the outer appearance of the house.
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# ? Apr 4, 2017 16:18 |
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A rare glimpse from the perspective of an overly nosy lovely neighbour Underage drinking at my neighbours, cops not helping quote:This is in BC canada. I live in a mobile home park and there is a woman who owns multiple homes within the park and she has recently begun renting the one next door to me to her daughter who is 19 (so legal to drink). I want to specify that this isn't the typical trashy trailer park you see on tv. All of the homes are very new and match each other, the park itself is kept immaculate. Just making this point so its clear that it isn't normal for delinquents to frequent and for trashy illegal activities to be occurring here. Anyway, the daughter frequently has people over and they are drinking. The issue comes with the fact that some of these girls are underage. I know for a fact that the girls are underage, quite frankly you can tell just by looking at them but I've also seen them waiting for the school bus on occasion which confirmed my suspicion. "Everyone including the police have personally told me they have a million better things to do than bust some well behaved high-schoolers that haven't bothered or interacted with me in the slightest aside from existing. How can I bring justice back to this lawless town? " quote:They're not bothering you or causing any problems, and you seem to be making assumptions about their ages. I don't understand why this is any of your business. OP posted:The police will not help. They seem to be annoyed with me calling so much, isn't it against the law for the police to not do anything about it? quote:No, it's not. OP posted:So if I call the police and report that a murder has occurred next door they can just choose not to do anything about? I believe you but gosh that is ridiculous, I have two young kids at home I shouldn't have to just put up with illegal activity occurring next door
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# ? Apr 4, 2017 16:28 |
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17-18 year old girls drinking: exactly the same as murder
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# ? Apr 4, 2017 16:30 |
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I don't know why but I just got the urge to slap that person really hard in the loving face.
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# ? Apr 4, 2017 16:31 |
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Jesus Christ, who narcs out teens for drinking quietly and minding their own business? Like, thank your lucky stars they don't like to party.
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# ? Apr 4, 2017 16:33 |
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Gumbel2Gumbel posted:I don't know why but I just got the urge to slap that person really hard in the loving face. I can't imagine the police would bother to arrest you for it
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# ? Apr 4, 2017 16:37 |
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WampaLord posted:Jesus Christ, who narcs out teens for drinking quietly and minding their own business? Her precocious children might see other people having fun responsibly, outside their mother's hegemony and get ideas.
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# ? Apr 4, 2017 16:38 |
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I despise this person on new and exciting levels
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# ? Apr 4, 2017 16:39 |
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Panfilo posted:Her precocious children might see other people having fun responsibly, outside their mother's hegemony and get ideas. I genuinely feel bad for the OP's kids, they aren't going to stand a loving chance when they grow up
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# ? Apr 4, 2017 16:39 |
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Panfilo posted:Her precocious children might see other people having fun responsibly, outside their mother's hegemony and get ideas. hey now, it could be a creepy dad who posted that, don't be sexist quote:[–]throwaway212022[S] -20 points 7 days ago
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# ? Apr 4, 2017 16:39 |
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purple death ray posted:Frankenstein was the doctor's last name so what do you think the monster that was basically his bespoke son would be called if not Frankenstein you pedantic shithead ty you're doing God's work
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# ? Apr 4, 2017 16:42 |
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Mirthless posted:hey now, it could be a creepy dad who posted that, don't be sexist Nah, creepy dad leaves his kids to wrestle in poison oak while he manspreads on a lawn chair, ogling the underage girls while picking at his cavernous navel and letting his scrote dangle tastefully out the left side of his shorts.
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# ? Apr 4, 2017 16:43 |
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Panfilo posted:Her precocious children might see other people having fun responsibly, outside their mother's hegemony and get ideas. Based on the descriptions this is like a bunch of dumbfounded girls drinking Smirnoff Ice, watching the Canadian Bachelor, and wondering why the police are there
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# ? Apr 4, 2017 16:44 |
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La Brea Carpet posted:Caught boyfriend [M25] in the act this morning. Extremely embarrassed. What can I [F26] do? Wait - he was jerking off to a picture of you? That's a keeper.
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# ? Apr 4, 2017 16:49 |
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Panfilo posted:Nah, creepy dad leaves his kids to wrestle in poison oak while he manspreads on a lawn chair, ogling the underage girls while picking at his cavernous navel and letting his scrote dangle tastefully out the left side of his shorts. I thought I told you to stop looking over my fence.
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# ? Apr 4, 2017 16:52 |
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Underage drinking is a huge problem. Alcohol is a poison, and at a crucial stage in their development these girls are basically sticking a god drat immersion blender into their one brain. Their ONE brain. I cant even imagine what kind of criminal predispositions they're entering now, that their moral compasses are so horribly misaligned. My neighborhood recently had a string of teen rainbow parties organized by rabble-rousing bosuzoku gangs. they would use imported oriental sexpots to lure our good christian teens and preteens into their Mobile Hookah Dens for heavy petting sessions & ISIS indoctrination. My wife called the cops the last time these rowdy bosuzoku rolled over my begonias, didn't do much since the cops are all owned by the Yakuza handlers who are the puppetmasters behind these rowdy bosuzoku.
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They might start a jenkem lab
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