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Rakthar posted:Military dad is a real champ. I feel like the shy roommate has some responsibility for not giving a heads up as to what a piece of crap he was. she probably has no concept of boundaries or acceptable behavior with a dad as cartoonishly evil as that. she's probably a shell of a person and if OP describes the two of them as "relatively quiet" and her roomie as "kind of shy" then OP might have had a similar problem in the past. especially the moment the dad introduces himself as the new Man Of The House
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ravenkult posted:There's stuff in the comments that tell some of the story.
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ravenkult posted:''I didn't explain this clearly enough in the original post (but I updated it to try and make it more clear). That's loving unreal. Imagine having a lease where the person you are living with can change at any time and there's nothing you can do about it. That sounds like a brilliant thing to sign. Lease chat today but really, what the gently caress kind of lease is that.
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Rakthar posted:That's loving unreal. Imagine having a lease where the person you are living with can change at any time and there's nothing you can do about it. That sounds like a brilliant thing to sign. it's not uncommon for young people and student housing. in that case OP is hosed and should basically find another place to live ASAP
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Apr 12, 2017 21:52
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Leon Einstein posted:What kind of apartment complex has leases for each room? WTF? student housing is the only place I've encountered this but it's really common there as far as I can tell from post history she did end up moving out and probably torpedoed her relationship with the other girl in the process, but you gotta warn someone when you bring crazy like that in the house
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Leon Einstein posted:What kind of apartment complex has leases for each room? WTF? I lived in a college apartment complex that did this, so it's not unheard of.
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Can non-students take over a lease though? Seems strange that some old crazy guy can just move into student housing.
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In a later comment she's looking for a new place to live.
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ravenkult posted:There's stuff in the comments that tell some of the story. Welp, time to move out, what a loving nutbar.
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Leon Einstein posted:Can non-students take over a lease though? Seems strange that some old crazy guy can just move into student housing. probably not but you'd have to fight that in court while angry dad polices your undies and gets in screaming matches with your boyfriend
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Apr 12, 2017 21:56
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I live in New York and my apartment is set up this way, it's not common but not unheard of. There are pros and cons, but one nice bit of it is that if one roommate wants to move out and the rest of you want to stay, it's the landlord's job to fill the room, not yours. I guess whether it's desirable depends on how much you'll be home
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Apr 12, 2017 21:59
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I can almost vaguely understand her being a huge doormat out of fear of physical retaliation but why the boyfriend of all people thought it'd be okay to leave his girlfriend in that apartment with crazy dude is beyond me. I'm not a confrontational person at all but when people do get inappropriately in my face I don't just run away with my tail between my legs either.
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A Wizard of Goatse posted:My (21f) BF (21m) of six months who I thought I really loved said I looked like a "parading slut" when I work cheeky bikini bottoms at a resort pool. I can't give him a second chance, right? Guy owned himself out of seeing her rear end.
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GRINDCORE MEGGIDO posted:Guy owned himself out of seeing her rear end.
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My BF [24M] insists on hand-washing my [19F] bras and panties himself.
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i hope this hasn't been posted yet because it's my favorite Me [29F] with my husband [32M] of three years, I read his diary and am bewildered quote:Hi all,
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Now I too am bewildered.
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chernobyl kinsman posted:i hope this hasn't been posted yet because it's my favorite Dude has a foodie blog, big deal.
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Apr 12, 2017 22:39
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A Wizard of Goatse posted:it takes like six seconds to go into reddit and find something moderately ridiculous if reading the goon peanut gallery is making you cry Excuse me but you simply look too sexy in your swimsuit glistening by the poolside, rather than have some fun in the sun before going back to our room to enjoy our youth, ima ruin everything for seemingly no reason.
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Leon Einstein posted:He did see her rear end though; that's why he had a tantrum. Wearing a thong swimsuit suggests questionable judgment, and I don't think I could ever go back to my therapist if I saw him wearing one at the beach. hahahaha holy poo poo, really?????  should she have been wearing a burqa?
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Mirth I know you and Leon have a weird antagonistic relationship but I feel like the fact that the sentence after the one you bolded is talking about his therapist wearing a thong at the beach means it's probably a joke, I mean idk but it's something to think about
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Mirthless posted:hahahaha holy poo poo, really????? I'm assuming that this is what some people call a joke. Perhaps a jape.
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quote:My [26f] husband of 2 years [30m] is obsessed with Japanese culture/anime and it's really grating on my nerves. Is it wrong to ask him to tone it down? from the comments- quote:I love good, adult-oriented anime. It's not an issue with the genre at all, when it's done well it's great.
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Mirthless posted:hahahaha holy poo poo, really????? the joke is that it was worded that he saw his therapist wearing a thong at the beach. I don't get the joke, but I get that it was a joke.
