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boner confessor posted:ok, we've made a step here. now keep going! if not keeping booze in the house is the sign of an alcohol disorder, not keeping food in the house would be a sign of coping with an e____g d_____r? (fill in the blanks) so she's recognized the problem and is coping with it what's the issue then? does she need therapy? CharlestheHammer posted:Not really correct more like desperately pretend it doesnt exist. if she was pretending it doesn't exist she'd be 400 lbs and going "healthy at any weight don't tell me I'm eating too much!" 
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Jeffrey of YOSPOS posted:I dunno, I don't think that "likes to eat snacks when they're around" is an eating disorder. Maybe I should talk to someone about all the oreos that have entered my home only to mysteriously vanish!!! If at any point you can't keep snacks at all you have some sort of problem.
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CharlestheHammer posted:If at any point you can't keep snacks at all you have some sort of problem. It doesn't seem to be causing problems for her, just a problem for the boyfriend, which consists of "having to take leftovers home".
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Bubblyblubber posted:Maybe if I post a mad fatty you fatsos will stop with the dumpy derail I appreciate your attempt
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Apr 6, 2017 20:05
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Jeffrey of YOSPOS posted:I dunno, I don't think that "likes to eat snacks when they're around" is an eating disorder. Maybe I should talk to someone about all the oreos that have entered my home only to mysteriously vanish!!! i think the essential obesity of goons has distorted the conversation by classifying meals you intend to prep later as "snacks" but when people don't live alone as in with other people or even children it's often extremely handy to keep a variety of foods on hand. storing this food is one of the alternative uses of a kitchen imo Xombie posted:It doesn't seem to be causing problems for her, just a problem for the boyfriend, which consists of "having to take leftovers home". im sure if she tries really hard she can find a boyfriend who would accept her weird, unhealthy coping mechanism. until then she's going to face distress in her interpersonal relationships and potential roadblocks in forming a household with other persons like imagine if someone else moves in and isn't cool with eating the same meal every day. who would compromise first? boner confessor fucked around with this message at 20:08 on Apr 6, 2017 |
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Xombie posted:It doesn't seem to be causing problems for her, just a problem for the boyfriend, which consists of "having to take leftovers home". Um, yeah it is causing a problem or she would just let him keep his lovely leftovers.
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Apr 6, 2017 20:06
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boner confessor posted:im sure if she tries really hard she can find a boyfriend who would accept her weird, unhealthy coping mechanism. until then she's going to face distress in her interpersonal relationships and potential roadblocks in forming a household with other persons It's almost like people should accept their loved ones for who they are and not desperately try to change them over inconveniences. Imagine that!
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Xombie posted:It's almost like people should accept their loved ones for who they are and not desperately try to change them over inconveniences. Imagine that! you're posting in the r/relationships thread saying the key to a healthy relationship is accepting your SO's odd, inconvenient, and potentially conflict producing behavior? nice "i would love for you to move in danny, but on one condition. you're going to be eating boiled chicken and broccoli for every meal, or you eat out. deal?"
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Xombie posted:It's almost like people should accept their loved ones for who they are and not desperately try to change them over inconveniences. Imagine that! Okay, you know what? That's stupid. Everyone in here needs to change for the better for others. You are all selfish twats if you believe otherwise. There's nothing so great about you that you shouldn't change to be better.
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boner confessor posted:im sure if she tries really hard she can find a boyfriend who would accept her weird, unhealthy coping mechanism. until then she's going to face distress in her interpersonal relationships and potential roadblocks in forming a household with other persons Yeah I'm sure if this super fun attractive fit lady tries her very best she might be able to find a boyfriend who doesn't care that much about her slightly odd eating patterns. Just maybe if she's reeaaal lucky.
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COMRADES posted:Yeah I'm sure if this super fun attractive fit lady tries her very best she might be able to find a boyfriend who doesn't care that much about her slightly odd eating patterns. You say that, but men are extremely demanding and unreasonable.
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Pick posted:Okay, you know what? That's stupid. people should grow and develop and improve themselves always but at the same time no one is perfect and acceptance of a partner's flaws is arguably the point at which love really starts. There's always going to be something to get hung up on and at some point you need to just say "that's who this person is and I love them anyway." also stop trying to get your NEET friends who treat you bad to improve just find friends who are better to you
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COMRADES posted:Yeah I'm sure if this super fun attractive fit lady nothing more fun than eating the same thing for every meal. a real hoot and a half
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Pick posted:You say that, but men are extremely demanding and unreasonable. Oddly enough, many men say this very thing about women!
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boner confessor posted:nothing more fun than eating the same thing for every meal. a real hoot and a half Because he can only eat the foods she prepares and nothing else? Pick posted:You say that, but men are extremely demanding and unreasonable. Some of them are sure but you generally want to avoid those ones anyway because they are a bit touched in the head more often than not. Look maybe this girl could benefit from therapy, all I'm saying is given the context of the other horror stories in this thread it's not so bad at all.
