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La Brea Carpet posted:I'll take "thermonuclear detonation of your family" for 100 Alex this mom should, uh, maybe work on her parent/child boundaries, a bit
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La Brea Carpet posted:I'll take "thermonuclear detonation of your family" for 100 Alex
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Why do people delete their OP's so often in these things. Like I could sorta see if they embarrassed themselves like the warhams girl but this one it just seems like a 16 year old in a lovely situation.
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ArbitraryC posted:Why do people delete their OP's so often in these things. Like I could sorta see if they embarrassed themselves like the warhams girl but this one it just seems like a 16 year old in a lovely situation. The mods do it, they're incredibly draconian and capricious about rule violations. E: Not like our glorious and fair mods, who are awesome. WampaLord fucked around with this message at 21:19 on Apr 14, 2017 |
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They also have bots to do stuff like that which is funny when you find a post that's like "HELP the bot keeps deleting my post and I really need advice I don't know what I do wrong"
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WampaLord posted:The mods do it, they're incredibly draconian and capricious about rule violations.
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DragQueenofAngmar posted:Humans are terrible and all interaction with/between them is pain your posts have definitely taught us that, yes, haha zing
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Haifisch posted:Also one of their criteria for deletion is "the post got linked elsewhere", and this thread pops up a lot if you're searching for post titles.
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Yawgmoth posted:Please tell me the comments are nothing but pages of "tell dad, show him all the evidence you can, use it so he can get full custody because holy poo poo" Pretty much, though a few people think it's fake.
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# ? Apr 14, 2017 21:46 |
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Yawgmoth posted:Wait so I could get the bot to delete the entire loving subreddit just by grabbing links to all the threads and posting them on 4chan or something? afaik the bots are for things like "didn't list the gender of your golden retriever" and "used the word manchild, which is hate speech" and "made more than one update about your ongoing flight from the serial killer cult family", it's the mods manually deleting everything else albeit those guys are basically just slightly more arbitrary bots.
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My (21F) brother (23M) is cheating on his girlfriend (24F). Me and her are really close, am I out of line to tell her?quote:To make a long story short him and Ana have been together for around 6 years. Our family loves her and pushed for them to get married years ago. Me and her and especially close and we consider her family. David is currently working to remodel an old house, fix it and flip it in our town. Ana is currently across the country finishing her degree, David finished his in December. The plan as I understand it was for Ana to move out here and possibly live in the flipped house until it sells, then do it again. I think the answer is obvious (give brother ultimatum to tell her or you will) but the funniest thing here to me is there's a 23 year old dude that thinks condoms are something you flush.
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ArbitraryC posted:My (21F) brother (23M) is cheating on his girlfriend (24F). Me and her are really close, am I out of line to tell her? You and your rules.
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I mean, she's a lovely person, but props to the 40-something Mom who landed a Bella Hadid lookalike with a Pepe Le Pew level deception.
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Husband [35 M] is finding it hard to encourage me [32 F] to get a good job because he doesn't want me to make more.quote:Long story short I am college educated in a high paying industry. My husband is brilliant but self taught and never wanted to go to school. Right out of college I made more than he ever had even with years of experience. I'm 7 years in and still make more. He used to pay bills while I went to school and I have paid them since graduating since I make more. He got a nice car and I put a down payment on a house. He buys all entertainment stuff like eating out, alcohol, movies, etc... I pay bills and buy groceries. It's fair in my eyes, ESP considering he's chipped in to pay our mortgage down in half the time. Yay! Bonus from the bottom of the comments: posted:It's kind of hosed up of him to no encourage you to get a good job. But in another sense, he's simply looking out for the relationship. If you get a job making 2-3 as much money as he is, you're going to leave him, guaranteed. You might chalk it up to other factors like "I just want someone with more ambition in life". But what it boils down to is the fact that women are biologically evolved to settle with a man who can bring her the highest amount of resources. So if you're already making X a year, you're gonna want your husband to make at LEAST X amount of year as well.
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The_end posted:You and your rules.
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"Your husband is doing the right thing because as a woman you are a loving whore is guaranteed to jump ship as soon as you find someone better" I love idiots.
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My wife makes 1.5x what I make and sticks around. Also my penis is huge.
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I mean if he acts like that she'd be right to jump ship anyway lol
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Well I hope his completely unearned macho pride is worth all the cheddar he's going to miss out on by driving his rich successful wife away lol
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SirSamVimes posted:"Your husband is doing the right thing because as a woman you are a loving whore is guaranteed to jump ship as soon as you find someone better" To be fair if he thinks like that then it will definitely come true as he turns into Ross from Friends and starts embarrassing her by busting into her workplace to accuse her of loving HER NEW BOSS LIKE THE GODDAMN WHORE SHE IS I don't understand what men want in these situations. Isn't more household money...good? Do they not want to ever retire, so long as their woman submits to their manly money making authority? if it bothers you so much go get a higher paying job than her, if men are supposed to be 'providers' that should be super easy for these masculine prodigies.
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Tiny Deer posted:To be fair if he thinks like that then it will definitely come true as he turns into Ross from Friends and starts embarrassing her by busting into her workplace to accuse her of loving HER NEW BOSS LIKE THE GODDAMN WHORE SHE IS I think these men deep down like having the extra collective income, but they are self conscious that other men will bust their balls about it. Of course those other men are just projecting because they work 60hrs a week while their girlfriend is a freelance amateur photographer.