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Apr 12, 2017 22:48
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P. Sure his boss's wife's cooking is a metaphor for her vagina, and he was rating its taste, smell, sound, etc All I know is that if I looked over during a session and my therapist was taking detailed notes on my wife's cooking, I could never go back.
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blarzgh posted:the joke is that it was worded that he saw his therapist wearing a thong at the beach. I don't get the joke, but I get that it was a joke. It had layers. My favorite layer was the extrapolation of "a guy I know would look embarrassing in a thong" to "hawt lady in thing must have issues." I thoroughly enjoyed the joke
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Drunk Nerds posted:P. Sure his boss's wife's cooking is a metaphor for her vagina, and he was rating its taste, smell, sound, etc But why would he need to speak in code in a sooper secret journal? She should make one of those foodie recepies and see if he pops a boner.
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DragQueenofAngmar posted:I live in New York and my apartment is set up this way, it's not common but not unheard of. There are pros and cons, but one nice bit of it is that if one roommate wants to move out and the rest of you want to stay, it's the landlord's job to fill the room, not yours. I guess whether it's desirable depends on how much you'll be home Having someone pick your roommates without your input seems like a really good way to end up living with crazy people who can't clean up after themselves.
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FuckenPunchOn posted:Having someone pick your roommates without your input seems like a really good way to end up living with crazy people who can't clean up after themselves. So college students
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FuckenPunchOn posted:Having someone pick your roommates without your input seems like a really good way to end up living with crazy people who can't clean up after themselves. This is true, but it also protects against one of your roommates loving vanishing overnight with all their poo poo and contact info and sticking you with the total lease of the apartment, as has happened to me before. With NY rent, it can be the better of two poo poo choices
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FuckenPunchOn posted:Having someone pick your roommates without your input seems like a really good way to end up living with crazy people who can't clean up after themselves. yeah it sucks, and if 'cant clean up after themselves' is the worst you get you're incredibly lucky
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Panfilo posted:But why would he need to speak in code in a sooper secret journal? "My husband appears to be particularly fond of a dish called 'Chocolate Starfish.' I will image search this later and attempt a re-creation."
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DragQueenofAngmar posted:This is true, but it also protects against one of your roommates loving vanishing overnight with all their poo poo and contact info and sticking you with the total lease of the apartment, as has happened to me before. With NY rent, it can be the better of two poo poo choices drat. That is weapons grade lovely.
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having tried a few shared living arrangements getting stuck with total ownership of the lease with some added responsibility but also the authority to evict your roommates for, say, dealing drugs out of the place, or not paying their share, or smelling like poo poo all of the time and also everything they touch starts to smell like poo poo, is the best possible outcome by an incredible margin. I wouldn't even consider an actual term of lease on some fraction of a house, that's nuts
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A Wizard of Goatse posted:having tried a few shared living arrangements getting stuck with total ownership of the lease with some added responsibility but also the ability to evict your roommates for, say, dealing drugs out of the place, or not paying their share, or smelling like poo poo all of the time and also everything they touch starts to smell like poo poo, is the best possible outcome by an incredible margin i mean obviously its better if you can swing it yeah, but for example, i live in a relatively cheap area of NYC and the total bill for the 4 bedroom i live in with roommates would be 3600/mo which is utterly out of my reach to handle by myself for even 1 month
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the idea is you sublet and wind up paying like half of what everyone else is but if you're literally constantly a missed paycheck or two away from homelessness yeah you're basically doomed no matter what
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DragQueenofAngmar posted:i mean obviously its better if you can swing it yeah, but for example, i live in a relatively cheap area of NYC and the total bill for the 4 bedroom i live in with roommates would be 3600/mo which is utterly out of my reach to handle by myself for even 1 month I've lived in a lot of places where you pay a chunk of cash equal to a month's worth of rent to the person whose room you're moving into as they move out, and then you get that cash back from the next person who moves into your room when you move out. If nothing else, it means that people have more of an incentive to give a couple weeks notice that they're moving out, and that's enough time to find a replacement. If they want to skip town, then you take the new person's money and you cover rent/repairs with it. It's informal as gently caress as far as bond arrangements go, but it works. Pretty common in Australia. I've got no idea what it's like anywhere else though.
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FuckenPunchOn posted:It's informal as gently caress as far as bond arrangements go, but it works. Pretty common in Australia. I've got no idea what it's like anywhere else though. super common among young people living on their own for the first time until you get turbofucked by a lovely roomie
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I assume the two year lease girlfriend didn't have it in her to break up like an adult or got scared after doing the math of $30k in rent. Basically sticker shock. Bottom line is she decided she didn't want to be with him. And that happens a lot. Wanderlust-induced sociopathy
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