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group activities where you don't create something are just fine, socialization is important i'm saying if you're sitting in your darkened room alone, maybe make something occasionally instead of binging tv and vidya is all
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La Brea Carpet posted:My [22F] boyfriend [24M] thinks I'm not being supportive of his hobby. Am I being unfair? this guy is addicted to weed pretty bad if he's getting this defensive about any limitation to his usage and god help him if he ever graduates to real drugs, especially if he's this in denial about his problematic relationship with the devil's lettuce i see a fentanyl overdose in this guy's future
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Apr 13, 2017 19:20
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Jeffrey of YOSPOS posted:Also it'd be pretty annoying if a partner neglected our relationship for even "legitimate" hobbies - it's totally reasonable to want a partner who makes time for doing fun things with you. Sorry, love partner, you are less important than me weaving this basket Maybe we can get some quality time in while I soak the next layer of wicker but, well, no promises
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Apr 13, 2017 19:21
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Pick posted:Sorry, love partner, you are less important than me weaving this basket *girl dumps weedlord, asks out sexy tortured artist type who is totally in tune with his feelings* *spends 12 hours in the studio on your birthday because he still doesn't give a gently caress about hers*
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Apr 13, 2017 19:26
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Jeffrey of YOSPOS posted:I can see it now... too real
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Apr 13, 2017 19:28
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Pick posted:too real still better than being ignored for videogames or "my animes!", though
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Apr 13, 2017 19:29
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I dated a girl who actually wanted to sit and watch me paint 
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Help! Why is my cokehead girlfriend acting like a cokehead? My [18f] is sick of me telling her what to do, I [20M] just think I am trying to stop her unsafe and reckless habits. quote:So me and my girlfriend have been dating for a little over two months now. We are both at uni together so we spend a lot of time together. However back home her friend group is less than ideal as they very often partake in harder drugs, coke being the biggest of the bunch.
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Apr 13, 2017 19:32
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My dream woman is the one who sits and watches me watch youtubers playing video games about being youtube tycoons.
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Apr 13, 2017 19:32
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come here honey, watch me watch this guy play watch your boyfriend watch youtube simulator 2018
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Jeffrey of YOSPOS posted:come here honey, watch me watch this guy play watch your boyfriend watch youtube simulator 2018
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La Brea Carpet posted:My [22F] boyfriend [24M] thinks I'm not being supportive of his hobby. Am I being unfair? When the person you are loving calls weed a hobby and wants you to refute hobbies come at me bro
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Apr 13, 2017 19:36
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DragQueenofAngmar posted:group activities where you don't create something are just fine, socialization is important It's cool to have people express their opinions. What are you hoping to accomplish by giving a detailed accounting of your specific preferences with regards to hobbies? Other people will do what they find fun, I'm sorry if it offends you that other people spend their time in ways you wouldn't. Given that this will be the case most of your life, I don't know why you would fixate on that or continue to post about it.
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Apr 13, 2017 19:37
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Just imagine how many layers of passive consumption we'll have in 2030
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Jeffrey of YOSPOS posted:come here honey, watch me watch this guy play watch your boyfriend watch youtube simulator 2018 "Oh he went with the weedlord build for his main, I'd have gone with the spindly weeaboo build, less chance of a random girlfriend distraction penalty."
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Jeffrey of YOSPOS posted:come here honey, watch me watch this guy play watch your boyfriend watch youtube simulator 2018 *sighs wistfully*
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Rakthar posted:It's cool to have people express their opinions. What are you hoping to accomplish by giving a detailed accounting of your specific preferences with regards to hobbies? this is an internet forum, and often, people post things on them. sometimes their opinions, sometimes other stuff. also, people who neither create nor produce anything new or original their wholes lives are sad, and i feel sad for them. i use this forum to express those feelings, sometimes.
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Clark Nova posted:Just imagine how many layers of passive consumption we'll have in 2030 I'm an equatorial air enthusiast. I book vacations to Gabon to breathe the air and blog about it.
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La Brea Carpet posted:Help! Why is my cokehead girlfriend acting like a cokehead? Im honestly more confused why cokehead girl is still with such a boring dude. Evey cokehead I knew would mosey on to another cokefiend or party animal pretty fast, usually to the point of ghosting.
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DragQueenofAngmar posted:this is an internet forum, and often, people post things on them. sometimes their opinions, sometimes other stuff. also, people who neither create nor produce anything new or original their wholes lives are sad, and i feel sad for them. i use this forum to express those feelings, sometimes. Yeah but yer going on and on about your tier list of hobbies and which are cool and good. Did something provoke the idea that we want it? Could you maybe just do one blog post about The Correct Hobbies instead of dribbling it out one line at a time?