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Tiny Deer posted:if it bothers you so much go get a higher paying job than her, if men are supposed to be 'providers' that should be super easy for these masculine prodigies.
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Panfilo posted:I think these men deep down like having the extra collective income, but they are self conscious that other men will bust their balls about it. Of course those other men are just projecting because they work 60hrs a week while their girlfriend is a freelance amateur photographer. But what's the end game? 'Honey I did what you asked and gave up on my high earning career and applied at all the stores in the mall, aren't you happy?' Does he just smile in a horrific grimace as he watches his Xbone money turn into electric bill money? When he has to sell his nice car she bought him will he feel good about his choices?
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Pick posted:They all did. And it was an extension of one of my highschool hobbies, dollmaking. As you can tell, you can blame anime. Thankfully, years of people making fun of me means I don't really sculpt any more. I unironically want that creepy rear end BJD for creepy photography purposes.
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Haifisch posted:Husband [35 M] is finding it hard to encourage me [32 F] to get a good job because he doesn't want me to make more. gently caress those biotruths asshats. My ex broke up with me because I went from a lovely job that made half of what he did to a job that made nearly 50% more than him. He said that, while the extra income was nice and all, he felt emasculated because "I should need him financially."
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Wrong thread
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Ride The Gravitron posted:Things this thread had taught me: Nono Don't date unmedicated bipolars Medicated bipolar people totally deserve a chance
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Tiny Deer posted:But what's the end game? 'Honey I did what you asked and gave up on my high earning career and applied at all the stores in the mall, aren't you happy?' Does he just smile in a horrific grimace as he watches his Xbone money turn into electric bill money? When he has to sell his nice car she bought him will he feel good about his choices? It's not a rational mindset obviously. But at least a part of it is probably the guy feeling 'in control' of a relationship,by making it more likely the woman will be financially dependent on them. That's why they pull this whole "She'll dump you if she makes more than you" bullshit. Because to them, the only way to make a woman stay in a relationship is to exert a degree of control that prevents them from leaving. The woman's feelings don't play into this logic.
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Tiny Deer posted:To be fair if he thinks like that then it will definitely come true as he turns into Ross from Friends and starts embarrassing her by busting into her workplace to accuse her of loving HER NEW BOSS LIKE THE GODDAMN WHORE SHE IS Toxic masculinity, I suppose. If women are defined entirely by their appearance and sex value, then men are defined by their ability to protect and provide for their own. If a woman is capable of everything in her "domain", and is also better at providing, then what value does the man have? What does he have to offer the relationship? The answer should be "quite a bit", but often times that isn't what gets internalized.
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Dienes posted:gently caress those biotruths asshats. My ex broke up with me because I went from a lovely job that made half of what he did to a job that made nearly 50% more than him. He said that, while the extra income was nice and all, he felt emasculated because "I should need him financially." Sounds like you dodged a bullet though?
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Buzkashi posted:Sounds like you dodged a bullet though? This is one of those break up reasons where you just fuckin' laugh.
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Dienes posted:gently caress those biotruths asshats. My ex broke up with me because I went from a lovely job that made half of what he did to a job that made nearly 50% more than him. He said that, while the extra income was nice and all, he felt emasculated because "I should need him financially." All that dumb masculinity bullshit they're harping on is really just about control in the end.
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imagine a group of people who are almost all deeply out of touch with their emotions and don't really know what they're feeling at any given moment, but are still driven almost entirely by these feelings that they don't fully grasp or experience, but who also erroneously believe they are extremely logical and that's how they make decisions that's us. that's men
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DragQueenofAngmar posted:imagine a group of people who are almost all deeply out of touch with their emotions and don't really know what they're feeling at any given moment, but are still driven almost entirely by these feelings that they don't fully grasp or experience, but who also erroneously believe they are extremely logical and that's how they make decisions ugh
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DragQueenofAngmar posted:imagine a group of people who are almost all deeply out of touch with their emotions and don't really know what they're feeling at any given moment, but are still driven almost entirely by these feelings that they don't fully grasp or experience, but who also erroneously believe they are extremely logical and that's how they make decisions gently caress you! Say that again, human being! I'll fight you!
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Pvt.Scott posted:gently caress you! Say that again, human being! I'll fight you! Are you calling me a human being?
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One time a guy in a bar tried to start a fight with me by repeatedly calling me a bald loser human being over and over again. I replied that yes, I had looked in a mirror, and was he hitting on me? Then I laughed a bunch.
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[M22]y ex-bestfriend [19/F] of 4 years that split 7 months ago gave my present away to her friend.quote:As title says, my ex best friend gave my present to her away to a friend of hers [M19] (known ~1year). It was a portrait of a famous scientist, her sweet 16th present that I spent 3 days hunting for to encourage her to pursue STEM as a career (she likes science).
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Oofa doofa I'm [21F]pregnant and my one night stand [28M] isn't interested in our baby quote:
Roughly 50% of her posts outside of this thread are in the hookup reddit trolling for booty while pregnant and dragging her son behind her.
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What a winner!
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