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Blue Train posted:Goddamn who cares
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Submarine Sandpaper posted:Lotta people itt don't get the munchies while staying very fit. I mean she literally says to him that she can't not eat snacks if they're about? from the comments posted:For example, I've seen her mix a couple of condiments on a spoon to eat as a "snack" when she gets a craving and actually feel guilty about it. That is textbook compulsive eating. Girl has a disordered relationship to food that she has learnt to control in a reasonably healthy way. Unfortunately her method is contingent on having total control over the contents of her kitchen, which will cause problems if she has to cede some of that space to her boyfriend when he moves in.
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Man, the OP leaving out what exactly her meals are was the best troll ever. It was even better than "leave out the kink" in the "I'm worried about my partner's kink" story. Look how much discussion it's spawned! Blue Train posted:Goddamn who cares The point of the thread is discussing/arguing about the stories, don't discourage discussion.
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Werong Bustope posted:Girl has a disordered relationship to food that she has learnt to control in a reasonably healthy way. Unfortunately her method is contingent on having total control over the contents of her kitchen, which will cause problems if she has to cede some of that space to her boyfriend when he moves in. this is fair enough and a good ending point for this conversation in other news quote:My (28m) wife (26f) of 5 years is going to Florida to visit a friend she had cyber sex with.
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COMRADES posted:Because he can only eat the foods she prepares and nothing else? i dont know why you would assume otherwise. this woman copes with her eating disorder by preventing food from being stored in her kitchen. having no ingredients makes it difficult to cook a meal
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Apr 6, 2017 20:18
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Moridin920 posted:My (28m) wife (26f) of 5 years is going to Florida to visit a friend she had cyber sex with. "My wife is taking our kids to meet an internet stranger. I want to stop her but these TPS reports just can't wait!"
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Apr 6, 2017 20:20
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Moridin920 posted:this is fair enough and a good ending point for this conversation I'm going to buy cigarettes baby I'll right back
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this one is hella long so here's the link and the most relevant paragraph https://www.reddit.com/r/relationships/comments/63szzt/my_32f_new_boss_late_30sm_of_4_days_told_me_to/ quote:My [32/F] new boss [late 30s/M] of 4 days told me to put my hand on a cutting board and played "five finger fillet" with it also as someone who has worked in kitchens I would absolutely refuse to do this, call the person a loving retard, tell them they are loving their chef knife up, and that if they try to fire me about it i'll report their idiot rear end to the labor board and OSHA
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Moridin920 posted:like basically everyone does this otherwise half your food would spoil lol you realize that right? Having a stocked pantry is awesome, it means I can just cook whatever I feel like whenever I want and only need to pick up 0-2 things from the store.
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Yawgmoth posted:What the gently caress do you think a pantry is for? Cum jar storage
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Pick posted:Okay, you know what? That's stupid. I wouldn't play less dark souls if God himself asked 
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COMRADES posted:Yeah I'm sure if this super fun attractive fit lady tries her very best she might be able to find a boyfriend who doesn't care that much about her slightly odd eating patterns. Lmao seriously. Of course goons think all that is a no-sale if it interferes with meals.
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Moridin920 posted:in other news This guy is so dense he belongs in a labratory at CERN.
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Tender Bender posted:Lmao seriously. Of course goons think all that is a no-sale if it interferes with meals. Food is kind of an important part of people's lives yes.
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Pick posted:Okay, you know what? That's stupid. Every person who was involved in the production and dissemination of the television program How I Met Your Mother should be drawn and quartered on live television imo
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Apr 6, 2017 20:41
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Hello, yes, is this the childrens clothing exchange? I have baby shoes to trade; never worn.
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Cthulu Carl posted:"My wife is taking our kids to meet an internet stranger. I want to stop her but these TPS reports just can't wait!" Yeah she is for sure leaving him. If it was just her I could see just staying at work and letting her go because it's over anyway, but if she is taking the kids it could gently caress up any custody negotiations for him for them to already be with her in another state. He must really be.in denial to be posting on reddit instead of leaving to go get his kids.
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Apr 6, 2017 20:43
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I don't allow others to keep threads in the house as I might be tempted to post in them.
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Moridin920 posted:this is fair enough and a good ending point for this conversation in the comments of this he elaborated that he works two part time jobs and his wife stays at home and does nothing, and her cyber sex friend was the one who convinced her to quit her job a few years ago, and is also paying all the bills for her to go on this trip everyone is telling him to get a lawyer but he cant afford it
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Is this man a literal jellyfish, because in addition to being utterly spineless, he also appears to be blind and brainless
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this derail about pantries is just making me think of that dude who called his a larder and burned big ol batches of soup in a literal massive cauldron at the local renn faires.
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Still going, huh? I [25F] have never seen my bf's [27M] butt. Dating 3 years. (NSFW/ Trigger warning) quote:u/concernednconfused
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Bubblyblubber posted:Still going, huh? this one is a repost and iirc the thread consensus is that he was probably abused
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