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Apr 13, 2017 19:40
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DragQueenofAngmar posted:Okay, Hobbies Should Be A Thing Where You Create Something That Did Not Exist Before, Or Accomplish A Thing Other Than Turning Plants Into Ash Or Liquid Into Piss Or Food Into Poop I'll have you know that generating poop involves some very complex biochemical processes.
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Apr 13, 2017 19:41
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La Brea Carpet posted:Help! Why is my cokehead girlfriend acting like a cokehead? It's medicinal! Jesus, at least with the adderall people it's loving plausible
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Barudak posted:Im honestly more confused why cokehead girl is still with such a boring dude. Evey cokehead I knew would mosey on to another cokefiend or party animal pretty fast, usually to the point of ghosting. This is the dude's response in the comments quote:Thanks for the input. I think I'll give the whole accept her for who she is for now and just see what direction she starts moving in down the line. So his problem will solve itself in a few weeks.
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Apr 13, 2017 19:42
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good hobbies: rock climbing, cooking, masturbating, birdwatching bad hobbies: anime, weed, forum posting, racquetball ok next question
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Apr 13, 2017 19:43
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Sometimes having hobbies is bad because I paint miniatures and I literally have to hide them in an actual closet when I have women I don't know well over and I don't spring them on someone I'm dating until after we've hosed multiple times. I am literally a closeted miniature painter.
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Koyaanisgoatse posted:good hobbies: rock climbing, cooking, masturbating, birdwatching Those are all the items on my list but they're jumbled around as gently caress
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Birdwatching is for the CRAZIEST motherfuckers
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Pick posted:Birdwatching is for the CRAZIEST motherfuckers As someone new to birdwatching, it's pretty chill and cool actually
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new phone who dis posted:Sometimes having hobbies is bad because I paint miniatures and I literally have to hide them in an actual closet when I have women I don't know well over and I don't spring them on someone I'm dating until after we've hosed multiple times. I am literally a closeted miniature painter. Its better than having a miniature painter trapped in your closet.
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Rakthar posted:Yeah but yer going on and on about your tier list of hobbies and which are cool and good. Did something provoke the idea that we want it? Could you maybe just do one blog post about The Correct Hobbies instead of dribbling it out one line at a time? i'm here to have a conversation, not post manifestos. what's wrong with having a chat with my forum pals
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a super crazy person posted:As someone new to birdwatching, it's pretty chill and cool actually
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Barudak posted:Its better than having a miniature painter trapped in your closet. I feel like if a woman found out later in the relationship and honor killed me out of shame I would understand.
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Speaking of hobbies, this one killed me. Also I like that this is the edited for brevity version. My boyfriend (28M) of 11 months got mad at me and told me I (24F) was being mean to him while playing a video game quote:My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost a year. We fight relatively often, usually due to misunderstanding or miscommunication. I think it's been getting better, but small issues like this seem to come up a lot, and at this point I'm wondering if I am actually being mean or too harsh, or if I'm justified in my reactions. McDragon fucked around with this message at 20:15 on Apr 13, 2017 |
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weightlifting is an ok hobby, but only if you don't use the machines
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People Should Sometimes Do Things That Make Them Go Outside In The Sun And Talk To Other People And Maybe Gives Them A Sense of Accomplishment Or Peace.
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DragQueenofAngmar posted:i'm here to have a conversation, not post manifestos. what's wrong with having a chat with my forum pals Ah ok, let's have a conversation. I'm going to infer from the posts that you like to make things as a hobby. Other people like to relax in other ways. Do you feel that your way of spending your free time is superior? If not, will it not always 'confuse' you that other people choose to spend their lives in other ways than yours? Given that's the case, why go through the same tired list of poo poo "HEY NERDS GET OUT OF THE BASEMENT" that is really predictable and boring and has been covered, and the sage insight being added is "It's very important to me that other people spend their free time in the way I think they should." Which, frankly, seems bizarre to me.
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I think "my boyfriend is a minecraft pet hoarder" may be the pettiest of all first world problems.
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Jeffrey of YOSPOS posted:youtube simulator 2018
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Rakthar posted:Given that's the case, why go through the same tired list of poo poo "HEY NERDS GET OUT OF THE BASEMENT" that is really predictable and boring and has been covered, and the sage insight being added is "It's very important to me that other people spend their free time in the way I think they should." Which, frankly, seems bizarre to me. It feels weirdly tied into the whole Protestant Work Ethic thing, where even one's free time must be used productively or else you're a bad person.
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new phone who dis posted:I think "my boyfriend is a minecraft pet hoarder" may be the pettiest of all first world problems.
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