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Apr 8, 2017 04:49
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I'm not saying I can't understand the motives but at the end of the day it's 100% on the person who chooses to be unfaithful. It's not the fault of the person who was betrayed, regardless of whether or not they were a lovely partner.
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Apr 8, 2017 04:50
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ArbitraryC posted:I'm not saying I can't understand the motives but at the end of the day it's 100% on the person who chooses to be unfaithful. It's not the fault of the person who was betrayed, regardless of whether or not they were a lovely partner. Would it be their fault if their lovely behavior caused their partner to break up with them? If so, wouldn't it follow that it's their fault if they cheat on them for the same reasons?
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Apr 8, 2017 04:53
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no wait I'm working on something dammit
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Apr 8, 2017 04:54
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Like one woman I mess with says she's fairly sure her husband would kill himself if she left and it would crush him, and she would never want to hurt him that way. He still doesn't give her what she needs obviously
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Apr 8, 2017 04:54
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Blue Train posted:Would it be their fault if their lovely behavior caused their partner to break up with them? If so, wouldn't it follow that it's their fault if they cheat on them for the same reasons? one of these things is not like the other
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Apr 8, 2017 04:54
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It is tho?
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Apr 8, 2017 04:54
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Blue Train posted:Would it be their fault if their lovely behavior caused their partner to break up with them? If so, wouldn't it follow that it's their fault if they cheat on them for the same reasons? Cheating and breaking up are not identically reasonable behaviours.
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Apr 8, 2017 04:54
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Blue Train posted:It is tho? how are they even remotely the same?
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Apr 8, 2017 04:54
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givin' a bad name to coltrane, man
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Apr 8, 2017 04:55
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Sometimes you have no way of feeling better about losing the argument over whether the toilet paper should be over or under
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Apr 8, 2017 04:55
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ArbitraryC posted:how are they even remotely the same? They are the same in that it is the other person's action driving them to do what they are doing
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Apr 8, 2017 04:56
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Koyaanisgoatse posted:givin' a bad name to coltrane, man Coltrane banged hundreds of married chicks
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Apr 8, 2017 04:56
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Blue Train posted:They are the same in that it is the other person's action driving them to do what they are doing They are different in that cheating is typically seen as unethical behavior, while breaking up is not.
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Apr 8, 2017 05:00
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Blue Train posted:They are the same in that it is the other person's action driving them to do what they are doing Say someone wronged me for a measurable amount of money. I could either take them to court and sue them for it or I could show up at their house at night, beat them in their bed, and rob them of enough valuables to pay their debt. Both would be the direct result of whatever it was they did that meant they owed me, but one is generally considered a less acceptable method of collecting the debt.
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Apr 8, 2017 05:00
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Blue Train posted:They are the same in that it is the other person's action driving them to do what they are doing nah
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Apr 8, 2017 05:01
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Blue Train posted:They are the same in that it is the other person's action driving them to do what they are doing My dude just admit that what you do is lovely without trying to come up with twisted justifications for it. I've been the person someone cheats with too but I don't try to wiggle my way out of any accountability
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Apr 8, 2017 05:01
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ArbitraryC posted:Say someone wronged me for a measurable amount of money. I could either take them to court and sue them for it or I could show up at their house at night, beat them in their bed, and rob them of enough valuables to pay their debt. Both would be the direct result of whatever it was they did that meant they owed me, but one is generally considered a less acceptable method of collecting the debt. I'd prolly do the latter so I think we're just gonna have to agree to disagree
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Apr 8, 2017 05:02
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Psycho Society posted:My dude just admit that what you do is lovely without trying to come up with twisted justifications for it. I've been the person someone cheats with too but I don't try to wiggle my way out of any accountability Blue Train posted:I'm a lovely person in lots more ways than that
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Apr 8, 2017 05:02
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Fun game of 'spot the lede' in this one: My (23F) boyfriend (24M) of 3 years checking out other girls quote:I honestly don't know if I'm being just petty/insecure, so coming here for some advice.
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Apr 8, 2017 05:12
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lock stock and Cheryl posted:re: cheating, I cheated and was cheated on in every monogamous, (ostensibly) straight, pre-transition relationship. In all cases, my partner cheated on me before I cheated on them, and I did not find out that they cheated on me until after the relationship ended (so there was no retaliatory thing going on). poo poo was bananas. In most cases, the cheating occurred with a mutual friend. i say this with the greatest possible kindness and respect: your life is a trainwreck, and i am very glad i do not know you in person.
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Apr 8, 2017 05:13
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PleasingFungus posted:i say this with the greatest possible kindness and respect: your life is a trainwreck, and i am very glad i do not know you in person. lordy you don't even know what a trainwreck looks like
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Apr 8, 2017 05:25
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Hell yes a cheating defender up in the thread to make sure it gets gassed Blue Train you're either a gimmick or a real shithead so why not just go elsewhere and jerk off about it?
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Apr 8, 2017 05:25
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you should not take poo poo so seriously friend, that applies to a lot of people itt as well
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Apr 8, 2017 05:26
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zakharov posted:...why not just go elsewhere and jerk off about it? Because he can't cum if nobody is watching.
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Apr 8, 2017 05:28
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E: posting problems
lock stock and Cheryl fucked around with this message at 05:36 on Apr 8, 2017 |
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Apr 8, 2017 05:28
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PleasingFungus posted:Fun game of 'spot the lede' in this one: He's calls every other girl a slut and whore tee hee so he must be trustworthy. 
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Apr 8, 2017 05:29
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PleasingFungus posted:i say this with the greatest possible kindness and respect: your life is a trainwreck, and i am very glad i do not know you in person. Oh please. The lesson is that some people aren't meant to be in monogamous relationships with monogamous people. I'd also venture that dating a closeted trans person and dating as closeted trans person are near-guaranteed disasters. Trying to build an authentic relationship when you are not authentic about foundational parts of your identity, or trying to relate to someone that can't honestly relate to themself are doomed endeavors. People are fed the narrative that monogamy is the one true way in pretty much every piece of pop culture they're exposed to, and everyone wonders why there's so much cheating going on. Hint: if you feel so strong a desire to gently caress/romance more than one person concurrently, maybe date someone where you can have that be up front and on the table between you. Otherwise, if you're perfectly happy with one person and are never tempted to sleep with anyone but your mated partner, then monogamy is for you. Be honest about what you want with yourself and your partners, and you won't end up with nasty surprises. You can't control whether your partners are honest with you, but you can control whether you're honest with them.
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Apr 8, 2017 05:36
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I believe monogamy is the One True Way because of r/polyamory
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Apr 8, 2017 05:47
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I listen to the opinions of polys.
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Apr 8, 2017 05:48
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Being poly lets you replace drama in your sex life with drama in every other facet of your life But also your sex life too
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Apr 8, 2017 05:50
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fruit on the bottom posted:I believe monogamy is the One True Way because of r/polyamory What percentage of this thread is about bad monogamous relationships? All I'm saying is if you want to do things outside the bounds of traditional monogamous relationships, then be upfront about that and be in relationships with people that are ok with it. Or just pussyfoot around it and cheat and all that other dumb drama
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Apr 8, 2017 05:52
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betas
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Apr 8, 2017 05:53
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omegas
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Apr 8, 2017 05:54
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Sounds like you unenlightened normies just aren't special enough to feel compersion whenever your sadbrains fat whovian larper wife takes load after load in the face while you watch from the fold-out couch.
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Apr 8, 2017 05:56
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divided we are betas united we make up one passable alpha
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Apr 8, 2017 05:56
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Blue Train posted:you should not take poo poo so seriously friend, that applies to a lot of people itt as well Dude lovely things can be funny. I mean, if you use some of the charm or humour here you must be using to gently caress other people's wives, people might not take it so seriously. GRINDCORE MEGGIDO fucked around with this message at 06:09 on Apr 8, 2017 |
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Apr 8, 2017 05:57
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I'm more funny when I'm drunk sorry
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Apr 8, 2017 06:03
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destroying marriages is good and cool and very fun. prove me wrong. protip: you can't_________________________________ SpaceClown fucked around with this message at 06:08 on Apr 8, 2017 |
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Apr 8, 2017 06:05
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